The Pure Living Family Podcast

Shawn Blymiller

Our self-awareness journey through our son Theo's Autism and PANDAS diagnoses.

  1. 23h ago

    Why Acceptance and Treatment Are Not Opposites in Autism

    Autism is not one story, one severity level, or one path forward—and in this powerful conversation, Dr. Sylvia Fogel explains why that matters for families searching for answers. Dr. Fogel brings both professional expertise and deeply personal experience to the conversation. In her own family, one child has Level 1 autism, while another lives with profound, non-speaking autism and complex medical needs. As a physician, psychiatrist, mother, and member of the Interagency Autism Coordinating Committee (IACC), she offers a unique perspective on the challenges families face and the questions she believes autism research needs to address. Dr. Fogel opens up about her son Theo's regression, the years of trial-and-error care that followed, and why she believes the autism community needs to recognize that individuals can have very different experiences, needs, and underlying biological factors. Shawn and Dr. Fogel also discuss the grief that many families carry, the challenges of navigating a healthcare system that may not always know how to respond to regression or complex medical needs, and the importance of continuing to investigate areas such as neuroimmune function and co-occurring conditions. In this episode, we discuss: • Why autism research needs to look more closely at subgroups, mechanisms, and individual differences rather than relying only on broad averages • What neurodevelopmental regression can look like in real life and why Dr. Fogel believes it deserves greater research attention • The role functional and integrative approaches have played in her family's journey—and why stronger research and data are still needed • Why caregiver well-being, respite, and self-preservation are essential parts of supporting families • The importance of recognizing medical complexity and co-occurring conditions when caring for individuals with autism • How parents and advocates can work at the local, state, and federal levels to push for better research, services, and support • Why acceptance and treatment don't have to be opposing ideas—and how families can embrace their children while continuing to seek meaningful support and care If you're a parent of a child with autism, a caregiver, healthcare professional, educator, advocate, or simply someone trying to better understand the autism experience, this conversation offers an honest and compassionate look at the questions families are asking. It's a conversation about acceptance without giving up, treatment without shame, and hope grounded in the pursuit of better answers. About Dr. Sylvia Fogel Dr. Sylvia Fogel is a physician and psychiatrist, a former faculty member at Columbia University, and a member of the Interagency Autism Coordinating Committee. Her perspective brings together her medical background, advocacy, research interests, and lived experience as a mother navigating complex autism and medical needs within her own family. The experiences and perspectives shared in this episode are not medical advice and should not be interpreted as a guarantee that any particular treatment or approach will work for every individual.

  2. Sep 19

    Autism Regression, Advocacy, and a Mother’s Fight for Better Answers.

    What happens when a child loses speech, eye contact, and motor skills—and parents are told it’s simply part of autism?In this powerful episode of the Pure Living Family Podcast, Shawn speaks with Tracy Slepcevic, author of Warrior Mom: A Mother’s Journey in Healing Her Son with Autism, autism advocate, health coach, speaker, and member of the Interagency Autism Coordinating Committee. Tracy shares the deeply personal journey that took her from a mother desperately searching for answers to a passionate advocate fighting for better care, research, and support for families affected by autism. She opens up about her son Noah’s regression, including speech loss, changes in eye contact, loss of motor skills, tiptoe walking, sensory challenges, school struggles, and the experience of being told that everything was normal. Tracy explains how delays in evaluation and support left her family searching for answers while navigating a system she believes is failing too many parents. The conversation also explores the approaches Tracy and her family considered during Noah’s journey, including: Working with a clinical psychologist for a formal diagnosisDietary and nutritional changesGut health and microbiome supportSupplements and IV nutrientsHyperbaric oxygen therapyStem cell therapyExploring MTHFR, mitochondrial health, heavy metals, autoimmune conditions, and other health concernsNoah’s early signs of regressionSpeech loss and developmental changesAutism diagnosis and navigating the healthcare systemDietary and nutritional interventionsGut health and the microbiomeMTHFR and other health considerations Tracy exploredMitochondrial health and metabolic factorsHyperbaric oxygen and stem cell therapyAutism advocacy and public policyTracy’s work with the IACCSchool challenges and advocating for your childElopement and family safetyThe financial burden of pursuing additional careWhy Tracy believes parents deserve better answers and more support These are Tracy’s experiences and perspectives from her family’s journey. They are not medical advice or a guarantee that any approach will work for every child. Tracy also discusses her work with the Interagency Autism Coordinating Committee, including the importance of addressing regression seriously and treating co-occurring conditions as individual health concerns rather than simply labeling them as part of autism. She speaks candidly about the emotional and financial toll many families face: school battles, an elopement scare, feeling dismissed by professionals, the cost of pursuing additional care, and the moments when she wondered how much more she could take. Ultimately, this conversation is about hope, advocacy, and the determination to keep asking questions when answers are not coming fast enough. Whether you are a parent, caregiver, practitioner, educator, advocate, or simply trying to better understand the autism conversation, Tracy’s story offers a deeply personal look at what families can experience when they are searching for answers.Sometimes advocacy starts with one parent refusing to stop asking questions. 📖 Warrior Mom Book: https://a.co/d/0coNXRzH Find Tracy online: Website: https://autismhealth.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/autismhealthinc/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AutismHealthIncYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AutismHealthSummitLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/autismhealthincTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@autism.health

  3. Sep 12

    The Civil Rights Fight Behind Non-Speaking Autism Communication

    Most schools are still getting communication rights wrong for non-speaking autistic kids. David Kaufer shares how his son Stone found his voice through spelling, why his school district rejected it at first, and the legal fight that ended with real accommodations and a path to graduation.David is an autism advocate, writer, podcast host, and founder of Communicators for Communication Rights. He also brings the lived experience of parenting Stone, a non-speaking autistic young man who did not find a reliable way to communicate until almost age 17. That journey changes everything in this conversation - from education law to motor planning to what it actually means to presume competence.You’ll hear how a chance recommendation led David to spelling to communicate, why his family invested in intensive sessions with Don Marie Gavin, and how they used both advocacy and the law to push for access at school. We break down the difference between IDEA, IEPs, and ADA protections, and why David believes communication methods like S2C deserve to be treated as civil rights accommodations, not optional services.David also explains the biggest objections families run into, including the ASHA positioning statement and the so-called “message passing test,” and why he says the science used to deny access is flawed. Along the way, Stone joins the conversation and offers his own perspective on impulse control, communication, and what it feels like when language finally becomes possible.If you’re a parent fighting for spelling access, a teacher trying to understand non-speaking students, or someone who needs hope that progress is possible, this episode is essential listening. It’s a powerful reminder that the right support can unlock education, independence, and a voice that was there all along. https://youtu.be/Pi9bO2E7Lbc https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-david-kaufer-podcast-the-lighter-side-of-the-spectrum/id1779167029  Substack/@KauferInsights

  4. Sep 5

    What They're Missing: Gut, Sleep & Inflammation Behind Your Child's Symptoms | Greer McGuinness

    The biggest mistake in autism care is treating every child like they need the same fix. But what happens when you stop asking "what does autism usually look like?" and start asking "what is this child specifically dealing with?" In this episode Shawn Blymiller sits down with Greer McGuinness; a functional nutrition and biomedical wellness practitioner working exclusively with children on the autism spectrum and their families. Greer breaks down the concept of bioindividualized care; working backward from a child's visible symptoms to the specific gut, sleep, inflammation, and nutrient issues driving their unique challenges. This conversation is for every parent who has been told "that's just autism" and felt something deeper was being missed. It is for every clinician ready to look past the label. And it is for every caregiver who wants something more exact, more compassionate, and more effective than one-size-fits-all advice. In this episode: — Why autism is becoming an oversimplified "wastebasket diagnosis" and what that costs families— The comorbidities that consistently get overlooked : gut dysbiosis, food sensitivities, sleep disruption, seizures, migraines, and oxidative stress— How bioindividualized nutrition and supplementation replace the guesswork approach— Why working backward from symptoms reveals what a child's body actually needs— How lab work turns uncertainty into truly individualized care— Autism overshadowing : the blind spot where everything gets blamed on the label instead of the child's unique biology Greer's approach is a reminder that progress often starts the moment you stop accepting a diagnosis as a destination and start treating it as a starting point. Follow Greer's work at @biomedicalhealingkids on TikTok and Instagram. Pure Living Family Foundation serves 2,000+ families navigating autism, PANDAS/PANS, and epilepsy. New episodes every month. Subscribe so you never miss a conversation. Learn more at purelivingfamily.com

  5. Aug 8

    Why gut bacteria may be driving autism symptoms

    The autism breakthrough most families never hear about is hiding in the gut. Dr. James B. Adams reveals why microbiome repair, targeted nutrition, and smarter testing may change outcomes for kids who have been told there are no options. If you are a parent searching for answers, this is the conversation to hear. Shawn Blymiller sits down with Dr. James Adams, President's Professor at Arizona State University and Director of the ASU Autism and Asperger's Research Program, for a deeply practical and hope-filled conversation about what actually moves the needle for families navigating autism. Adams shares how his own daughter's diagnosis changed the course of his career, leading him from engineering into more than 25 years of autism research including nutrition, gut health, and microbiota transfer therapy. You will discover: Why vitamin and mineral deficiencies can affect autism symptoms and why a comprehensive supplement helped roughly 75% of kids in his clinical studiesHow gut bacteria, yeast, and metabolites like p-cresol may influence behavior, language, mood, and GI symptomsWhat Adams learned from clinical trials of microbiota transfer therapy including why benefits can continue to grow long after treatment endsWhy donor selection matters, how dosing is still being refined, and what the path to FDA approval could look likeHow a simple urine test can help identify microbial patterns that point toward treatable issues like bacterial overgrowth or yeastShawn and Dr. Adams also connect the science to lived experience including the reality many autism parents face when conventional medicine offers little beyond managing symptoms. Adams explains why his team is building tools that help families understand what is happening in the body, not just label the diagnosis. The episode also gets personal in the best way. Adams shares how his daughter went from being unable to speak to living with support, enjoying her day program, and staying happy in her own home. Progress can be slow, nonlinear, and still deeply meaningful. Dr. James B. Adams is a President's Professor at Arizona State University and Director of the ASU Autism and Asperger's Research Program. He has published more than 150 peer-reviewed papers and is known for pioneering work on autism nutrition, the gut-brain connection, and microbiota transfer therapy. Essential listening for autism parents, clinicians, and anyone looking for practical, science-backed ways to support gut health, nutrition, and development. This is one of those conversations that shifts what you think is possible. 🧬 DISCOUNT CODE: Use PLFF$50 at autismdiagnosticslab.com for $50 off the MDM Gut-Brain Health Test. Valid through October 31, 2026. 🔗 autismdiagnosticslab.com🔗 gutbrainaxistherapeutics.com🔗 brainfoundation.org/brain-investigators/brain-pi-james-adams🔗 givebutter.com/PLFF🔗 purelivingfamily.com #Autism #GutHealth #Microbiome #AutismParent #FunctionalMedicine #GutBrainConnection #DrJamesAdams #AutismResearch #MicrobiotaTherapy #PureLivingFamilyPodcast #SpecialNeedsParent #PANDAS #NutritionalTherapy

  6. Jun 20

    Functional Medicine for Special Needs Parents - Explained by Stacy Welker FNP

    Most parents of children with special needs are running on empty — but what if there’s a way to truly transform your health, resilience, and vitality? Join us as we talk with Stacey Welker, a family nurse practitioner and pioneer in functional medicine, who shares her journey from emergency room nurse to holistic health advocate. Discover how her own healing unlocked powerful tools for others. In this episode, Stacey reveals how functional medicine became a catalyst for change in her life and practice. Learn about the tests she uses to find root causes of chronic stress, inflammation, and hormonal imbalance, and how these insights lead to personalized, natural treatments. Topics include stress management, the difference between conventional meds and root-cause protocols, and cutting-edge therapies like peptides, exosomes, and stem cells. If you're overwhelmed by stress or seeking holistic solutions tailored to your unique biology, this episode is your guide. Stacey emphasizes that true health starts with lifestyle changes—hydration, diet, sleep, and stress reduction—and offers a clear pathway to reclaim your resilience. Perfect for parents of special needs kids, wellness seekers, or anyone ready to thrive beyond surviving. Don’t miss Stacey’s insights on regenerative therapies and her compassionate advice for parents. Discover how functional medicine can help you not only endure but flourish—so you can show up stronger for your loved ones and live with vitality at any age. #FunctionalMedicine #SelfCareForParents #HealFromWithin

  7. May 23

    Struggling to keep your relationship strong amidst the chaos of parenting a child with special needs?

    Struggling with the relentless stress of caring for special needs children? Emma Viglucci, a seasoned couples therapist with nearly 30 years of experience, reveals the five essential relationship areas that can transform even the most strained partnerships. From rethinking commitment and communication to nurturing intimacy and mastering collaborative problem-solving, Emma shares concrete frameworks that help couples reclaim their love and strength during life's toughest seasons. You'll discover: How stress and exhaustion quietly poison your marriage and practical steps to rebalanceThe importance of shifting your mindset to see your challenges as a shared gift, not a burdenSimple daily rituals to deepen connection, even when resources are lowThe art of addressing triggers, wounds, and emotions with compassion and vulnerabilityHow to systematize conflict resolution and create safe spaces for authentic feelingsEmma’s insights offer a pathway to emotional resilience, renewed love, and a thriving partnership—no matter how high the stakes. Join us for this compassionate, practical conversation that equips you to nurture your marriage when it matters most.Why this works: This description hooks the listener with a direct solution to a common, high-stakes problem and offers specific frameworks and insights. It appeals emotionally to overwhelmed parents seeking support, creating curiosity with tangible strategies that promise real transformation encouraging them to hit play now. Supporting Relationships in the Face of Special Needs Challenges: Insights from Emma ViglucciIn this episode, we explore how couples raising children with special needs can strengthen their relationship through understanding, intentionality, and emotional support. Key topics covered: The five components of the Metro Relationship Strategy and how they apply to busy parents of special needs childrenHow chronic stress from challenges like IEPs, medical visits, and sleep deprivation impacts marriageReframing difficult situations by viewing them as a shared gift and opportunity for growthPractical tips for nurturing connection and intimacy amidst exhaustion and overwhelmHow to process grief and complex emotions safely and constructively within a partnershipThe importance of vulnerability, non-judgment, and intentional communication in deepening intimacyStrategies for reducing recurring friction points through systematized problem-solvingThe role of love languages in supporting each other's needs, especially under stressCreating a culture of compassion and safety for emotional expressionThe significance of self-awareness and emotional vocabulary in processing feelings Resources Emma shared with us: MetroRelationship.comhttps://feelingswheel.com/  Connect with Emma Viglucci: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emmakviglucci/https://x.com/emmakviglucci?lang=en  Here are the two podcast episodes of parenting neurodivergent children: https://metrorelationship.com/podcast-17/ https://metrorelationship.com/podcast-18/ https://www.amazon.com/Giving-Love-Heals-Harville-Hendrix/dp/0671793993 https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Love-You-Want-Anniversary/dp/0805087001  Pure Living Family is a federally recognized 501-C-3 nonprofit and donations are how we are able to create and share content like this.

  8. Feb 5

    How One Dad’s Meltdown Inspired an Autism Support Platform

    Here's a podcast description for your episode: When parents feel helpless amidst a meltdown or drowning in complex resources, real support often feels out of reach. Leon, a dad of a child with autism, shares how a simple idea turned into Nova Autism — an AI-powered platform that acts as your personalized autism expert in your pocket. Discover how he transformed his challenging journey into a tool that delivers proven facts, tailored advice, and emotional relief to thousands of families worldwide. In this episode, Leon opens up about navigating the confusing maze of autism diagnosis, sharing the surprising reasons why some providers dismissed his son’s condition. He reveals the powerful moments that sparked Nova’s creation, from a 6-hour meltdown to the realization that many families are in the same boat but lack reliable support. You’ll learn about the rigorous process behind building Nova’s knowledge base—vetting over 300 credible sources to ensure accurate, evidence-based guidance you can trust. We break down: How Nova offers instant, personalized strategies for meltdowns, sensory issues, and caregiver burnoutThe importance of advocating for your child when professionals hesitateThe critical role of trusted resources and how higher-quality info can change outcomesThe vision to expand worldwide, reaching millions of autistic individuals and their familiesPractical tips for building a strong support network, even when help seems scarceWhether you're a parent overwhelmed by endless information, a caregiver seeking reliable support, or a family member ready to make a difference, this episode provides hope, clarity, and actionable tools. Leon’s story proves that even one idea — combined with determination — can reshape the autism support landscape. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation about innovation, advocacy, and finding beauty through challenges. Leon is a father and creator of Nova Autism, an AI platform designed to empower parents with fact-based, personalized autism support. His journey from frustration to innovation highlights the urgent need for accessible, credible help in a community that often feels unheard. This episode is essential listening for any family navigating autism, advocates aiming to improve resources, or anyone curious about how technology can make a real impact. Tune in now and discover how you can turn adversity into advocacy—with tools that truly make a difference.

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Our self-awareness journey through our son Theo's Autism and PANDAS diagnoses.

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