Parenting Thru Trauma - A Podcast on Attachment Trauma for Parents, Professionals and Policymakers

Family Forward Advocacy CT, Inc.

We are moms and dads - parents with lived experience who know how hard it is to Parent thru Trauma. We understand raising kids with significant trauma histories can be chaotic and exhausting, isolating, overwhelming, and even dangerous. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Each episode will shed light on various hurdles related to sadness, fear, control, shame, and trust and the outcomes of these BIG, disorganized, and disruptive emotions. Become a Paid Subscriber: https://anchor.fm/parentingthrutrauma/sub

Episodes

  1. Crisis to Crown: Julia Carrano's Mom, Nancy Carrano Talks About the Journey, Pt. 2

    07/28/2024

    Crisis to Crown: Julia Carrano's Mom, Nancy Carrano Talks About the Journey, Pt. 2

    Julia Carrano relinquished her crown on June 23rd, 2024, after one year of reign as Miss New Jersey Teen USA 2023. Parenting Thru Trauma interviewed Julia and her mother, Nancy Carrano, in May as they prepared for Julia's transition. Part two of our two-part interview includes a conversation with Julia's mom, Nancy, talking about their journey to identify and treat Julia's mental health symptoms, medication challenges, and navigating child-serving systems. Our conversation also takes a look at the impact of early childhood trauma and how that may have played a role. Nancy Carrano is a professional photographer in her own right and plays the role of Julia's Manager. More on Julia Carrano at https://missnewjerseyusa.com/teen/ https://www.tiktok.com/@julia.carrano Julia is a high school honors graduate from Manahawkin, NJ. She began attending college to study psychology, hoping to one day obtain her postgraduate degree and become a mental health therapist working with teens. Her battles with mental wellness put her plans on hold. As a survivor of treatment-resistant depression, the current youth mental health crisis is near and dear to Julia’s heart. As Miss New Jersey Teen USA 2023, Julia made breaking the stigma of youth mental health her platform and shared her story with young people throughout New Jersey and elsewhere to help them understand ‘it’s ok not to be ok’ and that kindness counts. She worked alongside peer groups and continues to volunteer as a trained crisis counselor with the National Crisis Text Line.

    46 min
  2. Miss NJ Teen USA 2023, Julia Carrano, Talks Mental Health Stigma

    06/24/2024

    Miss NJ Teen USA 2023, Julia Carrano, Talks Mental Health Stigma

    Even Miss New Jersey Teen USA 2023, Julia Carrano, Struggles with Mental Wellness Julia Carrano relinquished her crown today, June 23rd, 2024, after one year of reign as Miss New Jersey Teen USA 2023. Parenting Thru Trauma interviewed Julia and her mother, Nancy Carrano, in May as they prepared for Julia's transition. Part one of our two-part interview includes Julia and Nancy talking about their journey to identify and treat Julia's mental health symptoms, medication challenges, and navigating child-serving systems. Julia also shared her experience with early childhood trauma and how that may have played a role. More on Julia Carrano at https://missnewjerseyusa.com/teen/ Julia is a high school honors graduate from Manahawkin, NJ. She began attending college to study psychology, hoping to one day obtain her postgraduate degree and become a mental health therapist working with teens. Her battles with mental wellness put her plans on hold. As a survivor of treatment-resistant depression, the current youth mental health crisis is near and dear to Julia’s heart. As Miss New Jersey Teen USA 2023, Julia made breaking the stigma of youth mental health her platform and shared her story with young people throughout New Jersey and elsewhere to help them understand ‘it’s ok to not be ok’ and that kindness counts. She worked alongside peer groups and continues to volunteer as a trained crisis counselor with the National Crisis Text Line.

    35 min
  3. Calling 911 or 211: Is it a last resort?

    05/21/2021

    Calling 911 or 211: Is it a last resort?

    Safety planning and having a safety plan for when your attachment challenged or complex trauma-informed child's dysregulation exceeds chaos is essential. The 911 and 211 services or emergency mobile psychiatric services call-line can be a lifeline, but it can also be challenging. As a parent, you can feel shame, fear, and even failure because you made the call at all. This episode provides context around the 911 call decision and reveals what the experience might look and feel like after responders arrive at your home. Maureen O'Neill-Davis and Cheri Brown of Family Forward Advocacy CT, Inc., a parent and policy advocacy organization, talk about their own experiences with "making the call" and discuss the reasons why calling first responders is a necessary consideration and what various outcomes of that decision might look and feel like.  Managing the behaviors of kids with Developmental Trauma Disorder aka RAD, complex trauma histories, and kids who lost biological parents early in life can be challenging and sometimes dangerous. Safety must be a priority and natural consequences including first responders arriving at your home help teach and reinforce to your emotionally unstable child that their conduct does in fact have consequences. And calling 911 can effectively document your child's out-of-control patterns which may help you to gain access to higher levels of care for your child down the road.  This is a hard journey, but you are not alone. Need support? Contact us at www.FamilyForwardAdvocacyCT.com

    53 min

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We are moms and dads - parents with lived experience who know how hard it is to Parent thru Trauma. We understand raising kids with significant trauma histories can be chaotic and exhausting, isolating, overwhelming, and even dangerous. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Each episode will shed light on various hurdles related to sadness, fear, control, shame, and trust and the outcomes of these BIG, disorganized, and disruptive emotions. Become a Paid Subscriber: https://anchor.fm/parentingthrutrauma/sub