Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

  1. 10h ago

    Nipplegasm: How to Have an Orgasm From Nipple Play

    Send us Fan Mail Yes, nipple orgasms are real, and you can learn to have one. This week I'm breaking down the nipplegasm: a full orgasm, felt in the g******s, that starts entirely from nipple play. I had my first one through my own self-pleasure practice, so everything here comes from real experience plus the research. No gear required to start, and it works on any body with nipples. In this episode, I break down: What a nipplegasm actually is, and the brain science that makes it possibleThe step-by-step: setting the mood, warming up, and massaging the breasts rightHow to touch a nipple like a c**t, circling, rolling, tapping, and moreThe training method I used to teach my body to climax from nipple play aloneThe toys that make it easier, from hands-free suckers to suction toysWhy it's okay if nipple play isn't for youBy the end, you'll know exactly how to have, or give, a nipplegasm, and have a whole new way to orgasm in your toolkit. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guide, plus every toy and discount code I mention? Read it here:  💦 How to Have a Nipple Orgasm (The Full Guide) More from my clitoral pleasure set:  💦 20 Ways to Touch a C**t 💦 How to Touch Her Breasts My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Nipplegasm: How to Have an Orgasm From Nipple Play

  2. 5d ago

    How to Build a Dom/Sub Dynamic Into Everyday Life (No Cuffs Required)

    Send us Fan Mail Most people think dominance and submission means a dungeon full of gear, and they never get past the shopping list. This week I'm showing you the part that actually builds the heat. This is a foundational episode with power-exchange couple Auntie Carmen, the Desire Midwife, and her dom Linwood, the "dom domestic" who cooks, runs the house, and hands the power right back to her. You almost never get both halves of a real D/S couple in one room being this honest, and they hold nothing back (there's a zucchini story you won't forget). In this episode, I break down: Why the feeling you're chasing matters way more than the gear, and how to name itHow to figure out what you actually want, even if you always say "I don't know"The everyday rituals that keep the dynamic running all day long, no toys requiredDominance through service, and how to flip who's in chargeWhy this is the fix for sex that's started to feel like one more jobThe golden rules: consent, building slow, and never a cold spankBy the end, you'll have a real on-ramp into power exchange instead of a scary idea you never act on, and it's landing just in time for Kinktober. Want to see the full conversation? The video version is on my website, and you can grab every toy, lube, and discount code I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Guest: Auntie Carmen, the Desire Midwife, Find her at: https://shameproofyourdesires.com/ Insta: @shameproofyourdesires. The Masterclass: https://midcenturymischief.com/ Sign up for my e-newsletter here:https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guides? Read them here: 🔥 How to Build a Dom/Sub Dynamic Into Everyday Life (The Full Guide)Catch ALL my videos at Talksexwithannette.com and  Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    How to Build a Dom/Sub Dynamic Into Everyday Life (No Cuffs Required)

  3. 6d ago

    20 Ways to Touch a C**t (& The One That Matters Most!)

    Send us Fan Mail Most people know exactly one way to touch a c**t, and they run it into the ground. This week I'm giving you twenty. This is the third in my clitoral pleasure set, right alongside my fingering guide and my yoni massage guide, and now that I'm off YouTube I get to be completely direct with you. No code, no tiptoeing, just the real, explicit how-to, from the softest warm-up all the way to the finish. In this episode, I break down: The indirect moves that get her off without ever touching the c**t directly, including how to do it through her clothesThe direct strokes worth knowing by name: orbiting, broadening, the Hail Mary, tapping, grinding, rolling, and accentingThe one skill that separates a partner she tolerates from one she can't stop thinking aboutThe lubes and toys I actually recommend, and where a good vibrator changes the gameHow to read her and stage every touch so she finishes, instead of hammering one move and hopingBy the end, you'll have a full toolkit instead of the one move you've been repeating, and you'll know how to give her the kind of orgasm she reschedules her whole week for. Want to see these demonstrated? The visual version of this episode is on my website, and I demo several of them live over on my OnlyFans. Grab my discount codes and every lube and toy I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guides? Read them here: 💦 20 Ways to Touch a C**t (The Full Guide)💦 How to Finger Her (The Fingering Guide)💦 My OFMy YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    20 Ways to Touch a C**t (& The One That Matters Most!)

  4. Sep 23

    Cocks on Lockdown: How to Do Locktober (with Dominatrix Lucy)

    Send us Fan Mail Curious about male chastity but have no idea where to start? This one's your guide. My resident dominatrix Lucy is back, and for the first time she's on camera showing the gear, to walk us through Locktober: the month-long challenge of keeping a c**k locked up. We get into what male chastity actually is, why people love it (more affection, more anticipation, and yes, more chores getting done), and the part most people rush: how to choose a cage that actually fits without hurting anyone. Lucy breaks down the different cage types, the safety rules that are non-negotiable, keeping a key accessible, building up wear time slowly, watching for warning signs, and all the playful ways to keep both partners satisfied for a full month, from sheaths to teasing to handing over control for the day. Whether you're cage-curious or ready to lock up for the whole month, you'll leave this episode knowing how to do Locktober safely and actually enjoy it. In this episode: What male chastity is and why couples try itHow to choose a c**k cage that fits (and why fit is a safety issue)Cage materials, from beginner plastic to surgical steelThe safety rules you don't skipWhat to do all month besides waitHow to start if you're brand newWatch the full episode and read the complete guide at talksexwithannette.com.  Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/locktober-male-chastity/ Want the full video and written guides? Read them here: 🔒 How to Try Male Chastity (The Full Guide): https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/how-to-try-male-chastity/🔒 The Male Chastity Buying Guide: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/male-chastity-buying-guide/🔒The benefits of Male Chastity with Lilith: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/benefits-of-male-chastity/My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Cocks on Lockdown: How to Do Locktober (with Dominatrix Lucy)

  5. Sep 21

    Male Chastity 101: Can You Handle the Cage? (Locktober)

    Send us Fan Mail What if the hottest thing he could do for you was not come? That's the whole dare of Locktober, and this week I'm walking you through male chastity from the ground up. It's one of the most misunderstood kinks out there, and also one of the most magnetic, because when you stop treating his orgasm as the finish line, sex turns into a shared playground and a whole lot of couples say they've never felt closer or more connected. This one's for the curious on both sides of the lock: the person thinking about wearing the cage, and the one who wants to hold the key. In this episode, I break down: What chastity actually is, and why it's erotic power exchange, not punishmentThe science of staying turned on: why denial keeps desire high instead of killing itHow to start safely, from mental chastity to your first cage, without hurting anything importantHow key holders (usually the women) make it hotter, and why so many say it's the first time they felt truly prioritizedHow to run a full Locktober, or just a weekend, your wayBy the end, you'll know exactly how to try this without freaking out or messing it up, whether you want one night or all thirty days. Want the cage sizing and buying guide? It's in my e-newsletter, along with my discount codes and every link you need. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. In fact, I'll be holding the key to it. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guides? Read them here: 🔒 How to Try Male Chastity (The Full Guide): https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/how-to-try-male-chastity/🔒 How to Do Locktober: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/locktober-male-chastity/🔒 The Male Chastity Buying Guide: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/male-chastity-buying-guide/🔒The benefits of Male Chastity with Lilith: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/benefits-of-male-chastity/My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Male Chastity 101: Can You Handle the Cage? (Locktober)

  6. Sep 16

    One of You Wants Sex. One of You Doesn't. Here's How to Fix It

    Send us Fan Mail One of you wants sex. One of you doesn't. And somewhere along the way, that gap stopped being a difference and turned into a fight you keep having with your clothes on. Here's what nobody tells you: the gap was never the problem. It's the two stories you each start telling — one of you hears "you don't want me anymore," the other hears "you only want me for sex and you don't see everything I'm carrying." Both of you feel powerless. Both of you decide the other one is what's broken. This week I sit down with Tarah and EJ Kerwin — a married couple, both licensed therapists, and co-founders of Relationship Renovation. They're living proof this is survivable: two people with all the clinical tools in the world who still spent the better part of a decade finding their way back to each other after four kids in eighteen months detonated the sex life they used to have. They're not here to tell you how many times a week you should be doing it. They're here to hand you the actual way back. In this episode: Why the fight is never really about frequency — and the quality shift that changes everythingThe two stories high-desire and low-desire partners tell themselves, almost word for wordWhy the low-desire partner secretly holds all the power — and why it feels terrible, not powerfulHow to have the conversation without it turning into a fight (time, place, and the rules that keep it safe)"Safety containers" — how to rebuild touch when sex feels like too muchWhere to start tonight, and how to build back one step at a timeCome as you are, bring your partner if you've got one, and know this: there's a path back to each other if you both want it. 🎧 Find Tarah & EJ at relationshiprenovation.com and on the Relationship Renovation podcast relationshiprenovation.com/podcast.  My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    One of You Wants Sex. One of You Doesn't. Here's How to Fix It

  7. Sep 15

    Pegging For Beginners: A Couple's Guide

    Send us Fan Mail Everybody assumes wanting this says something about who he is. It doesn't. He's got a prostate loaded with nerve endings — his own version of the spot everybody obsesses over in women — and it's been sitting there his whole life while he drove right past it. This week I'm handing you the couple's beginner guide to pegging. It's up 200% among straight couples, and the men brave enough to try it are having some of the deepest, most full-body orgasms of their lives. This one's for both of you — the partner curious about receiving it and too nervous to say so, and the partner who wants to give it and has no clue where to start. In this episode, I break down: Why the prostate is called the male G-spot — and what "hands-free" really meansHow to bring it up so he says yes instead of shutting downThe prep that dissolves the fear nobody says out loudThe warm-up staircase, choosing a harness and first strap-on, the best beginner positions, and aftercare that makes him want to do it againBy the end, you'll go from a partner he'd never dare ask to the one brave enough to give him something most men never get to feel. Grab your discount codes and every toy I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com — my listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guide? Read it here: 🔑 Pegging for Beginners: A Couple's Guide to His Most Intense OrgasmGuide to anal training for beginnersHelp me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Pegging For Beginners: A Couple's Guide

  8. Sep 9

    What a Male Escort Knows About Her Desire That Most Men Don't

    Send us Fan Mail There are things women want in bed they'll never say out loud — not to their husband, not to their boyfriend, not to anyone who actually knows them. But they'll say them to George. Women pay him for his time, but really they're paying for something else: a space safe enough to finally name a desire they've been holding their whole lives. And the thing he does to create that safety? Anyone can learn it. This week I sit down with George Goulburn — a professional male companion who left a 25-year corporate career to do this work, trained in consent, trauma-informed practice, tantra, and kink. He's sat with hundreds of women in the exact moment they finally drop their guard, and he's telling us who they really are, what they actually want, and how to build that same safety in your own bedroom. In this episode: Who really books a male companion (almost everyone has it wrong)The 55-year-old virgin who discovered her body for the first time — and what it taught himWhy women can ask a stranger for what they can't ask a partnerHow to open the door to kink and fantasy without shame or pressureThe "three-minute game" and how to actually speak your desire out loudThree things you can do tonight to get honest about what you both wantBring a pen — and maybe your partner. This one's a jump-off point for the conversation you've been avoiding. 🎧 Find George at georgegoulburn.com and @georgegoulbournofficial on socials. Sign up for my e-newsetter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and Linked in and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    What a Male Escort Knows About Her Desire That Most Men Don't
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

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    Talk Sex with Annette
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    426
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    Explicit
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    © 2026 Talk Sex with Annette
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