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Chenemi James

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My Voice is a platform that allows people to air their stories which be can either be negative or positive, you feel better or relieved when you are able to express how you feel concerning issues of your life and in your surroundings at large and finding lasting solutions to those problems, that is what My Voice is all about.

09/17/2022

IMPOSTOR SYNDROME Episode 2 (How to deal with impostor syndrome)

IMPOSTOR SYNDROME Episode 2 (How to deal with impostor syndrome) One of the first steps to overcoming impostor feelings is to acknowledge the thoughts and put them in perspective. “We can help teach people to let go and more critically question those thoughts. Dr. Ervin says, "I encourage clients to ask ‘Does that thought help or hinder me?’” You can also reframe your thoughts. Dr. Young says she reminds people that the only difference between someone who experiences impostor syndrome and someone who does not is how they respond to challenges. “People who don’t feel like impostors are no more intelligent or competent or capable than the rest of us,” Dr. Young says. “It’s very good news, because it means we just have to learn to think like non-impostors.” Learning to value constructive criticism, understanding that you’re actually slowing your team down when you don’t ask for help, or remembering that the more you practice a skill, the better you will get at it can all help. It can also be helpful to share what you’re feeling with trusted friends or mentors. People who have more experience can reassure you that what you’re feeling is normal, and knowing others have been in your position can make it seem less scary. Most people experience moments of doubt, and that’s normal. The important part is not to let that doubt control your actions, says Young. “The goal is not to never feel like an impostor. The goal for me is to give people the tools and the insight and information to talk themselves down faster,” she says. “They can still have an impostor moment, but not an impostor life.” use this like to listen to IMPOSTOR SYNDROME Episode 1
08/27/2022

IMPOSTOR SYNDROME (Episode 1)

IMPOSTOR SYNDROME (Episode 1) Have you ever felt like you don’t belong? Like your friends or colleagues are going to discover you’re a fraud, and you don’t actually deserve your job and accomplishments? These feelings are known as impostor syndrome, or what psychologists often call impostor phenomenon. When you begin to doubt your abilities, and start feeling like a fraud, When you find it difficult to accept your accomplishments, when you start asking if you're deserving of accolades, Then you are suffering from IMPOSTER SYNDROME The English dictionary defined impostor syndrome as "A psychological phenomenon in which a person is unable to internalize his or her accomplishments, remaining convinced that he or she does not deserve any accompanying success". You have IMPOSTOR SYNDROME when you have persistent doubt concerning your abilities or accomplishments accompanied by the fear of being exposed as a fraud despite evidence of one's ongoing success. SIGNS OF IMPOSTOR SYNDROME It is estimated that 70% of people will experience at least one episode of this phenomenon at some point in their lives. If you wonder whether you might have imposter syndrome, ask yourself the following questions: Do you agonize over even the smallest mistakes or flaws in your work? Do you attribute your success to luck or outside factors? Are you sensitive to even constructive criticism? Do you feel like you will inevitably be found out as a phony? Do you downplay your own expertise, even in areas where you are genuinely more skilled than others? If you often find yourself feeling like you are a fraud or an imposter, it may be helpful to talk to a therapist. The negative thinking, self-doubt, and self-sabotage that often characterize imposter syndrome can affect many areas of your life. WHY DO PEOPLE EXPERIENCE IMPOSTOR SYNDROME? There’s no single answer. Some experts believe it has to do with personality traits—like anxiety or neuroticism—while others focus on family or behavioral causes, Sometimes childhood memories, such as feeling that your grades were never good enough for your parents or that your siblings outshone you in certain areas, can leave a lasting impact. “People often internalize these ideas: that in order to be loved or be lovable, ‘I need to achieve,’” says Ervin. “It becomes a self-perpetuating cycle.” Factors outside of a person, such as their environment or institutionalized discrimination, can also play a major role in spurring impostor feelings. “A sense of belonging fosters confidence.” “The more people who look or sound like you, the more confident you feel. And conversely, the fewer people who look or sound like you, it can and does for many people impact their confidence.” So, don't look down on yourself take out that self-doubt, that self-discrimination and embrace yourself.
08/20/2022

TRUST THE PROCESS

TRUST THE PROCESS You're afraid to meet people's expectations of you you're afraid to disappoint your parents you're scared that they might not be around anymore and you're not yet successful there are lots of thought going on in your head you feel tired of chasing your dreams sometimes because the journey is never easy you feel tired of people who never see your worth and all the efforts you make There are times you just breakdown from everything going on in your life sometimes you just feel hopeless, you feel like better days are never gonna come but you should always trust the process because the journey towards your dreams will never be easy, It's surely a tough battle but you can make it, you didn't come this far in life to just bluntly fail You're not far from reaching your goals, there will be times that things won't happen the way you want them to be but you must keep believing in your abilities Nothing can stop you. ☝️ THIS IS AN OPEN LETTER TO SOMEONE WHO OVER THINKS A LOT
08/13/2022

HOW DO YOU ACCEPT CRITICISM

HOW DO YOU ACCEPT CRITICISM 1. Hesitate before reacting When you're being criticized, the first thing you should do is hesitate. hesitating for a brief moment can help you process what you are being told and allows you to prevent any reflex reaction or defensiveness. This also gives you a chance to remain calm and aware of your facial expressions. 2. Be willing to consider new ideas Remember that the person offering criticism is likely doing so because they have identified what they see as a gap in your work and want to help you improve. Try to keep an open mind while they are talking to truly hear their message and do your best to see the situation from the other person's point of view. It can help you recognize the validity of their concerns. 3. Don’t let it get personal More often than not, the person offering criticism is not trying to attack who you are as a person, but rather offering feedback about a specific action or task. If you find the criticism troubling, schedule a time to follow up via in-person meeting, phone call or even via email. Be polite and direct in the meeting when you discuss their feedback and look at it as an opportunity to grow. 4. Distract yourself Sometimes it can be difficult to accept criticism, especially if your emotions are taking over. If this happens, decide to reconsider the criticism in the near future when you're feeling calm and distract yourself by doing something you enjoy, something that makes you feel good. This could mean going for a walk or calling a friend who can make you laugh. For Further Reading click the link below https://myvoicewithchenemi.wordpress.com
08/06/2022

THE BEAUTY OF CRITICISM

THE BEAUTY OF CRITICISM CRITICISM Is a critical observation or detailed examination and review or it is an expression of a critical judgement. However, being open to accepting criticism will: Show you that managers, colleagues and peers care about the quality of your work Help you maintain and/or strengthen your professional relationships Reduce the likelihood of errors and increases your efficiency Enable you to improve or learn new skills quickly and effectively Ultimately, criticism is a form of feedback. It provides a space to evaluate past performance, highlight areas for improvement, and identify possible solutions. All of which are vital stepping stones on the path to success. The truth is being criticized isn't a beautiful thing ah ah but then being better is what makes it beautiful
06/18/2022

SPEAK UP (Episode 2)

SPEAK UP (Episode 2) The true value of speech is in saying something different It might take quite a long time for me to find my voice, but when I eventually do, I am never going to be silent.” I'll speak up when it’s needed, ”because I know that "Only by speaking out can I create lasting change." I will Never be afraid to speak my mind, I have one for a reason.” When I see something that is not right, not fair, not just, I have to speak up. I have to say something; I have to do something I have to speak your mind and do the stuff that makes me laugh." I'll always be myself and I won't be afraid to speak my mind to others." When I have something to say, silence is a lie—and tyranny feeds on lies.” What is the source of my first suffering? It lies in the fact that I hesitated to speak. It was born in the moment when I accumulated silent things within me.” I've realized that nothing strengthens the authority of my oppressors so much as my silence.” "It takes courage and honor to stand up for myself. I stand in honor and no longer in fear of speaking out." -Catherine Jane Fisher.
06/11/2022

Speak Up (Episode 1)

SPEAK UP (Episode 1) Welcome to another episode of MyVoice, I am your host Chenemi. I have a special guest here with me. He is versatile in art, an excellent graphic designer, a video advertiser, a social activist, the anchor of "Night talks" and of course the best voice over artist I've ever known. He is my lovely brother Gabriel James also known as "Mr Semaj". Today we'll be having a very beautiful piece by Mr Semaj, so sit back relax, keep your comments coming as you listen. you're welcome Sir. SEMAJ: Why? Why would you rather die than allow the wind Carry your cry for help? Why do you defend your oppressors? why do you excuse their aggressive percussions? What are you scared of? What are you scared of losing? What's what protecting than your life? What's what obtaining than your peace of mind and moments without strife. The greatest power a bully has over its victim is its victim's inability to speak out. No one can help you because though you're dying, you're dying in silence. So from today, Refuse to join the lots of people who are caved in with fear. Though they languish and shed a lot of tears, no one can help them because their regular reply to the How are you question is always "I am fine" It's time to play this game differently. These predators have been at their peak for so long and your inability to speak up has done nothing but made them strong. So please Avoid this wine of silence you are being forced to drink up. It is time to speak up. CHENEMI: Wow 😲😳! Thank you so much Mr Semaj for that beautiful piece. Germany Kent said "To say nothing is saying something. You must denounce things you are against or one might believe that you support things you really do not" Just incase you need to speak to someone and there's no one around, "talk to Jesus, He loves to hear you speak" Lailah Gifty Akita, You can follow Mr Semaj on all social media platforms on Instagram @mrsemajofficial Facebook @Semaj James and subscribe to His YouTube channel @semajesties Thank you so much for always listening, please don't forget to subscribe to my podcast channel, like, comment and share to your friends. Until next week, do have a blessed day bye.
06/04/2022

What If?

WHAT IF? What if I was able to read my own obituary, listen to the eulogy at my funeral and attend my own wake? What will my obituary say? What would the speaker say about me during the eulogy? How would I be remembered? Even more, how do I want to be spend my days? so that at the end of my life I can look back and say " If I had my life to live over, I'd do it all the same". Give some thoughts to how you want to spend the rest of your life and the legacy you'd leave. Some people won't have a lot of money to live behind but even if I could, is that what I want to be remembered for? "To change your life, start immediately, do it flamboyantly. No exceptions, no excuses" (William James). Accept the pain, cheers to the joys, resolve the regrets, then can come the best of benedictions-- "If I have my life to live over, I'd do it all he same (Joan McIntosh)

My Voice is a platform that allows people to air their stories which be can either be negative or positive, you feel better or relieved when you are able to express how you feel concerning issues of your life and in your surroundings at large and finding lasting solutions to those problems, that is what My Voice is all about.

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Chenemi James
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2021 - 2022
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17
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