Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

  1. 5 Things That Actually Make Her Sexually Attracted to You

    23H AGO

    5 Things That Actually Make Her Sexually Attracted to You

    Send a text Most advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong. This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing.  It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real moments, and real connection. In this episode, I break down five specific things that reliably make women feel sexually attracted, based on psychology, nervous-system science, and what women consistently respond to — not what dating culture thinks they should. You’ll learn: Why attraction dies when desire gets turned into hesitationHow to express interest in a way that feels confident and safeWhat overstaying the moment does to desire (and why less really is more)How presence, timing, and responsiveness matter more than performanceWhy attraction isn’t about convincing someone — it’s about how you show upThese aren’t manipulation tactics.  They’re behavioral shifts that create clarity, tension, and genuine pull — without pressure, games, or crossing boundaries. If you’ve ever wondered why things start strong but lose heat,  or why connection doesn’t always turn into desire,  this episode will change how you understand attraction — and how you move inside it. 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off!  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    17 min
  2. What Women Really Say About Sex

    6D AGO

    What Women Really Say About Sex

    Send a text This Talk Sex With Annette topic takes the show back to its roots when it was just a girl's sex talk podcast. For too long, women’s most honest conversations about sex have happened in whispers — in group chats, locker rooms, and over wine when no one’s listening. But what happens when we stop whispering? In this episode, I sit down with writer and pleasure activist Tash Doherty, the bold voice behind Miseducated, to talk about what women really say about sex when you’re not in the room — and why it changes everything when we take the mic. We dive into: • The orgasm gap and why it still exists  • Pegging, anal equality, and rewriting the sexual script  • Why women fake orgasms (and why it hurts everyone)  • How speaking openly about sex transforms relationships  • What men need to understand about female pleasure This isn’t just about women talking about desire.  It’s about rewriting the rules of sex — for everyone. If you’ve ever wondered what women really think about sex… this episode is your invitation to find out. Check out Tash's Intimacy Journal Here: https://www.tashdoherty.com/shop Find her on Substack: https://misseducated.substack.com/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off!  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    45 min
  3. 9 Ways to Touch Her Breasts (Most Men Skip)

    FEB 9

    9 Ways to Touch Her Breasts (Most Men Skip)

    Send a text Touching her breasts should feel erotic — but for a lot of people, it ends up feeling rushed, mechanical, or oddly disconnected. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 ways to touch her breasts that most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because no one ever taught them how breast pleasure actually works. We’ll talk about: why grabbing and squeezing too fast shuts her body downhow timing and pressure matter more than intensitywhen nipple stimulation feels good — and when it doesn’thow to tell if her body is opening or bracingand how to make breast play feel grounding, erotic, and deeply pleasurableThis episode is explicit, educational, and focused on real bodies — not porn scripts or performance pressure. If you want breast play to feel better, more connected, and more arousing for both of you, this is where to start. 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    13 min
  4. Why the Epstein Files Can Shut Down Desire & How to Protect It

    FEB 4

    Why the Epstein Files Can Shut Down Desire & How to Protect It

    Send a text With the Epstein files back in the headlines, many people are noticing a shift in desire and connection. This unscheduled drop explores how collective stories of abuse and betrayal impact the nervous system — and why libido is often the first thing to go quiet when safety feels uncertain. In this episode, we talk about: Why desire can shut down during moments of collective traumaHow the nervous system responds to perceived threatRecognizing triggers as they happen in the bodyHow to protect your relationship with pleasure without forcing itWhy intimacy doesn’t belong to abusers — it belongs to us👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    9 min
  5. The Truth About Sex With Smaller Penises – Part 2! 3 Women Weigh In

    FEB 2

    The Truth About Sex With Smaller Penises – Part 2! 3 Women Weigh In

    Send a text  Two years ago, this topic became one of my most-listened-to episodes—so we’re bringing it back. In Part 2, I’m joined by two sex-positive women from different age groups to answer the questions men keep asking and go deeper than before. We cover: What women actually think about penis sizeWhy confidence matters more than lengthHow oral, grinding, toys, and anal play often matter more than penetrationCommon mistakes that quietly kill desireReal, practical tips for having great sex regardless of sizeWe also kick things off with a clear, medically accurate guide to measuring penis length and girth, because many men think they’re “small” when they’re not. Honest. Sex-positive. No shame—just real talk. Here is your link to episode part  1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/episodes/14322290 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off!  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    1h 2m
  6. Why Women Stop Wanting Sex (& Why It’s Not Your Fault)

    JAN 28

    Why Women Stop Wanting Sex (& Why It’s Not Your Fault)

    Send a text Why do so many women lose interest in sex—and why is the blame so often placed on them? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, Annette is joined by Dr. Trina Read to unpack what women are really saying when they say, “I just don’t want sex anymore.” We talk about: Why low desire is often a reasonable response, not a personal failureHow pressure, routine, and male-centric sex shut down arousalWhat’s happening in the body and mind during long-term relationshipsWhy orgasms alone don’t guarantee satisfying sexSmall, practical shifts that help women reconnect with desireThis episode is for: Women questioning their libidoPartners who want to understand what’s beneath the surfaceAnyone tired of being told to “fix hormones” instead of fixing the experienceBy the end of this conversation, you’ll have a clearer, shame-free framework for understanding women’s desire—and how to start changing it. 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off!  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    46 min
  7. 3 Positions That Actually Help Female Orgasms

    JAN 27

    3 Positions That Actually Help Female Orgasms

    Send a text In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down three specific positions that are more orgasm-friendly by design—because they support anatomy, nervous system regulation, and clitoral engagement instead of rushing straight to penetration and hoping for the best. And I want to be clear right from the start:  This episode exists because my audience voted for it. Every week, I run a poll on my YouTube channel where you help decide which how-to I cover next.  If you want a say in future topics, make sure you’re subscribed on YouTube and signed up for my e-newsletter—that’s where the voting happens. In this episode, you’ll learn: How angle, pacing, and connection dramatically change orgasm likelihoodThree positions that support female orgasms without relying on speed or forceHow to use eye contact, sensual touch, and clitoral stimulation without breaking flowThis episode is for women, their partners, and anyone tired of feeling like orgasms are random, rare, or out of reach. Links to products in the podcast We-Vibe Melt 2 (Discount EXPLORES15 15% Off): https://wevibe-north-america.sjv.io/bOezRb The Peach Toy Review (Discount EXPLORES15 15% Off): https://youtu.be/tm6r87jv6Ps The Peach Toy: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/womanizer-peach 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    15 min
  8. Giving Head With Confidence: How to Blow His Mind! With Girls Gone Deep!

    JAN 21

    Giving Head With Confidence: How to Blow His Mind! With Girls Gone Deep!

    Send a text We talk about blowjobs like they’re a performance — like there’s a “right way,” a secret move, or something you’re supposed to magically know. But most advice doesn’t actually make oral sex feel better.  It just makes people anxious. In this episode, I’m joined by Girls Gone Deep for a real, explicit, shame-free conversation about giving oral sex that actually feels incredible — without porn scripts, pressure, or performative nonsense. We talk about:  – Where confidence actually comes from – Why enthusiasm matters more than technique – Communication during oral (yes, during) – Givers vs receivers: etiquette, consent, and boundaries – Rhythm, variety, and why switching it up matters – Circumcised vs uncircumcised anatomy – Positions that make oral easier (and hotter) – What people get wrong about “being good at it” This episode is explicit, honest, and deeply sex-positive — meant to help you enjoy giving and receiving without anxiety or shame. Find Girls Gone Deep On Their Website: https://www.girlsgonedeep.com/ Find them on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonedeeppod 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talksexwithme Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e976 Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off!  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    1h 1m
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

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  • Creator
    Talk Sex with Annette
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    359
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Talk Sex with Annette
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