Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Ruan Willow

Human sexuality is the dance of education with pleasure. One cannot exist without the other for full expression. I strive to attend to both realms on this podcast. Oral Stimulation and all the sexy sex-positive stuff! My goals with this podcast are twofold: to provide you an escape to enjoy your sexuality and to improve it with the help of experts. Hi! Welcome to my podcast! I'm a podcaster, spicy romance author of multiple subgenres, and an audiobook narrator. My pen name is Ruan Willow. Listen and enjoy as I narrate sexy titillating yummy and spicy erotic romance stories. I talk about sex and relationships with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and lots of hot spicy fiction. I'm sharing ideas to empower you, enhance your relationships and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. I also interview authors to celebrate them and introduce you to new writers in the spicy/erotic fiction genre. This podcast is about celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, I care about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NSFW.  Copyright 2021-2025 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Music Heatseeker JB Good. This podcast show is not responsible for any violations of laws in states or countries where listeners of this podcast live where this content is prohibited.

  1. 6d ago ·  Video

    Finding Spiritual Truths in Sexuality with Suzannah Weiss

    Season 6, Episode 791: Finding Spiritual Truths in Sexuality with Suzannah Weiss. What if what has been expressed in mainstream religions by our society and current interpretations of the Bible about sexuality is all wrong? What if we were meant to enjoy our bodies and sexuality rather than hoard it, reserve it, "get" it and "take" it from others, and be shamed by it? If our creator gave us the capabilities and the equipment for pleasure, it's only logical that we were meant to enjoy our bodies, the sensations our g******s can produce, and sexual relations with ourselves and others. We weren't given taste buds to not taste food! This is ridiculous. We need to reevaluate our views and think outside the culturally and spiritually stagnant box we are in. Suzannah discusses alternate interpretations of sexuality from sentences from the Bible and examines them with a new lens, pointing out that perhaps they don't mean what has been propagated at all, but something entirely different, and more positive. She also discusses the idea of multiple messiah figures who are on a mission to save the world, radiating with the core thread of birthing a sex-positive Jesus inspired revolution. Other topics discussed include: feminism, patriarchy, pleasure, sex, anatomy, cultural views, hook up culture, adult films, sexuality, spirituality, Christianity, religion, relationships. Find out more about Suzannah's work http://www.suzannahweiss.com/ Suzannah's Books: affiliate links Eve's Blessing https://link.amazon/B0fas0q3l Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject https://link.amazon/B05ESw2vc Sign up to receive Ruan Willow's newsletters. https://ruanwillow.subscribepage.io/ All Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Books mentioned in the episode: Spring Break and Stranded https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbestfriendsbrothersplus6menlaylagetsraunchy Neighborhood Secrets:  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved.

  2. Oct 16 ·  Video

    Celebrating Pleasure Tools and Sexuality in Books with Queer Romance Author Cozy DuBois Plus Book Excerpt

    Season 6, Episode 789 (789 total over all 6 seasons): Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast interview with Queer Trans Adult Romance Author Cozy DuBois. We chatted about normalizing pleasure in romance books and in real life! (Please note the narration of the excerpt by podcast host Ruan Willow from the fiction book "For Luck's Sake" by Cozy DuBois is at the end of the episode).  Special Announcement! EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway wins a FREE spicy toy or gift card for toys from Bellesa Boutique! Visit https://www.bbvibes.com/Ruan bbvibes dot com backslash Ruan #bbpartner Author Bio: Based in Minneapolis, Cozy Dubois (they/them) is a queer, trans, and neurodivergent author of queer adult romance, full of sweet and spicy happily-ever-afters for everyone under the LGBTQIA+ umbrella. They hope to bring mor books into the world that represent the complex and entangled relationships between friends, lovers, and chosen family found in the queer community they love. http://cozydubois.com/ Find Cozy's book online, including this affiliate link: For Luck's Sake https://link.amazon/B0eFOIKdk Topics in this discussion include: Pleasure, discussion of including pleasure sex toys in fiction, self care, relationships, friendships, sexuality, sexual wellness, sexual health, the origin of intimate toys, the benefits of sex toys/tools for everyone and also specifically for the disabled community, sexual liberation, sex ed, spicy romance, queer romance, trans romance, non-binary rep, character development, intimacy, polyamory, fiction book fairs, romance book fairs, queer book events, LGTBQIA+ rep and characters in books, Indie authors, self publishing, purity culture, culture, society, writing books, special editions Podcast Host Ruan Willow's link: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Sign up to receive Ruan Willow's newsletters https://ruanwillow.subscribepage.io/ Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved.

  3. Oct 9 ·  Video

    Did you know you can test for STDs in the privacy and convenience of your own home with Better Life Science/STD Hero?

    Season 6, Episode 787: You can test for STDs in the privacy of your own home! No more embarrassing visits to the doctor, no shame filled eyes to endure. You don't even have to drive anywhere to get tested! You can conveniently test yourself at home and get the results within hours to a couple of days, which is way faster than going to the doctor anyway! There shouldn't be shame for getting an infection, but our culture has the bad habit of shaming such infections. Your sexual health matters to your sexuality, your fertility, and your overall health. Sexual wellness is important and Better Life Science, aka STD Hero, can help you achieve a healthier body and life. You can also share your results with other people from your phone's wallet. DON'T MISS THIS OPPORTUNITY! As a special promotion please read below! This is a sponsored episode. EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway wins a FREE spicy toy or gift card for toys from Bellesa Boutique! https://www.bbvibes.com/Ruan #bbpartner Learn more about Better Life Science, aka STD Hero: https://mybls.com/ Podcast Host Ruan Willow's link:  Sign up to receive Ruan Willow's newsletters  https://ruanwillow.subscribepage.io/  https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved. More on the episode: I chatted with the owner of the company and we chatted about how this amazing service is the kind of concierge service for sexual wellness that's the future. This is an easy way to get yourself tested and be sure you are healthy so you don't spread any illnesses/infections around. We had a fun chat! We talked, we laughed, and we brought up how we need to bust the stigma of std infections.

  4. Oct 3 ·  Video

    Tarah's Unapologetic Take on Kink and ADHD plus the Pleasures of Sex Toys

    Season 6, Episode 786: Tarah's Unapologetic Take on Kink and ADHD plus the Pleasure of Sex Toys. Tarah is a Sexologist and Certified Sex Educator & Coach. EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway wins a FREE spicy toy or gift card for toys from Bellesa Boutique! bbvibes.com/Ruan #bbpartner Guest Bio: Tarah is the founder of Forbidden & Found, where she teaches the kind of sex ed most people never got — medically accurate, kink-aware, and refreshingly free of shame. From communication and consent to the intersection of ADHD and kink, she helps curious humans unlearn the cultural scripts that keep people quiet. As a certified sexologist and sex educator, her work spans kink fundamentals, the neuroscience of desire, and the art of asking for what you want. With equal parts candor and clarity, she makes the taboo feel unapologetically human. Tarah's Links: Website: https://www.forbiddenandfound.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/forbiddenxfound/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@forbiddenxfound   Discussion Topics: Sex Education, Kink Awareness, ADHD And Sex, Consent In BDSM, Sex Positivity, Sex Toys, Taboo Topics, Sexual Pleasure, Communication In Relationships, Intimacy, Sexual Health, Neurodiversity And Sexuality, Erotic Literature, Sexual Wellness, Sex Educator, Empowerment Through Knowledge, Open Conversations About Sex, Pleasure-Focused Discussions, Breaking Sexual Stigma   Podcast Host Ruan Willow's link:  Sign up to receive Ruan Willow's newsletters. Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved.

  5. Sep 25 ·  Video

    Dante of Red Bottom Productions Shares His Story of the Entrepreneurial Journey of Creating Adult Films

    Season 6, Episode 785: Dante of Red Bottom Productions Shares His Story of the Entrepreneurial Journey of Creating Adult Films. This is a replay of this interview to get the video version of the conversation onto podcast apps, for the improvement of listener satisfaction. What happens when you retire at 33, get bored, and accidentally stumble into founding a multi-brand entertainment empire? Dante, owner of Red Bottom Productions, shares his fascinating pivot from executive protection services to adult film production in this candid, and highly interesting, conversation. After selling his business and achieving financial independence, Dante discovered that early retirement wasn't the paradise he expected, social isolation and restlessness led him down an unexpected path. What began as helping friends film OnlyFans content evolved into running his own entertainment company covering various genres and fetishes. How exciting! Beyond the business journey, Dante opens up about challenging societal taboos around sexuality, the professional standards and extensive consent processes in adult entertainment, and how his industry mirrors Hollywood's casting and production methods. He addresses common misconceptions about performer autonomy and the stark difference between fantasy entertainment and real intimacy. He strives to meet his vision of creating a variety of types of content to meet as many viewers tastes as he can. The conversation also explores his current lifestyle philosophy of prioritizing travel and experiences over traditional work structures, especially for something that happened that reinforced the importance of creating memories while healthy. From budgeting tips to breaking down stigmas, this episode offers a surprisingly thoughtful perspective on entrepreneurship, personal freedom, and redefining success. Ruan's book mentioned in the podcast epsiode: Find out more about the book, Spring Break & Stranded at a Cabin with 7 Chosen Men, a dark romance, why choose, polyamorous book with BDSM, Dark Kinks, and Impact Play, the book mentioned at the beginning of this episode: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedatacabinwith7chosenmen Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at ⁠https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/ Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.

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Human sexuality is the dance of education with pleasure. One cannot exist without the other for full expression. I strive to attend to both realms on this podcast. Oral Stimulation and all the sexy sex-positive stuff! My goals with this podcast are twofold: to provide you an escape to enjoy your sexuality and to improve it with the help of experts. Hi! Welcome to my podcast! I'm a podcaster, spicy romance author of multiple subgenres, and an audiobook narrator. My pen name is Ruan Willow. Listen and enjoy as I narrate sexy titillating yummy and spicy erotic romance stories. I talk about sex and relationships with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and lots of hot spicy fiction. I'm sharing ideas to empower you, enhance your relationships and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. I also interview authors to celebrate them and introduce you to new writers in the spicy/erotic fiction genre. This podcast is about celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, I care about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NSFW.  Copyright 2021-2025 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Music Heatseeker JB Good. This podcast show is not responsible for any violations of laws in states or countries where listeners of this podcast live where this content is prohibited.

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