The Sanctuary

Israel Ekanem

A safe space to speak from the heart.

  1. 5d ago

    The McGees - Brat Wrangler/Totally Not A Brat

    In this episode of The Sanctuary, the McGees share their origin story: from Edgar Allan Poe awakening something in Daddy McGee as a kid, to Baby McGee's leather-clad femme awakening in the Deep South, to the moment they both realised they'd found someone they could be fully themselves with. They break down how they navigate play partners (quality over quantity), why they always play together, and the importance of friendship before anything else. They also dive into their viral Creepy DM Readings—how a shared experience of receiving the same copy-pasted message at a munch turned into a beloved community event where they theatrically read creepy DMs aloud while protecting the identity of the senders. The goal isn't to shame individuals; it's to shame the game. Plus, they get real about the importance of humanising yourself in the kink community, why consent and communication are non-negotiable, and what they'd tell their younger selves (spoiler: they're just as shocked as you'd expect). This is a conversation about trust, laughter, and what happens when you find someone who complements you in every way. Baby & Daddy McGee have been exploring the world of kink together for well over a decade. Within the last five years, their journey has taken them into the public kink space, where they have grown to enjoy a sense of community. Outside of kink, Baby McGee is an active member of her local community, giving time to humanitarian causes while also working as a yoga instructor. Daddy McGee is a writer and musician, currently at work on his next project.

    The McGees - Brat Wrangler/Totally Not A Brat
  2. Sep 15

    Nicole, Udo & Olaf - Latex & Pain

    The Sanctuary Episode 180: Nicol, Udo & Olaf - Latex & Pain NicoleTalent & Community Nicole is one of the clearest faces of Latex & Pain. She appears in many of the videos and brings a presence that is immediately recognisable — strong, controlled, expressive, and impossible to overlook. She does not simply stand in front of the camera. She shapes the emotional tone of what the viewer feels. But her role reaches much further than performance. Nicole is deeply connected to the models and to the wider community around the project. She communicates, builds trust, keeps contact alive, and helps create the atmosphere in which people feel able to step into something unfamiliar. She is central to outreach, communication, promotion, and marketing, but always in a way that feels direct and human rather than mechanical. She helps make Latex & Pain visible, but also approachable. UdoFounder & Operations Udo is where Latex & Pain begins in physical form. As founder, he is the one who turned an idea into a place, a system, and an environment people could actually enter. He is not only part of many productions himself, but also the one who builds the spaces they happen in. Sets, structures, surfaces, rooms, details, transitions — he makes the world tangible. His creative work is not abstract. It is built by hand. He transforms locations, creates visual tension through architecture and atmosphere, and gives Latex & Pain much of its unmistakable physical identity. The roughness, the industrial depth, the feeling that a place has history before the camera even enters it — all of that is deeply connected to his work. OlafProducer & Director Olaf is the one who gives the material form as a story. He films, directs, shapes the scenes, and develops many of the ideas that become the actual content. He does not just document what happens. He thinks about rhythm, tension, narrative direction, visual structure, and how a scene should unfold emotionally as well as technically. He is also responsible for much of the technical side of the production: camera work, recording setup, production flow, and the details that make a scene hold together. Beyond that, he manages the website, administration, and finances. In many ways, he is both the director behind the lens and the person making sure the entire machine keeps moving.

    Nicole, Udo & Olaf - Latex & Pain
  3. Sep 2

    John Pendal - Online Coach/ Kink Educator

    The Sanctuary Episode 176: John Pendal - Online Coach/ Kink Educator Experienced BDSM educator John Pendal joins us all the way from England, UK. In 2003, John became the 25th person to win the annual International Mr Leather contest in Chicago. Since then he has travelled around the world leading workshops, giving speeches, hosting events and performing kinky stand-up comedy. Amongst others, John has taught BDSM workshops at Beyond Leather in Fort Lauderdale; Darklands in Antwerp; Down an Dirty in Melbourne, Australia; HunCon in Budapest; Kinkferansen in Oslo; Kinkfest in London; Leather Camp in Wichita; Lupercalia in Canada; Minnesota Leather Pride; Mr Leatherman Toronto; Palm Springs Leather Pride; Rome BDSM Conference; SINSations in Leather; SM Bergen, Norway; Spring in the South in Atlanta; Tribal Fire in Oklahoma; and for twelve consecutive years at Thunder in the Mountains in Denver. He spent lockdown completing a diploma in life coaching and two qualifications in First Aid for Mental Health. He now works online with English-speaking clients anywhere in the world, both directly and as an Associate Coach with “Thriving Autistic”. Learn more @johnpendal.coach @israeliekanem Resources: Pink Therapy:https://pinktherapy.com/ My 3D Model of BDSM:https://www.leatherlondonguide.com/model.html PERSONAL WEBSITESCoaching website: https://www.johnpendal.com/Kink Coaching: http://www.leatherlondonguide.com/coach.htmlLeather Website: http://www.leatherlondonguide.com/ https://www.thisisthesanctuary.com/the-sanctuary-episode-176-john-pendal-online-coach-kink-educator/

    John Pendal - Online Coach/ Kink Educator
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