Change the World

Matthew Mcquinley

We discuss a range of issues including leadership , politics, cultural trends and much more in an effort to make the world a better place together

  1. Financial Literacy Nov 17 2025

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    Financial Literacy Nov 17 2025

    According to the OECD Organisation for Economic Cooperation and Development — the group of the 38 wealthiest, most advanced economies on the planet — the numbers we’re about to discuss aren’t just statistics… they’re warning signs. In the United States, household debt has climbed to about 102% of net disposable income. The average American now carries roughly US$22,000 in personal, non-mortgage debt, and the typical mortgage has risen to around US$155,000. But here in Australia, the situation is dramatically more severe. Australia now ranks as the third most indebted nation in the developed world, with household debt sitting at over 210% of net disposable income. Only Norway and Switzerland sit higher. The average Australian mortgage has surged past $620,000, and the average personal debt— excluding home loans — is around $46,000. These numbers aren’t abstract. They’re not theoretical. They translate into real families, lying awake at night, staring at the ceiling, wondering how they’re going to keep their heads above water. And yet, despite the scale of these pressures, something shocked me deeply when I first arrived in Australia. It wasn’t just the level of debt. It was the lack of understanding about personal finances — even among business owners. Good people. Hardworking people. People trying their best. As a business coach and life coach, I would ask business owners the simplest question: “Are you profitable?” And I would get answers like: “Yeah, of course — I’ve got money in the bank.” Or, “No, I’m not — I don’t have any money left.” But profit has almost nothing to do with how much cash happens to be in your account today. A business can have stacks of money in the bank, yet be insolvent because they’re drowning in unpaid tax bills, supplier invoices, payroll obligations, or loan repayments that haven’t been accounted for. Likewise, a business might have barely any cash at all — but be profitable — because their real value is sitting in receivables, recent sales that haven’t cleared yet, or inventory waiting to be sold. Some business owners weren’t unprofitable… They were simply bad at cash-flow management. Others weren’t failing… They were just overstocked, or waiting for payments they’d already earned. Yet they judged their entire success or failure on a temporary bank balance — not the actual health of the business. Where I grew up, we learned financial literacy early — in school, in youth programs, even in Boy Scouts. Budgeting, saving, understanding expenses, knowing where your money goes. Today, I don’t see that same level of financial education. And while Australia’s “she’ll be right” spirit brings optimism and balance… in the area of money, it can quietly destroy people. Because the truth is: Financial stress doesn’t just empty your bank account — it empties your hope. It strains marriages. It fuels domestic violence. It drives substance abuse. It causes mental illness. It leads to crime. It breaks families apart. Yet all of these problems can be prevented — or softened — when people have the knowledge, confidence, and clarity to take control of their financial lives. And that’s why today, on this program, we’re having this conversation. Because financial literacy isn’t just about dollars. It’s about dignity. It’s about stability. It’s about giving people — and this country — a fighting chance Medalid Blanco Nieto is someone who has over 25 years in the corporate sector has a degree in electrical engineering but has completely shifted her focus to committing herself to helping Australians with financial literacy and helping them improve their lives in ways that ultimately go far beyond the dollars and cents .

    44 min
  2. How to break free from the patterns , fears , and beliefs that hold us back Nov 10 2025

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    How to break free from the patterns , fears , and beliefs that hold us back Nov 10 2025

    Theodore Roosevelt who, my second son is named after said The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again... who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly" The great Chinese warrior philiosopher In the Art of War said “If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.” more recently Mahatma Gandhi said Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” — My guest today is a man devoted to fusing these ancient truths with modern purpose — the lessons of Roosevelt’s courage, Gandhi’s integrity, and Sun Tzu’s discipline. He reminds us that the struggle itself shapes our strength, that self-knowledge is the first victory, and that the greatest power comes from living boldly by our values. Today, we’re diving into a topic that affects every one of us — how to break free from the patterns, fears, and beliefs that hold us back… and how to step into the confident, fulfilled version of ourselves that we were meant to be. My guest today knows that transformation firsthand. For over 40 years, Kornelis Berkelaar worked in the construction and business world — managing teams, leading franchises, and facing the everyday challenges of business ownership. But what truly sets him apart is the journey that came next: a shift from building structures to building people. He’s now a professional coach and NLP practitioner, certified through the International Coaching Institute in Melbourne, helping business owners, leaders, and everyday people heal from unhelpful patterns, overcome phobias, and rediscover their purpose. Through programs like “Ultimate You,” “Disruptive Leadership,” and Strategic Success, Kor Neal is Berkelaar empowers others to align with their core values, master their emotions, and create the confidence and clarity to chase their biggest goals. Today, we’ll talk about the science and soul of transformation — how to rewire your thinking, heal from what’s holding you back, and live with the kind of confidence that changes not just your business, but your entire life.

    56 min
  3. How mental health issues effect our communities/ workplaces and more and what can be done 10/20/25

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    How mental health issues effect our communities/ workplaces and more and what can be done 10/20/25

    Today families and indeed entire communities face a mix of challenges with substance use, gambling, psychosocial stressors and suicide risk that are quietly eroding safety, productivity and wellbeing across both Australia and the U.S. In Australia, work-related mental-health conditions now account for roughly 9 per cent of all serious workers’ compensation claims, and the downtime for each of those claims is dramatically higher than for physical injuries. On the gambling front: Australians lose in excess of A$ 30 billion annually to gambling losses alone, and many of the harms experienced go far beyond money — including serious mental distress, relationship breakdowns, job loss and increased suicide risk. Speaking of suicide: One Australian study estimated the economic cost of suicide and non-fatal suicide behaviour in the workforce in one year at around A$ 6.7 billion — that’s productivity loss, incapacity, workplace disruption. In the United States: The costs linked to substance use, mental-health breakdowns, suicide and their ripple effects on workplaces are estimated between 300-500 billion USD per year. So this isn’t just a personal health issue — it’s workplace risk, business exposure, a cultural challenge. It’s about companies that may look compliant on paper but are exposed to silent risks; it’s about employees and their families who may be grappling with gambling debts, stress, addiction or suicidal ideation behind closed doors; and it’s about communities paying the price in reduced productivity, broken relationships and social costs. One person who has made his mission to try to help with these issues is Mario McDonagh who is a speaker , author , and the managing director of the STAH Group — that helps workplaces , and individuals caught in the cross-fire.

    42 min
  4. Building strong family relationships sept 29 2025

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    Building strong family relationships sept 29 2025

    It is hard to argue that the bedrock of society is the nuclear family. It is in the home that values are first learned, that work ethic is shaped, and that loyalty to a community is born. At the centre of that home lies the relationship between the married or partnered couple — the rock on which everything else rests. But in the past century, especially in the West, this foundation has been steadily eroded. In the 1960s, divorce rates in Australia and the United States hovered around 10%. Today, nearly half of marriages end in divorce. That’s not just a statistic — it’s a human reality. Behind every number are children learning to navigate life without stability, partners struggling with loneliness, and communities dealing with the ripple effects. The research is sobering. Studies from the American Journal of Sociology show that children from intact families are far less likely to experience poverty, substance abuse, and incarceration. A report from the Australian Institute of Family Studies found that children of divorce are twice as likely to develop mental health struggles. And economists have calculated that family breakdown costs Australia billions each year in lost productivity, health care, and social services. But beyond numbers, think of the emotional toll. A child lying awake at night, listening to arguments through the wall. A mother or father quietly grieving the loss of trust and companionship. Generations carrying forward wounds they never asked for. When the couple’s relationship falters, it doesn’t just break two hearts — it shakes the foundation of a whole family, and through it, society itself. And yet, there is hope. Research from relationship pioneers like John Gottman shows that with the right tools, commitment, and guidance, couples can rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and pass on resilience to their children. Strong couples make strong families. Strong families make strong communities. And strong communities make strong nations. So today, let’s talk about what it takes to restore that foundation — not just for ourselves, but for generations to come. Our guest today is someone who is focused on helping in this quest Dr. Stefan Neszpor, FRCPC, CC, CGP is a consultant psychiatrist and psychotherapist specialising in couples therapy. With training in psychiatry, play therapy, family systems, NLP, and psychobiological approaches, he blends neurobiology, attachment science, and experiential methods to help people heal, strengthen relationships, and build resilience in life and love.

    54 min
  5. Overcoming a stroke Oct 13 2025

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    Overcoming a stroke Oct 13 2025

    Every year in Australia, nearly 45,800 people experience a stroke — that’s one every 11 minutes. Across the country, almost half a million Australians are living with the aftermath of stroke — survivors navigating recovery, relearning, and rebuilding their lives. In the United States, the scale is even greater. More than 795,000 Americans suffer a stroke each year, and about 7.8 million adults report having had one in their lifetime. Stroke remains one of the leading causes of long-term disability in both nations. Meanwhile, another battle is unfolding quietly — the battle with body weight. In Australia, 65.8% of adults live with overweight or obesity, and 31.7% are classified as obese. That’s millions facing chronic health risks, fatigue, and the emotional toll of struggling with their bodies. In the U.S., the numbers are even higher. More than 40% of adults — over 100 million Americans — are obese, and when you include those who are overweight, the figure climbs far higher. The costs — physical, financial, and emotional — ripple through every community. And for many, the fight is against darkness itself. Around 453,000 Australians are blind or live with low vision, and that number is expected to reach 564,000 by 2030. In the United States, an estimated 7 million Americans live with vision impairment or blindness, including 1 million who are completely blind. But behind every one of these statistics — every number — there’s a story. A mother learning to speak again after a stroke. A man rebuilding his confidence after losing his sight. A young woman finding courage to reclaim her health. And the common thread that runs through every story of survival, every comeback, is resilience. Resilience is not just about bouncing back. It’s about building forward — stronger, wiser, and more determined than before. It’s about choosing your mindset when you can’t choose your circumstances. As Viktor Frankl Nobel peace prize nominee , author of man’s search for meaning , Holocaust survivor and psychiatrist, once said: “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” That’s what mindset does. It transforms pain into purpose. It turns setbacks into stepping stones. It helps us see possibility when everything around us seems impossible. Whether we’re facing physical limitations, emotional hardship, or the loss of what once defined us — mindset is the one thing we can always control. One person who has dealt with obesity, a stroke, and Blindness, and Who has committed himself to helping others through these challenges and other similar challenges joins us here today Phil Charlton there’s a speaker author, transformational coach and eX Air Force medic and officer and he joins us here today

    48 min
  6. Navigating separation Aug 11 2025

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    Navigating separation Aug 11 2025

    When we include de facto partnerships, the Australian Institute of Family Studies estimates that around 50% of all relationships—marriages and de facto unions—end in separation, with 60,000 to 70,000 couples parting ways each year. About 50% of these involve children under 18, impacting roughly 50,000 children annually. But can we prevent these splits before they happen? Before marriage or partnering, steps like premarital counselling, open financial discussions, and aligning on life goals can build a stronger foundation. During a relationship, regular communication, conflict resolution skills, and seeking couples therapy early can keep things on track. And if separation is unavoidable, how do we make it as painless and amicable as possible? Mediation, co-parenting plans, and respectful communication can ease the emotional and financial strain—starting at $10,000 for even a ‘cheap’ divorce. From the economic and social toll on families to the impact on kids and communities, we’ll share some ideas on why relationships might fail, maybe how to prevent it, and how to navigate a split smoothly if it happens. Our guest today is . Kerry Kovacs is someone who has asked herself some of these questions and others and committed herself to helping out with some of these issues . She has over 24 years of expertise in family law as a Special Counsel at Clarke Hemmerling Lawyers in Adelaide. She is a former barrister at the South Australian Bar , Kerry is focused on navigating the complexities of divorce, child custody, and property settlements with compassion while securing the best outcomes for families, and hopefully resolving those disputes outside the courtroom during some of her clients toughest moments . We are lucky enough to have her share some of her insights today.

    51 min
  7. Families Surviving Cancer Sept 15 2025

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    Families Surviving Cancer Sept 15 2025

    Worldwide, more than 460,000 new cases of leukaemia are diagnosed each year. In the United States, that number is over 28,000. In Australia, in 2022 alone, over 5,200 people were diagnosed with leukaemia — roughly 60% male and 40% female. More than 2,100 of those Australians lost their lives. Yet there is hope. In Australia, the five-year survival rate for leukaemia is about 64%. For children in countries like Australia and the U.S., survival can be as high as 85%. These numbers remind us that progress is being made — but the fight is far from over. Because behind these statistics are real people facing unimaginable challenges. Patients endure aggressive treatments — chemotherapy, radiation, stem cell transplants — that drain their energy and leave them vulnerable to infections. Many spend weeks or months isolated in hospital rooms, far from friends and family. And it’s not just physical. The emotional toll is immense: ​ the fear of relapse,​ the anxiety about the future,​ the struggle to hold onto identity when one’s appearance and energy are stripped away. Families, too, carry the burden — parents juggling work and hospital visits, children missing school, loved ones living with constant uncertainty. And of course, there is the financial strain. In the U.S., treatment costs over three years often run between $200,000 and $800,000. In fact, a recent study showed the estimated lifetime cost per patient to be over $140,000 across eight years of treatment. In Australia, the numbers are far lower — still, the average cost is approximately $34,000 in the first year after diagnosis, and around $9,000 annually in the years that follow if things go well. But if the disease is terminal, the final year of life can see costs balloon to $50,000 per person. When you combine that with lost income and the long road of survivorship with its ongoing health complications, you can see the true weight of this disease. Leukaemia is not just a disease of the blood. It’s a test of resilience — for patients, for families, and for entire communities. One person who has made it his mission to help people struggling with these issues, particularly men, joins us here today. David McGregor is the Founder and CEO of My Mindset Magic — and he joins us now.

    36 min

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We discuss a range of issues including leadership , politics, cultural trends and much more in an effort to make the world a better place together