Ruairí Therapy

Ruairí Therapy
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a fresh and no BS deep dive into Relationships. If you feel trapped in other people’s expectations…I get it. That was me until I chose to become a psychotherapist. Ruairí is a Clinical Hypnotherapist and Psychotherapist with a background in psychology and 10 years of clinical practice.

  1. JAN 22

    This Is What a Healthy Relationship Actually Looks Like (Backed by 10 Years of Therapy)

    In a world of "situationships" and flakes, the core desire for all my clients is reliability. After a decade as a therapist, I’ve seen that one of the most healing thing you can find is a partner who is there for you. Not just when things are easy, but when life gets hard. If you’ve been used to inconsistency in love, this video will help you identify the specific pillars of a partner you can actually build a life with. We’re breaking down the mechanics of a secure bond, including: The Weight of a Word: Why a healthy partner’s "yes" means yes. Safety to Be Seen: The freedom to be your unfiltered self without the fear of your vulnerability being used against you. Teamwork over Ego: Learning to operate as a "we" and the art of repairing conflict without needing to "win" at the cost of the connection. Complaints vs. Criticism: How to express your needs and solve problems without attacking your partner’s character. The "Life Partner" Shift: Moving away from the performance of dating and into the reality of truly doing life with someone who has your back. If you’re tired of the "anxious wait" and ready for a connection rooted in trust and teamwork, this is your guide. ▶️ Work with Ruairí: https://stan.store/happyaftertrauma

    21 min

  2. JAN 21

    10 Years as a Therapist—This Is What People Regret Most

    You need to know this about relationships. Therapist-approved. I’ve spent the last 10 years listening to people talk about the one thing they regret most in relationships. It’s not what you think—but once you see it, you’ll notice it everywhere. It will make you reassess who deserves a space in your one precious life. This Is What People Regret Most.👉 Ready for the next step? Work with me: https://stan.store/happyaftertrauma

    3 min

  3. 11/16/2024

    Ep.31 No Contact with an Ex: Is It About Self-Respect or Revenge?

    Breaking up is never easy, but the no-contact rule is a proven strategy for healing, regaining clarity, and moving forward. In this episode, I dive into the psychology of no contact and explain why it’s so effective for emotional recovery. You’ll learn how no contact helps you detach from your ex, rebuild your self-esteem, and reset your brain after the pain of a breakup. We’ll cover key topics like: Why no contact works for healing and emotional clarity How attachment styles impact your ability to stick to no contact The difference between using no contact for self-respect versus revenge Practical tips to resist the urge to break no contact, check social media, or reach out How to turn this time into a period of self-discovery and growth If you’re struggling to move on, questioning whether no contact is worth it, or need strategies to stay strong, this episode is packed with expert insights and actionable advice. Take the first step toward emotional independence and reclaim your power today.

    26 min

  4. 11/11/2024

    Ep30: Why am I attracted to the wrong type of partner and how to stop this?

    Ever wondered why you keep falling for the wrong people? In this episode, we dive deep into the surprising psychology behind attraction and why you might feel drawn to partners who aren’t right for you. We’ll explore how attachment styles, early experiences, and subconscious patterns play into your dating life and give practical tips to help you break free from repeating cycles. Join me to discover how to recognize unhealthy dynamics, create lasting change, and finally attract the right person into your life. Tune in for insights that could change how you approach love forever! Follow on > ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ See Client Reviews > ⁠⁠⁠Here⁠⁠⁠ Apply to Work with Ruairi: ⁠⁠⁠Here⁠

    32 min

  5. 11/06/2024

    Ep.29: What does a "safe" relationship even mean?

    In this episode, Ruairi dives deep into what makes a relationship truly safe, exploring why emotional safety, trust, and respect are essential for healthy connection and growth. With a straightforward approach, he lays out how to recognise red flags that signal unsafe dynamics—like emotional manipulation, inconsistency, and criticism—and offers clear steps to create a strong foundation of support, open communication, and trust. Ideal for anyone healing from toxic or abusive relationships, dating, or seeking a fulfilling partnership, this episode shares actionable advice for building emotional safety, setting boundaries, and fostering vulnerability. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or supporting someone in their relationship journey, Ruairi’s insights empower you to navigate relationships with confidence and clarity. This episode is designed to resonate with anyone looking to build a healthy, meaningful connection based on mutual respect and growth. Follow on > ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ See Client Reviews > ⁠⁠Here⁠⁠ Apply to Work with Ruairi: ⁠⁠Here⁠

    30 min

  6. 10/11/2024

    Episode 28: How to feel confident again after a breakup

    In this episode, we dive deep into the process of rebuilding your confidence after a breakup. Whether you’re fresh out of a toxic relationship or still dealing with the emotional fallout months later, it’s normal to feel lost or question your worth. But this is also an opportunity to reclaim your sense of self and thrive again. We’ll explore practical, everyday strategies for picking yourself up—starting with how to give yourself permission to feel and heal. You’ll learn how to: Embrace your emotions without feeling stuck Tap into your strengths and rediscover the things that make you powerful Reconnect with old passions and find new ones Set boundaries and protect your energy, especially with your ex Build a new routine that supports your emotional and physical well-being Surround yourself with positive, uplifting people I’ll also be addressing those unspoken fears we often carry after a breakup, like worrying you’ll never feel normal again, or thinking you’re not good enough on your own. Together, we’ll break down these fears and help you see that healing is not just possible, but within reach. Get ready to take small but significant steps towards rebuilding your confidence and stepping into a new, empowered chapter of your life. Follow on > ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ See Client Reviews > ⁠⁠Here⁠⁠ Apply to Work with Ruairi: ⁠⁠Here

    26 min

  7. 06/22/2024

    Ep.27 "Exploring Procrastination, Avoidance, and The Link to Unhealed Trauma: Breaking the Cycle

    Dive into a transformative journey as we unravel the intricate connections between procrastination, avoidance, and unhealed trauma. Discover how your nervous system impacts these behaviours and explore powerful strategies for unconscious change and trauma-based interventions. Join us for an insightful episode that promises to empower you to break free from old patterns and embrace a path of healing and productivity Follow on > ⁠Instagram⁠ See Client Reviews > ⁠Here⁠ Apply to Work with Ruairi: ⁠Here

    26 min

  8. 05/05/2024

    When Trauma Destroys your Career (Fear of Being Seen / Visible

    Fear of Visibility: How Unhealed Trauma Holds You Back Unhealed trauma casts a shadow over every aspect of our lives, including our careers. In this episode, we delve into the intricate ways trauma manifests, particularly focusing on the fear of being seen and visible. As someone immersed in the world of working with corporate executives, CEOs, and high performers looking to further their careers, I've witnessed firsthand how trauma drains and stifles progress. Many fail to connect the dots between past traumas and career setbacks. We explore the roots of this fear and how these experiences shape subconscious beliefs and survival strategies, dictating behavior and limiting growth opportunities. By acknowledging and addressing the underlying trauma, we can break free from these patterns. Join us as we uncover strategies for healing, empowerment, and reclaiming our visibility. Follow on > Instagram See Client Reviews > Here Apply to Work with Ruairi: Here

    25 min
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a fresh and no BS deep dive into Relationships. If you feel trapped in other people’s expectations…I get it. That was me until I chose to become a psychotherapist. Ruairí is a Clinical Hypnotherapist and Psychotherapist with a background in psychology and 10 years of clinical practice.

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  • Creator
    Ruairí Therapy
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    33
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Ruairí Therapy
  • Show Website
    Ruairí Therapy