FQ Mom Podcast

Rose Fres Fausto

Let’s talk about MONEY & FAMILY! Rose Fres Fausto is FQ MOM. FQ stands for FINANCIAL QUOTIENT, the ability to make sound decisions and actions with regard to personal finances. It is the IQ & EQ of handling money. With the use of Behavioral Economics principles (explained in simple terms), let’s make saving, investing, and doing the right thing in general more effortless and fun! Subscribe to this podcast to know what’s going to come out in FQ Mom’s article on PhilStar and FQMom.com ahead of time. Follow Rose at FQ Mom on FB, YT, Kumu; and theFQMom on IG and Twitter.

  1. 5d ago

    #163 Episode 3/3 How to Avoid Financial Infidelity

    We have reached the conclusion of our series on Financial Infidelity. We have defined what it is and identified the red flags that signal its presence. (Click Episode 1 and Episode2)  Now, the mostimportant question remains: How do we avoid this form of pagtataksil and build a truly transparentpartnership?  No matter how loyal and truthful you claim to be to your spouse, if you aren’t financially honest, you can still be called a "taksil." To "infidelity-proof" your marriage, I always say that designing our environment is key. We must structure our financial lives so that the easiest choice—the default—is the one that is best for us and our relationship. This means moving toward "sunlight," the principle that transparency disinfects the hidden corners of your financial life.  A major part of this design is addressing the feeling of lost autonomy, which is why many people hide money in the first place. It’s a bummer to have to ask permission for every salon visit or coffee date with friends. By designing your environment to include a "Me-fund" or a "Fun Fund" for eachpartner that does not need a "Board approval" for every use,you create a system where personal spending is autonomous and guilt-free, removing the need for secrecy. By staying goal-centric and aligning your financial values, you ensure that your default habits lead toward your shared dreams.  Watch this final episode to learn the concrete steps to coming clean and ensuring a peaceful, high-FQ relationship with your partner.

    5 min
  2. May 28

    #162 Episode 2/3: Signs To Look For

    Just like any form of infidelity, financial betrayal usually starts with a single, seemingly safe action, often with no initial intention of hurting a loved one. Think of it like this: a simple coffee with an ex without informing your partner, or those"pa-like-like" and "heart-heart" reactions to social media posts, can eventually lead to a full-blown affair. In the same way, a premature purchase of a luxury item using credit card debt—done without informing your spouse—can lead you down the path of full-blown financial infidelity.  As we discussed in the previous episode of the FinancialInfidelity Series, this betrayal, usually committed unknowingly, is the act of hiding financial information, transactions, and other important money matters from the person you are supposed to be building a life with. Even seemingly noble acts, such as helping relatives or friends by lending or givingmoney without your spouse’s knowledge, may result in a pinansyal na pagtataksil. To help you assess your own relationship, this second installment discusses 10 specific symptoms, ranging from hiding debts and siphoning family funds to lying about your true income or hiding a job loss.  Remember: Money secrecy is rarely about money; it’s about fear, power, and safety. High Financial Intelligence means we don’t hide to survive—we design our environment so we canthrive.  Watch this video to see how many of these 10 signs might be present in your partnership.

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Let’s talk about MONEY & FAMILY! Rose Fres Fausto is FQ MOM. FQ stands for FINANCIAL QUOTIENT, the ability to make sound decisions and actions with regard to personal finances. It is the IQ & EQ of handling money. With the use of Behavioral Economics principles (explained in simple terms), let’s make saving, investing, and doing the right thing in general more effortless and fun! Subscribe to this podcast to know what’s going to come out in FQ Mom’s article on PhilStar and FQMom.com ahead of time. Follow Rose at FQ Mom on FB, YT, Kumu; and theFQMom on IG and Twitter.

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