Navigating Estate Planning with Caress Law

Tammi Caress

Learn how to protect yourself and your loved ones as we help you navigate the estate planning process.

  1. Sep 15

    How to Protect Your New Spouse Without Cutting Out Your Kids: Blended Families Pt 3

    Can you protect a new spouse and guarantee your kids from a first marriage still inherit? In this episode, Tammi breaks down the practical fixes for blended family estate planning — QTIP trusts, ILITs, premarital agreements, beneficiary audits, and choosing the right fiduciaries — plus why the hardest part usually isn't the paperwork, it's the conversation.   In This Episode You Will Learn Estate Planning Resources for Blended Families Understanding Blended Families: Navigating Estate Planning and Unique Challenges Podcast Pt 1  Understanding Blended Families: Navigating Estate Planning and Unique Challenges Podcast Pt 2 QTIP Trusts — What "qualified terminable interest property" Trust means, how it secures income/principal for a surviving spouse while preserving remainder for kids, marital deduction mechanics, can be set up pre-marriage Life Insurance & ILITs — Using life insurance to equalize distributions between spouse and kids; ILIT structure to keep policy proceeds out of the taxable estate Premarital/Postmarital Agreements — Reframed as inheritance protection, not distrust; waiving elective share; separating community vs. separate property (OR vs. WA) Titling & Beneficiary Audits — Retirement accounts, joint bank accounts, why these pass outside the will/trust; triggers for review (divorce, remarriage, death, illness); real case example of ex-spouse remaining beneficiary Choosing Fiduciaries — Why not to name spouse + adult child as co-fiduciaries; case for corporate/professional trustee in blended families Having the Hard Conversations — Why documents alone aren't enough; timing conversations before crisis; family meeting vs. one-on-ones; what NOT to do (don't let kids weigh in on the plan, don't make promises, don't let reactions drive on-the-spot changes) Warning — Warning against using general practitioners for estate planning; webinars, blog, website; review ask   Connect with Tammi Caress https://caresslaw.estate/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/caresslaw/ Follow the podcast in Apple Podcasts or Spotify https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/navigating-estate-planning-with-caress-law/id1576876621 https://open.spotify.com/show/4iGJ7mtWDeqgHExxPqKeKp

  2. Sep 2

    Oregon and Washington Estate Taxes: What's Changed and Why It's Hitting More Families

    If you own a home and a retirement account in Oregon or Washington, your family may already owe estate taxes — even if you've never thought of yourself as wealthy. In this episode, Tammi breaks down Oregon's frozen $1 million exemption, Washington's rapidly shifting exemption and tax rate, why owning property in a state you don't live in can trigger taxes there too, and the planning tools (marital deduction, QTIP trusts, exemption trusts, gifting, and LLCs) that can meaningfully reduce or eliminate the bill. She also unpacks Washington's newer capital gains tax and the upcoming "millionaire's tax." Key Definitions Gross estate — everything a person owns at death: home, investment accounts, retirement accounts, life insurance. Exemption — the amount that passes free of estate tax. Taxable estate — the value above the exemption; this is what determines whether a return must be filed and tax paid.   The Two Numbers That Matter   Oregon Washington (post 7/1/2026) Exemption $1,000,000 (unchanged since deaths after 1/1/2012) $3,000,000 (frozen) Top tax rate 16% (range 10–16%) 20%   Washington's exemption and rate have moved several times in the last two years: the top rate spiked to 35% for one year before dropping back to 20% and freezing the exemption at $3 million as of July 1, 2026. Estates of people who died before that date may fall under different numbers — the exemption and rate depend on date of death.   Key Takeaways / Action Items Know your number: $1M (Oregon), $3M (Washington), $15M (federal, ~$30M married). Add up everything — home, retirement accounts, investments, and life insurance — to see where you land. Leaving everything outright to a spouse can waste an exemption; proper planning (exempt trusts) can fix this. Gifting is an underused tool, but get professional input on which assets to gift. If you own property in more than one state, review your plan for cross-state exposure. If your plan is more than a few years old, or assets have appreciated significantly, revisit it now — Oregon's exemption hasn't moved, and Washington's is now frozen at $3M. Business owners with income near/over $1M (or Washington-sourced income) should start planning for the 2028 millionaire's tax now. All of this planning only works before death — once someone has passed, it's simply a tax calculation.   Resources & Contact Free blogs, on-demand webinars, monthly live webinars, and downloadable e-books on estate planning, wills, trusts, taxes, and fiduciary responsibilities. Consultations available for estate planning tax questions and guidance on moving into/out of state jurisdictions. Website: caresslaw.estate. https://caresslaw.estate/   Caress Law, PC is a boutique estate planning, probate, trust administration, and tax law firm serving clients in Oregon and Washington. Follow the podcast in Apple Podcasts or Spotify https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/navigating-estate-planning-with-caress-law/id1576876621 https://open.spotify.com/show/4iGJ7mtWDeqgHExxPqKeKp

  3. Aug 4

    What Happens to Your Family When You're Gone

    Tammi Caress replays her guest appearance on the APM Success Podcast, where she and host Justin Harvey dig into what really happens to your family, your business, and the people you love when you're gone. The conversation covers why estate planning gets pushed to the bottom of the to-do list, how to choose the right people to carry out your wishes, and why waiting is almost always the most expensive decision a family can make.   Notable Quotes "The most expensive administrations to settle in an estate is if you have a fiduciary who delays and doesn't act... it really drives the cost up in the estate." "The biggest mistake I see is when they appoint someone just because of their birth order." "If you want your kids to be friends after you're gone... a thoughtfully constructed estate plan that is concrete, communicated, and documented" is the best appeal you can make. See More APM Podcasts - https://apmsuccess.com/   Connect with Tammi Caress https://caresslaw.estate/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/caresslaw/ Follow the podcast in Apple Podcasts or Spotify https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/navigating-estate-planning-with-caress-law/id1576876621 https://open.spotify.com/show/4iGJ7mtWDeqgHExxPqKeKp   Disclaimer The information in this podcast and associated materials is for general informational purposes only and is not intended to replace or serve as a substitute for legal, tax, or estate planning advice. Consult a qualified professional before making decisions specific to your situation.

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