The M3 Bearcast from Male Media Mind

Malcolm Travers

Welcome to the M3 Baercast. My name is Malcolm Travers. Male Media Mind is a grassroots organization dedicated to uplifting and unifying the black bear community through dialogue, insight, creativity, and knowledge. I've been hosting live streams and sharing content on social media for many years now. I've been asked few times to produce a podcast. It's been a pleasure to make them. Podcasts have the capability to host a longer, more in-depth conversation than our videos on youtube. It also allows you to work or the gym, and you don't have to worry about visual elements of the show being missing, which allows you to passively partake in our conversations. It gives me a chance to mold and edit the conversations in ways that make our points clear.

  1. 6D AGO

    Personal Capacity & Emotional Health

    M3 BearCast Ep. 91 — What happens when the world is on fire… and you still have to live inside your own nervous system? In this episode, Malcolm and the panel dig into the messy intersection of politics, psychology, boundaries, and emotional survival. We start with a hard question: after MAGA, is there even a “back to normal”? And if not, what does accountability, consequence, and “forgiveness” look like for the people who enabled the damage—especially when some folks are trying to “de-cult” and come back into the fold? From there, we move into a set of “radical beliefs” that hit like uncomfortable mirrors: why complaining can become social glue, why people tolerate venting more than joy, how low self-esteem can be culturally rewarded, and why a person’s relationship to God often reflects their relationship to themselves. Then we shift into mental health and productivity reality: the difference between discipline and capacity—and why you can’t shame your way out of depletion. We talk nervous system limits, burnout, decision fatigue, environmental structure, and what “care-first” actually looks like day to day. We also touch on the need for small, intentional joy (yes, even when everything feels burning), and why pleasure can be neuroprotective—fuel, not betrayal. Finally, we tackle immigration myths head-on, including discussion of a Cato Institute report arguing immigrants strengthen the U.S. economy—plus why facts alone won’t convert committed extremists, but can fortify low-information voters on our side. And we close with a blunt boundary lesson: over-explaining yourself to someone committed to misunderstanding you is emotional self-harm. 🔔 Subscribe + Get Notified When We Go Live Subscribe to male media mind 2 on YouTube — and hit the bell so you’re notified when we go live. 📲 Follow Us Everywhere Follow male media mind on Instagram, Facebook, BlueSky, Threads, and TikTok for clips, updates, and live show announcements. ❤️ Support the Movement Become a Patron at patreon.com/malemediamind for extra content, aftershows, community access, and more.

    37 min
  2. FEB 6

    Facing Challenges Using Creativity and Resilience

    In this episode of the M3 Bearcast, host Malcolm Travers dives deep into the nuances of personal development, mental health, and the social dynamics within the Black and LGBTQ+ communities. Drawing from the "Scenes from M3 Live" stream, Malcolm bridges the gap between digital content and real-world application, challenging listeners to move beyond surface-level solutions. Cultivating Anti-Fragility Beyond Boundaries The episode kicks off with a nuanced discussion on mental health and the concept of boundaries. While setting boundaries is often touted as the ultimate form of self-care, Malcolm and guest Gregory Drayton explore why they are sometimes insufficient. Malcolm shares his personal journey navigating the anxiety and "news leakage" following tragic events, such as the shooting of Alex Pertti. The conversation shifts toward building anti-fragility—the capacity to remain grounded even when life is messy and boundaries are inevitably crossed. The Real-World Cost of Magical Thinking Malcolm addresses the "hellscape" of social media commentary regarding Black men’s health and the rejection of modern medicine. He examines how "magical thinking" and conspiracy theories—ranging from the "firmament" to spiritual warfare—act as barriers to community progress. The discussion highlights the collective financial and social burden when members of the community opt for "comforting delusions" over proactive healthcare and logical problem-solving. Creativity as a Tool for Political Resilience Facing a daunting political landscape, the podcast offers a message of hope centered on innovation through pressure. Reflecting on how the DMV and businesses adapted during COVID-19, Malcolm argues that the current "existential crisis" in American politics is an opportunity for creative restructuring. He discusses the need for nimble thinking to combat authoritarianism and corruption, emphasizing that growth often occurs during our most difficult eras. The War Between Humility and Pride Finally, the episode explores respectability politics and the pressure to be "twice as good." Malcolm and Greg discuss how this pressure can lead to a dangerous lack of accountability. They argue that true growth requires the humility to admit mistakes—like Greg’s $10,000 banking error—rather than hiding behind a facade of perfection. The episode concludes with a reminder that mistakes are not failures, but guideposts for correct action. Join the Community If you value these deep dives into dialogue, insight, and creativity, consider supporting the grassroots mission of Male Media Mind. Become a Patron: Gain access to our private Telegram groups, Book Club, exclusive VIP room, and patron-only after-shows at patreon.com/malemediamind.Follow Us: Stay connected and join the live conversation on:InstagramFacebookYouTubeX (Blue Sky)TikTokVisit malemediamindlive.com for all social media links and upcoming broadcast schedules. Would you like me to create a shorter, more "punchy" version of this description specifically for a YouTube or Spotify upload?

    39 min
  3. JAN 30

    The Spite House w/ Mark O Estes

    In this episode of the **M3 Bearcast**, Malcolm Travers is joined by horror enthusiast and critic **Mark O. Estes** to dive deep into the chilling world of Johnny Compton’s celebrated novel, *The Spite House*. What makes a house "haunted"? Is it the spirits of the dead, or the lingering energy of the living? Malcolm and Mark explore the southern gothic atmosphere of Compton's Texas-set thriller, which follows a father and his two daughters on the run. They’ve accepted a cryptic offer: stay in a "spite house" and document its paranormal activity for half a million dollars. But as they quickly discover, the rules of this haunting—and the nature of the "ghosts" within—break every traditional trope of the genre. - * **The Anatomy of a Spite House:** The history of homes built out of pure defiance and how that negative energy manifests. * **Beyond the Grave:** Why the entities in *The Spite House* are more disturbing than traditional ghosts. * **The Science of Fear:** A look at how our environment, gut biomes, and even the history of diseases like tuberculosis shape our narratives of the supernatural. * **The "Twist" (No Spoilers!):** How Johnny Compton pulls the rug out from under the reader by redefining what it means to be a "source" of energy. --- ### **Join the MALE Media Mind Community** **MALE Media Mind** is a grassroots organization dedicated to uplifting and unifying our community through dialogue, insight, creativity, and knowledge. Help us grow by following us on social media and supporting our work: * **Instagram:** [Follow us for behind-the-scenes content] * **X (formerly Twitter):** [Join the conversation] * **Facebook:** [Connect with the community] * **TikTok:** [Watch episode highlights] * **Blue Sky:** [Find us on the horizon] * **Patreon:** Support the mission and get exclusive perks at [Patreon.com/malemediamind](https://www.patreon.com/malemediamind) ### **Recommended Listening** If you enjoyed Mark’s insights on horror and the paranormal, be sure to subscribe to **Mark O. Estes'** podcast, **Midnight Social Distortion**, available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

    30 min
  4. JAN 23

    Dialogue Dynamics and the Art of Connection

    In this soul-baring return of the **M3 Bearcast**, Malcolm Travers explores the intricate machinery of human communication. Moving beyond surface-level dating advice, Malcolm dives into the psychological and spiritual dimensions of how we connect—or fail to—with one another. Drawing insights from Charles Duhigg’s *Super Communicators* and Jefferson Fisher’s *The Next Conversation*, the episode breaks down communication into three core types: **the need to be helped, heard, or hugged.** ### **Key Takeaways from the Episode:** * **The "Why" Behind the Mic:** Malcolm reveals his personal journey as a "notorious recluse" and conflict avoider. He discusses how podcasting serves as a ritual to externalize internal conversations and practice openness. * **The Miracle of Language:** An exploration of language as an "underrated technology." Malcolm uses a fascinating analogy from the video game *Destiny 2* (The Last Wish raid) to illustrate how we create shared meaning under pressure. * **Honesty vs. Violence:** A nuanced look at "reading" culture and the thin line between being vulnerable and being destructively honest. * **The Power of Listening:** Shifting the perspective of listening from a passive act to a "spiritual practice" and a high expression of love. * **Panel Discussion:** Malcolm is joined by **Greg** and **John** from the Patreon community to debate the "b******t" of common relationship advice, the fear of response, and the importance of establishing "patterns" in communication. --- ### **Join the Conversation** If you enjoyed this episode and want to dive deeper into themes of Afrofuturism, self-development, and radical honesty, connect with Malcolm across the web: * **Instagram:** [Follow Male Media Mind](https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.instagram.com/malemediamind) * **Twitter/X:** [@malemediamind](https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.twitter.com/malemediamind) * **Facebook:** [Male Media Mind Page](https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.facebook.com/malemediamind) * **TikTok:** [@malemediamind](https://www.tiktok.com/@malemediamind) * **Blue Sky:** Find us at @malemediamind ### **Support the Mission** Malcolm has committed to **48 episodes in 2026**, but this grassroots work is only possible with your help. Become a part of the inner circle to access the Telegram group, exclusive after-shows, and full video recordings. **Become a Patreon Member:** [patreon.com/malemediamind](https://www.patreon.com/malemediamind)

    29 min
  5. JAN 16

    AI and the Future of Connection

    M3 BearCast Episode Description Welcome to the M3 BearCast, where host Malcolm Traverse explores the profound implications of artificial intelligence on our communities, relationships, and humanity itself. Episode Summary In this thought-provoking episode, Malcolm dives deep into the rapidly evolving landscape of AI technology and its far-reaching consequences for human connection. He examines both the promises and perils of AI as it becomes increasingly sophisticated and integrated into our daily lives. Key Topics Covered: The Rise of Personal AI Intelligence   The Loneliness Epidemic and AI Companions  The AI Economic Bubble  AI in Creative Industries   The Dark Side: Security and Misinformation  AI in Healthcare and Eldercare   Cultural Impact and Human Connection   The Promise of Assistive Technology  Malcolm's Balanced Perspective Throughout the episode, Malcolm maintains he's "not anti-AI," acknowledging its tremendous utility for language learning, personalized recommendations (he shares his positive experience getting book suggestions from ChatGPT based on his Goodreads data), research assistance, and accessibility. However, he emphasizes the need for thoughtfulness, regulation, and cultural intentionality as we navigate this technological revolution. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder: the robots are here, and we must be deliberate about valuing human connection and maintaining our humanity as AI becomes increasingly sophisticated. Join the M3 Community Mail Media Mind (that's M-A-L-E Media Mind) is a grassroots organization dedicated to uplifting and unifying our community through dialogue, insight, creativity, and knowledge. Support Us on Patreon Become a patron for just $5/month at Patreon.com/malemediamind and get exclusive access to: Private Telegram groups After-shows from our live streams Book club discussions And much more! Connect With Us Visit our website: malemediamindlive.com   Email Malcolm directly: bigmalc2@gmail.com Follow Us on Social Media Subscribe and stay connected across all platforms: Instagram: @malemediamind Facebook: Mail Media Mind X (Twitter): @malemediamind TikTok: @malemediamind Join the conversation about technology, community, mental health, spirituality, and personal development. Your support helps us continue creating meaningful content that challenges, inspires, and connects our community.

    31 min
  6. JAN 10

    Capitalism, Morality, and Hidden Value

    M3 BearCast Ep 86 In this thought-provoking episode of the M3 BearCast, Malcolm Traver explores the complex relationship between capitalism, morality, and how society determines value in human life. The Epstein Case and Capitalist Incentives Malcolm examines the Jeffrey Epstein scandal through the lens of unchecked capitalism, arguing that the horrific scale of Epstein's crimes reveals how capital—when personified as an entity that only wants to grow—creates incentives that make morality optional for the ruling class. He discusses how Epstein operated in a parallel universe of power where traditional consequences didn't apply, and how this connects to broader patterns of elite behavior from ostentatious displays of wealth to brazen criminal activity. Work-From-Home and Control The episode explores why corporations pushed employees back to offices despite proven productivity gains during the pandemic. Malcolm argues this wasn't about efficiency—it was about control. The ruling class doesn't want workers comfortable; they want leverage. Work-from-home became too much of a perk given away for free, disrupting the carefully maintained incentive structures that keep workers insecure and manageable. Why Trump Won the Working Class Malcolm offers a provocative theory: working-class voters didn't care about Trump's immorality because survival, not morality, drives people at the bottom of the economic ladder. They wanted someone willing to break rules on their behalf—their own criminal to fight the system. This mirrors how Epstein's network operated: mutual destruction as insurance, power through shared secrets. The Hidden Value of Disabled People In a deeply personal turn, Malcolm challenges the narrative that people on disability are drains on society. He argues that disabled people drive technological advancement (from Neuralink to brain research), anchor families, provide essential care, and even serve as the cautionary example that motivates others to work—making them paradoxically valuable to the capitalist system that devalues them. Healthcare and elder care remain recession-proof industries precisely because of this hidden value. Finding Balance Malcolm concludes by acknowledging that capitalism, while useful as a tool, requires tempering by socialist principles and recognition of non-commodifiable human value. Without this balance, capitalism logically ends in slavery—the ultimate commodification of people. Ready to dive deeper into these conversations? Visit mailmediamindlive.com to catch our live streams every Wednesday at 7 PM Eastern, where Malcolm and guests break down complex topics with humor and insight. Support independent grassroots media by becoming a patron at patreon.com/MailMediaMind (that's M-A-L-E Media Mind). For just $5 a month, you'll get access to exclusive Instagram content, book club discussions, after-show recordings, and more. Help us keep these important conversations going.

    31 min
  7. 07/11/2025

    The Bare-Minimum Myth

    When does a “quick text back” morph from courtesy into handcuffs? In this unfiltered round-table, Malcolm Traverse and the M3 crew probe the slippery world of bare minimums—those unspoken yardsticks that can make or break our sense of care. From birthday-gift price tags to the dread of a left-on-read bubble, we ask why modern love so often feels like an endless terms-and-conditions screen. Inside the Episode Generation Ping: How constant connectivity rewired our expectations of instant replies—and why older and younger daters clash over it.Unspoken ≠ Universal: Why assuming everyone shares your “obvious” basics sets the stage for resentment.Neurodivergence & Mind-Reading Myths: What happens when partners literally process social cues differently.Sacrifice vs. Boundaries: The fine line between healthy compromise and soul-sucking people-pleasing.Friendship Contracts: Texting etiquette, “hey stranger” faux pas, and the three F’s (feeding, financing, or… well, you know).The Bare-Minimum Checklist:  blunt questions to ask early—before silence starts shouting neglect.Love the dialogue? Help us keep it rolling. Subscribe on YouTube: Catch our live streams every Wednesday, 7 PM ET → youtube.com/MaleMediaMind2Back us on Patreon: Unlock after-shows, private chat groups, and more → patreon.com/MaleMediaMindRate, share, and tag us; your voice widens the circle. Until next time—speak your bare minimums before they turn into maximum headaches.

    28 min

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About

Welcome to the M3 Baercast. My name is Malcolm Travers. Male Media Mind is a grassroots organization dedicated to uplifting and unifying the black bear community through dialogue, insight, creativity, and knowledge. I've been hosting live streams and sharing content on social media for many years now. I've been asked few times to produce a podcast. It's been a pleasure to make them. Podcasts have the capability to host a longer, more in-depth conversation than our videos on youtube. It also allows you to work or the gym, and you don't have to worry about visual elements of the show being missing, which allows you to passively partake in our conversations. It gives me a chance to mold and edit the conversations in ways that make our points clear.