Plot & Bothered

Mads Hope
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Welcome to Plot & Bothered, the podcast for readers who finish a book and immediately need to talk about it 📖 I'm Mads, a UK romance author and professional fangirl, diving into the books everyone's obsessing over, the tropes we love (and the ones we'd happily burn), and the hot takes you've been too scared to post 💌 Grumpy/sunshine, only one bed, the third act breakup: nothing is safe. Expect honest reviews, trope deep dives, BookTok debates and a peek behind the scenes of writing romance ❤️‍🔥 Pour a cuppa, grab your TBR and get comfy ✨

Episodes

  1. Apr 13

    Why It’s So Hard to Leave a Job You Don’t Hate

    Why It’s So Hard to Leave a Job You Don’t Hate Leaving a job you don’t hate is a different kind of hard… In this episode of Lowkey Adulting, I’m opening up about my decision to leave a job I was in for 4 years — a job that wasn’t toxic, wasn’t unhealthy, and on paper… was actually “good”. So why did it feel so difficult to walk away? We talk about the guilt of wanting more when nothing is technically wrong, the internal battle between comfort and growth, and the pressure to stay somewhere that feels safe but no longer feels aligned. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a job that’s “fine” but not fulfilling, or questioned whether you’re being ungrateful for wanting change, this episode is for you. This is your reminder that you don’t have to hate something to outgrow it, and choosing yourself doesn’t need a dramatic reason. ✨ New episodes every Monday at 8am! 🔗 Listen to Lowkey Adulting on Other Platforms: Spotify ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ ⁠YouTube⁠ 💌 Stay Connected: TikTok: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ 📌 About the Podcast: Lowkey Adulting is a relatable, cosy, and unfiltered podcast about navigating adulthood. From love and friendships to work, mental health, and self-growth, this is the podcast that reminds you nobody has it all figured out (and that’s okay). 📣 Don’t Forget: 👍 Like this video if you relate to the chaos of adulting 🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell to catch new episodes every Monday 🏷️ Tags: leaving a job, career change in your 20s, quitting a job, job advice uk, leaving a good job, non toxic workplace, career growth, feeling stuck in a job, life in your 20s, adulting podcast, lowkey adulting, career decisions, quitting your job story, job dissatisfaction, finding purpose in your career, young professional advice, uk podcast, lifestyle podcast, growing up in your 20s, work life balance, outgrowing your job, comfort zone career, career podcast, realistic career advice

  2. 12/15/2025

    We Moved In Together at 22… Into My Family Home | The Honest Reality No One Talks About

    We Moved In Together at 22… Into My Family Home | The Honest Reality No One Talks About In this cosy and honest episode of Lowkey Adulting, I’m sharing the full reality of what it’s really like when your partner moves into the house you grew up in. From the awkward moments to the unexpectedly sweet ones, the family dynamics, the adjustments we never saw coming, and how it’s changed our relationship in the best possible ways. We chat about how it all happened, what the first week was actually like, navigating privacy in a family home, the comfort, and why this untraditional setup has worked better than we ever imagined. If you’re in your 20s and feel like your living situation isn’t “aesthetic” or “normal”, this episode will make you feel so much less alone. This is your reminder that adulthood has no rulebook, timelines look different for everyone, and home is more about who you share it with than what it looks like. ✨ New episodes every Monday at 8am! 🔗 Listen to Lowkey Adulting on Other Platforms: ⁠Spotify⁠ ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ ⁠YouTube⁠ 💌 Stay Connected: TikTok: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ 📌 About the Podcast: Lowkey Adulting is a relatable, cosy, and unfiltered podcast about navigating adulthood. From love and friendships to work, mental health, and self-growth, this is the podcast that reminds you nobody has it all figured out (and that’s okay). 📣 Don’t Forget: 👍 Like this video if you relate to the chaos of adulting 🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell to catch new episodes every Monday 🏷️ Tags: moving in together, living together at 22, boyfriend moved into my family home, moving in with boyfriend young, relationship podcast, couples living together, first time living together, family home living situation, living with parents in your 20s, honest relationship advice, lowkey adulting, adulting podcast, life in your 20s, moving in together story, unconventional living together, relationship talk, couple dynamics, young couple advice, moving in together advice, uk podcast, cosy podcast, british podcast, lifestyle podcast, growing up in your 20s, living with parents, boyfriend living with parents, real relationship podcast, relatable podcast episode, love and adulthood, couple storytime

  3. 12/08/2025

    Why Dropping Out of Uni Was the Best Decision | My Honest Story About Choosing a Different Path

    🎙 Why Dropping Out of Uni Was the Best Decision | My Honest Story About Choosing a Different Path In today’s episode, I’m opening up about something I’ve never really talked about in depth before – why I dropped out of uni and how it ended up being one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. This isn’t a “don’t go to uni” episode – it’s more of an honest story about realising when something isn’t right for you, learning to trust your gut, and figuring out who you are outside of expectations. If you’ve ever felt lost in your 20s, unsure about your path, or scared to take a risk that everyone else might not understand – this one’s for you. We’re chatting about: 🎓 How I knew uni wasn’t the right fit 💭 Dealing with guilt, comparison, and pressure to “do the right thing” 🌱 Finding my own version of success 💬 What I learned from starting over 💖 Why your path doesn’t have to look like everyone else’s So grab a hot chocolate, get cosy, and let’s talk about what it really means to choose your own path – even when it’s scary. ✨ New episodes every Monday at 8am! 🔗 Listen to Lowkey Adulting on Other Platforms: ⁠Spotify⁠ ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ ⁠YouTube⁠ 💌 Stay Connected: TikTok: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ 📌 About the Podcast: Lowkey Adulting is a relatable, cosy, and unfiltered podcast about navigating adulthood. From love and friendships to work, mental health, and self-growth, this is the podcast that reminds you nobody has it all figured out (and that’s okay). 📣 Don’t Forget: 👍 Like this video if you relate to the chaos of adulting 🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell to catch new episodes every Monday 🏷️ Tags: dropping out of uni,dropping out of university,why i dropped out of uni,my uni story,life after dropping out,adulting podcast,lowkey adulting podcast,finding your path,self discovery in your 20s,post uni life,life lessons in your 20s,mental health and education,student life pressure,self acceptance journey,cozy podcasts for 20s,life after education,university expectations,not going to uni,how to figure out your 20s,comforting podcast for 20 somethings

  4. 12/01/2025

    Brogan Tate on Adulting, Relationships & Life Online

    Brogan Tate on Adulting, Relationships & Life Online 🎙️ This week on Lowkey Adulting, I’m joined by the lovely Brogan Tate – YouTuber, Disney lover, and one of the most comforting creators to grow up with online! Brogan has spent over a decade sharing her life with her audience, from cosy home vlogs and Disney trips to honest chats about adulthood, relationships, and self-growth. In this episode, we talk about what it’s really like to grow up on YouTube, how she’s learned to navigate life offline, and why she’s embracing adulting on her own terms.It’s a warm, feel-good conversation filled with honesty, laughter, and nostalgia – perfect for anyone who’s ever felt like they’re still figuring life out. 📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BroganTatexo 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brogantatexo ✨ New episodes every Monday at 8am! 🔗 Listen to Lowkey Adulting on Other Platforms: ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠ ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ 💌 Stay Connected: TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠⁠ 📌 About the Podcast: Lowkey Adulting is a relatable, cosy, and unfiltered podcast about navigating adulthood. From love and friendships to work, mental health, and self-growth, this is the podcast that reminds you nobody has it all figured out (and that’s okay). 📣 Don’t Forget: 👍 Like this video if you relate to the chaos of adulting 🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell to catch new episodes every Monday 🏷️ Tags: brogan tate,brogan tate podcast,lowkey adulting podcast,adulting in your 20s,growing up online,life as a youtuber,content creator life,cozy podcast,lifestyle vlogger,adult friendships,mental health in your 20s,self growth podcast,lowkey adulting brogan tate,brogan tate disney,podcast with creators,how to navigate your 20s,real life behind youtube,content creator journey,brogan tate vlog,brogan tate disney world,brogan tate disneyland paris

  5. 11/24/2025

    Unpopular Opinions About Adulting | The Truth About Life in Your 20s

    Unpopular Opinions About Adulting | The Truth About Life in Your 20sWelcome back to Lowkey Adulting – the podcast where we talk about all the messy, funny, and meaningful parts of growing up.In today’s episode, we’re diving into some unpopular opinions about adulting... The things most people think but rarely say out loud. From friendships and work to relationships and “self-care culture,” I’m breaking down the hot takes that might just make you feel a little more seen (or a little called out 👀). ✨ New episodes every Monday at 8am! 🔗 Listen to Lowkey Adulting on Other Platforms: ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠ ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ 💌 Stay Connected: TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠⁠ 📌 About the Podcast: Lowkey Adulting is a relatable, cosy, and unfiltered podcast about navigating adulthood. From love and friendships to work, mental health, and self-growth, this is the podcast that reminds you nobody has it all figured out (and that’s okay). 📣 Don’t Forget: 👍 Like this video if you relate to the chaos of adulting 🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell to catch new episodes every Monday 🏷️ Tags: life lessons in your 20s,lessons I’ve learned in 22 years,what I’ve learned in my 20s,growing up in your 20s,lessons about adulthood,friendships in your 20s,lessons about friendship,love and relationships advice,healthy relationships in your 20s,boundaries in friendships,mental health in your 20s,self growth podcast,lessons about self love,anxiety in your 20s,self acceptance journey,adulting in your 20s,rejection is redirection,personal growth in your 20s

  6. 11/17/2025

    22 Things I’ve Learned in 22 Years | Lessons About Friendships, Love, and Growing Up

    🎙 22 Things I’ve Learned in 22 Years | Lessons About Friendships, Love, and Growing Up Turning 22 has me reflecting on all the messy, funny, and meaningful lessons I’ve picked up so far… and trust me, some of them I had to learn the hard way. In this episode of Lowkey Adulting, I’m sharing 22 things I’ve learned in 22 years – from friendships and love to family, self-growth, and the random truths that make your 20s both confusing and beautiful.This isn’t a lecture. Think of it more like a cosy voice note from a friend who gets it. Some lessons are deep, others are lighthearted, but all of them are real and relatable! 🎧 In this episode, I’ll cover: • Why not every friendship is meant to last forever (and that’s okay) • How true love feels calm, not chaotic • The truth about rejection and redirection in your 20s • Mental health reminders I wish I learned sooner • Little life lessons that actually change everything Whether you’re in your 20s, heading into them, or looking back on them, I hope this episode makes you feel seen, understood, and maybe even laugh a little. 💬 I’d love to know: what’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned in your 20s (or whatever age you are now)? Comment below or DM me — I’d love to hear your story. ✨ New episodes every Monday at 8am! 🔗 Listen to Lowkey Adulting on Other Platforms: ⁠Spotify⁠ ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ ⁠YouTube⁠ 💌 Stay Connected: TikTok: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠ 📌 About the Podcast: Lowkey Adulting is a relatable, cosy, and unfiltered podcast about navigating adulthood. From love and friendships to work, mental health, and self-growth, this is the podcast that reminds you nobody has it all figured out (and that’s okay). 📣 Don’t Forget: 👍 Like this video if you relate to the chaos of adulting 🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell to catch new episodes every Monday 🏷️ Tags: life lessons in your 20s,lessons I’ve learned in 22 years,what I’ve learned in my 20s,growing up in your 20s,lessons about adulthood,friendships in your 20s,lessons about friendship,love and relationships advice,healthy relationships in your 20s,boundaries in friendships,mental health in your 20s,self growth podcast,lessons about self love,anxiety in your 20s,self acceptance journey,adulting in your 20s,rejection is redirection,personal growth in your 20s

  7. 11/10/2025

    Being in Love: A Relationship Chat with My Boyfriend

    Being in Love: A Relationship Chat with My Boyfriend 🎙️ This week’s episode is a little different… I sat down with my boyfriend for a cosy, funny, and unfiltered chat about what love actually looks like behind the Instagram highlight reel. Expect laughter, inside jokes, awkward stories, and some mushy moments as we open up about how we met, our first date, and what we’ve learned about each other (and ourselves) along the way.This isn’t a “how-to” guide on relationships, just two people being real about the highs, the lows, and the everyday reality of being in love while also figuring out adulthood. Consider it your official invite to third-wheel with us 🤍 ✨ New episodes every Monday at 8am! 🔗 Listen to Lowkey Adulting on Other Platforms: Spotify Apple Podcasts YouTube 💌 Stay Connected: TikTok: @lowkeyadultingpod Instagram: @lowkeyadultingpod YouTube: @lowkeyadultingpod 📌 About the Podcast:Lowkey Adulting is a relatable, cosy, and unfiltered podcast about navigating adulthood. From love and friendships to work, mental health, and self-growth, this is the podcast that reminds you nobody has it all figured out (and that’s okay). 📣 Don’t Forget: 👍 Like this video if you relate to the chaos of adulting 🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell to catch new episodes every Monday 🏷️ Tags: being in love podcast, relationship podcast 2025, couple podcast funny, honest relationship talk, relationship chat with boyfriend, love podcast for young adults, 20s relationship podcast, couples conversation podcast, adulting podcast relationships, real talk about relationships, couple quiz podcast, who’s most likely to couples, funny couple podcast episode, boyfriend girlfriend podcast, young love podcast, relationship stories podcast, modern love podcast, cozy podcast about love, dating in your 20s podcast, third wheeling podcast episode

  8. 11/03/2025

    Anxious But Trying: Talking Mental Health & The Truth About Medication

    Anxious But Trying: Talking Mental Health & The Truth About Medication 🎙️ In this episode of Lowkey Adulting, I’m getting real about anxiety, antidepressants, and everything in between. From what anxiety actually looks like in everyday life, to the reality of starting medication, and why mental health still feels like such a taboo topic.This isn’t medical advice, just an honest, stigma-breaking conversation about what it’s really like to live with anxiety and find support. If you’ve ever wondered what antidepressants are really like, or just need reassurance that you’re not alone in the messy parts of mental health, this one’s for you 💛 ✨ New episodes every Monday at 8am! 🔗 Listen to Lowkey Adulting on Other Platforms: Spotify Apple Podcasts YouTube 💌 Stay Connected: TikTok: ⁠@lowkeyadultingpod Instagram: ⁠@lowkeyadultingpod YouTube: ⁠@lowkeyadultingpod 📌 About the Podcast: Lowkey Adulting is a relatable, cosy, and unfiltered podcast about navigating adulthood. From love and friendships to work, mental health, and self-growth, this is the podcast that reminds you nobody has it all figured out (and that’s okay). 📣 Don’t Forget: 👍 Like this video if you relate to the chaos of adulting 🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell to catch new episodes every Monday 💬 What’s been your experience with anxiety or antidepressants? Drop a comment below – your story might just help someone else. 🏷️ Tags: anxiety podcast,mental health podcast,antidepressants podcast,talking about anxiety,living with anxiety,mental health awareness,therapy podcast,antidepressant experience,medication for anxiety,anxiety medication journey,mental health stigma,anxiety help,mental health conversations,antidepressants truth,anxiety and depression podcast,overthinking podcast,self care podcast,anxiety support,mental health tips,anxiety coping strategies

  9. 10/27/2025

    Am I Even Doing This Right?

    🎙 Welcome to Lowkey Adulting — Am I Even Doing This Right? Adulthood is confusing, messy, and sometimes hilarious… and honestly? None of us are doing it perfectly. In this first episode, I’m introducing you to Lowkey Adulting – the podcast where we’ll talk about everything from friendships and relationships to mental health, careers, and all the little “am I even doing this right?” moments in between. Every Monday, I’ll be sharing unfiltered conversations, funny stories, and chats with amazing guests who know just how messy (and meaningful) adulthood can be. ✨ New episodes every Monday at 8am! 🔗 Listen to Lowkey Adulting on Other Platforms: Spotify Apple Podcasts YouTube 💌 Stay Connected: TikTok: @lowkeyadultingpod Instagram: @lowkeyadultingpod YouTube: @lowkeyadultingpod 📌 About the Podcast: Lowkey Adulting is a relatable, cosy, and unfiltered podcast about navigating adulthood. From love and friendships to work, mental health, and self-growth, this is the podcast that reminds you nobody has it all figured out (and that’s okay). 📣 Don’t Forget: 👍 Like this video if you relate to the chaos of adulting 🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell to catch new episodes every Monda 💬 Comment below: What’s your biggest “Am I even doing this right?” moment? 🏷️ Tags:adulthood podcast 2025,adulting struggles,podcast about adulthood,relatable podcast 2025,friendships and adulthood,self growth podcast,mental health podcast 2025,funny relatable podcast,first podcast episode,cozy podcast 2025,personal growth podcast,starting adulthood podcast,best podcasts for young adults,podcast about relationships,podcast about friendships,podcast about mental health,how to navigate adulthood,relatable girl podcast,self care podcast

  10. 10/21/2025

    Lowkey Adulting Podcast Trailer | A Relatable Podcast About Life in Your 20s

    🎙 Welcome to Lowkey Adulting ✨ Your 20s are messy, funny, emotional, and a little bit confusing… and this podcast is here to make you feel less alone in all of it. I’m Mads Hope — a content creator, writer, and introvert navigating life in my 20s – and each week I’ll be sharing honest chats about friendships, love, relationships, self-growth, and the everyday chaos of “adulting.” Sometimes I’ll go solo, sometimes I’ll bring on amazing guests, but it’ll always feel like catching up with a friend over coffee. 💌 What to expect: – Cosy, unfiltered chats about the ups and downs of your 20s – Honest conversations on friendships, relationships, and mental health – Relatable stories and lessons learned along the way – Inspiring guests sharing their own experiences – A safe space where we figure it out together If you’ve ever wondered “Am I even doing this right?” — this podcast is for you 💭 ✨ New episodes every Monday at 8am! 🔗 Listen to Lowkey Adulting on Other Platforms: ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠ ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ 💌 Stay Connected: TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠@lowkeyadultingpod⁠⁠ 📌 About the Podcast: Lowkey Adulting is a relatable, cosy, and unfiltered podcast about navigating adulthood. From love and friendships to work, mental health, and self-growth, this is the podcast that reminds you nobody has it all figured out (and that’s okay). 📣 Don’t Forget: 👍 Like this video if you relate to the chaos of adulting 🔔 Subscribe + hit the bell to catch new episodes every Monday 🏷️ Tags: life lessons in your 20s,lessons I’ve learned in 22 years,what I’ve learned in my 20s,growing up in your 20s,lessons about adulthood,friendships in your 20s,lessons about friendship,love and relationships advice,healthy relationships in your 20s,boundaries in friendships,mental health in your 20s,self growth podcast,lessons about self love,anxiety in your 20s,self acceptance journey,adulting in your 20s,rejection is redirection,personal growth in your 20s

  • 10 Episodes

About

Welcome to Plot & Bothered, the podcast for readers who finish a book and immediately need to talk about it 📖 I'm Mads, a UK romance author and professional fangirl, diving into the books everyone's obsessing over, the tropes we love (and the ones we'd happily burn), and the hot takes you've been too scared to post 💌 Grumpy/sunshine, only one bed, the third act breakup: nothing is safe. Expect honest reviews, trope deep dives, BookTok debates and a peek behind the scenes of writing romance ❤️‍🔥 Pour a cuppa, grab your TBR and get comfy ✨

Information

  • Creator
    Mads Hope
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    10
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Mads Hope
  • Show Website
    Plot & Bothered