4 Fit Fatherhood

Rod Richard
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The 4 Fit Fatherhood podcast with conversations with dope dads covering the 4 Pillars of Fatherhood, the Fit Fatherhood Formula= faith + family + finance + fitness Follow the podcast @ www.4fitfatherhood.com

  1. 6h ago

    The 19th Child: Breaking Family Patterns with Paul Lamar Hunter

    What does fatherhood look like when your parents worked hard to keep you alive, but you still grew up feeling their absence? In this episode of the 4 Fit Fatherhood Podcast, Rod Richard sits down with Paul Lamar Hunter, author of No Love, No Charity: The Success of the 19th Child. Paul was born the 19th of 21 children. He is a father of four adult children, a grandfather, and the first of the 21 children in his family to earn a college degree. Paul shares stories that sound almost impossible: growing up in an 18-bedroom home his parents bought for one dollar, losing his father before his eighth birthday, and helping his mother run a homeless shelter while other kids attended games and school activities. He also speaks honestly about the difference between provision and presence. Paul explains why he saved PTO for field trips, coached his children's teams, helped with homework, and kept his phone open to his adult children at any hour. Rod and Paul discuss: Growing up as the 19th of 21 childrenThe impact of a father who worked 16-hour daysThe blessing and cost of serving people outside the homeHow older siblings filled the parenting gapBecoming a present father after feeling unseen as a childReturning to college and graduating at age 42Telling painful family truths without living in angerTherapy, faith, forgiveness, education, and generational wealthWhy a mentor can help a man move beyond his past This is a conversation about honoring your parents, telling the truth about what hurt, and choosing what your children will experience differently. Connect with Paul Lamar HunterOfficial website: https://www.paullamarhunter.com/Paul's book: https://www.paullamarhunter.com/bookContact Paul: https://www.paullamarhunter.com/contactFind No Love, No Charity on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=No+Love+No+Charity+Paul+Lamar+HunterFind Love and Charity by Dennis James Woods on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Love+and+Charity+Dennis+James+Woods+Louise+HunterConnect with 4 Fit FatherhoodCoaching, resources, and community: https://stan.store/4fitfatherhoodBaseline Performance: http://www.baselineperformancenow.com/Save on ZZZ Tape: https://zzztape.com/discount/4fitfatherhood?ref=qmhrgitu Subscribe, share this episode with a father, and leave a review. Your fatherhood is their childhood. Hashtags: #4FitFatherhood #Fatherhood #PresentFather #BlackFathers #BreakingGenerationalCycles #FaithAndFamily

  2. Aug 29

    What If Your Child’s Behavior Isn’t the Problem? with Geoff Owen

    What if the behavior you keep correcting is only the alarm, while the real fire is still burning? In this episode of the 4 Fit Fatherhood Podcast, Rod Richard sits down with Geoff Owen, founder of Biologically Aligned Parenting and author of The Parenting Assumption, for a challenging conversation about child behavior, discipline, emotional regulation, and the atmosphere fathers create at home. Geoff presents the view that defiance, withdrawal, aggression, and over-compliance can act as signals that a child feels unsafe or uncertain. He asks parents to pause before adding pressure, check the emotional state they brought into the room, listen without forcing a conversation, and give children space to reconnect. Rod and Geoff discuss: The difference between being in the room and being presentWhat your children feel when you bring work stress homeWhy behavior may be a signal instead of the source of the problemThe question, “Would I want to hang out with me right now?”How to respond when a teenager talks back or withdrawsGeoff’s views on punishment, rewards, boundaries, apology, and repairThe kind of relationship fathers can build with their adult children You may agree with Geoff, disagree with parts of his approach, or still be processing it. The question worth taking home is simple: When your child struggles, are you responding only to the behavior, or are you paying attention to what may be happening underneath it? Connect with Geoff OwenWebsite: https://www.geoffreyowen.com/The Parenting Assumption: https://www.amazon.co.uk/PARENTING-ASSUMPTION-Geoff-Owen/dp/B0GT8QYF3J Connect with 4 Fit FatherhoodCoaching, resources, and community: https://stan.store/4fitfatherhood Subscribe, share this episode with a father, and leave a review. Your fatherhood is their childhood. 00:00 What if behavior is not the problem? 01:37 Welcome and the girl-dad connection 04:04 Meet Geoff Owen 07:39 What acting taught Geoff about listening 11:02 Being home vs. being present 11:42 What fathers bring through the front door 13:18 Geoff’s childhood and the roots of his work 16:22 The Continuum Concept 18:43 Behavior as a signal 21:29 Safety, certainty, and connection 25:10 Why children may not know why they acted out 26:15 Parents as environment makers 27:49 The fire-alarm analogy 29:30 Giving children space to speak 34:19 How parental urgency affects children 41:10 Parenting starts with your own state 42:56 Modeling respect and manners 47:39 Discipline, punishment, rewards, and boundaries 53:38 Responding to teenage disrespect 58:26 Parental anxiety and teen independence 01:01:03 The father sets the emotional tone 01:05:10 Staying connected to a withdrawn teenager 01:07:08 A mother who rebuilt connection with her son 01:11:12 Stop taking behavior personally 01:14:01 Why fathers must regulate themselves 01:16:18 Geoff’s view on apology and repair 01:18:28 Geoff’s parenting resources 01:20:33 How Geoff wants his daughters to feel 01:23:26 Fatherhood’s generational effect 01:25:35 Planting a tree for future generations 01:26:59 Final takeaway for fathers

  3. Aug 22

    Retirement Planning for Fathers: Money, Marriage, Identity and Purpose

    Retirement planning often begins with a number. The harder question is what happens to your routine, identity, marriage, health and purpose when your career ends. In this episode of the 4 Fit Fatherhood Podcast, Rod Richard sits down with retirement planner Chris Maduri. Chris has spent nearly two decades helping people prepare for retirement through predictable income, risk management and plans designed to withstand changing conditions. The conversation begins with fatherhood. Rod and Chris discuss raising sons and daughters, parenting each child differently, talking with teenagers, setting social media boundaries and maintaining trust as children grow. They also explore what happens when children leave home and work no longer defines your days. Topics include retirement income, marriage, health, caregiving, aging parents, long-term care, faith and finding purpose during the fourth quarter of life. The central question every father needs to answer: What are you retiring to? IN THIS EPISODE: • Parenting each child based on individual needs • Building trust before difficult conversations • Talking with teenagers about relationships • How work becomes part of a man’s identity • Preparing your marriage for an empty nest • Transitioning gradually into retirement • Finding purpose after your career ends • Long-term care and retirement income • Preparing for the retirement red zone TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 What Are You Retiring To? 00:56 Welcome to 4 Fit Fatherhood 02:36 Meet Chris Maduri 03:21 Parenting Every Child Differently 09:46 Building Trust Before Difficult Conversations 15:54 Social Media, Shame and Identity 17:21 Rod’s Approach to Teen Instagram 21:14 Phones, Co-Parenting and Family Dynamics 23:05 When Retirement Starts Feeling Real 24:45 Purpose and Identity After Work 28:54 Redefining Work in Retirement 31:16 Transitioning Gradually Into Retirement 33:30 Retirement, Marriage and the Empty Nest 39:47 Health, Caregiving and Aging Parents 42:54 Income, Long-Term Care and the Retirement Red Zone 46:45 What Must Be in Place Before You Retire 49:06 How Fathers Can Prepare Today 50:30 Small Choices, Health and Faith 53:00 Final Takeaways CONNECT WITH CHRIS MADURI: Website: https://vibrantretirement.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myvibrantretirement/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christopher-maduri-69a1032/ X: https://www.x.com/CoverYrAssets Media profile: https://www.guestsonair.com/profile/chris-maduri MORE FROM 4 FIT FATHERHOOD: Coaching, resources and programs: https://stan.store/4fitfatherhood Baseline Performance supplements: http://www.baselineperformancenow.com/ Save on ZZZ Tape: https://zzztape.com/discount/4fitfatherhood?ref=qmhrgitu This conversation is for educational purposes and should not be treated as personal financial advice.

  4. Aug 22

    What Are You Retiring To? Money, Marriage, and Purpose After Work | Chris Maduri

    Retirement planning often begins with a number. The harder question is what happens to your routine, identity, marriage, health and purpose when your career ends. In this episode of the 4 Fit Fatherhood Podcast, Rod Richard sits down with retirement planner Chris Maduri. Chris has spent nearly two decades helping people prepare for retirement through predictable income, risk management and plans designed to withstand changing conditions. The conversation begins with fatherhood. Rod and Chris discuss raising sons and daughters, parenting each child differently, talking with teenagers, setting social media boundaries and maintaining trust as children grow. They also explore what happens when children leave home and work no longer defines your days. Topics include retirement income, marriage, health, caregiving, aging parents, long-term care, faith and finding purpose during the fourth quarter of life. The central question every father needs to answer: What are you retiring to? IN THIS EPISODE: • Parenting each child based on individual needs • Building trust before difficult conversations • Talking with teenagers about relationships • How work becomes part of a man’s identity • Preparing your marriage for an empty nest • Transitioning gradually into retirement • Finding purpose after your career ends • Long-term care and retirement income • Preparing for the retirement red zone TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 What Are You Retiring To? 00:56 Welcome to 4 Fit Fatherhood 02:36 Meet Chris Maduri 03:21 Parenting Every Child Differently 09:46 Building Trust Before Difficult Conversations 15:54 Social Media, Shame and Identity 17:21 Rod’s Approach to Teen Instagram 21:14 Phones, Co-Parenting and Family Dynamics 23:05 When Retirement Starts Feeling Real 24:45 Purpose and Identity After Work 28:54 Redefining Work in Retirement 31:16 Transitioning Gradually Into Retirement 33:30 Retirement, Marriage and the Empty Nest 39:47 Health, Caregiving and Aging Parents 42:54 Income, Long-Term Care and the Retirement Red Zone 46:45 What Must Be in Place Before You Retire 49:06 How Fathers Can Prepare Today 50:30 Small Choices, Health and Faith 53:00 Final Takeaways CONNECT WITH CHRIS MADURI: Website: https://vibrantretirement.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myvibrantretirement/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christopher-maduri-69a1032/ X: https://www.x.com/CoverYrAssets Media profile: https://www.guestsonair.com/profile/chris-maduri MORE FROM 4 FIT FATHERHOOD: Coaching, resources and programs: https://stan.store/4fitfatherhood Baseline Performance supplements: http://www.baselineperformancenow.com/ Save on ZZZ Tape: https://zzztape.com/discount/4fitfatherhood?ref=qmhrgitu This conversation is for educational purposes and should not be treated as personal financial advice.

  5. Aug 15

    11 Months to Live: A Father’s Fight to Be There | Dale Atkinson

    What happens to the way you see fatherhood when a doctor tells you that you may have less than a year to live? Dale Atkinson was working 14 to 16-hour days, building his career and providing for his family when life changed fast. Within weeks, his partner underwent surgery for lung cancer, his mother passed away, and Dale was diagnosed with Stage IV esophageal cancer. He was told his cancer was inoperable and incurable, with a prognosis of roughly 11½ months with treatment. Dale responded by becoming deeply involved in his own care, asking questions, researching his options, building a medical team, and refusing to become passive. But this conversation became about fatherhood. Dale talks openly about realizing that he knew what his children’s laughter sounded like through the wall because he was spending so much time working. He shares why 20 uninterrupted minutes with your kids can matter more than another hour at the office, why he schedules family time like an appointment, and how his diagnosis changed what success means to him. We also talk about: • The difference between providing for your family and being present with them • Why waiting for life to “slow down” is a trap • Giving your kids 20 minutes of completely undistracted attention • Talking honestly with young children about hard things • How Dale’s family turned cancer into “Dave” and chemotherapy into “superhero medicine” • Teaching your children to ask questions and think for themselves • Agency, self-advocacy, and standing your ground • Why Dale says his sons became his reason to fight • The beer he has promised to share with his son at 16 This conversation is a reminder every father needs: Your fatherhood is their childhood. CONNECT WITH DALE The Life Organic: https://thelifeorganic.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dale-j-atkinson 4 FIT FATHERHOOD Resources, coaching & more: https://stan.store/4fitfatherhood Baseline Performance: http://www.baselineperformancenow.com/ ZZZ Tape: https://zzztape.com/discount/4fitfatherhood?ref=qmhrgitu DISCLAIMER: This episode discusses Dale’s personal experience with cancer and medical treatment. It is shared for informational and storytelling purposes only and is not medical advice. Dale explicitly states that his personal approach was developed for his individual situation and should not be treated as a cancer treatment protocol. Speak with a qualified medical professional before making medical or treatment decisions. 00:00 Fatherhood Has No Time Zone 00:57 Three and a Half Weeks That Changed Everything 03:09 Turning Fear and Grief Into Action 08:07 What Dale Did After His Diagnosis 14:03 Becoming the CEO of Your Own Healthcare 21:20 Building His Personal Care Plan 25:17 What Dale Is NOT Claiming About His Results 27:59 Cancer Changed How Dale Sees Time 30:18 Your Fatherhood Is Their Childhood 31:29 The 20-Minute Rule for Fathers 35:25 Work, Passion and Family 42:29 Put Family Time on the Calendar 48:21 Telling His Young Sons About Cancer 54:28 “Superhero Medicine” 56:29 We’re Raising Future Adults 01:00:17 Agency and Self-Advocacy 01:03:03 “I Fought for Them” 01:07:20 Connect With Dale

  6. Aug 8

    What Will Be in the Slideshow at Your Funeral? | Richard G. Riccardi

    What will be in the slideshow at your funeral? Richard G. Riccardi joins me for a conversation about fatherhood, faith, family, work, and what remains when the career eventually ends. Richard spent years building businesses and chasing professional goals. Now, as a grandfather looking back, he offers a perspective every father in the thick of raising kids and building a career needs to hear. We talk about: • Why financial provision can’t replace your presence • The years fathers can easily lose while building a career • Letting your kids fail and learn safely • Showing your children that Dad can be wrong • Making decisions without having perfect information • Why I prefer harmony over “work-life balance” • Generational wealth, saving, and family legacy • Faith and finding real community with other men • Starting small instead of waiting for the perfect time • Why fathers need to shut out the noise and trust themselves One of Richard’s questions stayed with me after we finished recording: What will be in the slideshow at your funeral? Because eventually the titles, accomplishments, and work go away. The people you loved and the life you shared with them remain. Connect with Richard G. Riccardi: https://richardgriccardi.com/ Richard is the author of The Wandering Worshipper, available through his website and major book retailers. MORE FROM 4 FIT FATHERHOOD Resources & Coaching: https://stan.store/4fitfatherhood Baseline Performance: http://www.baselineperformancenow.com/ Save on ZZZ Tape: https://zzztape.com/discount/4fitfatherhood?ref=qmhrgitu Richard shares personal observations about estate planning and money based on his experience. This episode is educational and does not provide individualized legal or financial advice. #Fatherhood #PresentFather #4FitFatherhood 00:00 Intro 00:41 Open heart, open mind in fatherhood 02:59 Why kids need to fail sometimes 04:00 Letting your children see Dad be wrong 06:08 Making decisions without certainty 09:07 What happens when your career ends 12:20 Provision vs. presence 16:21 You’ll never regret time with your family 18:09 Stop chasing perfect balance 21:48 Generational wealth and family legacy 28:42 Faith, church, and starting where you are 31:34 Stop waiting for the perfect time 37:32 Why men need faith and community 39:03 You have to be present to win 45:24 Shut out the noise and trust yourself 49:21 How to connect with Richard

  7. Aug 1

    Leadership Under Pressure: Coming Home as the Man Your Family Needs | Matt Thomas

    Fatherhood is a job you never clock out from. But how do you remain present at home when your career requires you to operate under constant pressure? Matt Thomas spent more than three decades in Arizona law enforcement, serving in patrol, narcotics, investigations and training. He also led SWAT teams through hundreds of high-stakes missions. At the same time, Matt built a marriage spanning more than 31 years and raised three children. In this episode of the 4 Fit Fatherhood Podcast, Matt and Rod discuss leadership under pressure, accountability, decision-making and the challenge of keeping job-related stress from taking over your home. They also discuss what it takes to remain dependable as a husband and father when your work demands so much of you. This conversation covers: • Making clear decisions when the stakes are high • Building trust and accountability within a team • Separating your professional identity from your family role • Managing stress before walking through your front door • Leading your family without trying to control everything • Becoming a man your wife and children can trust If you are working hard to provide while also trying to remain present, patient and connected at home, this conversation is for you. Connect with 4 Fit Fatherhood: Fatherhood resources and programs: https://stan.store/4fitfatherhood Baseline Performance supplements: http://www.baselineperformancenow.com/ Save on ZZZ Tape: https://zzztape.com/discount/4fitfatherhood?ref=qmhrgitu

  8. Jun 27

    Win at Home First with Brandon Colbert

    In this episode of the 4 Fit Fatherhood Podcast, Rod sits down with Brandon Colbert, founder of Diapers, Dumbbells, and Deeds, for a conversation about fatherhood, marriage, real estate, legacy, and winning at home first. Brandon shares his journey as a husband, father, real estate investor, and stay-at-home dad. He talks about building wealth through rental properties, investing internationally in Costa Rica, creating a family-centered life, and raising his son with communication, patience, and purpose. This conversation also gets into marriage, vulnerability, breaking old cycles, and why fathers have to think beyond money when building legacy. If you are a father trying to lead your family well, communicate better, build something lasting, and stay present at home, this episode is for you. Follow Brandon: Instagram: @dynastiesdumbbellsanddeeds Follow Rod: Instagram: @4fitfatherhood Work with Rod / 4 Fit Fatherhood: https://stan.store/4fitfatherhood Shop Baseline Performance supplements: http://www.baselineperformancenow.com/ Sleep better with ZZZ Tape: https://zzztape.com/discount/4fitfatherhood?ref=qmhrgitu Subscribe for more conversations on faith, family, finance, fitness, and fatherhood. Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to the 4 Fit Fatherhood Podcast 04:17 Brandon introduces Diapers, Dumbbells, and Deeds 05:12 How Brandon got into real estate investing 06:28 Brandon’s fatherhood resume 08:21 Raising kids with communication instead of fear 10:40 Creating space for kids to tell the truth 13:10 Brandon’s first Airbnb experience 15:35 Short-term, mid-term, and long-term rental strategy 18:01 How 2022 changed everything for Brandon’s family 20:00 Investing in Costa Rica 21:14 Why Costa Rica felt different 22:13 Traveling internationally with young children 25:30 What Costa Rica taught Brandon about family 27:25 Changing health habits to be present longer 29:28 Why Brandon created Diapers, Dumbbells, and Deeds 31:53 Why fathers need more representation 35:20 What it means to win at home first 36:12 Teaching children through your marriage 37:30 Vulnerability as strength for men 43:09 Why men struggle to receive feedback 46:07 How Brandon and his wife handle conflict 47:18 How marriage helped Brandon learn communication 50:25 Why vulnerability feels risky for men 56:40 Real estate in Costa Rica 01:00:33 Exploring new investment markets 01:04:47 The best habit Brandon is building as a dad 01:07:14 The belief Brandon had to unlearn 01:11:52 What fatherhood means to Brandon 01:13:59 What Brandon wants his son to know 01:17:09 Where to connect with Brandon 01:19:31 Final thoughts

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The 4 Fit Fatherhood podcast with conversations with dope dads covering the 4 Pillars of Fatherhood, the Fit Fatherhood Formula= faith + family + finance + fitness Follow the podcast @ www.4fitfatherhood.com

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  • Creator
    Rod Richard
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    169
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Rod Richard
  • Show Website
    4 Fit Fatherhood