Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

  1. 4d ago

    What a Male Escort Knows About Her Desire That Most Men Don't

    Send us Fan Mail There are things women want in bed they'll never say out loud — not to their husband, not to their boyfriend, not to anyone who actually knows them. But they'll say them to George. Women pay him for his time, but really they're paying for something else: a space safe enough to finally name a desire they've been holding their whole lives. And the thing he does to create that safety? Anyone can learn it. This week I sit down with George Goulburn — a professional male companion who left a 25-year corporate career to do this work, trained in consent, trauma-informed practice, tantra, and kink. He's sat with hundreds of women in the exact moment they finally drop their guard, and he's telling us who they really are, what they actually want, and how to build that same safety in your own bedroom. In this episode: Who really books a male companion (almost everyone has it wrong)The 55-year-old virgin who discovered her body for the first time — and what it taught himWhy women can ask a stranger for what they can't ask a partnerHow to open the door to kink and fantasy without shame or pressureThe "three-minute game" and how to actually speak your desire out loudThree things you can do tonight to get honest about what you both wantBring a pen — and maybe your partner. This one's a jump-off point for the conversation you've been avoiding. 🎧 Find George at georgegoulburn.com and @georgegoulbournofficial on socials. Sign up for my e-newsetter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and Linked in and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Stack My Code ANNETTE15 on Top of Lovehoney's 70% Off Sale Now for 85% Off ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Until September 14 you can stack my code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off on top of Lovehoney's 70% off sale for up to 85% off Use code ANNETTE15 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    What a Male Escort Knows About Her Desire That Most Men Don't

  2. 5d ago

    How to Give Face Sitting So Good She Never Wants to Get Up | The Giver's Masterclass

    Send us Fan Mail Everybody assumes the person on top has all the power. And sure — she's up there, she's on the throne, she's in charge. But the partner flat on his back underneath? He's the reason she wants to climb up there again, and again, and again. This week I'm handing you the giver's masterclass. If your whole plan when someone sits on your face is to hold still and hope, you're wasting the single hottest position you've got access to — because when she's up there, you get better access, a better angle, and every bit of her movement telling you exactly what she wants. You just have to know how to read it. In this episode, I break down: What face sitting (aka queening) actually is — and why so many women finish from it when they can't from regular oralThe real reason underneath is the best seat in the houseMy 5 moves to become unforgettable: setting her up to actually let go, using your whole mouth instead of a jackhammer tongue, letting her grinding be your map, leveling up with your hands and toys, and finishing without quitting earlyThe props and toys that turn a five-minute neck-cramp into an all-night throne experienceWhy eye contact from underneath is the move nobody uses — and the one she'll never forgetBy the end, you'll go from a partner the queen tolerates to the reason she wants to climb on the throne every single night. Grab your discount codes, props, and every toy I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com — my listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsetter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guides? Read them here: 👑 How to Give Face Sitting So Good She Never Wants to Get Up (The Giver's Guide)👑 How to Sit on a Face Like You Mean It (The Guide for the Person on Top)Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and Linked in and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Stack My Code ANNETTE15 on Top of Lovehoney's 70% Off Sale Now for 85% Off ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    How to Give Face Sitting So Good She Never Wants to Get Up | The Giver's Masterclass

  3. Sep 2

    The Scent of a Woman: Everything You Should Know About Her Vagina

    Send us Fan Mail Almost every woman has wondered it in silence: Is my scent normal? Do I taste okay? Is something wrong with me down there? Almost none of us were ever given the information to answer — so we carry the worry straight into the bedroom, where it quietly steals our confidence and our pleasure. This week, we fix that. This is the owner's manual nobody handed you. I sit down with Wendy Strgar — vaginal microbiome health expert, lovologist, and founder of Good Clean Love, the company she started in her own kitchen to solve her own problems. We get into what's actually normal, what's not, and why understanding this body — yours or your partner's — is the foundation for everything good that happens in bed. In this episode: Vulva vs. vagina — what's what, and why the difference mattersWhat a healthy scent and taste actually are (and what an "off" one is telling you)The vaginal microbiome, pH, and why so many women get misdiagnosed for yearsThe clitoral organ system — the 10,000-nerve-ending powerhouse most of us were never taught aboutWhy partners share responsibility for her vaginal healthThree things you can do tonight to get comfortable, informed, and free in bedBring a pen — the takeaways are worth writing down. 🎧 Find Wendy at https://goodcleanlove.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendy.strgar/Substack: https://wendystrgar.substack.com/Get 15% off when you shop Good Clean Love with code ANNETTE. Shop: https://goodcleanlove.com/ANNETTE Subscribe to my e-newsletter Here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 📩 Subscribe on Substack — get every new episode sent straight to your inbox: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ 💋 Want the explicit demos and deeper guides? Find me on OnlyFans — https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Stack My Code ANNETTE15 on Top of Lovehoney's 70% Off Sale Now for 85% Off ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Until September 14 you can stack my code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off on top of Lovehoney's 70% off sale for up to 85% off Use code ANNETTE15 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    The Scent of a Woman: Everything You Should Know About Her Vagina

  4. Sep 1

    Double Penetration: Everything You've Been Too Afraid to Ask

    Send us Fan Mail Sixty percent of people have fantasized about being filled two ways at once — and almost nobody says it out loud. This week, I'm changing that. This is your complete, no-shame beginner's guide to double penetration. I'm breaking down what it actually is, the real anatomy behind why it feels so intense (there's a reason it hits differently than anything else), and why it's just as good for the giving partner as the one receiving. Then I walk you through the whole staircase — how to explore it safely by yourself first, how to bring it into partnered play with one toy, and how to build up to a third person the right way. And I'm finally saying the quiet part out loud: why women are afraid to admit they want this, why men are afraid to bring it up, and why there's absolutely nothing shameful about wanting to feel that full. In this episode: What double penetration is and the anatomy that makes it so intenseWhy the giving partner often loves it as much as the receiverThe safety rules that make or break it — lube, pacing, and the non-negotiablesHow to try it solo first, then with a partner, then with a third personThe shame nobody names — and why this is one of the most common fantasies there isThis is exactly the kind of guide I can finally give you completely now that I'm off YouTube — uncensored, in plain language, no decoding required. Help Me Get My YouTube Channel Back: https://www.buzzsprout.com/admin/1692988/episodes/19715188-help-me-save-talk-sex-with-annette-youtube-took-it-down Products mentioned in this episode (15% off with code ANNETTE15 at lovehoney.com & we-vibe.com): Lovehoney Discover Gel —https://lovehoneyus.sjv.io/n4e92RFirefly Glow Trainer Kit — https://lovehoneyus.sjv.io/enxON1We-Vibe Ditto+ — https://wevibe-north-america.sjv.io/1GMG19Womanizer Blend — https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blendWomanizer Duo Nex— https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-duo-2Womanizer Next Liberty— https://www.womanizer.com/us/next-liberty▶️ Watch the full uncensored video version: https://talksexwithannette.com/double-penetration-guide/ Subscribe Here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 📩 Subscribe on Substack — get every new episode sent straight to your inbox: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ 💋 Want the explicit demos and deeper guides? Find me on OnlyFans — https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Stack My Code ANNETTE15 on Top of Lovehoney's 70% Off Sale Now for 85% Off ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Double Penetration: Everything You've Been Too Afraid to Ask

  5. Aug 28

    Help Me Save Talk Sex With Annette (YouTube Took It Down)

    Send us Fan Mail Thank you for listening. Here are the ways you can help: #1: Boost me on X/Twitter​ I just posted a direct appeal to YouTube. One like, one comment, one repost puts pressure where it counts. If you have your own following on X, a repost in your own words about why free sex education matters carries enormous weight. Tag @TeamYouTube so they see it. Go to the tweet and boost it now: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 #2: Send YouTube your feedback directly Individual feedback from real viewers is what triggers a manual human review. This takes 2 minutes. Open YouTube while signed in Click your profile picture → Send feedback or Report a problem Ask for a manual review and reinstatement of Talk Sex with Annette. Be Sure To Include My YouTube Link included here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_0_oA_nWLLwLGZVsNJ-KSA​ Tell them why this channel mattered to you — your own words carry the most weight Here is a Template if you need one. You can change it and make it your own: "I'm requesting a review of the termination of Annette Benedetti's 'Talk Sex with Annette' channel. This was expert-led, science-based sexual health education — age-restricted, clinically grounded, and consistent with educational guidelines. This channel was an important resource for me and should not have been classified as explicit material. Please review and reinstate it: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_0_oA_nWLLwLGZVsNJ-KSA More options:You can reshare my posts on Instagram, LinkedIn, and FB. You Can Still Watch My VideosThe good news is I SAVED ALL OF MY VIDEOS. I am working as fast as I can to get all of them back up somewhere safe where they can't be taken down. You can now watch all of my episodes on my Website at https://talksexwithannette.com/​ You can also subscribe and watch them on https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ where they will be published and sent directly to your inbox every week. Please subscribe to my E-newsletter so you don't miss a thing: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Any support you give will be greatly appreciated. Stack My Code ANNETTE15 on Top of Lovehoney's 70% Off Sale Now for 85% Off ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Help Me Save Talk Sex With Annette (YouTube Took It Down)

  6. Aug 26

    Surrender: The Secret to Her Best Orgasms (Why She Can't Let Go)

    Send us Fan Mail She holds it all together all day — the job, the kids, the house, everyone’s emotional weather. Then she gets into bed and still can’t stop managing. And orgasm requires the one thing she’s trained herself never to do: let go. This week I sit down with Regina Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, founder of the School of Womanly Arts, New York Times bestselling author of P***y: A Reclamation, and author of the new book On Our Knees. We get into why control quietly costs a woman her pleasure, and why surrender — not submission, not collapse — is the doorway back to her own body. In this episode: Why your nervous system is stuck in “brace mode” — and how pleasure interrupts itThe medicine-cabinet of chemistry your body makes on its own (and how to open it)Why grief and erotic aliveness can live side by side — and heal togetherA live truth-tantrum practice you can do tonightThree ways to start a daily pleasure practice, no matter how “boss babe” your life isThis one got vulnerable. Bring a pen — you’ll want to write the practices down. 🎧 Find Regina at mamagenas.com and @mamagena on Instagram. Get On Our Knees wherever you buy books and on Amazon 📩Check out my video content at https://talksexwithannette.com/ Subscribe to my FREE Substack to receive my video episodes right in your inbox every week: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/  annette@talksexwithannette.com 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Stack My Code ANNETTE15 on Top of Lovehoney's 70% Off Sale Now for 85% Off ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Until September 14 you can stack my code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off on top of Lovehoney's 70% off sale for up to 85% off Use code ANNETTE15 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Surrender: The Secret to Her Best Orgasms (Why She Can't Let Go)

  7. Aug 25

    5 Things Men Are Told About Sex That Are Killing Her Desire

    Send us Fan Mail There's an entire ocean of online content teaching men about sex and women — and a huge amount of it is written by people who have no idea what they're talking about. Today I'm grading five pieces of the worst advice men are being fed, and giving you what actually works instead. Savage on the advice. Kind to the men who got fed it. What you'll learn:  ✔ Why "make her chase you" builds anxiety, not attraction  ✔ The size-and-pounding myth, and the anatomy fact that dismantles it  ✔ The lab study that proves women aren't "slower" — and what to do with those 10 minutes  ✔ The grain of truth in "alpha" advice — and the part that's dangerously wrong 📩Check out my video content at https://talksexwithannette.com/ Subscribe to my FREE Substack to receive my video episodes right in your inbox every week: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/  annette@talksexwithannette.com 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Stack My Code ANNETTE15 on Top of Lovehoney's 70% Off Sale Now for 85% Off ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    5 Things Men Are Told About Sex That Are Killing Her Desire

  8. Aug 19

    C**k Worship: The Bedroom Move That's Hot for BOTH of You

    Send us Fan Mail Everybody knows men want to be worshipped in bed. That's not news. The real question — the one nobody asks — is what's in it for the person doing the worshipping. Because done right, c**k worship isn't a favor. It isn't service with a fake smile. It's one of the hottest things you can do for your own pleasure — slow, powerful, deeply erotic, and the giver holds all the control. Elle and Vee from Girls Gone Deep join me to break it all down: what phallus worship actually is, why it feels incredible on both sides, the healing it offers men carrying shame about their bodies, and then the full step-by-step how-to — setup, touch, the words, c**k warming, aftercare — everything you need to try it tonight. In this episode: Why worship is completely different from regular oral (and why that's the point)What's actually in it for the giver — pleasure, power, and connectionHow it heals shame around size, ED, and performanceThe exact step-by-step: setup, touch techniques, c**k warming, and how to endHow to bring it up with your partner tonight🔗 Find Elle & Vee: https://www.girlsgonedeep.com/ 🎙️ Connect with Me ✨ Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Watch The Video Version of This episode on Substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 📩 annette@talksexwithannette.com 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Stack My Code ANNETTE15 on Top of Lovehoney's 70% Off Sale Now for 85% Off ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Until September 14 you can stack my code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off on top of Lovehoney's 70% off sale for up to 85% off Use code ANNETTE15 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/lovehoney Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    C**k Worship: The Bedroom Move That's Hot for BOTH of You
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

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    Talk Sex with Annette
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    419
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    © 2026 Talk Sex with Annette
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