SNAP: Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities

Mandy Friedman LPCC-S

Mandy Friedman LPCC-S is a licensed counselor, a certified clinical domestic violence counselor, a clinically certified trauma professional. She is the creator of SNAP: Survivors of Narcissistic and Abusive Personalities. This program teaches survivors and concerned loved ones about abusive personalities, targets of abuse, abusive relationships and life in recovery from abuse. SNAP educational program of recovery helps empathic survivors of abuse fine tune and connect with their empathic nature in order to preserve, harness and protect the very things abusers seek to destroy.

  1. 5d ago

    Finding the Right Therapist After Narcissistic Abuse: Beyond Trauma-Informed Care | Part 2

    I like “Beyond Trauma-Informed Care” because it captures the central point without suggesting that trauma-informed care itself is inadequate. Finding a trauma-informed therapist is an important step in recovery from narcissistic abuse—but trauma-informed care alone may not mean a practitioner understands the specific dynamics survivors have experienced. In Part 2 of our conversation about finding the right therapist, Mandy Friedman, LPCC-S, CCTP-II and Amy Jones, CT discuss some of the specialized knowledge that can be particularly important when working with survivors of narcissistic, emotional, and coercive abuse. Effective treatment requires more than recognizing that trauma occurred. A therapist working with survivors should understand the dynamics that can develop within abusive relationships—including coercive control, sophisticated manipulation tactics, trauma responses, common triggers, and the effects chronic abuse can have on the nervous system. When these dynamics are understood, survivors may spend less time trying to convince someone that what happened to them was real and more time understanding what happened, recognizing its effects, and working toward recovery. In this video, we discuss: Why being trauma-informed is important—but may not be enoughUnderstanding coercive control and patterns of power and controlThe sophisticated manipulation strategies abusive individuals may useWhy abuse can be difficult to recognize while you are experiencing itUnderstanding the everyday triggers survivors may encounter after an abusive relationshipHow chronic stress and abuse can affect the nervous systemWhy survivor responses can make more sense when viewed through a trauma lensThe importance of finding a therapist who understands the unique dynamics of narcissistic and coercive abuseWhat survivors can look for when evaluating a potential therapistYou deserve a therapeutic space where you do not have to spend your time teaching your therapist the fundamentals of coercive control or explaining why experiences that may appear insignificant from the outside can have a profound impact after an abusive relationship. Mandy Friedman, LPCC-S, CCTP-IIFounder, Clermont Mental HealthCreator of SNAP — Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities📧 mandy@clermontmentalhealth.care📞 513-655-6101 Amy Jones, CTClermont Mental Health📧 amy.jones.cmh@gmail.com📞 513-580-7342 Clermont Mental Health🌐 https://clermontmentalhealth.care SNAP — Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities Created by Mandy Friedman, SNAP provides education and resources designed to help survivors understand narcissistic and abusive relationship dynamics and support the recovery process. 🎓 SNAP Online Course on Udemy:https://www.udemy.com/course/snap-survivors-of-narcissistic-abusive-personalities/?referralCode=26E7039447999C01307B Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse Group (SNAG) A survivor support group facilitated by Michelle Minette in the Cincinnati area. 🔗 Learn more about SNAG:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/groups/surviving-narcissistic-abuse-group-snag-cincinnati-oh/287406 This video is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for individualized mental health treatment, diagnosis, medical care, or crisis services. Watching this video, commenting on it, or contacting the presenters does not by itself establish a therapist-client relationship. If you are seeking mental health treatment, consider consulting with a qualified mental health professional who can assess your individual circumstances and treatment needs. Subscribe to SNAP for more conversations about narcissistic abuse, coercive control, complex trauma, emotional abuse, relationships, boundaries, recovery, and rebuilding your sense of self after abuse. #NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #CoerciveControl #TraumaInformed #TraumaRecovery #EmotionalAbuse #ComplexTrauma #CPTSD #TraumaTherapy #SurvivorSupport #SNAP

    Finding the Right Therapist After Narcissistic Abuse: Beyond Trauma-Informed Care | Part 2
  2. Sep 23

    How to Find the Right Therapist After Narcissistic Abuse | Green Flags to Look For

    Finding the right therapist can be an important part of healing from narcissistic abuse—but how do you know when you've found someone who truly understands what you've experienced? In this conversation, Mandy Friedman, LPCC-S, CCTP-II and Amy Jones, CT discuss the importance of the therapeutic relationship in recovery from narcissistic and emotional abuse. We explore some of the “green flags” survivors can look for when choosing a therapist or other mental health practitioner, and why finding the right therapeutic fit can make such a meaningful difference in the healing process. Survivors of narcissistic abuse may enter therapy after spending months or years having their perceptions questioned, their emotions minimized, their boundaries violated, or their experiences invalidated. A healthy therapeutic relationship should offer something very different. Therapy can provide a space where survivors are heard, respected, supported, and encouraged to reconnect with their own judgment, autonomy, and sense of self. In this video, we discuss: What to look for when choosing a therapist after narcissistic abuse“Green flags” that may indicate a healthy therapeutic relationshipWhy the relationship between therapist and client mattersThe importance of feeling heard, understood, and emotionally safeFinding a practitioner who understands narcissistic and emotional abuseTrauma-informed care and respect for survivor autonomyPaying attention to how you feel when interacting with a potential therapistWhy credentials and treatment approaches are only part of finding the right fitThe role of trust in the healing and recovery processThere is no single therapist or therapeutic approach that will be right for every survivor. You are allowed to ask questions, learn about a practitioner's experience, pay attention to the therapeutic relationship, and decide whether someone feels like the right person to accompany you through your recovery. Mandy Friedman, LPCC-S, CCTP-IIFounder, Clermont Mental HealthCreator of SNAP — Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities📧 mandy@clermontmentalhealth.care📞 513-655-6101 Amy Jones, CTClermont Mental Health📧 amy.jones.cmh@gmail.com📞 513-580-7342 Clermont Mental Health🌐 https://clermontmentalhealth.care SNAP — Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities Created by Mandy Friedman, SNAP provides education and resources designed to help survivors better understand narcissistic and abusive relationship dynamics and support the recovery process. 🎓 SNAP Online Course on Udemy:https://www.udemy.com/course/snap-survivors-of-narcissistic-abusive-personalities/?referralCode=26E7039447999C01307B Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse Group (SNAG) A survivor support group facilitated by Michelle Minette in the Cincinnati area. 🔗 Learn more about SNAG:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/groups/surviving-narcissistic-abuse-group-snag-cincinnati-oh/287406 This video is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for individualized mental health treatment, diagnosis, medical care, or crisis services. Watching this video, commenting on it, or contacting the presenters does not by itself establish a therapist-client relationship. If you are seeking mental health treatment, consider consulting with a qualified mental health professional who can assess your individual circumstances and treatment needs. Subscribe to SNAP for more conversations about narcissistic abuse, complex trauma, emotional abuse, relationships, boundaries, recovery, and rebuilding your sense of self after abuse. #NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #TraumaRecovery #EmotionalAbuse #TraumaTherapy #Therapy #ComplexTrauma #CPTSD #SurvivorSupport #MentalHealth #SNAP CONNECT WITH USRESOURCES FOR SURVIVORSIMPORTANT INFORMATION

    How to Find the Right Therapist After Narcissistic Abuse | Green Flags to Look For
  3. Apr 21

    HBO's Succession: Season Four Episode Nine (Part 2)

    📺 Succession (HBO) Explained — Power, Narcissism, Family Systems & Psychological Abuse Welcome to Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities (SNAP). In this video, we take a deep, trauma-informed look at HBO’s Succession, the Emmy-winning series that exposes narcissistic power structures, emotional abuse, and generational trauma within the Roy family. Through a clinical and psychological lens, we explore how Logan Roy’s authoritarian leadership impacts Kendall, Shiv, Roman, and Connor — and why Succession resonates so strongly with survivors of narcissistic, emotionally abusive, and high-control family systems. 👉 In this video, we explore: • Narcissistic leadership and coercive control in Succession • Family systems, trauma bonding, and conditional attachment • The psychological roles of Kendall, Shiv, Roman, and Connor • Power, gaslighting, loyalty testing, and emotional abuse • Why survivors recognize these dynamics immediately 📌 Succession (HBO, 2018–2023) blends dark comedy and drama to portray the devastating psychological cost of power and entitlement inside families and organizations. ✨ Support the channel: 👍 Like the video 💬 Comment with the character you relate to most 🔔 Subscribe for trauma-informed analysis of media, narcissism, and abuse recovery 📱 Connect with me on social media: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/theofficialsnap⁠⁠ FB Page: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/mfriedmanlpcc⁠⁠ 📺 Watch more on this channel: • Narcissistic abuse explained through film & television • Trauma-informed education for survivors • Psychology of power, control, and coercive relationships #Succession #HBO #SuccessionExplained #NarcissisticAbuse #TraumaInformed #FamilySystems #SNAP #fatherfigure

    HBO's Succession: Season Four Episode Nine (Part 2)
  4. Apr 2

    HBO's Succession: Season Four Episode Nine (Part 1)

    📺 Succession (HBO) Explained — Power, Narcissism, Family Systems & Psychological Abuse Welcome to Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities (SNAP). In this video, we take a deep, trauma-informed look at HBO’s Succession, the Emmy-winning series that exposes narcissistic power structures, emotional abuse, and generational trauma within the Roy family. Through a clinical and psychological lens, we explore how Logan Roy’s authoritarian leadership impacts Kendall, Shiv, Roman, and Connor — and why Succession resonates so strongly with survivors of narcissistic, emotionally abusive, and high-control family systems. 👉 In this video, we explore: • Narcissistic leadership and coercive control in Succession • Family systems, trauma bonding, and conditional attachment • The psychological roles of Kendall, Shiv, Roman, and Connor • Power, gaslighting, loyalty testing, and emotional abuse • Why survivors recognize these dynamics immediately 📌 Succession (HBO, 2018–2023) blends dark comedy and drama to portray the devastating psychological cost of power and entitlement inside families and organizations. ✨ Support the channel: 👍 Like the video 💬 Comment with the character you relate to most 🔔 Subscribe for trauma-informed analysis of media, narcissism, and abuse recovery 📱 Connect with me on social media: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/theofficialsnap⁠⁠ FB Page: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/mfriedmanlpcc⁠⁠ 📺 Watch more on this channel: • Narcissistic abuse explained through film & television • Trauma-informed education for survivors • Psychology of power, control, and coercive relationships #Succession #HBO #SuccessionExplained #NarcissisticAbuse #TraumaInformed #FamilySystems #SNAP #fatherfigure

    HBO's Succession: Season Four Episode Nine (Part 1)
  5. Feb 2

    Taylor Swift Lyrics & Relational Trauma Episode 5

    Taylor Swift Lyrics & Relational Trauma | Episode 5: Would've Could've Should've + The Smallest Man Who Ever Lived Join Mandy Friedman LPCC-S and Sarah Morehart LPC as we explore relational trauma themes through the lens of Taylor Swift’s songwriting. In this five-part series, we each count down our personal Top 5 Taylor Swift songs and discuss the emotional patterns, symbolism, and relational dynamics woven into the lyrics. 🎵 In This Episode Sarah’s Pick: Would've Could've Should've Theme: Age differences can create a power imbalance in intimate partner relationships. Mandy’s Pick: The Smallest Man Who Ever Lives Theme: This song calls out the the betrayal and devastation survivors endure at the hands of cowardly, fragile men who misrepresent themselves in dating relationships. Together, we offer a grounded, trauma-informed conversation about how these songs resonate with survivors of emotional and psychological abuse. ✨ Work With Us & Explore More Resources 1️⃣ SNAP Udemy Course Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities ⁠https://www.udemy.com/course/snap-survivors-of-narcissistic-abusive-personalities/?referralCode=26E7039447999C01307B⁠ 2️⃣ Clermont Mental Health – Website www.clermontmentalhealth.care 3️⃣ Facebook – SNAP Narcissistic Abuse Recovery ⁠https://www.facebook.com/mfriedmanlpcc⁠ 4️⃣ Instagram – @theofficialsnap ⁠https://www.instagram.com/theofficialsnap⁠ 5️⃣ Consult / Inquiries snap@clermontmentalhealth.care Featured Training: Start Your Recovery from Emotional and Psychological Abuse ⁠https://education.lovefraud.com/courses/how-to-start-your-recovery-from-emotional-and-psychological-abuse/?ref=103⁠ 📌 DISCLAIMER This video is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for mental health treatment, diagnosis, or professional advice. If you are struggling with your mental health or feel unsafe, please reach out to a qualified mental health professional or your local crisis resources. Our analysis focuses solely on the lyrics. We are not diagnosing Taylor Swift or making any claims about her personal life, relationships, or mental health. Our discussion is based exclusively on the themes presented in the songwriting. #TaylorSwift #TaylorSwiftAnalysis #FatherFigureTaylorSwift #TheSmallestManWhoEverLivedTaylorSwift #RelationalTrauma #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #CycleofAbuse #SNAPRecovery #TraumaInformed #SurvivorSupport #MandyFriedmanLPCCS #SarahMorehartLPC #SwiftieCommunity #MentalHealthEducation

    Taylor Swift Lyrics & Relational Trauma Episode 5
  6. Jan 26

    Taylor Swift Lyrics & Relational Trauma | Episode 4: loml + Mad Woman

    Taylor Swift Lyrics & Relational Trauma | Episode 4: loml + Mad Woman Join Mandy Friedman LPCC-S and Sarah Morehart LPC as we explore relational trauma themes through the lens of Taylor Swift’s songwriting. In this five-part series, we each count down our personal Top 5 Taylor Swift songs and discuss the emotional patterns, symbolism, and relational dynamics woven into the lyrics. 🎵 In This Episode Sarah’s Pick: loml Theme: We still grieve the loss of toxic relationships. Mandy’s Pick: Mad Woman Theme: Women are often stereotyped as "crazy" or angry for having natural and normal responses to mistreatment and injustice. Together, we offer a grounded, trauma-informed conversation about how these songs resonate with survivors of emotional and psychological abuse. ✨ Work With Us & Explore More Resources 1️⃣ SNAP Udemy Course Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities https://www.udemy.com/course/snap-survivors-of-narcissistic-abusive-personalities/?referralCode=26E7039447999C01307B 2️⃣ Clermont Mental Health – Website www.clermontmentalhealth.care 3️⃣ Facebook – SNAP Narcissistic Abuse Recovery https://www.facebook.com/mfriedmanlpcc 4️⃣ Instagram – @theofficialsnap https://www.instagram.com/theofficialsnap 5️⃣ Consult / Inquiries snap@clermontmentalhealth.care Featured Training: Start Your Recovery from Emotional and Psychological Abuse https://education.lovefraud.com/courses/how-to-start-your-recovery-from-emotional-and-psychological-abuse/?ref=103 📌 DISCLAIMER This video is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for mental health treatment, diagnosis, or professional advice. If you are struggling with your mental health or feel unsafe, please reach out to a qualified mental health professional or your local crisis resources. Our analysis focuses solely on the lyrics. We are not diagnosing Taylor Swift or making any claims about her personal life, relationships, or mental health. Our discussion is based exclusively on the themes presented in the songwriting. #TaylorSwift #TaylorSwiftAnalysis #lomltaylorSwift #MadWomanTaylorSwift #RelationalTrauma #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #CycleofAbuse #SNAPRecovery #TraumaInformed #SurvivorSupport #MandyFriedmanLPCCS #SarahMorehartLPC #SwiftieCommunity #MentalHealthEducation

    Taylor Swift Lyrics & Relational Trauma | Episode 4: loml + Mad Woman
  7. Jan 4

    Taylor Swift Lyrics & Relational Trauma | Episode 3: tolerate it + So Long London

    Taylor Swift Lyrics & Relational Trauma | Episode 3: tolerate it + So Long London Join Mandy Friedman LPCC-S and Sarah Morehart LPC as we explore relational trauma themes through the lens of Taylor Swift’s songwriting. In this five-part series, we each count down our personal Top 5 Taylor Swift songs and discuss the emotional patterns, symbolism, and relational dynamics woven into the lyrics. 🎵 In This Episode Sarah’s Pick: tolerate it Theme: The repetitive and addictive cycle of toxic relationships Mandy’s Pick: So Long London Theme: Typical targets of abuse will give everything to "fix" the relationship despite these efforts coming at a great cost. Together, we offer a grounded, trauma-informed conversation about how these songs resonate with survivors of emotional and psychological abuse. ✨ Work With Us & Explore More Resources 1️⃣ SNAP Udemy Course Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities https://www.udemy.com/course/snap-survivors-of-narcissistic-abusive-personalities/?referralCode=26E7039447999C01307B 2️⃣ Clermont Mental Health – Website www.clermontmentalhealth.care 3️⃣ Facebook – SNAP Narcissistic Abuse Recovery https://www.facebook.com/mfriedmanlpcc 4️⃣ Instagram – @theofficialsnap https://www.instagram.com/theofficialsnap 5️⃣ Consult / Inquiries snap@clermontmentalhealth.care Featured Training: Start Your Recovery from Emotional and Psychological Abuse https://education.lovefraud.com/courses/how-to-start-your-recovery-from-emotional-and-psychological-abuse/?ref=103 📌 DISCLAIMER This video is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for mental health treatment, diagnosis, or professional advice. If you are struggling with your mental health or feel unsafe, please reach out to a qualified mental health professional or your local crisis resources. Our analysis focuses solely on the lyrics. We are not diagnosing Taylor Swift or making any claims about her personal life, relationships, or mental health. Our discussion is based exclusively on the themes presented in the songwriting. 0:00 – Introduction 3:54 – Sarah's Pick: The Last Time 6:35 – Mandy’s Pick: The You're Losing Me #TaylorSwift #TaylorSwiftAnalysis #tolerateitaylorSwift #SoLongLondonTaylorSwift #RelationalTrauma #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #CycleofAbuse #SNAPRecovery #TraumaInformed #SurvivorSupport #MandyFriedmanLPCCS #SarahMorehartLPC #SwiftieCommunity #MentalHealthEducation

    Taylor Swift Lyrics & Relational Trauma | Episode 3: tolerate it + So Long London
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Mandy Friedman LPCC-S is a licensed counselor, a certified clinical domestic violence counselor, a clinically certified trauma professional. She is the creator of SNAP: Survivors of Narcissistic and Abusive Personalities. This program teaches survivors and concerned loved ones about abusive personalities, targets of abuse, abusive relationships and life in recovery from abuse. SNAP educational program of recovery helps empathic survivors of abuse fine tune and connect with their empathic nature in order to preserve, harness and protect the very things abusers seek to destroy.

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