Just Women Talking Shit: Real Conversations About Life, Mental Health, & Womanhood

Jacquelynn Cotten
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Just Women Talking Shit: Real Conversations About Life, Mental Health, & Womanhood is the unfiltered women’s empowerment podcast that dives deep into what it really means to grow, heal, and evolve. Hosted by Jacquelynn Cotten — personal evolution mentor, retreat leader, and creator of the Weird Women Who Wander Experience, an annual self-discovery and sisterhood retreat — this show brings together raw, honest, and hilarious conversations with women from around the world. Each episode explores the real-life experiences that shape us: motherhood, mental health, grief, relationships, career shifts, identity, and the messy middle of personal growth. Nothing’s off-limits. If you’re craving authentic stories, mental health support, and empowering conversations that remind you you’re not alone — you’re in the right place. Expect laughter, tears, and “oh-my-god-same” moments every week.Hear from women rewriting the rules of womanhood, healing, and success.Leave every episode feeling seen, grounded, and inspired to evolve. Tune in, talk your shit, and join a global community of women walking through life — unfiltered and unapologetically.

  1. DEC 16

    Why I Left My Marriage & How I’m Rebuilding Life

    Send us a text Life looked “fine” on the outside—but at home, everything was unraveling. I share why I left my marriage to protect my daughter’s mental health, my own sanity, and why starting over isn’t failure. In this episode, I walk through real, repeatable tools for rebuilding: Mental health habits: quiet moments, weekly truth check-insBody basics: hydration, short walks, small winsSpiritual grounding: energy checks and centering practicesWe also cover practical strategies for messy transitions—working from coffee shops, car-living, micro-tasks, and minute-by-minute decisions when resources are tight. If you’re stuck between “picture-perfect” and peace, this episode is your reminder: choosing yourself is courageous, not selfish. Key Takeaways: Protecting kids’ mental health through hard choicesRecognizing toxic patterns and ending cyclesTruth-telling as the first step to changeNon-negotiables for mind, body, and spiritRedefining success in hard seasonsShare this episode with someone who needs courage today, and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to help more women find it. Want to help my children and I during this transition? You can donate to our GoFundMe HERE. Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show 🌿 Ready to go deeper? Join the waitlist for Wild Women Who Wander 2026 — the retreat for women ready to drop the masks, reclaim their power, and connect with their most authentic selves. 👉 Fill out the the Google Form HERE. 📲 Let’s stay connected: Follow on Instagram: @justwomentalkingshit and @jacquelynncotten Email your stories, questions, or advice requests: jwtspodcast@gmail.com Support the show by becoming a monthly subscriber HERE. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The views, opinions, and discussions expressed by the hosts and guests are their own and do not constitute professional advice or services. Listeners should not rely on the content as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals in areas such as medical, legal, financial, or mental health matters. Always seek the advice of an appropriate licensed professional for any questions or concerns you may have.

    39 min

  2. DEC 8

    Erotic Wholeness & Somatic Healing with Darshana Avila

    Send us a text What if eroticism is simply your life force—your aliveness—and not just a sexual act? In this episode, Jacquelynn Cotten talks with trauma-informed somatic educator Darshana Avila about reconnecting with your body, rewriting internalized shame, and building safety for authentic intimacy. We discuss: • What “erotic wholeness” really means • How trauma, religion, and patriarchy disconnect us from pleasure • Why talk therapy often is not enough without somatics • How freeze responses and people pleasing show up in intimacy • Consent as collaboration, not obligation • Body-based tools: breath, movement, sound, self touch • Myths about desire, pain, lube, and menopause • Raising kids with healthy embodiment and curiosity instead of shame Darshana shares simple practices for shifting from sexual performance to presence, so you can experience intimacy with clarity, consent, and sovereignty. Connect with Darshana: Instagram | Website If this episode resonated, share it with a friend and leave a review telling us which old belief about sexuality you are ready to release. Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show 🌿 Ready to go deeper? Join the waitlist for Wild Women Who Wander 2026 — the retreat for women ready to drop the masks, reclaim their power, and connect with their most authentic selves. 👉 Fill out the the Google Form HERE. 📲 Let’s stay connected: Follow on Instagram: @justwomentalkingshit and @jacquelynncotten Email your stories, questions, or advice requests: jwtspodcast@gmail.com Support the show by becoming a monthly subscriber HERE. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The views, opinions, and discussions expressed by the hosts and guests are their own and do not constitute professional advice or services. Listeners should not rely on the content as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals in areas such as medical, legal, financial, or mental health matters. Always seek the advice of an appropriate licensed professional for any questions or concerns you may have.

    55 min

  3. DEC 6

    Being the Bigger Person Without Losing Yourself

    Send us a text This episode dives into the emotional tug-of-war women face when we’re told to rise above, take the high road, and keep the peace — even when it costs us our truth. In this episode, Jacquelynn breaks down the difference between emotional maturity and emotional self-abandonment, how to set boundaries with integrity, and what it looks like to choose self-respect over silence. This is your reminder that being the bigger person doesn’t mean shrinking who you are. In this episode, we explore: Why “being the bigger person” is so often weaponized against womenThe difference between maturity and people-pleasingHow to respond calmly without suppressing your emotionsThe signs you’re abandoning yourself in the name of peaceWhat grace really looks likeHow to set boundaries without guiltPractical steps to protect your peace while staying alignedListen if you’ve ever been told: “Just let it go,”“Don’t stoop to their level,”“Be the bigger person.”Because this episode is your permission slip to stop losing yourself for the sake of keeping everyone else comfortable. Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show 🌿 Ready to go deeper? Join the waitlist for Wild Women Who Wander 2026 — the retreat for women ready to drop the masks, reclaim their power, and connect with their most authentic selves. 👉 Fill out the the Google Form HERE. 📲 Let’s stay connected: Follow on Instagram: @justwomentalkingshit and @jacquelynncotten Email your stories, questions, or advice requests: jwtspodcast@gmail.com Support the show by becoming a monthly subscriber HERE. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The views, opinions, and discussions expressed by the hosts and guests are their own and do not constitute professional advice or services. Listeners should not rely on the content as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals in areas such as medical, legal, financial, or mental health matters. Always seek the advice of an appropriate licensed professional for any questions or concerns you may have.

    23 min

  4. DEC 1

    How to Communicate Sexual Needs & Ignite Intimacy

    Send us a text Why does desire fade—and how do we get it back? In this episode, we sit down with Athena Gayle, Sex Expert at Arya, to explore how long-term couples can revive intimacy, increase desire, and communicate needs without awkwardness or pressure. We unpack how to escape “roommate mode,” redefine sex as connection instead of performance, and try simple, low-pressure practices that build real desire over time. In this episode, we discuss: • why routine kills desire in long-term relationships • rebuilding intimacy with touch, play & presence • using skin-to-skin hugs & shower embraces • yes–no–maybe lists for aligned desires • safe ways to ask for fantasies or kinks • how Arya’s curated Scenes reduce mental load • audio erotica, prompts & erotic personas • planning sex without losing spontaneity • approaching threesomes, consent & boundaries • exploring roleplay & dominance safely • using AI tools to build connection & confidence Athena also explains how Arya’s intimacy platform helps couples initiate closeness, spark novelty, and communicate needs with clarity and confidence. Whether you’re seeking more closeness, more novelty, or just less pressure in the bedroom, this conversation offers real, usable practices that deepen desire and connection. Find Athena / Arya Instagram: @arya.fyi Website: www.arya.fyi Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show 🌿 Ready to go deeper? Join the waitlist for Wild Women Who Wander 2026 — the retreat for women ready to drop the masks, reclaim their power, and connect with their most authentic selves. 👉 Fill out the the Google Form HERE. 📲 Let’s stay connected: Follow on Instagram: @justwomentalkingshit and @jacquelynncotten Email your stories, questions, or advice requests: jwtspodcast@gmail.com Support the show by becoming a monthly subscriber HERE. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The views, opinions, and discussions expressed by the hosts and guests are their own and do not constitute professional advice or services. Listeners should not rely on the content as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals in areas such as medical, legal, financial, or mental health matters. Always seek the advice of an appropriate licensed professional for any questions or concerns you may have.

    47 min

  5. NOV 24

    Gratitude Isn’t Denial: Feeling Thankful & Honest at the Same Time

    Send us a text In today’s episode, Jacquelynn dives into the messy middle where gratitude and honesty coexist. As women, we’re often taught to be endlessly grateful — even when we’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or hurting. But real emotional wellness requires both truth and thankfulness. In this episode, we talk about: The myth that gratitude “fixes” everythingWhy women are conditioned to downplay our feelingsHow toxic positivity shows up in everyday lifeThe difference between real gratitude and emotional denialHow to practice gratitude without ignoring your realityWhy holding dual emotions leads to better mental healthTools for emotional regulation & self-awarenessHow gratitude and honesty support healing & personal growthIf you’ve ever said “I’m grateful… but something still feels off,” this episode gives you permission to feel both — without guilt, shame, or self-silencing. Listen now for a grounded, compassionate conversation about emotional maturity, womanhood, and the freedom that comes from being fully honest with yourself. Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show 🌿 Ready to go deeper? Join the waitlist for Wild Women Who Wander 2026 — the retreat for women ready to drop the masks, reclaim their power, and connect with their most authentic selves. 👉 Fill out the the Google Form HERE. 📲 Let’s stay connected: Follow on Instagram: @justwomentalkingshit and @jacquelynncotten Email your stories, questions, or advice requests: jwtspodcast@gmail.com Support the show by becoming a monthly subscriber HERE. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The views, opinions, and discussions expressed by the hosts and guests are their own and do not constitute professional advice or services. Listeners should not rely on the content as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals in areas such as medical, legal, financial, or mental health matters. Always seek the advice of an appropriate licensed professional for any questions or concerns you may have.

    15 min

  6. NOV 18

    Tiffany McQuaid on Growth, Mindset & Leadership

    Send us a text Ever feel like business growth is a test you didn’t study for? In this episode, Tiffany McQuaid—marketer-turned-real-estate-leader—breaks down what it really takes to grow, lead, and scale without losing yourself in the process. Tiffany shares her full journey: building an independent brokerage from scratch, navigating market challenges, and ultimately merging with Ryan Serhant’s organization to expand her mission. She opens up about what most founders don’t talk about—the fear of letting go, the pressure of leading a team, and the internal “test” that always shows up before the next level. Inside this conversation, we dig into: The emotional side of scaling a businessHow to know when it’s time to partner instead of go it aloneThe mindset shifts that keep you moving through discomfortQuiet building, selective sharing, and protecting your momentumDaily habits that keep Tiffany grounded: pre-dawn mindset audio, gratitude laps, reframingHow to lead through uncertainty and stay aligned with your bigger visionTiffany also shares tools and resources—like The The INth Degree: How to Stand Out By Going All In and her children’s book There Is Always Hope—that help entrepreneurs reset fear, strengthen clarity, and stay connected to what matters most. If this episode resonates, follow the show, share it with a founder who needs this, and leave a review so more female entrepreneurs can discover these conversations. Connect with Tiffany: InstagramFacebookWebsite Support the show 🌿 Ready to go deeper? Join the waitlist for Wild Women Who Wander 2026 — the retreat for women ready to drop the masks, reclaim their power, and connect with their most authentic selves. 👉 Fill out the the Google Form HERE. 📲 Let’s stay connected: Follow on Instagram: @justwomentalkingshit and @jacquelynncotten Email your stories, questions, or advice requests: jwtspodcast@gmail.com Support the show by becoming a monthly subscriber HERE. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The views, opinions, and discussions expressed by the hosts and guests are their own and do not constitute professional advice or services. Listeners should not rely on the content as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals in areas such as medical, legal, financial, or mental health matters. Always seek the advice of an appropriate licensed professional for any questions or concerns you may have.

    43 min

  7. NOV 14

    Protecting Your Peace During the Holidays

    Send us a text The holidays are supposed to be joyful, but for many women, they can bring stress, overwhelm, and emotional burnout. In this episode of Just Women Talking Shit: Real Conversations About Life, Mental Health, & Womanhood, we talk about protecting your peace during the holidays and navigating everything that comes with the season—in-laws who push boundaries, co-parenting drama, uncomfortable social situations, backhanded compliments, pressure to drink, and even navigating physical boundaries with children. I share actionable steps to help you: Identify your holiday stress triggersSet and maintain boundaries with family, friends, and yourselfPrioritize self-care to preserve your mental healthManage expectations and release the pressure to be perfectCreate intentional rituals to stay grounded and joyful Whether you’re hosting, traveling, or trying to survive family gatherings, this episode is full of practical strategies for stress-free holidays, mindful living, and emotional well-being. Listen now wherever you get your podcasts and start protecting your peace this season. Episode Highlights: Recognizing common sources of holiday stressHow to set boundaries without guiltPractical self-care tips for women during the holidaysManaging expectations and redefining what success looks likeCreating rituals that support mental health and emotional well-beingSupport the show 🌿 Ready to go deeper? Join the waitlist for Wild Women Who Wander 2026 — the retreat for women ready to drop the masks, reclaim their power, and connect with their most authentic selves. 👉 Fill out the the Google Form HERE. 📲 Let’s stay connected: Follow on Instagram: @justwomentalkingshit and @jacquelynncotten Email your stories, questions, or advice requests: jwtspodcast@gmail.com Support the show by becoming a monthly subscriber HERE. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The views, opinions, and discussions expressed by the hosts and guests are their own and do not constitute professional advice or services. Listeners should not rely on the content as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals in areas such as medical, legal, financial, or mental health matters. Always seek the advice of an appropriate licensed professional for any questions or concerns you may have.

    39 min

  8. NOV 10

    DIY Mom Secrets: Rebekah Higgs’ Creative Journey

    Send us a text Ever wonder how to pivot careers, tackle home DIY, and thrive as a single mom? Rebekah Higgs shares her journey from indie musician to Halifax’s iconic DIY Mom. Discover how she transformed her life, renovated her pink house on a budget, and built a brand that inspires creative women everywhere. In this episode: Career reinvention and creative pivotsDIY home renovation tips on a budgetBalancing single motherhood with entrepreneurshipEmbracing creativity, ADHD, and imperfectionHow to take bold risks and grow an audienceFollow Rebekah: Website: diymom.caInstagram: @diymomYouTube: @diymom Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show 🌿 Ready to go deeper? Join the waitlist for Wild Women Who Wander 2026 — the retreat for women ready to drop the masks, reclaim their power, and connect with their most authentic selves. 👉 Fill out the the Google Form HERE. 📲 Let’s stay connected: Follow on Instagram: @justwomentalkingshit and @jacquelynncotten Email your stories, questions, or advice requests: jwtspodcast@gmail.com Support the show by becoming a monthly subscriber HERE. Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The views, opinions, and discussions expressed by the hosts and guests are their own and do not constitute professional advice or services. Listeners should not rely on the content as a substitute for consultation with qualified professionals in areas such as medical, legal, financial, or mental health matters. Always seek the advice of an appropriate licensed professional for any questions or concerns you may have.

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Just Women Talking Shit: Real Conversations About Life, Mental Health, & Womanhood is the unfiltered women’s empowerment podcast that dives deep into what it really means to grow, heal, and evolve. Hosted by Jacquelynn Cotten — personal evolution mentor, retreat leader, and creator of the Weird Women Who Wander Experience, an annual self-discovery and sisterhood retreat — this show brings together raw, honest, and hilarious conversations with women from around the world. Each episode explores the real-life experiences that shape us: motherhood, mental health, grief, relationships, career shifts, identity, and the messy middle of personal growth. Nothing’s off-limits. If you’re craving authentic stories, mental health support, and empowering conversations that remind you you’re not alone — you’re in the right place. Expect laughter, tears, and “oh-my-god-same” moments every week.Hear from women rewriting the rules of womanhood, healing, and success.Leave every episode feeling seen, grounded, and inspired to evolve. Tune in, talk your shit, and join a global community of women walking through life — unfiltered and unapologetically.

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