Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

  1. 1d ago

    She Built an AI Lover to Heal. Then Had the Best Sex of Her Life

    Send us Fan Mail What if AI could actually help you heal your sex life — and have the best sex of your life on the other side? Women recovering from sexual trauma, bad relationships, and years of performing instead of feeling are turning to AI sexual companions — and what's happening is not what anyone expected. Today's guest didn't just use one. She built one. Morgan Hewett — two-time founder, former Meta, Harvard Business School grad, and founder and CEO of Devin — joins me to break down what these companions actually are, why women are turning to them, and what it does for their real sex lives with real partners. In this episode: What an AI sexual companion actually is — and how it's different from a toyWhy removing performance, faking, and pressure is uniquely healing for trauma survivorsWhat women discover about their own bodies with no one else in the roomWhat changes when she goes back to a human partner knowing exactly what she wantsThe takeaway you can use tonight — with or without the tech🔗 Find Morgan & Devin:  Website: https://experiencedevin.com/  TikTok & Instagram: @experiencedevin  Follow Morgan's founder journey: @morgan.pink.founder Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    She Built an AI Lover to Heal. Then Had the Best Sex of Her Life

  2. 3d ago

    How to Beat Performance Anxiety in Bed — The 5-Move Reset

    Send us Fan Mail The harder you try to make it work, the worse it gets — and that's not in your head, it's how your body is wired. An erection runs on the calm half of your nervous system, so the second you start monitoring it, you kill it. This is the five-move reset that gets you out of your head and back into your body, tonight. What you'll learn:  ✔ How to crowd out the anxious thoughts instead of fighting them  ✔ Where to aim your attention so arousal actually shows up  ✔ The one sentence that drops the pressure in the room instantly  ✔ How to take the goal — and the fear — off the table completely TechRing & RingMate linked below with my full review. Code ANNETTE15 for 15% off: https://myfirmtech.com/pages/annette Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    How to Beat Performance Anxiety in Bed — The 5-Move Reset

  3. Jul 22

    How to Get Her Wet Again: A Gynecologist's Fix for Midlife Sex

    Send us Fan Mail She starts avoiding sex. He takes it personally. Nobody says a word. That silence has a name — the Bedroom Gap — and the gynecologist who coined the term is here with the fix. Dr. Maria Sophocles — board-certified gynecologist with 30 years in menopause and female sexual health, author of The Bedroom Gap, and TED speaker with 1.3M+ views — breaks down exactly what's happening in her body, why his fix (the pill) made her problem worse, and how to bring pleasure back at any age. In this episode: What menopause actually does to the vagina — and why sex starts to hurtThe signs she's suffering in silence (and how to open the conversation without blame)The estrogen cancer myth that's been disproven — and the 30% stat nobody's heardVaginal estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone: what they do and who they're forThe five M's: massage, media, masturbation, mindfulness, and medicationsWhy sex is the fifth pillar of health🔗 Find Dr. Sophocles:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mariasophoclesmd/ Website: https://mariasophoclesmd.com/ Book: The Bedroom Gap TED Talk: "What Happens to Sex in Midlife" Coming soon: HOT! — her documentary on sex, menopause, and gender equality Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    How to Get Her Wet Again: A Gynecologist's Fix for Midlife Sex

  4. Jul 20

    What To Do After You Come — She's Hoping You Know This

    Send us Fan Mail Round two isn't just possible — it might be the best sex she's ever had. Even if you already finished, even if you finished before she did, the night isn't over. This episode is the full playbook for the second half: the real science of the recovery window, why it's more in your control than you think, what to do the moment you soften, and the one thing to do in round one that makes going again effortless. What you'll learn:  ✔ Why you naturally last longer in round two — and how to use it  ✔ The 90-second mistake that sours the whole night  ✔ How to keep her climbing while you come back  ✔ What to do the moment you soften — so it's a switch, not a stop  ✔ The one thing to do in round one that makes round two effortless Firmtech Ring (ANNETTE15 for 15% Off): https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Womanizer for the Enhance (ANNETTE15 for 15% Off): https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer How to Stay Hard When You Have Slow Sex: https://youtu.be/iHqgEO1BDU0 Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    What To Do After You Come — She's Hoping You Know This

  5. Jul 15

    Why Powerful Men Pay a Dominatrix to Take Control (Most Men Will Never Admit This)

    Send us Fan Mail Mistress Marley — professional dominatrix, financial domination specialist, and founder of Haus of Dominance, where she's taught over 10,000 students — breaks down what men are actually paying for, what submission really means, and how to explore giving up control in your own bedroom. In this episode: What a dominatrix actually does — and what a real session looks likeWhy the loudest "alpha males" online are her biggest clientsThe difference between submission and weaknessHow women can find their inner dominant (starting with yourself)How to bring power play into your bedroom — or find a professional the right wayFind Mistress Marley: https://www.servemistressmarley.com/ More: https://www.thechocolatedomme.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Why Powerful Men Pay a Dominatrix to Take Control (Most Men Will Never Admit This)

  6. Jul 14

    5 Steps to Anal She'll Actually Love (Most Couples Rush #1)

    Send us Fan Mail Anal is one of the most searched sex topics on the internet — and one of the least talked about in actual bedrooms. Everyone's curious. Almost nobody's saying it out loud. This episode is for both of you: the woman who's curious and never said it, and the partner who wants to ask without making it weird. The conversation (including the ten seconds that decide everything), the safety rules nobody explains properly, why her body is genuinely wired to love this, and the five steps from curious to craving it — on her timeline, built around her pleasure. What you'll learn:  ✔ How either of you brings it up — and how to handle a shamey response without shutting down  ✔ The safety rules that make or break it: lube, bases, one-direction, and what never to use  ✔ The two-muscle anatomy that makes patience the entire technique  ✔ The "wearing trick" most couples skip — and why it's the step that makes everything work Subscribe for new episodes on desire, pleasure, and becoming the partner she can't stop thinking about. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    5 Steps to Anal She'll Actually Love (Most Couples Rush #1)

  7. Jul 8

    She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back

    Send us Fan Mail You've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent. Vanessa Cushing — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and founder of Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro — breaks down what's actually happening and how to bring her back. And this one took a turn I didn't expect: men dissociate too. It just looks completely different. In this episode: The signs she's checked out — and the very different signs he hasThe five gears of touch: pinpoint exactly where she leavesThe "safe trust position" every couple needs before they need itHow to retrain your nervous system to stay presentFind Vanessa Cushing Here: https://www.cushingcounseling.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back

  8. Jul 6

    The 5-Step Mouth & Hands Technique for Blended Orgasms

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we break down the 5-step Mouth & Hands technique for blended orgasms—a simple, intentional way to combine oral and manual stimulation so the experience feels more connected, more consistent, and more intense. Most people switch between techniques instead of combining them. But when you learn how to coordinate your mouth and hands, everything changes in how her arousal builds and how her body responds. I walk you through:  Why switching between techniques can interrupt pleasure  How blended orgasms work in a practical, understandable way  The 5-step method to bring mouth and hands into sync  How to stay connected to her responses instead of guessing If you’ve ever felt like you were doing a lot but not getting the reaction you expected, this episode will shift how you approach foreplay entirely. Link to the Womanizer Enhance Code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Catch my Edging Episode: https://youtu.be/vhuayH9cBzY Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    The 5-Step Mouth & Hands Technique for Blended Orgasms
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

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  • Creator
    Talk Sex with Annette
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    406
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Talk Sex with Annette
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