The Post-School Podcast with Uncle Nathan

Uncle Nathan
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The Post-School Podcast isn’t here to preach morning routines or sell you a 5-step life plan... Each episode is a raw, unfiltered conversation about navigating your 20s - the pressure to succeed, the messiness of relationships, the trap of social media, and the quiet panic of not having it all figured out. Hosted by Nathan Moss, it’s part reality check, part story, and part reminder that you’re not alone. Expect weekly solo-episodes, guest appearances, community Q&As, life updates and so much more! DM @unclenathanco to submit your questions. Links: https://linktr.ee/unclenathanco

  1. Two Decisions That Will Change Your 20s with James Noakesmith

    11/12/2025

    Two Decisions That Will Change Your 20s with James Noakesmith

    It’s been four years since Noaky last appeared on the podcast, and a lot has changed. From working at Shine with my now boss, Steve Chapman, to playing a key role in brand strategy at Pepsi, James has grown through some huge decisions, a couple breakups, and plenty of moments of honesty. In this episode, we unpack the two decisions that changed his life: honesty (with yourself and others) and investment (in your time, health, and energy). We talk about gut decisions, alignment, delayed gratification, and how to rewrite your 20s with intention, even when it’s uncomfortable. This one dives deep into the realities of growing up, evolving friendships, and balancing structure and freedom in your 20s. 💭 New episodes every Thursday 7am 📩 Submit your next community question via Instagram @unclenathco -- All links (checklist, book pre-save, socials, podcast feeds): 👉 https://linktr.ee/unclenathanco DM me with your questions! IG: @unclenathanco If this helped, send it to a friend! -- CHAPTERS 00:00 – Reuniting with James after 4 years 00:44 – The two most impactful decisions in life 01:15 – Decision #1: Honesty with yourself 03:10 – Learning to be honest about who you are 05:00 – Following your gut vs logic and emotion 07:00 – When your gut knows before your mind does 08:00 – Decision #2: Investing in yourself and your life 09:20 – Viewing life decisions like investments 11:00 – Compounding habits and delayed gratification 13:40 – Building discipline and staying consistent 16:00 – Avoiding burnout: when investment becomes obsession 18:10 – Balancing heart, logic, and fear when making changes 20:00 – Outsourcing thoughts vs trusting your gut 22:30 – Avoiding confirmation bias when seeking advice 24:40 – The “30-second rule” for feeling emotions 26:30 – Learning to self-regulate and sit with thoughts 29:10 – The power of changing your stimulus 31:00 – Figuring out your 20s: lessons so far 33:00 – Pivotal breakups, growth, and perspective shifts 36:00 – How heartbreak shaped honesty and alignment 39:00 – Redefining goals in your mid-20s 41:30 – Why goals should be based on feelings, not outcomes 43:10 – The shift from external success to internal alignment 45:10 – Freedom vs structure: finding the right balance 48:00 – Prioritising peace and rewriting your own life path 50:00 – Investing in yourself before anyone else 52:00 – The “100% rule” in friendships and relationships 54:40 – Wrapping up: honesty, investment, and living aligned #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #LifeAdvice #genzpodcast

    56 min
  2. Imposter Syndrome in Your 20s (Do This Instead)

    11/05/2025

    Imposter Syndrome in Your 20s (Do This Instead)

    You finally get the win… then your brain whispers “you don’t belong here.” In this episode I break down why imposter syndrome hits hardest in your 20s, how social media warps your self-image, and a simple playbook to act with confidence before you feel ready. We’ll cover reframes, evidence stacking, and a quick test to tell humility from self-sabotage - plus a community Q&A at the end. You’ll learn: ✅ Why imposter syndrome = proof you’re growing ✅ How to stop comparing your Year 2 to someone else’s Year 10 ✅ “Confidence follows competency” (and how to build both) ✅ A 4-step toolkit: reframe, stop the comparison, collect evidence, talk it out If this helped, drop a comment, share it with a friend who’s doubting themselves, and hit that subscribe button! 💭 New episodes every Thursday 7am 📩 Submit your next community question via Instagram @unclenathco -- All links (checklist, book pre-save, socials, podcast feeds): 👉 https://linktr.ee/unclenathanco DM me with your questions! IG: @unclenathanco If this helped, send it to a friend! -- Chapters 00:00 – The moment success triggers self-doubt 01:01 – Imposter syndrome = internal vs external gap (+ social media effect) 01:45 – “Smart topics” trap: politics, money, global affairs 03:09 – Early Uncle Nathan days & feeling unqualified 03:48 – Reframe: no one is ever fully ready (growth requires discomfort) 05:01 – Trust your opinion: why the ask itself is evidence 05:45 – Relationships & work: responsibility means you’re ready enough 06:23 – Your 20s = one long identity crisis (confidence after competency) 08:04 – “Fake it till you make it” (without being a fraud) 08:28 – My book story: loud vs worthy, conviction over volume 10:59 – Don’t wait for doubt to disappear—move anyway 11:14 – Practical toolkit: reframe, stop comparing, collect proof, talk about it 13:55 – Community Q&A: humble or self-sabotaging? 15:27 – You’re not a fraud: start, learn, adjust, repeat #impostersyndrome #lifeinyour20s #confidencebuilding #mentalhealth

    16 min
  3. Why you feel so LONELY in your 20s

    10/29/2025

    Why you feel so LONELY in your 20s

    We’ve turned “independence” into an aesthetic - solo dinners, glow-up routines, “protect your peace.” But if we’re so independent, why do so many of us feel lonely multiple times a week? In this episode I unpack how independence ≠ isolation, why modern dating feels broken, how “boundaries” sometimes become walls, and the practical shifts to rebuild real connection - without losing yourself. 💭 New episodes every Thursday 7am 📩 Submit your next community question via Instagram @unclenathco -- All links (checklist, book pre-save, socials, podcast feeds): 👉 https://linktr.ee/unclenathanco DM me with your questions! IG: @unclenathanco If this helped, send it to a friend! -- Chapters 00:00 – The independence lie & loneliness poll 01:25 – Independence ≠ isolation: connection needs vulnerability 03:50 – Boundaries vs walls + why pain is part of love 05:45 – When did you last let someone in? Fear & self-sabotage 07:38 – Redefining independence without shutting people out 09:39 – Dating culture is broken (AU): expectations vs reality 12:20 – Single by choice… or by fear? Rejection & resilience 15:05 – Healing vs hiding: you can’t heal what you won’t face 17:05 – Practical playbook: stop performing, kintsugi, ask for help 19:15 – Redefine independence & reconnect offline 20:31 – Community Q&A: being single without feeling lonely 23:35 – Closing riff: take the risk to earn connection 26:40 – Life update: Hyro, the book, what’s next 28:31 – Outro & how to submit next week’s question #lonely #growingup #lifeishard #independence

    29 min
  4. Solo Ep 7 - Starting over in your 20s

    10/22/2025

    Solo Ep 7 - Starting over in your 20s

    12 months ago, I was living what looked like the dream — Bali villa, girlfriend, dogs, freedom, and money. But it didn’t feel like me anymore. So I blew it all up and started from zero. In this episode, I share what it’s really like to rebuild your life in your 20s — how to know when it’s time for a change, why starting over doesn’t mean failure, and the exact steps I used to reset from scratch. We’ll talk values, alignment, and how to design a life that actually feels good, not just looks good. 💭 New episodes every Thursday 7am 📩 Submit your next community question via Instagram @unclenathco -- All links (checklist, book pre-save, socials, podcast feeds): 👉 https://linktr.ee/unclenathanco DM me with your questions! IG: @unclenathanco If this helped, send it to a friend! -- Chapters 00:00 – Why I Blew Up My “Dream Life” in Bali 01:45 – The Digital Nomad Life That Looked Perfect 04:30 – When Success Doesn’t Feel Like Success 06:40 – Choosing Between What Looks Good and What Feels Right 09:20 – Why It’s Okay to Start Again in Your 20s 11:45 – Signs It’s Time to Change or Reset 15:00 – Feeling Stuck and Disconnected from Yourself 17:40 – Step 1: Define Your Core Values 19:40 – Step 2: Run a 30-Day Life Experiment 21:10 – Step 3: Build a Financial Safety Net 22:40 – Step 4: Let Go of Your Old Self 24:00 – Step 5: Design Your Future and Build New Habits 25:50 – You’re Never Too Deep to Start Over 27:10 – Community Question + Life Update #lifeinyour20s #startingoveragain #lifereset #lifedecisions

    29 min
  5. Solo Ep 6 - How to get RICH in your 20s

    10/15/2025

    Solo Ep 6 - How to get RICH in your 20s

    Money in your 20s isn’t about getting rich fast. It’s about building a simple system that lets you enjoy life now and invest for future you. In this solo episode I break down my automated buckets — fixed expenses, a More Life fund, an emergency fund, and investing — plus the 5-phase roadmap I’m using to hit semi-retirement by 35. We cover earning potential vs penny pinching, balance over extremes, and practical steps you can copy today. New episodes every Thursday 7am. Comment your biggest money challenge and I’ll feature a few next week. -- All links (checklist, book pre-save, socials, podcast feeds):👉 https://linktr.ee/unclenathanco DM me with your questions!IG: @unclenathanco If this helped, send it to a friend! -- Chapters 00:00 Money is an enabler not the goal 01:07 Redefining success after school 03:19 Hemorrhaging vs hoarding money 05:18 Why systems beat willpower 06:26 Balance today’s fun with tomorrow’s goals 08:06 Stop obsessing over coffees focus on earning more 09:14 My money system: fixed expenses → More Life → emergency → investing 13:02 Automations tracking and the 70/30 everyday split 15:05 Goals and 10-year plan mindset 16:23 Phase 1: capital stacking and skills mastery 17:44 Phase 2: first investment property and scaling 20:05 Phase 3: portfolio growth and compounding 21:08 Phase 4: shift to safer passive scaling 22:00 Phase 5: semi-retire at 35 and live off assets 24:31 Why starting now matters more than perfection 25:41 Actionable takeaways: build a system stack skills balance passions 31:15 Community Q: the best investment in your 20s 33:21 Closing ideas on exploration and systems 34:44 Life update: book progress, new role at Drink Hyro 36:16 Outro and call for your money stories #lifeinyour20s #personalfinancetips #moneymanagement #youngandrich

    37 min
  6. Solo Ep 5 - Learning to live with grief after loss

    10/08/2025

    Solo Ep 5 - Learning to live with grief after loss

    This one’s raw. I open up about losing my Bali puppies, Luna and Olive + what grief did to my head, and why you don’t “move on” but instead, learn to live with it. We talk identity shifts, the pressure to be “strong,” and the exact tools that helped me get through the worst days (the 30-second rule, circuit breakers, and tackling the scary “firsts”). Community Q: how to live with regret after loss. If this episode brings anything up for you, please reach out to someone you trust or Lifeline (13 11 14 in Aus). Chapters00:00:00 — Why this episode matters 00:02:36 — Losing Luna: my first real grief 00:11:02 — Olive: love, loss, and letting go 00:20:23 — How grief reshapes who you are 00:25:35 — What helped: feeling it, routine, and firsts 00:29:07 — Q&A: living with regret + final thoughtsAll links (checklist, book pre-save, socials, podcast feeds):👉 https://linktr.ee/unclenathancoDM me with your questions!IG: @unclenathancoIf this helped, send it to a friend!

    36 min
  7. Solo Ep 4 - Are You Really Falling Behind in Your 20s?

    10/01/2025

    Solo Ep 4 - Are You Really Falling Behind in Your 20s?

    In your 20s, it feels like everyone else is miles ahead - getting married, buying houses, landing dream jobs - while you’re still piecing things together. This episode breaks down the pressure to “have it all figured out,” why that expectation is flawed, and how to reframe your 20s as a time for growth, mistakes, and progress over perfection. I share personal stories (like moving back in with my parents after Bali), unpack the trap of social media comparison, and offer simple reframes to stop feeling “behind.” Community Question: “How can I stop comparing myself to my friends?” If you’ve ever felt stuck, behind, or lost, you’ll want to hear this one.Chapters 00:00 – Revamping the studio & today’s topic 02:00 – The pressure to “have it all figured out” 06:00 – Checkpoints, milestones & the myth of timelines 12:00 – Social media and the comparison trap 18:00 – Progress over perfection (practical reframes) 24:00 – Community Q: How do I stop comparing myself? 29:30 – Book update & outroAll links (checklist, book pre-save, socials, podcast feeds):👉 https://linktr.ee/unclenathancoDM me with your questions!IG: @unclenathancoIf this helped, send it to a friend!

    32 min
  8. Solo Ep 3 - The TRUTH About Living in Bali

    09/24/2025

    Solo Ep 3 - The TRUTH About Living in Bali

    Everyone online makes Bali look like a dream: coconuts, pool villas, working two hours a day from a laptop. I lived it for 2.5 years — and while parts of it were incredible, the reality is way more complicated. In this episode, I break down what life as a digital nomad in Bali is really like. The freedom, the hidden costs, the loneliness, the constant pressure to “live the dream”… and why it didn’t fully click for me. If you’ve ever thought about moving overseas, this one’s for you.Chapters: 00:00 – The dream vs. the reality of Bali life 05:50 – The hidden costs of being a digital nomad 10:00 – Building a routine from scratch overseas 15:00 – Loneliness, distractions & why Bali didn’t click 20:40 – Practical takeaways & community Q&AAll links (checklist, book pre-save, socials, podcast feeds):👉 https://linktr.ee/unclenathancoDM me with your questions!IG: @unclenathancoIf this helped, send it to a friend who's thinking about moving out!

    26 min
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The Post-School Podcast isn’t here to preach morning routines or sell you a 5-step life plan... Each episode is a raw, unfiltered conversation about navigating your 20s - the pressure to succeed, the messiness of relationships, the trap of social media, and the quiet panic of not having it all figured out. Hosted by Nathan Moss, it’s part reality check, part story, and part reminder that you’re not alone. Expect weekly solo-episodes, guest appearances, community Q&As, life updates and so much more! DM @unclenathanco to submit your questions. Links: https://linktr.ee/unclenathanco

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