Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

  1. 15h ago

    Sometimes Being a Bad Girl Doesn’t Feel So Good (But I’m Back)

    Send us Fan Mail My YouTube channel is back, and I wanted to take a moment to really talk to you about what this whole experience taught me, and what’s coming next. In this one I’m getting personal: the gratitude I feel for the way this community showed up for me at a low point, what actually got me in trouble, how things are changing going forward, and all the exciting things I’m building for you. First things first, the most important thing you can do: 📩 Sign up for my e-newsletter →https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Here’s why it matters more than ever: platforms come and go (we just learned that the hard way together), but my newsletter is how I reach you no matter what. It’s where I send every episode, every new guide, every free tool, and all the how-tos that can’t live on YouTube. If you only do one thing, do this, so we never lose each other again. In this episode: The gratitude I needed to say out loud, to you, and to the people who showed upWhat actually got me in trouble (real talk about OnlyFans and platform suppression)How my YouTube content is changing, and why my website is now home to everythingThe free tools I’m building so you can explore your desires after every episodeA few teases of what’s coming: travel content, a survivor-centered resource, and moreA huge thank you to the people who showed up for me: My PR team at Little Leaf Agency (Sarah, Michael, Taylor, and Naima), and the sex educators and past guests who went to bat for me, including Susan Bratton (who helped shepherd my channel back, I love you, Susan), the Intimacy Alliance, Caitlin V, Dr. Tara, Heron Bigman, Dr. Deborah Katz, and past guests Luna Matatas, Amanda Dames (The Kink Consultant), Samia Mounts, and Girls Gone Deep. Where else to find me: 🌐 Website (all my videos, in-depth guides, and free tools): talksexwithannette.com📸 Instagram: @annettebenedetti → https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/📘 Facebook: @TalkSexWithAnnette → https://www.facebook.com/Talksexwithannette/🎵 TikTok: @talksexwithannette → https://www.tiktok.com/talksexwithannetteAnd Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette🔥 OnlyFans (demos + audio-guided self-pleasure meditations): @talksexwithannette Send me your ideas, your questions, and the things you wish I’d do differently, I’m heavily influenced by you, and I want to keep building this with you. (Yes, the rimming episode is officially on the calendar, because you asked.) But seriously, before you do anything else: get on that newsletter. 📩 https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c It’s the one place we’ll never lose each other. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I love you all. Until next time, I’ll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com Subscribe to my newsletter: Here Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Sometimes Being a Bad Girl Doesn’t Feel So Good (But I’m Back)

  2. 1d ago

    Female-Led Relationships: Why Men Secretly Want This

    Send us Fan Mail Say "female-led relationship" and most people picture whips and chastity cages, but it's so much bigger than that, and most of it has nothing to do with kink. This week, licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist Dr. Kate Balestrieri walks me through what a female-led relationship actually is: the four levels (from barely-there to full-time), the surprising benefits for BOTH partners, and exactly how to start one. In this episode: What a female-led relationship really is (and what it isn't)Why it doesn't require any kink at allThe 4 levels of control, explainedThe real benefits for men AND women (some genuinely surprising)How to bring it up and start smallWant the full breakdown, all four levels, the benefits, and how to start? Read the complete guide: 🔥 What Is a Female-Led Relationship? The 4 Levels, Benefits, and How to Start: https://talksexwithannette.com/episodes/what-is-a-female-led-relationship/ Guest: Dr. Kate Balestrieri, Modern Intimacy, @drkatebalestrieri, host of Get Naked with Dr. Kate. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com Subscribe to my newsletter: Here Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Female-Led Relationships: Why Men Secretly Want This

  3. 2d ago

    Make Her Wet With Words: The Dirty Talk Framework That Works

    Send us Fan Mail Most men think turning a woman on is all about touch. But here’s the truth: you can make her turned on, wet, and craving you with words alone, before you ever lay a hand on her. This week I’m breaking down exactly how to talk dirty to a woman the right way. Not the aggressive, porn-style lines that make her shut down, but the kind of words that actually build arousal, spark her imagination, and leave her aching for more. It’s not magic. It’s how women’s arousal really works, and once you get it, you can turn her on anytime, anywhere. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why women’s arousal is wired for words, imagination, and anticipationThe biggest dirty talk mistakes men make (and the simple fixes)My 5-step framework to make her wet with wordsWord-for-word scripts you can steal and use tonightThe “aftershock” trick the best seducers use to keep her craving you long after the moment endsBy the end, you’ll know how to turn her on with your voice alone, and have the exact words to do it. Want the full framework, every script, and the mistakes to avoid, all written out so you can save it? Read the complete guide here: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/sex-techniques/how-to-talk-dirty-to-a-woman/   If you’re looking for a wing woman and cheerleader on your own intimacy journey, my coaching books are open, find out more at talksexwithannette.com. Until next time, I’ll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com Subscribe to my newsletter: Here Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Make Her Wet With Words: The Dirty Talk Framework That Works

  4. Oct 21

    9 Sex Myths About Women That Are Wrecking Your Sex Life

    Send us Fan Mail Content note: this episode discusses sexual violence and assault. We all absorbed a set of ideas about women and sex so early we never thought to question them: that women want it less, that desire fades with age, that if it hurts, that’s just how it is. Most of it came to us dressed up as fact, and most of it is quietly wrecking our sex lives. This week I sit down with Natasha Sinjanovic, an award-winning journalist, former NPR producer, and creator of the podcast Women Like Sex, who decided to actually fact-check the myths about female sexuality and hold them up against the evidence. Together we unmask nine of the sex myths women are still taught, where they come from, why they’re false, and what believing them is costing all of us in the bedroom. In this episode, we debunk: Whether women really want sex less than men (and where that story actually came from)The “men can’t control themselves” myth, and the real harm it doesWhy sex is not inherently violent, no matter what we’ve been taughtWhether the vagina or the clitoris is actually the sex organThe damaging myth that sex is supposed to hurtWhether “internal orgasms aren’t normal” holds up (it doesn’t)And more, including the truth about virginityThis one went somewhere I didn’t expect, and it may be the most important conversation I’ve had on this show. Because these myths don’t stay in our heads, they walk into the bedroom with us, and you can’t have the sex life you want until you name them. Want the full breakdown of all nine myths, with the evidence that debunks each one? Read the complete guide on my website:  🔥 9 Sex Myths About Women That Are Wrecking Your Sex Life Guest: Natasha Sinjanovic, host of Women Like Sex. Find her at womenlikesex.com and @WomenLikeSex. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com Subscribe to my newsletter: Here Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    9 Sex Myths About Women That Are Wrecking Your Sex Life

  5. Oct 20

    How To Explore Fantasy Together & Reignite Your Sex Life

    Send us Fan Mail If your bedroom has gone quiet, settled into the same couple of moves on the same couple of nights, the fastest way back to heat isn’t a new position or a new toy. It’s fantasy. This week I’m giving you real, do-it-tonight tools for exploring fantasy together: how to figure out what your fantasies actually are (even if your honest answer right now is “I don’t know”), how to share them in a way that feels safe instead of scary, and a whole menu of low-pressure ways to start playing together. In This Episode, I Mentioned CHEEX. Try CHEEX here: https://bit.ly/TALK7CHEEX  and use code TALK7  CHEEX is a sexual wellness platform where you can explore pleasure, desire, and sexuality in an open, aesthetic, and shame-free space. From beautifully made content to genuine sex education, CHEEX is built to help you discover what turns you on and feel good about it. New customers can try the annual membership free of charge for 7 days using my code. There’s no minimum term, you can cancel anytime, and you can choose the annual membership that fits you. And it’s the perfect companion to this episode, because CHEEX brings together everything you need to explore fantasy together in one place: Films , ethical, high-quality visual content you can watch side by side to discover what lights you both up.Audio , erotic audio stories to listen to together when you’d rather let someone else’s voice set the scene.Pleasure Academy , real sex education and courses to help you learn, grow, and bring new ideas into the bedroom.So as you work through today’s steps, CHEEX is a genuinely great tool for that “explore it together” part, watching, listening, and learning side by side with zero pressure. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why fantasy is the fastest way to reignite desire in a long-term relationshipHow to find your own fantasies, even if you’ve never been able to name themHow to have the conversation “with your clothes on” so it feels safe, not high-pressureHow to build a no-judgment container so your partner actually opens upA full menu of low-stakes ways to explore together, from erotica to audio to scenesWant the full written guide, plus all my other resources on dirty talk, kink, and keeping desire alive? Read the complete guide on my website:  🔥 How to Explore Fantasies With Your Partner (and Reignite Desire) Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com Subscribe to my newsletter: Here Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    How To Explore Fantasy Together & Reignite Your Sex Life

  6. Oct 14

    What Kind of Dom Are You? Every Type Explained.

    Send us Fan Mail Think a dom is just leather, whips, and someone kneeling on the floor? You’re missing almost everything. Dominance isn’t one thing, it’s a whole spectrum, and this week I’m decoding all of it with Amanda Dames, better known as The Kink Consultant: a certified somatic sex and relationship coach, certified sexologist, and former professional dominatrix who’s been featured in Cosmopolitan and Women’s Health. Together we break down every type of dom so you can finally figure out which kind you are, or which kind you’re looking for. (And I’ll be honest, this one got personal, because I’m on my own search for my dom right now.) In this episode, you’ll learn: What actually makes someone a dom (hint: it’s not the whip)The real difference between a dom and a top, and a dom, domme, and dominatrixEvery type explained: caregiver, master/mistress, sadist, primal, soft dom, service dom, disciplinarian, findom, and pleasure domWhy the “daddy/mommy dom” dynamic is so misunderstood (and usually has nothing to do with age play)How to figure out which kind of dom is authentic to YOUWhere to actually find a dom, and the green flags and red flags to watch forWhether you want to be a dom or find one, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what lights you up, and how to go get it. Want the full breakdown, every type explained in detail, plus how to find your match? Read the complete guide on my website:  🔥 Types of Doms: Every Kind of Dominant Explained Guest: Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, @The_KinkConsultant on Instagram. Visit her website: https://www.amandadames.com Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com Subscribe to my newsletter: Here Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    What Kind of Dom Are You? Every Type Explained.

  7. Oct 13

    The 10 Most Common Kinks (You’re More Normal Than You Think)

    Send us Fan Mail What gets you off probably isn’t nearly as rare as you think. We’re halfway through Kinktober, so this week I’m pulling back the curtain on the 10 most common kinks, from the mild to the wild, with real science-backed research along the way. I’m talking BDSM, foot fetishes, cuckolding, exhibitionism, furries, sploshing, sensory deprivation, medical play, age play, and yes, balloon-loving looners. Some of these will surprise you, some will make you laugh, and at least one will probably make you feel a lot more normal than you expected. In this episode, you’ll learn: Which kink tops the list (and why it’s not even close)The surprising research on why foot fetishes are wired into the brainHow some of the most “taboo” kinks actually strengthen relationshipsThe real numbers behind what people fantasize about, from the largest study of its kindWhy having a kink is normal, and good for youWhether you’re into bondage or balloons, you are not alone, and there’s probably a study explaining exactly why you’re into what you’re into. Want the full breakdown with all the research, every kink explained, and how to start exploring yours safely? Read the complete guide on my website:  🔥 The 10 Most Common Kinks (and the Science Behind Them) And if you want to explore your own kinks or figure out how to bring them to a partner, my intimacy coaching books are open, learn more at https://talksexwithannette.com. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com Subscribe to my newsletter: Here Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    The 10 Most Common Kinks (You’re More Normal Than You Think)

  8. Oct 7

    How to Fix a Dead Bedroom: A 31-Day Plan to Reignite Desire

    Send us Fan Mail Your sex life isn't broken, it's just gone quiet. And quiet is fixable. This week I'm handing you an actual plan: a 31-day sex challenge to reignite desire, reconnect, and get curious again, no dramatic overhaul, no painful heart-to-heart, just one small, low-pressure invitation at a time. My guest is Alicia Sinclair, a certified sex educator with nearly 25 years in intimate wellness, founder and CEO of COTR (the company behind B-Vibe and Le Wand), and 2026 XBIZ Sexpert of the Year. Together we built you a real calendar you can follow, one nudge a day. In this episode, we break down: Why sex goes quiet in long-term relationships (hint: it's almost never the love)The biggest mistake couples make when they try to spice things up, and how it backfiresThe yes/no/maybe list: the single best place to start when you're in a rutHow to share a fantasy, or receive one, without shutting each other downHow to bring in toys and novelty without feeling overwhelmedHow to map a whole month, from conversation to sensation to power play to blending it allWhether you've been together fifteen years or fifteen days, you'll have somewhere to start tonight, and a whole month mapped out after that. Most days cost nothing. All of them are low-pressure. Grab the full 31-day calendar, every prompt, plus the toys and discount codes we mention, right here:  🔥 How to Fix a Dead Bedroom: The 31-Day Sex Challenge (Full Guide + Calendar) 🔥  BDSM Checklist: 107 Kinks and Limits to Rate With Your Partner Guest: Alicia Sinclair, @aliciasinclair. Her brands: B-Vibe, Le Wand, Cowgirl, and Together Toys. Grab my codes and every toy we talk about in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend  The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋  Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com Subscribe to my newsletter: Here Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

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  • Creator
    Talk Sex with Annette
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    434
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Talk Sex with Annette
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