Sass & Small TALK

Deb Balino

Deb Balino, of Sass & Smalls (www.sassandsmalls.com) brings on her "extra', infectious energy, and hard-to-miss enthusiasm to host Sass & Small Talk - my little corner of the web, to talk about "allllll the things" mommyhood, womanhood, and simply getting ones' sass back. From finding ways to integrate a creative, entrepreneurial spirit with family life, to friendships, to the chaotic and wonderful world of kids. The mess, the clean ups, the ups, the downs, chasing the kids while chasing the dream. Join me, as I continue to find perfection in the imperfection of family life while keeping things as sassy as they've always been, before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps came into the picture. I'm always looking for a way to fight through the funk of mamahood, and find my SASS, and I know I'm not alone. If you're DONE with the hot MESS, and ready to cook up some hot NESS... Mama - I gotchu. Grab your poison, throw on your comfy and let's talk. Darling - I need my sass back.... The question is - Do you?

  1. 5d ago

    The Invisible Load of: BREAKING GENERATIONAL CYCLES

    Send us Fan Mail What if the things we inherit don't have to be the things we pass on? In this deeply moving conversation, I sit down with Nicole “Nikky E” Ermineskin, a Nêhiyaw (Cree) Métis single mom, performing artist, entrepreneur, community builder, and youth mentor. Nikky's story is one of family separation, addiction, racism, intergenerational trauma, ADHD, motherhood, healing—and ultimately, finding her voice. Raised by her grandparents, Nikky grew up surrounded by love, music, and the arts while also carrying the complicated realities of her family history and the ongoing impacts of systemic racism and residential schools. Her ADHD diagnosis became a turning point, helping her understand herself and her creativity in a completely different way. She went on to use music, dance, filmmaking, and mentorship to help young people find their own voices and create new possibilities for themselves. We talk about breaking generational cycles, parenting, identity, culture, forgiveness, creativity, community, and what it means to turn lived experience into something that can help the next generation. Sometimes healing isn't about forgetting what happened. It's about deciding what happens next. We chose healing. Real parents. Real stories. Because it takes a village to raise a child — and a community to raise their parent. "I NEED MY SASS BACK"  Music Video  YouTube Spotify Apple Music  IG - @sassandsmalls (Main)        @sassandsmalltalkpodcast FB/TIKTOK/WEBSITE SUBSCRIBE YOUTUBE Listen HERE Requests HERE RATINGS If you're a parent/caregiver carrying an invisible load & like what you hear? Please share and rate us 5 Stars   BYE BYE BURNOUT MY GO-TO for Cortisol-balancing, Gut-healing, Stress Resillience:  "HAPPY" DRINK $10 OFF

    The Invisible Load of: BREAKING GENERATIONAL CYCLES
  2. Sep 2

    The Invisible Load of: FIGHTING FOR THE FAMILY YOU DREAMED OF WHILE CHASING YOUR DREAMS

    Send us Fan Mail What happens after you've fought so hard to become a parent? WATCH VIDEO EPISODE ON YOUTUBE In the Season 2 finale of Sass & Small Talk, I reconnect with my childhood friend Giuseppe “Joe” Spoletini for a heartfelt, hilarious, and full-circle conversation about family, identity, creativity, and the unexpected roads that lead us to parenthood. Giuseppe and I grew up walking to school together, performing in musical theatre, competing in music festivals, and even ballroom dancing together. Years later, we've both carried our love of the arts into adulthood while building the families we worked so hard to have. Our paths to parenthood looked very different - mine through infertility, loss, and egg donation, and his through adoption with his husband - but we discovered that many of the feelings along the way were surprisingly familiar: uncertainty, fear, sacrifice, hope, and deep gratitude. We talk about growing up with immigrant parents, pursuing creative passions, redefining success, and what happens when becoming the parent you've dreamed of being is only the beginning. Because two things can be true: you can be deeply grateful for the family you fought for—and still find parenting incredibly hard. Real parents. Real stories. Because it takes a village to raise a child — and a community to raise their parent. Let's Talk :: GIUSEPPE SPOLETINI IG - https://www.instagram.com/spoletinigiuseppe/ FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/giuseppe.spoletini.5 "I NEED MY SASS BACK"  Music Video  YouTube Spotify Apple Music  IG - @sassandsmalls (Main)        @sassandsmalltalkpodcast FB/TIKTOK/WEBSITE SUBSCRIBE YOUTUBE Listen HERE Requests HERE RATINGS If you're a parent/caregiver carrying an invisible load & like what you hear? Please share and rate us 5 Stars   BYE BYE BURNOUT MY GO-TO for Cortisol-balancing, Gut-healing, Stress Resillience:  "HAPPY" DRINK $10 OFF

    The Invisible Load of: FIGHTING FOR THE FAMILY YOU DREAMED OF WHILE CHASING YOUR DREAMS
  3. Jul 28

    The Invisible Load of: MODERN MOTHERHOOD & REDEFINING SUCCESS WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF

    Send us Fan Mail What does success look like in this season of motherhood? WATCH VIDEO EPISODE ON YOUTUBE Deb sits down with Victoria photographer Nina Sinclair for an honest conversation about entrepreneurship, ADHD, burnout, creativity, and the invisible load of modern motherhood. Together they explore what it means to pursue meaningful work while staying deeply connected to family, why asking for help is a strength rather than a weakness, and how letting go of perfection creates more room for presence. From building a trusted team and relying on her village to protecting her family's privacy while growing a successful business, Nina shares how she's learned to embrace this season with intention, authenticity, and grace. A thoughtful conversation about redefining success, choosing presence over perfection, and creating a life that's aligned with what matters most. Real parents. Real stories. Because it takes a village to raise a child — and a community to raise their parent. Let's Talk :: NINA SINCLAIR, Of Ocean and Earth Photography IG - https://www.instagram.com/of.ocean.and.earth.photo/ (Main)        https://www.instagram.com/the.laneway.studio/ FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/la.lilly.ann.photo "I NEED MY SASS BACK"  Music Video  YouTube Spotify Apple Music  IG - @sassandsmalls (Main)        @sassandsmalltalkpodcast FB/TIKTOK/WEBSITE SUBSCRIBE YOUTUBE Listen HERE Requests HERE RATINGS If you're a parent/caregiver carrying an invisible load & like what you hear? Please share and rate us 5 Stars   BYE BYE BURNOUT MY GO-TO for Cortisol-balancing, Gut-healing, Stress Resillience:  "HAPPY" DRINK $10 OFF

    The Invisible Load of: MODERN MOTHERHOOD & REDEFINING SUCCESS WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF
  4. Jul 2

    The Invisible Load of: PARENTING PROFOUND NEEDS & MULTIPLES AS A FULL TIME HOMEMAKER

    Send us Fan Mail When life doesn't look the way you once planned, how do you decide what matters most? What does success look like when your priorities change? WATCH VIDEO EPISODE ON YOUTUBE. Deb sits down with Rowena Brykin to discuss her family's move from Abu Dhabi to Canada, her decision to leave a successful career to become a homemaker, and the realities of raising four boys, including triplets, two of whom are autistic - one profoundly so. Together they explore caregiving, marriage, identity, and the invisible load many parents carry while creating a life that better supports their family's needs. A powerful conversation about redefining success, choosing peace, and discovering that sometimes the greatest act of love is simply being present. Real parents. Real stories. Because it takes a village to raise a child — and a community to raise their parent. WATCH THIS EPISODE on YOUTUBE HERE The Guest: ROWENA BRYKIN IG - @mama_brykin  (Main)        @mama_uniquorns TIKTOK - @victoriagood.ca "I NEED MY SASS BACK"  Music Video  YouTube Spotify Apple Music  IG - @sassandsmalls (Main)        @sassandsmalltalkpodcast FB/TIKTOK/WEBSITE SUBSCRIBE YOUTUBE Listen HERE Requests HERE RATINGS If you're a parent/caregiver carrying an invisible load & like what you hear? Please share and rate us 5 Stars   BYE BYE BURNOUT MY GO-TO for Cortisol-balancing, Gut-healing, Stress Resillience:  "HAPPY" DRINK $10 OFF

    The Invisible Load of: PARENTING PROFOUND NEEDS & MULTIPLES AS A FULL TIME HOMEMAKER
  5. 08/04/2025

    Let's Talk :: FROM BURNOUT TO BODY CONFIDENCE: FITNESS, BEAUTY & MENTAL WELLNESS | Emily Bowman, TELUS Storyhive

    Send us Fan Mail 🎙️ Welcome to Sass & Small Talk: Reclaiming the Joy of Parenthood Beyond Burnout — Season 3, originally created with support from TELUS StoryHive "I’ll start Monday." Ever said that? Or:  "Once the kids are older… once things calm down… once I have time." We’ve all been there. In Episode 2 of Sass & Small Talk: Reclaiming the Joy of Parenthood Beyond Burnout, I sit down with health coach and mama, Emily Bowman to talk about something a lot of us don’t say out loud: 💥 The shame of being “busy” but still sedentary. 💥 The pressure to bounce back, shrink down, or “get healthy” according to society’s lens. 💥 The grief of losing our old bodies—and the quiet power of learning to love our current ones. This one’s not about diet hacks or hitting the gym at 5am.  It’s about releasing pressure, embracing what our bodies have carried us through, and redefining health our way. Join Deb and Certified Fitness Coach, Emily Bowman of Nevaeh Jade Beauty and Wellness, as they explore personal wellness beyond societal norms. Emily shares her emotional, often isolating, journey from young caregiver to corporate burnout, igniting a passion for fitness and beauty as a wellness advocate in Victoria, BC. Tune in to discover ways of cultivating a healthy mindset, while enjoying Deb’s humorous attempts to master proper squat form as a way to fit movement into her chaotic schedule. ✨You’re not behind. You’re evolving. Catch more laughter, squats, Yoga-envy 🧘🏻‍♀️, words of wisdom, and a tear or two… 🎙️NOW STREAMING on a 📺 near you. @Telus OptikTV (search “Storyhive Sass” on Demand), Ch. 9, Stream+ app, ‪@storyhive‬ . 💬 Watch the full season on this YOUTUBE playlist here. 🔔 Subscribe for weekly episodes on burnout, motherhood, identity, healing, and everything in between. Let's Talk :: EMILY BOWMAN • Instagram - @nevaehjade.beautywellness "I NEED MY SASS BACK"  Music Video  YouTube Spotify Apple Music  IG - @sassandsmalls (Main)        @sassandsmalltalkpodcast FB/TIKTOK/WEBSITE SUBSCRIBE YOUTUBE Listen HERE Requests HERE RATINGS If you're a parent/caregiver carrying an invisible load & like what you hear? Please share and rate us 5 Stars   BYE BYE BURNOUT MY GO-TO for Cortisol-balancing, Gut-healing, Stress Resillience:  "HAPPY" DRINK $10 OFF

    Let's Talk :: FROM BURNOUT TO BODY CONFIDENCE: FITNESS, BEAUTY & MENTAL WELLNESS | Emily Bowman, TELUS Storyhive
  6. 07/29/2025

    Let's Talk :: FROM CORPORATE TO CREATIVE MAMA: BUILDING A FAMILY-FIRST BUSINESS | Natasha Mills, TELUS Storyhive

    Send us Fan Mail 🎙️ Welcome to Sass & Small Talk: Reclaiming the Joy of Parenthood Beyond Burnout — Season 3, originally created with support from TELUS StoryHive In this Episode: We talk about the experience of Career Burnout, leading to a bold move of walking away from a successful career in Corporate, and making the pivot to a Family-First Business. Join Deb and local lifestyle creator and entrepreneur, Natasha Mills of "Momma Mills". Natasha reveals her bold shift from a successful corporate career to building a personal brand from home, striving for family balance while advocating for her community in Victoria, BC. Will this new path bring the joy she seeks, or will it come with its own set of challenges and burnout? Tune in for an inspiring discussion on making a career pivot, finding purpose, and evolving as a recovering high achiever. 💬 Watch the full season on this YOUTUBE playlist here:  🔔 Subscribe for weekly episodes on burnout, motherhood, identity, healing, and everything in between. Connect with Natasha: •Instagram •Natasha's Website • Natasha's Digital Marketing Course "I NEED MY SASS BACK"  Music Video  YouTube Spotify Apple Music  IG - @sassandsmalls (Main)        @sassandsmalltalkpodcast FB/TIKTOK/WEBSITE SUBSCRIBE YOUTUBE Listen HERE Requests HERE RATINGS If you're a parent/caregiver carrying an invisible load & like what you hear? Please share and rate us 5 Stars   BYE BYE BURNOUT MY GO-TO for Cortisol-balancing, Gut-healing, Stress Resillience:  "HAPPY" DRINK $10 OFF

    Let's Talk :: FROM CORPORATE TO CREATIVE MAMA: BUILDING A FAMILY-FIRST BUSINESS | Natasha Mills, TELUS Storyhive

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Deb Balino, of Sass & Smalls (www.sassandsmalls.com) brings on her "extra', infectious energy, and hard-to-miss enthusiasm to host Sass & Small Talk - my little corner of the web, to talk about "allllll the things" mommyhood, womanhood, and simply getting ones' sass back. From finding ways to integrate a creative, entrepreneurial spirit with family life, to friendships, to the chaotic and wonderful world of kids. The mess, the clean ups, the ups, the downs, chasing the kids while chasing the dream. Join me, as I continue to find perfection in the imperfection of family life while keeping things as sassy as they've always been, before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps came into the picture. I'm always looking for a way to fight through the funk of mamahood, and find my SASS, and I know I'm not alone. If you're DONE with the hot MESS, and ready to cook up some hot NESS... Mama - I gotchu. Grab your poison, throw on your comfy and let's talk. Darling - I need my sass back.... The question is - Do you?