The Whole Damn Pie

Amalia Martino

We’ve all felt the need to settle at one point or another. To settle for a “slice” of life when – whether we know it or not - we really want the whole pie. What is the whole pie? It’s health, fulfillment, that promotion, to make more money, to impact our community, to leave a lasting legacy, to live up to our own expectations and on and on. It’s different for everyone – and that’s the point. This is why The Vida Agency founder and president Amalia Martino brings you a series of fulfillment-focused conversations in “The Whole Damn Pie” podcast series. She speaks to guests on a variety of topics from living a more fun and balanced life to how we view money, even tackling equity and social justice work and much more. An expert on nothing but her own professional and personal experiences, Amalia approaches conversations with a willingness to learn and genuine desire to have the necessary conversations. She’s a well-respected business owner, mom, and community advocate to name a few. When she’s not hosting the Whole Damn Pie, she’s running The Vida Agency a full-service marketing & communications firm in Seattle or doing Hot Yoga to unwind. Enjoy!

  1. The Importance of Identity and Feeling Like You Belong

    02/04/2025

    The Importance of Identity and Feeling Like You Belong

    Ruchika Malhotra is a keynote speaker, inclusion strategist, and the bestselling author of Inclusion on Purpose—an intersectional approach to creating a culture of belonging at work. She is also the founder of the inclusion strategy practice CANDOR. Amalia and Ruchika chat about individuals being made up of a multitude of identities, battling the underestimations of others, and how western feminism hasn’t given us that promised liberation.  They also discuss how Ruchika started her career in the “overwhelmingly white and overwhelmingly male” journalism industry and Ruchika shares her many experiences of having her name deliberately mispronounced or being ignored by coworkers due to the way she looks.  Key Takeaways: The shame of a name: Ruchika explains how it took her “decades to reclaim agency and connection over my own name, which tells this beautiful story of a heritage and all this meaning and is so powerful.”Unravelling systems of oppression: Ruchika shares a sneak peek at her new book coming out fall 2025. She speaks to how humans are conditioned to believe in survival of the fittest and put self above community when we should be spreading the wealth and helping others grow alongside us.The Whole Damn Pie means: aspiring to a garden. For Ruchika, it’s looking after herself so she can replant seeds and give to others. Learn more about Ruchika and her book here: https://www.ruchika.co/

    37 min
  2. The Fight for Identity as an Asylee in the US

    01/21/2025

    The Fight for Identity as an Asylee in the US

    “When you’re a woman of color in leadership, why wouldn't you have an identity crisis when the standard for you, even in the position of power that you are in, is different from your white co-workers and colleagues. You have to spend time and emotional labor to advocate to people why you are even here in the first place.” Qurat Ul Ain is an immigrant, an asylum seeker, and a leader in the legal fight for women's rights across the country.  Amalia and Qurat Ul Ain speak about feeling like you need to whitewash yourself, the many challenges and sacrifices you face as a refugee in the US, and having to hide parts of your personality or your beliefs and opinions to fit in or earn your visa. They also connect over Qurat Ul Ain’s work at Legal Voice, including operating on a shared leadership model and the shocking fact that crisis pregnancy centers aren’t protected by HIPAA. Key Takeaways: Feeling the need to show up as a “model brown person”: Qurat Ul Ain details her decade-long experience of fighting her case as a religious and a political asylee in the US.Her work with Legal Voice: In her “dream job” as Development & Communications Director, Qurat Ul Ain helps the immigrant community and people who speak English as a second language to understand their rights.The Whole Damn Pie means: being accepted and belonging somewhere. For Qurat Ul Ain, it’s being able to step out confidently, not being put in a box, and not having people ask, “So, where are you really from?”. Learn more about Legal Voice here: https://legalvoice.org/

    43 min
  3. A mission for shared prosperity, cultural representation, and impactful community work.

    12/10/2024

    A mission for shared prosperity, cultural representation, and impactful community work.

    Colleen Echohawk     A mission for shared prosperity, cultural representation, and impactful community work.   Colleen Echohawk is a self-described aggressive optimist, incredible extrovert, and someone who sees the glass as not only half full, but overflowing with abundance. For her, the whole damn pie means having a lot of joy. Filling her life with beautiful dog walks, hanging with family and friends, singing karaoke, reading good books, and watching shows with her husband.     Doesn’t seem too much to ask right? But she’s also a believer in shared prosperity and she’s not afraid to step up and do the scary things in life—whether that’s running for mayor of Seattle, building housing units for Seattle’s urban native homeless, or running a native retail business. Over the last two decades, Colleen has done all this and so much more as part of her commitment to helping marginalized populations and native prosperity.   Key Takeaways: Native disparity: In King County, less than 1% of the population are native, yet they make up over 15% of the homeless population.   Inspiring her kids: Colleen’s passionate about helping her children to understand truth, showing them that native people can be in office, and teaching them to not be afraid to take risks. Changing the native narrative: She’s CEO of Eighth Generation, a Seattle-based art and lifestyle brand that is creating products by inspired natives, not native-inspired products.   The Whole Pie means joy: Listen in for how Colleen achieves the whole damn pie.   If you enjoy listening, be sure to follow us so you’re the first to know when we add new episodes. While you’re there, please leave us a review — we’d really appreciate it.  Eighth Generation Produced by Larj Media

    34 min
  4. Beyond Words: How Voice Shapes Identity

    11/19/2024

    Beyond Words: How Voice Shapes Identity

    Nicole Gress, Founder of Undead Voice, is a Speech Language Pathologist specializing in gender-affirming care and a passionate believer that “voice is extremely tied to our sense of self.” They chat with Amalia about how voice transition is about more than sound—it's a profound journey of self-affirmation. One that actually helped them to identify their own gender fluidity.  Now, Nicole uses their work to break down preconceived biases and societally constructed expectations of what a voice should sound like. Through this, they aim to empower trans individuals to find a voice they can use without nervousness or anxiety, and that affirms their identity. Nicole also advocates for greater inclusivity in organizations and communities, and speaks to employers, including Fortune 500 companies, on what they can be doing to make every employee feel more safe and seen.  Key Takeaways: The Power of Voice: Learn why voice is a powerful means of exploring and expressing identity. Breaking Down Bias: Gain insights into how Nicole’s work empowers people to find a voice that affirms their identity and that doesn’t pigeonhole them into any societally constructed expectations. Gender Fluidity: Hear Nicole reflect on how voice training helped them to understand how fluid and multifaceted their own identity was and how much voice could be a tool of gender exploration. How Employers Can Support Trans People: Discover why more and more trans individuals are looking at what kind of gender affirming care employers offer when considering a job.  The Whole Pie means balance: Listen in for how Nicole achieves the whole damn pie.   If you enjoy listening, be sure to follow us so you’re the first to know when we add new episodes. While you’re there, please leave us a review — we’d really appreciate it.      Produced by Larj Media Undead Voice  Transcript: WDP_NicoleGress_Transcript.pdf

    33 min
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We’ve all felt the need to settle at one point or another. To settle for a “slice” of life when – whether we know it or not - we really want the whole pie. What is the whole pie? It’s health, fulfillment, that promotion, to make more money, to impact our community, to leave a lasting legacy, to live up to our own expectations and on and on. It’s different for everyone – and that’s the point. This is why The Vida Agency founder and president Amalia Martino brings you a series of fulfillment-focused conversations in “The Whole Damn Pie” podcast series. She speaks to guests on a variety of topics from living a more fun and balanced life to how we view money, even tackling equity and social justice work and much more. An expert on nothing but her own professional and personal experiences, Amalia approaches conversations with a willingness to learn and genuine desire to have the necessary conversations. She’s a well-respected business owner, mom, and community advocate to name a few. When she’s not hosting the Whole Damn Pie, she’s running The Vida Agency a full-service marketing & communications firm in Seattle or doing Hot Yoga to unwind. Enjoy!