No One Dies from Divorce

Jill Coil
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I'm Jill Coil — divorce attorney, family law expert, and author of "No One Dies from Divorce." I've helped hundreds of clients navigate separation and divorce, and I've faced it personally in my own marriage. This podcast exists to give you the divorce help, support, and real answers you can't always find elsewhere. Each episode covers the topics that matter most during and after divorce: divorce recovery, co-parenting, child custody, dividing finances, healing emotionally, and rebuilding your life. I'm joined by fellow divorce attorneys, therapists, financial advisors, health coaches, and everyday people sharing their divorce journeys. Whether you're considering separation, fighting for custody, protecting your finances, or just trying to survive the process — this podcast is your support system. Note: Jill Coil is an attorney, but not your attorney. Nothing here constitutes legal advice. You can do more than survive this. You can thrive after divorce. Let's get through it together.

  1. 13h ago

    Will I Ever Be Happy Again? Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce

    When you're in the middle of a divorce, it can feel like a bomb went off and the smoke is so thick you can't see an inch in front of your face. You can't picture life on the other side, and you're terrified it's going to hurt like this forever. After almost 20 years in family law, here's what I know that you can't see yet: it doesn't. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with my CoilLaw colleague Chariden to talk about the part nobody can imagine while they're still in it: life after divorce, and how often it turns out healthier, more peaceful, and more like you than the life you're leaving behind. We talk about why the fear of the unknown is so paralyzing, and why so many of the things people are most afraid of never turn out as bad as they imagined. I share what I call the rebound effect, the way your body is actually built to find its way back to happiness after something traumatic, even when you're convinced it never will. And we get into the one-year-later reality I see over and over: the client who swore they'd never get married again, who's thriving six months down the road and barely recognizes the person who first walked into my office. If you're a parent scared of what divorce means for your children, we cover that head-on. Kids do not thrive in a home full of conflict. They thrive with two parents who are calmer, healthier, and finally at peace, even in two different houses. Healing isn't linear and nobody expects you to be okay tomorrow. Some days you'll be on the floor. But your future is still being written, and this moment doesn't have to be the thing that defines you. No one dies from divorce. A lot of people finally start living. ⭐ Follow Jill Coil: https://www.instagram.com/jillcoil/ 📕 Get the Book — No One Dies from Divorce: https://www.amazon.com/No-One-Dies-Divorce-Marriage-ebook/dp/B091Y8HP67 ⚖️ CoilLaw — Family Law Firm: https://coillaw.com/

  2. Jul 15

    What Nobody Tells You About Money and Divorce

    Do you actually know where your family's money is going? After almost 20 years in family law, I can tell you the partners who don't are the ones who end up most vulnerable in a divorce. In this episode of No One Dies from Divorce, I sit down with my CoilLaw colleague Crystal Anderson to talk about the part of divorce nobody warns you about: money and power. We get into why completely separate finances are the single biggest thread I see running through divorces, the way financial dependency quietly builds over years, and the cold truth about chasing "hidden" money like crypto and cash, and how much people waste looking for accounts that were never there. We also get into the Utah specifics: how alimony and spousal support actually work as a shift of income, what equitable division and a no-fault state really mean for your case, why "fair" is the wrong word to bring into a divorce, and what to look for when hiring a divorce lawyer who'll tell you the truth instead of just running up your bill. If you've ever felt powerless about money in your relationship, knowledge is power. The more you understand before a divorce ever starts, the more freedom, stability, and peace you'll have on the other side. ⭐ Follow Jill Coil: https://www.instagram.com/jillcoil/ 📕 Get the Book — No One Dies from Divorce: https://www.amazon.com/No-One-Dies-Divorce-Marriage-ebook/dp/B091Y8HP67 ⚖️ CoilLaw — Family Law Firm: https://coillaw.com/

  3. Jul 8

    The Real Reason Nobody "Wins" in Divorce

    Think family court is about finding justice and punishing your ex? Think again. In this eye-opening episode of No One Dies From Divorce, I sit down with my partner in crime and senior managing attorney, Gabi Jones, to reveal the harsh legal realities that often shatter our clients' expectations. As experienced advocates in family law, Gabi and I explain why seeking revenge or "fairness" during a divorce usually leads to emotional burnout and financial strain. We unpack the profound psychological impact of splitting a household and explore why perfectly rational, successful people often make terrible decisions when operating in survival mode. Giving up control to a judge means letting a stranger decide your future—so how do you navigate the legal system without losing yourself? Key Takeaways from this Episode: The Justice Myth: Why the legal system is built to divide lives and assets, not to punish bad behavior or validate your emotions.Survival Mode Mistakes: How trauma, fear, and a lack of control drive people to make poor, reactive legal choices.Reclaiming Your Power: Proven strategies to let go of the things you cannot control and confidently rebuild your life on your own terms.Tune in to hear the specific cases that fundamentally changed how Gabi and I practice law, and learn how you can navigate your own split with clarity and confidence.

  4. 05/22/2023

    Take The High Road in Divorce

    Do you feel stressed out, bewildered, emotionally compromised, or overwhelmed with navigating your divorce? Today we are talking with author Andy Heller about how to deal with high-conflict divorces and co-parent effectively. Through his own divorce and life experience, Andy has outlined a pathway for how to manage emotional, logistical, and financial issues that occur during and after a divorce. His goal is to help people choose compassion over fear, heal hearts, prepare for a future, and provide security and stability for their children.

  5. 05/15/2023

    The Ugly Truth About Co-Parenting with Samantha Boss

    Samantha Boss spent years in and out of court, fighting to modify a poorly crafted divorce decree. This experience inspired Samantha to begin coaching others through the divorce process in order to help more parents avoid the pitfalls of parenting plans. Join us on this episode as we talk about the need for a solid, perfectly tailored parenting plan that covers your family's specific needs, or as Samantha calls it, ”the playbook for life with your kids.”

  6. 05/08/2023

    Dear Parents: Notes from a Child of Divorce

    Divorce is hard on everyone. Between Mediation, decrees, lawyer fees, court dates, parent-time, and more, the divorce process can create a lot of chaos. Often the children of divorce get lost in the conflict, and their voices are not heard. Today we are talking with Grace Casper, a young woman who was a child of divorce. Grace is sharing her perspective as her parents divorced while she was still a child. In her book that's coming out in June, Grace shares what she wishes her parents knew during the divorce along with tips to help children cope with their parents' divorce. Listen in as we discuss how to hear what our children need during divorce, and ways to support them through this massive life change.

  7. 05/01/2023

    How to Move Forward after Loss, Divorce, & Grief

    Shelly Anderson is passionate about life's journey and the stages we grow through. At times that includes loss, divorce, and death. Join us as we discuss how grief isn't just a single stage, and that trauma becomes a part of who we are.  Time does not heal all wounds; time allows the body to absorb the wounds and create space so we can mourn the life we thought we’d live, and press forward in the life we have.

  8. 04/24/2023

    The Cost of Blended Families with Naja Hall

    If you're divorced and dating or dating a divorcee, then this episode is for you! Listen in as Naja Hall tells it like it is. Blended families are difficult under the best of circumstances, but marrying someone with a High-Conflict divorce comes at a cost. It will test you mentally, emotionally, and financially, and test your relationship with your new spouse as well as any children involved. All blended families come with chaos and friction, so take Naja's advice and make sure your expectations align with reality before you step into a stepparent role.

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I'm Jill Coil — divorce attorney, family law expert, and author of "No One Dies from Divorce." I've helped hundreds of clients navigate separation and divorce, and I've faced it personally in my own marriage. This podcast exists to give you the divorce help, support, and real answers you can't always find elsewhere. Each episode covers the topics that matter most during and after divorce: divorce recovery, co-parenting, child custody, dividing finances, healing emotionally, and rebuilding your life. I'm joined by fellow divorce attorneys, therapists, financial advisors, health coaches, and everyday people sharing their divorce journeys. Whether you're considering separation, fighting for custody, protecting your finances, or just trying to survive the process — this podcast is your support system. Note: Jill Coil is an attorney, but not your attorney. Nothing here constitutes legal advice. You can do more than survive this. You can thrive after divorce. Let's get through it together.

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  • Creator
    Jill Coil
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    127
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 No One Dies from Divorce
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    No One Dies from Divorce

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