You’re Probably Right

Michael C Murray
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You’re Probably Right is a long-form podcast for people who feel out of step with surface-level advice and easy answers. Each episode looks at relationships, social dynamics, belief systems, and the quiet patterns that shape how people treat each other, especially the parts nobody prepares you for. There are no quick fixes here. Just clear thinking, lived experience, and conversations that trust the listener to keep up. Hosted by Michael C Murray. If this podcast brings you value, help keep it going. Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/yprpodcast ☕️

  1. 21h ago

    Should You Delete the Memories of Someone You Used to Love?

    Should you delete the pictures, messages, videos, gifts, and little pieces of someone you used to love? Or should you keep them? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM reflects on the complicated emotional weight of old relationship memories, especially when the relationship is already over, life has moved on, and yet something remains in your phone, your closet, your drawer, or your mind. This is not a simple episode about deleting your ex. It is about memory, attachment, proof, nostalgia, grief, desire, loneliness, and the strange way old pictures and messages can preserve a version of someone who no longer exists in your life. MCM asks whether we are always keeping the person, or whether sometimes we are keeping evidence that the person happened to us. The old conversation. The photo. The gift. The sweater. The watch. The message from the night everything still felt alive. Sometimes the relationship is gone, but the archive remains. And in a world where your phone can carry years of messages, voice notes, photos, videos, arguments, apologies, intimacy, and affection, moving on has become more complicated than it used to be. This episode looks at the difference between history and emotional dependence, between keeping an object and needing it to remain, between remembering someone and secretly returning to the version of yourself that existed when that person wanted you. The bigger question is simple: What is this memory doing for me now? Is it history? Is it gratitude? Is it loneliness? Is it regret? Is it hope? Is it proof? MCM also reflects on what happens when you are in a new relationship while still holding private access to an old intimacy, and whether your current partner finding that archive would expose something you already know is not just “memories.” This episode is for anyone who has ever kept a conversation they never open, saved photos they are afraid to delete, held onto gifts that feel heavier than they should, or wondered whether deleting the evidence means deleting a version of themselves. Maybe the goal is not to erase people. Maybe the goal is to reach the point where you no longer need to preserve them in order to preserve yourself. Episode 370 You’re Probably Right with MCM Entertainment first. Everything else is just bonus opinions. Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X

  2. 1d ago

    Always Keep Them Guessing: The Relational Prediction Reset

    What happens when people think they know exactly how you are going to respond? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM introduces the idea of the Relational Prediction Reset, or RPR. This is not about manipulation. It is not about making people chase you. It is not about acting cold, becoming mysterious, making someone jealous, or playing games. It is about what happens when people have been around you long enough to learn your patterns, predict your reactions, and sometimes take your responses for granted. In relationships, someone may learn that if they pull away, you will chase. At work, someone may learn that if they ask late enough, you will stay. In friendships, someone may learn that if they stop trying, you will carry the whole connection. Over time, repeated behaviour can become expectation. And expectation can slowly become entitlement. MCM looks at how this plays out with husbands, wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, bosses, employees, coworkers, friends, and anyone who has interacted with you long enough to believe they know which button to press. The point is not to become unpredictable in your character. The point is to stop being predictable in unhealthy patterns. Predictable character. Less predictable programming. This episode explores blue pill thinking, red pill thinking, George Costanza doing the opposite, prediction error, reciprocity, selective responsiveness, workplace boundaries, emotional regulation, and why communication alone does not always change a relationship that has already learned your old pattern. The bigger question is simple: Are people relating to who you are now, or are they still pressing buttons that belonged to an older version of you? If you have ever felt taken for granted, overused, overexplained, overgiven, overworked, or trapped in a role you accidentally taught people to expect from you, this episode is for you. Episode 369 You’re Probably Right with MCM Entertainment first. Everything else is just bonus opinions. Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X

  3. 4d ago

    The Most Boring Episode of You’re Probably Right

    This might be the episode I should have erased. I sat down with ten introspective questions that were supposed to lead somewhere interesting. They didn’t. The questions weren’t great, my answers weren’t much better, and somewhere along the way I realized I was recording an episode that probably had no business becoming an episode. So naturally, I finished it. This is what happens when a podcast reaches Episode 368 and the host refuses to pretend every conversation is profound. No big breakthrough. No life changing conclusion. Just me trying to make something out of questions that probably deserved to stay in the notebook. Maybe there is something useful in that too. Or maybe this really is the most boring episode of You’re Probably Right.

    The Most Boring Episode of You’re Probably Right

  4. Aug 12

    Why Am I So Afraid of Being Found Out?

    What if social anxiety is not always about being afraid of people? What if it is about being afraid of what people might discover if they watch you closely enough? In Episode 367 of You’re Probably Right, MCM talks about childhood bullying, social anxiety, learning struggles, performance pressure, public speaking, interviews, relationships, singing, podcasting, and the fear of being judged while trying to do something in real time. This episode explores why some people can function, work, talk, perform, and show up, while still carrying anxiety underneath the surface. It is about the fear of being found out. Found out as stupid. Found out as awkward. Found out as unqualified. Found out as someone who does not belong. But maybe one bad answer, one awkward moment, one failed presentation, one nervous performance, or one moment of freezing does not define the whole person. Maybe it was not proof. Maybe it was just a bad moment. Episode 367 Why Am I So Afraid of Being Found Out? You’re Probably Right with MCM Entertainment first. Everything else is just bonus opinions. Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X #SocialAnxiety #FearOfJudgment #ChildhoodBullying #Overthinking #PerformanceAnxiety #SelfAwareness #YoureProbablyRight #MCM

  5. Aug 9

    Why Do I Over Explain When I Feel Put on the Spot?

    What if you are not bad at communicating, but sometimes have too many thoughts arriving at once? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM uses himself as the case study while exploring verbal processing, memory, social pressure, over explaining, and why some people communicate very differently when they feel watched, rushed, questioned, or evaluated. This is a reflective episode about what happens when your mind moves faster than your mouth can organize. MCM talks about why a person may remember stories but forget names, why a coherent explanation is not always the same as an accurate one, and why it helps to separate what happened from what we think happened and why we think it happened. The episode also looks at the difference between thinking out loud, teaching, over explaining, storytelling, and simply needing a better way to organize an answer. The practical lesson is not “talk less.” It is to select better. Give the headline before the documentary. Say the point. Let the other person respond. Then decide whether the rest of the information actually needs to be said. If you have ever felt like you communicate clearly when you are relaxed, but become scattered when you feel watched, rushed, corrected, or evaluated, this episode may give you a different way to understand what is happening. Episode 366 You’re Probably Right with MCM Entertainment first. Everything else is just bonus opinions. Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X

  6. Aug 3

    When Caring Becomes Carrying: Why I Wrote Care Without Carrying | Episode 365

    t what point does caring about someone become carrying the entire relationship? In Episode 365 of You’re Probably Right, Michael Charles Murray explains why he wrote Care Without Carrying: How to Love Deeply Without Losing Yourself in an Unequal Relationship. This episode examines the difference between supporting someone through a difficult period and becoming responsible for maintaining the entire relationship. It also explores why emotional spikes can hide damaging patterns, why being needed is not always the same as being chosen, and why loving someone does not require unlimited access to your life. Care Without Carrying is available now as a Kindle book on Amazon. Get the book: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B0HCKW6V5W #CareWithoutCarrying #UnequalRelationships #RelationshipBoundaries

  7. Jul 27

    Your Best Wasn’t the Problem

    What if your best was not the problem? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM talks about rejection, effort, self-blame, and the painful realization that more love, more loyalty, more patience, or more hard work does not always change another person’s decision. This is not only about romantic rejection. It is about the person who pulls away before they explain why. The friend who stops calling. The family member who creates distance. The workplace that starts making decisions around you instead of with you. The company that decides it no longer needs you. The group that slowly stops including you. Sometimes you see the signs. The replies get shorter. The meetings change. The invitations stop. The energy feels different. And because nobody gives you a clear answer, you start looking at yourself. Maybe I need to try harder. Maybe I need to be more patient. Maybe I need to stop asking questions. Maybe I need to become easier to deal with. Maybe I need to prove my value one more time. So you give more. You work harder. You forgive more. You become more available. You start treating rejection like a problem you can solve if you just become better. But what if the decision was already made? MCM reflects on relationships, work, ghosting, being replaced, workplace rejection, Ryan Clark’s ESPN experience, the movie Ghost, and the difficult line between fighting for something that matters and slowly abandoning yourself trying to keep it. This episode is about the limit of effort. Effort matters. Growth matters. Accountability matters. But effort cannot control another person’s choice. You can love someone sincerely and still not be chosen. You can be talented and still lose the job. You can be loyal and still be left out. You can give your best and still watch somebody move on without you. The deeper question is not only, “Why didn’t they choose me?” The deeper question might be, “How long am I supposed to keep losing myself trying to make them?” If you have ever been ghosted, fired, replaced, pushed aside, excluded, or left wondering why everything you gave still was not enough, this episode is for you. Your best may not have been the problem. The problem may have been believing your best gave you control over their choice. Episode 364 You’re Probably Right with MCM Entertainment first. Everything else is just bonus opinions. Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X

    Your Best Wasn’t the Problem

  8. Jul 21

    Why Do I Stop Being Myself When I’m Afraid of Losing Someone?

    Why do some people stop being themselves the moment they finally get something—or someone—they’re afraid to lose? In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM explores what happens when fear quietly takes over and your life starts revolving around keeping, managing, protecting, or not losing a person, relationship, dream, or outcome. This is a reflective episode about attachment, self-abandonment, overgiving, anxiety, emotional management, and the slow way people can drift away from their own identity while trying to hold on to something they think they need. MCM talks about what happens when love, desire, or fear becomes so powerful that you stop moving freely and start living defensively. Instead of being yourself, you begin calculating, adjusting, shrinking, performing, and over-monitoring everything around you. At the centre of the episode is a powerful question: why do people stop being themselves once they finally get something or somebody they were afraid to lose? :contentReference[oaicite:0]{index=0} The episode also wrestles with the cost of living that way. When your whole day starts revolving around what somebody else may do or not do, life can stop feeling like life and start feeling like management. :contentReference[oaicite:1]{index=1} This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt themselves becoming less natural, less grounded, and less free inside a relationship or emotional attachment. It is about recognizing the pattern, understanding the fear beneath it, and finding your way back to yourself. And maybe, when you lose the person, the dream, or the thing you were clinging to, you may discover that what you really needed to return to was yourself all along. :contentReference[oaicite:2]{index=2} If you have ever found yourself overthinking, overgiving, explaining too much, changing yourself to keep the peace, or feeling like you disappeared while trying not to lose someone, this episode is for you. You’re Probably Right with MCM Entertainment first. Everything else is just bonus opinions. Connect: yprpodcast@gmail.com Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/youre-probably-right/id1551574121 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1L65QCDAGp1h5Vca5zwE7X

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You’re Probably Right is a long-form podcast for people who feel out of step with surface-level advice and easy answers. Each episode looks at relationships, social dynamics, belief systems, and the quiet patterns that shape how people treat each other, especially the parts nobody prepares you for. There are no quick fixes here. Just clear thinking, lived experience, and conversations that trust the listener to keep up. Hosted by Michael C Murray. If this podcast brings you value, help keep it going. Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/yprpodcast ☕️

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  • Creator
    Michael C Murray
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    375
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Michael C Murray
  • Show Website
    You’re Probably Right