Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

  1. She's Quiet Quitting Your Sex Life — And He Has No Idea

    2D AGO

    She's Quiet Quitting Your Sex Life — And He Has No Idea

    Send a text She didn't lose her desire. She quietly quit it. Sex therapist and author Colette Jane Fehr joins Annette to break down why women emotionally and erotically check out of relationships long before anyone notices — and what it actually takes to come back. If you've been going through the motions, or you've watched your partner disappear and had no idea why, this one's for you. In this episode: *What quiet quitting your sex life actually looks like in the bedroom *Why emotional disconnection kills physical desire — and which goes first *The real reason dead bedrooms happen (it's not about sex) *How resentment builds from the smallest swallowed moments *The one question that cracks a relationship back open *How to know if quiet quitting has gone too far — and the signs it's not too late *Three things you can do tonight to start coming back 🔗 Find Colette and Her Book: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    1h 7m
  2. 5 Ways to Dominate Her in Bed (That She's Fantasizing About)

    4D AGO

    5 Ways to Dominate Her in Bed (That She's Fantasizing About)

    Send a text She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe every time. And she's decided you'll never know — because asking feels impossible, and hoping you'll figure it out on your own hasn't worked. This episode is about the five dominance moves women consistently fantasize about and almost never get. Not because their partners wouldn't do them, but because no one ever taught them what real dominance actually looks like. This is for the men who want to be the person she feels safe enough to surrender to. And for the women who've been waiting for someone to just… lead. What you'll learn:  ✔ 5 specific dominance moves that bypass her overthinking entirely  ✔ Why most men never try these (and how to do them without being told) ✔ The exact mechanics — where to put your hands, what to say, when to stop  ✔ Why dominance isn't about being rough — it's about being deliberate  📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    27 min
  3. The Pregnancy Kink Making Women Six Figures — And Why Society Is Losing Its Mind

    MAR 4

    The Pregnancy Kink Making Women Six Figures — And Why Society Is Losing Its Mind

    Send a text She didn't set out to build a six-figure business. She got pregnant — and discovered one of OnlyFans' most profitable and least talked-about kinks. Australian mom and content creator Emily Mai joins Annette to talk about what actually happens when a woman refuses to become sexually invisible after motherhood. We're getting into pregnancy kinks, lactation content, belly fetishes, and the real psychology behind why society loses its mind when mothers stay sexually embodied — and profitable. This one goes places most people won't. In this episode: Why pregnancy exploded Emily's subscriber count overnight — and who almost killed itWhat men actually want from pregnancy content (it's not what you're imagining)Why other mothers became her harshest critics — and her honest, unflinching take on whyHow she structures her day as a full-time creator and fully present momHer 3 tips for anyone thinking about starting their own content business🔗 Find Emily on Instagram: @shesopunny | TikTok: @emilymay  📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    57 min
  4. 5 Kinks She Wants You to Try (And Why She'll Never Ask)

    MAR 3

    5 Kinks She Wants You to Try (And Why She'll Never Ask)

    Send a text She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe a hundred times. And she's decided you'll never know. Not because she doesn't trust you — because she's been taught her whole life that wanting certain things makes her too much. This episode is about the five kinks women most commonly carry in silence, the shame that keeps them there, and what you can actually do to become someone it feels safe to tell. What you'll learn: ✔ The 5 kinks women fantasize about and rarely share — and the real psychology behind each one ✔ Why erotic shame is the actual barrier (not trust, not desire) ✔ What CNC fantasy really is — and what it is not ✔ Specific things you can do to create safety without putting pressure on her  📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    21 min
  5. The 6 Stages of Love — And the One Stage That Kills Most Relationships

    FEB 25

    The 6 Stages of Love — And the One Stage That Kills Most Relationships

    Send a text Most people think relationships fail because someone stopped trying, cheated, or they just picked wrong. But what if relationships follow a predictable pattern — and most of us are sabotaging them at the exact same stage without even knowing it? In this episode, I sit down with Thais Gibson — founder of Personal Development School, bestselling author, and one of the world's leading experts on attachment theory — to break down the six stages every relationship moves through, why most collapse at stage three, and what your attachment style is actually doing to your love life, your desire, and your ability to stay. I also get personal. About the patterns I've repeated. About staying in relationships I should have left. About what it took to finally see myself clearly enough to stop. If you've ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same relationship with a different person — this episode is your answer. What you'll learn: Why chemistry isn't compatibility and what actually drives attraction • The six stages every relationship moves through • Where most relationships die and why • What your attachment style is doing to your sex life at every stage • How to actually change your attachment style in 90 days • Why doing the work together is the only thing that saves a relationship Find Thais at https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ — free attachment quiz at the link 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    57 min
  6. How To Make Her WANT to Give A Blow Job: 6 Things That Actually Work

    FEB 24

    How To Make Her WANT to Give A Blow Job: 6 Things That Actually Work

    Send a text Most men assume she just doesn't enjoy it. Most women wonder why they want to sometimes and absolutely don't other times. The truth is more interesting — and more fixable — than either of them thinks. In this episode, sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti breaks down the psychology and neuroscience behind female desire, and gives you 6 specific, research-backed things you can do to shift the dynamic entirely. This isn't about pressure, persuasion, or performance. It's about understanding how desire actually works — and showing up differently because of it. In this episode: Why most men have been trying to create desire the wrong way (and what actually works)The neuroscience of the sexual "brake" — and why removing pressure is more powerful than adding stimulationThe difference between feeling wanted and feeling chosen — and why it mattersWhat the research on couples actually shows about reciprocity and desireWhy your nervous system is either creating safety or shutting her down — before you've touched herThe one move most men make the moment she starts responding — and why it kills everythingThis episode is for: ✔ Men who want to understand their partner's desire better ✔ Women who've been trying to figure out why their desire feels inconsistent ✔ Anyone who wants a deeper, more connected intimate relationship Your Guide To Giving Her Good Oral: https://youtu.be/r7mJrSu_KRs 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    22 min
  7. How To Orgasm Your Way to Success

    FEB 18

    How To Orgasm Your Way to Success

    Send a text What if orgasms were about more than just pleasure? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Venus O’Hara—author, sexual wellness expert, and host of the Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast—to explore the O Method, also known as orgasmic manifestation. We break down: What orgasmic manifestation actually is (and what it isn’t)How sexual energy can be used for intention, confidence, and changeWhy pleasure isn’t just instant gratification—it’s powerHow to start if masturbation feels awkward, shame-filled, or unfamiliarWhether you need to orgasm for the practice to workWhy this matters especially for women navigating trauma, midlife, or desire shiftsEven if you don’t believe in manifestation, you’ll still get orgasms out of it.  And you might rethink what pleasure is really for. You can find Venu Here: https://www.venusohara.org/ You can order her book Orgasmic Manifestation Here: https://www.venusohara.org/orgasmic-manifestation 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    1h 1m
  8. 5 Things That Actually Make Her Sexually Attracted to You

    FEB 17

    5 Things That Actually Make Her Sexually Attracted to You

    Send a text Most advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong. This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing.  It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real moments, and real connection. In this episode, I break down five specific things that reliably make women feel sexually attracted, based on psychology, nervous-system science, and what women consistently respond to — not what dating culture thinks they should. You’ll learn: Why attraction dies when desire gets turned into hesitationHow to express interest in a way that feels confident and safeWhat overstaying the moment does to desire (and why less really is more)How presence, timing, and responsiveness matter more than performanceWhy attraction isn’t about convincing someone — it’s about how you show upThese aren’t manipulation tactics.  They’re behavioral shifts that create clarity, tension, and genuine pull — without pressure, games, or crossing boundaries. If you’ve ever wondered why things start strong but lose heat,  or why connection doesn’t always turn into desire,  this episode will change how you understand attraction — and how you move inside it. 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti My OF: @talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    17 min
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

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  • Creator
    Talk Sex with Annette
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    366
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Talk Sex with Annette
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