Mental Health: Hope and Recovery

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Helen Sneed and Valerie Milburn have both fought and overcome severe, chronic mental illnesses, and offer an insider’s approach to mental health. They share inspirational true stories and a host of recovery skills. Episodes examine conditions such as depression, anxiety, substance use and eating disorders, self-harm, suicide, and other major illnesses. You’ll learn about treatment options, coping skills, goal setting, relationships, and mindfulness. Helen and Valerie are your peers. They are not a substitute for qualified counseling or other mental health resources. They are not professionals, but they are experts through their own lived experience with multiple mental health conditions. Please join them on their journey.

  1. JAN 30

    How Valerie and Helen (Mostly) Outsmart Negativity

    Mental Health: Hope and Recovery Episode Title: How Helen and Valerie (Mostly) Outsmart Negativity Episode 63 | Duration 47:45 Hosts: Helen Sneed & Valerie Milburn EPISODE OVERVIEW On the brink of the new year, Valerie and Helen do a deep search into the reasons why new year’s resolutions so often end in failure and negativity. From their exploration, the ways to outsmart negativity and to pursue something better with a positive outcome become clear and doable. They discover that the strongest course for outsmarting negativity is to replace resolutions with goals. As they bring their insights and examples to the table, the path forward with strategic goal-setting becomes clear.  The objective of the episode is to educate and equip the listener with a large body of information that informs and inspires the creation of a manageable path to achieving a heartfelt goal. Included are strategies, skills, methods, and examples from their own lived experiences. Particular focus is on the mechanics of goal-setting: how to build and sustain a feasible plan with manageable steps. How to overcome procrastination, self-doubt, and setbacks. Mindfulness, acceptance, flexibility, and relationships are critical building blocks to outwitting the negativity and doubt that can stop all forward action. For our hosts, the single greatest way to outsmart negativity is to develop a brain that can create optimistic thoughts, nurture the positive, and develop new techniques to dismiss negative expectation. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN ·      Why resolutions often fail and goals often lead to real progress  ·      How SMART goals can be a conduit to commitment and success ·      How skills such as mindfulness and acceptance keep you on track and engaged in the positive ·      How to navigate setbacks without abandoning your goals or the capacity to fight negativity TOOLS AND TAKEAWAYS ·      Resolutions vs. Goals:  Resolutions are strict decisions without structure; goals require action, planning, and flexibility ·      SMART Goals provide a framework for effective goal setting with the following criteria. The goal should be: o   Specific  o   Measurable o   Achievable  o   Relevant  o   Time-bound  ·      Dialectical Behavior Therapy: DBT provides a wide range of goal-seeking skills ·      Mindfulness and Acceptance: They offer many options and activities for overcoming negativity and the positive pursuit of goals. ·      Relationships: Support through individuals and community provides accountability, encouragement, and improved self-image. MEMORABLE QUOTES “Big ambition without an achievable plan is a setup for failure.” – Helen “Acceptance is not endorsement—it’s simply recognizing reality as it is.” –Valerie “Goals bring values from theory into practice.” – Helen RESOUCES AND LINKS MENTIONED Mental Health: Hope and Recovery Podcast, Episode 9: Goal Setting: A Necessity for Recovery https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/goal-setting-a-necessity-for-recovery Mindfulness exercise adapted from https://MindfulnessExercises.com Website: https://MentalHealthHopeAndRecovery.com CONNECT WITH US Website: https://MentalHealthHopeAndRecovery.com Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major platforms RELATED EPISODES Mental Health: Hope and Recovery Podcast, Episode 9: Goal Setting: A Necessity for Recovery https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/goal-setting-a-necessity-for-recovery Mental Health: Hope and Recovery Podcast, Episode 60: Dialectical Behavior Therapy—The Journey from Pain to Purpose https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/dialectical-behavior-therapy-the-journey-from-pain-to-purpose  DISCLAIMER This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not provide medical advice. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any health-related questions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    50 min
  2. 12/21/2025

    Navigating Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) with an Expert Therapist

    In this in-depth and hope-filled episode of Mental Health: Hope and Recovery, hosts Helen Sneed and Valerie Milburn welcome DBT expert Penny Kruger, LCSW-S, for a powerful conversation about Dialectical Behavior Therapy and why it continues to change lives. Building on their previous DBT episode, Helen and Valerie explore how DBT works in real-world clinical settings, why it is more than just a therapy model, and how it provides practical, life-saving skills for people struggling with intense emotions, impulsive behaviors, and chronic despair. With over 30 years of clinical experience, Penny shares her knowledge and insight on DBT treatment, why validation and transparency matter, and how people can stay engaged in treatment even when they feel demoralized or ready to quit. The episode closes with a guided mindfulness and opposite action exercise led by Valerie. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN What Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is and why it works The core goals of DBT: balancing acceptance and change How DBT helps manage emotional dysregulation and impulsive behaviors What “life worth living” means in DBT Why DBT skills are action-oriented and practical Why validation and transparency are central to healing How DBT fosters long-term hope and recovery Find us on Facebook RESOURCES AND LINKS Crisis Support:  Call or text 988 (U.S.) for immediate mental health help or dial 911. Building a Life Worth Living by Marsha Linehan Available at  https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com Listen/Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Audible Find Helen and Valerie here : Mental Health Hope and Recovery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    58 min
  3. 11/26/2025

    Dialectical Behavior Therapy -- The Journey from Pain to Purpose

    Mental Health: Hope and Recovery Episode Title: Dialectical Behavior Therapy – The Journey from Pain to Purpose Episode 60 | Duration 45:00 Episode Date: November 26, 2025 Hosts: Helen Sneed and Valerie Milburn EPISODE OVERVIEW Named one of the top 100 scientific inventions, Dialectical Behavior Therapy has successfully guided and supported into recovery hundreds of thousands battling mental illness.  DBT teaches an entire system of dealing with psychiatric disorders and building a life worth living. One of its most effective components is the development of scores of powerful skills to be used daily to overcome the onslaught of uncontrollable emotional dysregulation. Its methods are behavior-oriented and emphasize taking action. Helen and Valerie also share personal stories as they explore how DBT has shaped their own recovery journeys—and why its principles continue to offer hope to millions around the world. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN The history and development of DBT by Marsha Linehan The four core components of DBT, with real-life examples How DBT supports recovery from severe mental illness Ways to apply DBT skills to everyday challenges Personal stories of resilience and transformation from Helen and Valerie MEMORABLE QUOTES “DBT is not just a treatment; it’s a way of life that can transform how we relate to ourselves and others.” — Helen “To get better, we must accept where we are and also strive for change. That’s the essence of dialectics.” — Valerie TOOLS AND TAKEAWAYS Mindfulness: Skills for grounding and staying present Distress Tolerance: Techniques for getting through crisis moments safely Emotion Regulation: Strategies to manage overwhelming feelings Interpersonal Effectiveness: Skills for improving communication and relationships RESOURCES AND LINKS Building a Life Worth Living by Marsha Linehan DBT Skills Training Manual, Revised Edition by Marsha Linehan Building a Life Worth Living by Marsha Linehan DBT Explained by Suzette Bray The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook by Martha McKay, Jeffrey C. Wood, Jeffey Brantley The DBT Workbook for Alcohol and Drug Addiction by Laura Petracek The Radically Open DBT Workbook for Eating Disorders by Karyn D. Hall, Elllen Astrachan-Fletcher Website: mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Audible | Pandora Transcript: Available at mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com Crisis Support: Call or text 988 (U.S.) for immediate help CONNECT WITH US Website: https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com Listen/Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Audible Join the Conversation: How has DBT impacted your life or recovery journey? Share your stories with Helen and Valerie at https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com DISCLAIMER This podcast is for educational and inspirational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The hosts are not licensed mental health professionals. They are your peers. If you are in crisis, please call or text 988 (U.S.) or contact your local emergency services. EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 00:00 — Intro / Welcome 1:20 — What Is DBT? 3:15 — Marsha Linehan and the Creation of DBT 5:00 — The Core Dialectic: Acceptance + Change 7:00 — Linehan’s Public Disclosure & DBT Structure 8:50 — CBT vs DBT Comparison 10:00 — Goals of CBT vs Goals of DBT 11:30 — Introduction to DBT Skill Areas 12:15 — Overview of the Four DBT Skills Modules 15:00 — Interpersonal Effectiveness 18:50 — Distress Tolerance Overview 20:00 — Radical Acceptance & When to Use Distress Tolerance 22:10 — DBT for People Without Mental Illness 23:15 — Valerie’s Two Lifelong DBT Skills 26:45 — Helen’s Story: DBT Became the Lifeline 32:30 — How DBT Helped Helen Save Her Own Life 36:30 — Closing Reflections 39:00 — Mindfulness Exercise   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    48 min
  4. 10/24/2025

    Mindfulness Applied to Mental Health

    In this enlightening episode of Mental Health: Hope and Recovery, Helen Sneed and Valerie Milburn delve into the transformative practice of mindfulness and its profound impact on mental health. Mindfulness can effectively combat anxiety, depression and many other psychological conditions. Both hosts recount personal stories that highlight the challenges they faced in grasping the essence of mindfulness. They share advice from experts that breaks down the concept into practical exercises that listeners can incorporate into their daily lives.  The episode culminates in a heartwarming mindfulness exercise guiding listeners to connect with their humanity, and foster compassion for themselves and others. Join Helen and Valerie as they explore the power of mindfulness and encourage you to embrace the present moment in your own journey toward recovery. What You’ll Learn How mindfulness supports mental health and long-term recovery The science behind mindfulness and its profound impact on mental health Easy ways to integrate mindfulness into everyday living–from mindful breathing and eating to simply noticing the world around us A deeper understanding of mindfulness as a tool for mental clarity, emotional regulation, and compassion Memorable Quotes “Mindfulness is a practice, not a performance to be perfected.” — Helen  “The most important thing to know about meditation is this – TRY IT! You cannot do it wrong.” — Valerie “The present moment is where peace begins—and where healing truly happens.” — Helen  Tools & Takeaways Mindfulness is simply being aware of the present moment without judgment. Regular mindfulness practice reduces stress, improves concentration, and increases emotional resilience. Simple mindfulness exercises can be integrated into daily routines to foster a sense of calm and connection. Resources & Links Mentioned National Institute of Mental Health: https://www.nimh.nih.gov  National Institute of Mental Health Research Study on Mindfulness and Mental Health: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3679190/ Book: The Book of Joy, Lasting Happiness in a Changing World by His Holiness the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu, with Douglas Abrams Website: mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Audible | Pandora  Transcript: Available at mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com Related Episodes Goal Setting: A Necessity for Recovery https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/goal-setting-a-necessity-for-recovery Mindfulness Exercises Favorites https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/mindfulness-exercise-favoriteshttps://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/2024-mindfulness-favorites https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/valeries-mindfulness-favorites-of-2023 Join the Conversation How has mindfulness helped your mental health journey? Share your story or favorite mindfulness practice with Helen and Valerie through mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com.  Disclaimer This podcast is for educational and inspirational purposes only and should not replace professional medical advice or therapy. The hosts are not licensed mental health professionals. If you are in crisis, please call or text 988 (U.S.) or reach out to your local emergency services. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    37 min
  5. 09/30/2025

    Attacking Anxiety

    Anxiety disorder is the most prevalent mental illness in the U.S. and worldwide. Twenty percent of Americans, 40 million people, suffer from an anxiety disorder. The disorder can have a devastating impact on society and the individual, and can be particularly damaging to the human brain. Experts caution that an anxiety disorder requires treatment for the person to recover. The good news is that this episode highlights effective, proven treatment such as psychotherapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and medication, along with cutting-edge treatment methods. With the current and developing treatment methods, there is cause for optimism and hope in overcoming anxiety disorder today. Valerie and Helen both battle anxiety disorder, and they are well-versed in the symptoms and severity of the illness. Join them as they share what they have learned. Find Valerie and Helen at https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com Shownotes: Attacking Anxiety Episode #58Release Date: September 29th, 2025   What This Episode Covers  ·      Helen and Valerie explore lived experience, causes and symptoms, coping skills, and research in the area of anxiety disorders. Key Takeaways & Tools · Anxiety disorder is the most prevalent mental illness in the U.S. and worldwide.  · The disorder can have a devastating impact on society and the individual, and can be particularly damaging to the human brain. · The good news is that with the current and developing treatment methods, there is cause for optimism and hope in overcoming anxiety disorder today. · There are a vast number of practical coping skills for anxiety disorder, including mindfulness, diaphragmatic breathing, journaling, therapy, dialectical and cognitive behavior skills, checking for the actual truth of a situation, exercise, and proper sleep.   Resources & Links Mentioned · National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): https://nami.org · Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Dial 988 for immediate support Related Episodes https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/goal-setting-a-necessity-for-recovery https://mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com/episode/mindfulness-exercise-favorites   How to Connect with Mental Health: Hope and Recovery · Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Audible · Follow on Facebook and LinkedIn · Share your story or suggest a topic: mentalhealthhopeandrecovery.com Disclaimer The content in this episode is for educational / informational purposes only. The hosts are not licensed mental health professionals. If you are in crisis or believe you may harm yourself or others, please seek immediate help from qualified professionals. Inspiring Quote from This Episode · “Nothing diminishes anxiety faster than action.” Walter Anderson · “The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.”  William James   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    56 min
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Helen Sneed and Valerie Milburn have both fought and overcome severe, chronic mental illnesses, and offer an insider’s approach to mental health. They share inspirational true stories and a host of recovery skills. Episodes examine conditions such as depression, anxiety, substance use and eating disorders, self-harm, suicide, and other major illnesses. You’ll learn about treatment options, coping skills, goal setting, relationships, and mindfulness. Helen and Valerie are your peers. They are not a substitute for qualified counseling or other mental health resources. They are not professionals, but they are experts through their own lived experience with multiple mental health conditions. Please join them on their journey.