Engineer Your Success

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Expert interviews and leadership insights for engineering leaders and technical professionals who want to thrive at work and at home. Hosted by Dr. James Bryant, PhD, PE, this podcast equips you with practical strategies to strengthen leadership, communication, and emotional intelligence so you can lead with clarity and confidence. Each week features conversations with engineering leaders and industry experts—plus occasional solo insights—to help you build stronger teams, make better decisions, and design a career and life that work on your terms. Topics include: leadership development for engineers and technical professionals | effective communication and influence | work-life integration and avoiding burnout | delegation, decision-making, and team building | leading with emotional intelligence under pressure | mentorship, coaching, and professional growth. New episodes every Tuesday.

  1. 5d ago

    Taking an Unlikely Journey to Success

    Engineering leaders listen in as Cullen Glass joins the show for a conversation on nonlinear career paths, overcoming doubt, why a great product is only half the job of building a lasting business, and the power of networking with purpose.

  2. Sep 22

    Engineering Leaders Have an Unfair Advantage in People Management

    Episode 253 | Guest: Amie Fox | Host: Dr. James Bryant, PE Amie Fox, Managing Director of A Fox Consulting and a leadership development trainer based in Ireland, joins Dr. James Bryant to challenge how engineering leaders think about people problems. Amie argues that engineers actually have an unfair advantage when it comes to people management — and reveals exactly where that advantage can quietly become a liability. This conversation reframes what it really takes to move from solving technical problems to leading the people who solve them. Key Takeaways “Your people are not the problem, the structure around them is” — what looks like a people problem is often a gap in accountability, onboarding, or expectations. (Amie) A good system isn’t a script — it’s simply helping people understand what’s expected of them, and of their manager. (Amie) Being promoted into management is a two-way decision. It’s fair to ask whether you actually want to take that leap, not just whether you’re capable of it. (Amie) Engineers have “an unfair advantage” in people management because of how naturally they think in systems and dependencies — the skill is real, it just has to be redirected. (Amie) Where that advantage breaks down: people, unlike systems, aren’t predictable — the same feedback can land completely differently six months apart. (Amie) The hardest shift from engineer to people leader is moving from solving the problem yourself to helping someone else solve it. (Amie) Unstated expectations don’t protect people from disappointment — they just delay it. (James) Curiosity is a skill engineers already use on technical problems. The challenge is pointing that same instinct at people instead of jumping to assumptions like “they’re not motivated.” (James, Coach in Your Corner) Middle managers who aren’t given real skills and systems will hand day-to-day work back to the C-suite — capping how much a company can scale. (Amie) Timestamps 00:24 — Introduction and episode framing 01:40 — One-word icebreaker: tenacious, and a family reflection 03:13 — Amie’s winding career path into people-systems work 05:38 — Unpacking “your people are not the problem, the structure around them is” 09:28 — Why promotion into people management is a two-way decision 15:32 — Are engineers natural people managers? Amie’s unfair-advantage argument 18:22 — The hardest shift: from solving problems to helping others solve them 21:22 — How being visually impaired shaped Amie’s ability to spot hidden barriers 24:43 — One action Amie wants every listener to take 27:08 — Mic Flip: Amie turns the questions on James 31:06 — Coach in Your Corner: applying curiosity to people, not just problems About the Guest Amie Fox is Managing Director of A Fox Consulting, a leadership development and training practice based in Ireland. She helps founders, HR leaders, and operations leaders in growing organizations build practical people systems that improve employee engagement, manager confidence, and business performance. Her path into this work spans communications, training, fundraising, corporate responsibility, and operations — alongside her own experience navigating workplaces as a visually impaired woman, which sharpened her ability to spot hidden barriers most leaders walk past. She is the author of Mind the Blind Spot. Connect with Amie on LinkedIn (Amie Fox) or at afox.ie. About the Host Dr. James Bryant is an executive coach, leadership strategist, and host of the Engineer Your Success podcast. His mission is to help professionals win at work and at home by developing the leadership skills and presence that technical training alone does not provide. Join the weekly newsletter at winbydesign.co

  3. Aug 25

    Build the Runway So You Can Leave on Your Own Terms

    Episode 252 | Guest: Sam Stidwell IV | Host: Dr. James Bryant Sam Stidwell IV spent five years building 3D printing technology for the Army Corps of Engineers by day, and a construction materials supply company by night, for a year and a half before he ever won a contract. He wasn’t at risk of losing his job, but when a voluntary buyout offer came through a second time, he took it, on a threshold he’d already set for himself. In this episode, Sam and Dr. James Bryant unpack what it actually takes to build the runway before you jump: the financial discipline, the conversations with your spouse, and the faith it takes when the numbers still don’t guarantee anything. You’ll walk away with a clearer picture of what “ready” really means before you leave the security of a paycheck. Key Takeaways Landing a first contract can take far longer than expected — Sam worked nights and weekends for a year and a half before winning anything, treating the wait as data collection rather than failure. Bidding at a near-zero margin just to secure a first win can be worth it — the goal on contract one isn’t profit, it’s proof the model works. Systems that don’t depend on the founder are what make a leap possible — hiring a virtual assistant before leaving his full-time job let Sam build a business that could run without him handling every task himself. An external sign isn’t required to know it’s time, but having one — in Sam’s case, a federal deferred resignation offer — can turn years of quiet preparation into an actual decision. Spousal buy-in isn’t about the numbers so much as giving reassurance in whatever form your partner actually needs — for Sam’s wife, that meant emotional confidence, not a spreadsheet. Living below your means during strong years is what carries a business through the inevitable bad ones — James notes that stored profit from good years helped him absorb a client loss that wiped out 70% of his revenue. Mentorship pays for itself when it stops a bad decision — one question from James and Jerome Myers redirected Sam away from a business acquisition and toward organic growth that tripled his revenue instead. Relationships, not tactics, are often the real growth engine in service-based businesses — Sam’s shift toward in-person networking through industry associations followed him recognizing where his best contracts were actually coming from. Three to six months of bare-bones emergency expenses is a baseline, not a ceiling, when income depends on winning the next contract. Timestamps 00:00 — Intro and welcome to Sam Stidwell IV 00:52 — Sam’s background: NC A&T, football, and the Army Corps of Engineers 02:38 — Five years with the Army Corps building 3D printing technology for military construction 04:00 — Building the business nights and weekends around a 9-to-5 07:15 — Bidding at a 1% margin to win the first contract 09:59 — Negotiating a flexible schedule to create room for growth 14:04 — Taking the leap and bringing his wife into the decision 20:33 — Personal finances and the role of emergency savings 26:24 — The mentorship question that changed his growth strategy 30:05 — Flip the mic: what keeps James sane through business ebbs and flows About the Guest Sam Stidwell IV is the founder of The Fourth Distribution, a construction materials supply company focused on commercial and public-sector projects across Illinois and Missouri. He spent five years with the Army Corps of Engineers developing large-scale 3D printing technology for military expeditionary construction before leaving to run his business full time. Sam built The Fourth Distribution nights and weekends for a year and a half before landing his first contract, and has since grown the company roughly three-fold through networking, mentorship, and disciplined systems-building. You can find him on Instagram and LinkedIn at 2B_great. Samuel Stidwell IV | LinkedIn https://www.instagram.com/tobe_great/ About the Host Dr. James Bryant is an executive coach, leadership strategist, and host of the Engineer Your Success podcast. His mission is to help professionals win at work and at home by developing the leadership skills and presence that technical training alone does not provide. Sign-up for our weekly newsletter at: WinByDesign.co

  4. Aug 4

    From the Inbox to the Mic: A Subscriber’s Perspective on Work-Life Balance

    Episode Description This is the first episode in a new recurring series, From the Inbox to the Mic — where a subscriber’s own words take center stage. Dr. James Bryant reads the email he sent to longtime subscriber Ben, then shares Ben’s full response (voiced by AI, in Ben’s own words) to three questions about work-life balance. James closes with his own take on why the standard advice about “balance” misses half the picture. Key Takeaways Work-life balance isn’t a fixed state — it’s constant motion, like a teeter-totter that never actually sits level The idea that “hard work always pays off” holds true in sports and personal effort, but doesn’t always hold in business, where leadership priorities and KPIs shift Hard work can go unrewarded not because it wasn’t real, but because the effort goes unseen Winning, for Ben, means accepting what he can’t control and focusing energy on what he can Most work-life balance advice assumes the imbalance only runs one direction — too much work, not enough home That assumption misses people who have a strong home life but are stuck professionally — the growth or promotion they want isn’t coming James’s three-question framework — Do you want to win at work? Do you want to win at home? Are you winning at work and at home? — doesn’t presume the problem starts at home Sometimes the place to start the work is at work, not in your personal life Timestamps 00:00 — Introduction to the episode and new format, “From the Inbox to the Mic” 01:01 — Updates on the launch of the Win by Design newsletter and upcoming book, The Engineer’s Blueprint for Success 02:20 — Behind-the-scenes: working with publishers and beta reader opportunities 03:28 — Sharing an email from subscriber Ben about his views on work-life balance and success myths 04:57 — Dr. Bryant’s response emphasizing the importance of understanding effort, progress, and what it truly means to win 07:11 — Discussing the myth that continuous hard work guarantees success and how leadership changes affect recognition 08:48 — The different challenges faced by leaders in achieving professional growth vs. balancing home life 09:17 — The three fundamental questions: Do you want to win at work? At home? Are you actually winning? 10:26 — Invitations for audience engagement, feedback, and the importance of focusing on impact over balance About the Host Dr. James Bryant is an executive coach, leadership strategist, and host of the Engineer Your Success podcast. His mission is to help professionals win at work and at home by developing the leadership skills and presence that technical training alone does not provide. Resources Mentioned Win by Design Newsletter — weekly insights on Substack: winbydesign.co The Engineer’s Blueprint for Success: Stop Balancing and Start Winning — James’s forthcoming book, currently in edits with JetLaunch Publishing Jet Launch Publishing — James’s publisher; also worked with James on Your Message Is the Business with co-author Donna Kunde

  5. Jul 28

    It Doesn’t Matter When You Do It, You Just Need to Start

    Episode 250 | Guest: Matthew Evington | Host: Dr. James Bryant Most people picture a straight line into engineering. Matt Evington’s path ran through retail, landscaping, and a materials testing lab before he ever set foot in a college classroom — at 26, in a night pre-calculus class he almost didn’t take. In this episode, the civil engineer turned solar farm specialist shares how he built a career one deliberate, often terrifying step at a time. Listeners will walk away with a different question to ask about timing: not “am I behind,” but “what’s my next move?” Key Takeaways Grants and Virginia’s guaranteed transfer agreement can make a four-year engineering degree possible with far less debt than most people assume. Fear is often a signal you’re on the right track, not a reason to stop — nearly every major step in Matt’s path felt terrifying before it felt right. Choosing land development over materials testing came from following what actually engaged him (Civil 3D), not just the “next natural step” his experience pointed toward. A blue-collar work background can be an asset in engineering roles that reward hands-on judgment and experience as much as formal education. Solar farm engineering differs sharply from traditional site work, including having to plan for eventual decommissioning since installations aren’t permanent. Team culture — specifically, the freedom to disagree openly with leadership at every level — mattered more to Matt’s satisfaction than the specific type of work. In Virginia, engineers can sit for the PE exam before completing the full experience requirement, which can shorten the path to licensure. AI is already embedded in engineering workflows through estimating software and modeling tools — the shift now is toward more visible, active use. James’s take: using AI as a shortcut without understanding the underlying analysis sets engineers up for failure — human review of calculations and theory still matters. Timestamps 00:00 — Introduction and today’s theme: the path of your career 00:55 — One-word check: how family and coworkers would describe Matt 02:55 — Matt’s early career detours: retail, landscaping, and finding no fit 04:47 — Starting community college at 26 and the friend who pointed him there 10:24 — First job, moving to North Carolina, and returning to Richmond 14:47 — What makes his current team’s culture different: openness at every level 18:54 — Mic flip: Matthew’s Question for James 22:00 — The Coach In Your Corner About the Guest Matt Evington is a civil engineer specializing in land development and renewable energy infrastructure, currently working on solar farm projects. He built his technical foundation as a materials testing technician while earning his associate’s degree, then transferred to Virginia Tech through Virginia’s guaranteed transfer program to complete his civil engineering degree. He’s now working toward his Virginia PE license. Connect with Matt on LinkedIn — link in the show notes. Matthew Evington | LinkedIn About the Host Dr. James Bryant is an executive coach, leadership strategist, and host of the Engineer Your Success podcast. His mission is to help professionals win at work and at home by developing the leadership skills and presence that technical training alone does not provide. Join our Weekly Newsletter for Leadership Insights: Win By DESIGN | James Bryant | Substack

  6. Jul 21

    Aggies Do! From Student to the First Woman to Lead NC A&T’s College of Engineering

    Episode 249 | Guest: Dr. Stephanie Luster-Teasley Pass | Host: Dr. James Bryant What does it take to become the first person in your own story to walk through a door you once only saw in photographs? Dr. Stephanie Luster-Teasley Pass, Dean of the College of Engineering at North Carolina A&T State University and the first woman to hold that role, joins Dr. James Bryant to share her journey from A&T student, through grad school and industry, to leading the college she once studied in. Together they explore what it means to balance career, family, and identity as a woman in engineering; how support “teams” and community make hard seasons survivable; and why A&T’s growth in AI, new programs, and industry partnerships matters for the next generation of engineers. This conversation is about the courage to say yes to opportunities you didn’t go looking for—and what it means to return to lead the place that helped shape who you are. Key Takeaways Real leadership often begins with someone else asking you a hard question you weren’t planning to answer. Saying no to leadership once doesn’t mean you’re not meant for it — sometimes the “no” is just the first draft of your answer. Leading a college means learning to think in multiples — multiplying your focus across every department, not just the one you know best. The hardest part of a technical career is rarely the technical work — it’s carrying your whole life without letting any one part of it suffer. You don’t have to be strong in every area to lead well. Build a team of people you can lean on for the areas where you’re not. Representation isn’t abstract — it shows up in something as simple as a student recognizing themselves in the person leading them. Preparing students for today’s workforce means preparing them to work with AI, not around it. Growing an organization requires balancing what’s urgent for individual departments with what’s best for the whole. Investing in someone else doesn’t require a title or a formal reason — it requires proximity, relationship, and the willingness to ask the question that matters. Timestamps 00:00 — Welcome & Aggie Pride 01:16 — From A&T Student to First Woman Dean 03:16 — Grad School, Industry, and Returning to A&T 07:41 — Career, Family, and Your Support Team 10:13 — A&T Today: AI, New Programs, and Industry Partnerships 16:14 — STEM Pipeline, Aggie Academy, and Whole-Student Support 22:32 — Mic Flip & Coach in Your Corner About the Guest Dr. Stephanie Luster-Teasley Pass is Dean of the College of Engineering at North Carolina A&T State University and the first woman to hold that role in the college’s history. A proud A&T graduate in chemical engineering, she has served on the university’s faculty for 22 years, including four and a half years as department chair of Civil, Architectural, and Environmental Engineering before her appointment as dean. Her academic background includes a master’s and Ph.D. from Michigan State University in chemical and environmental engineering, along with a patented water remediation technology developed during her time as faculty. Today she leads seven departments and nearly 2,800 students, with a focus on industry partnerships, student success, and preparing the next generation of engineers for an AI-driven workforce. Learn more at www.ncat.edu/coe About the Host Dr. James Bryant is an executive coach, leadership strategist, and host of the Engineer Your Success podcast. His mission is to help professionals win at work and at home by developing the leadership skills and presence that technical training alone does not provide. Sign up for the Win By Design Weekly Newsletter as Winbydesign.co

  7. Jul 7

    The Hidden Power of Ignorance: How Not Knowing Can Fuel Your Success

    Episode 248 | Guest: Matt Granados | Host Dr. James Bryant Episode Description Ignorance gets a bad rap. But this week’s guest, Matt Granados, calls it his greatest strategic asset — and once he explains why, you’ll see it too. James and Matt dig into what it actually takes to build a life and a business rooted in intentionality: the difference between truth and personal preference, why most people badly overestimate their own self-awareness, and the equation that determines whether your systems will produce the outcomes you actually want. If your calendar is full but your fulfillment is not, this conversation is for you. Key Takeaways Ignorance paired with humility is a strategic asset. The willingness to have your gaps exposed is what makes them fixable. Truth is constant. Application changes. Confusing personal opinion for truth is where most conflict starts. The Life Pulse equation: (how well you know yourself + how well you know them) multiplied by your system equals your outcome. A negative input tanks the result no matter how good the system is. Most people are not self-aware. Harvard research cited in the episode: 95 percent believe they are, only 10 to 14 percent actually are. The critical/supportive matrix: critical and unsupportive is mean, uncritical and supportive is dangerous, critical and supportive is love. Structure and rhythm are not confining — they are the conditions under which humans perform best. Every real coaching conversation follows three moves: expose the gap, bridge the gap, sustain the gap. Disagreement is not a failure of the conversation. It is part of the sharpening — but only when the goal is understanding, not winning. Fear is the mind killer. Worry is the time killer. You can bring both along for the ride, but neither belongs in the driver’s seat. Timestamps 00:00 — Cold open: fulfillment is a result of intentionality, not a byproduct of achievement 01:36 — Matt’s one word for himself: “ignorant” — and why it is his edge 04:00 — How Life Pulse started (and what Matt did not know about his own team) 05:35 — Truth vs. fact vs. opinion: why the distinction matters 09:39 — The debate: is everyone broken, or does everyone have room to grow? 22:20 — Weekly planning: two different systems, one shared principle 28:32 — Expose, bridge, sustain: how coaching actually works 34:13 — Mic Flip: Matt turns the questions on James 40:03 — Coach in Your Corner: five moves for a real disagreement About the Guest Matt Granados is the founder of Life Pulse Inc. and the creator of an intentionality-based coaching system he first built for himself, then adapted for his wife, his assistant, his sales team, and his warehouse team before turning it into the foundation of the company. He is the co-author of Motivate the Unmotivated and works with organizations across industries on optimal performance — high output at a sustainable pace, measured against a person’s own capacity. His work has taken him into companies including Twitter and into rooms ranging from ten people to ten thousand. Connect with Matt at lifepulseinc.com and on Instagram @LifePulseInc. About the Host Dr. James Bryant is an executive coach, leadership strategist, and host of the Engineer Your Success podcast. His mission is to help professionals win at work and at home by developing the leadership skills and presence that technical training alone does not provide. Sign up for the Winbydesign Newsletter at winbydesign.co

  8. Jun 30

    The Neuroscience Secret Engineers Can Use to De-Escalate Conflict Fast

    Guest: Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA | Host: Dr. James Bryant, P.E. A 22-year trial lawyer who walked away from a seven-figure career to become a peacemaker — and then took his methods into California’s most violent prison yards. Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA joins the show to break down a deceptively simple, neuroscience-backed technique for defusing any tense conversation in under 90 seconds. James and Doug unpack why naming an emotion calms a nervous system faster than logic ever will, the three objections every leader raises before they try it, and what it means to lead people as nervous systems first and rational thinkers second. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a tool you can use in your very next hard conversation — and know exactly when it’s the wrong one to reach for. Key Takeaways Naming someone’s emotion out loud (“you feel angry”) calms their nervous system automatically — it’s a biological response, not a soft skill trick. The technique works because it reactivates the prefrontal cortex while quieting the brain’s threat response, confirmed by UCLA brain-scanning research. Use a “you” statement, never an “I” statement — the moment you say “I think you feel,” the focus shifts to you instead of them and the technique stops working. Don’t ask “are you angry?” — questions require a working prefrontal cortex, which a dysregulated person doesn’t have access to in the moment. Being wrong about the emotion doesn’t break the technique — the act of trying to name it still tells the other person they’re being heard. Affect labeling can’t be used to manipulate — it only works when it comes from genuine authenticity, something tested directly inside the Prison of Peace project. Every brain in a meeting is unconsciously asking three questions before it can engage: Am I safe? Can I trust you? Do I matter to you? Leaders get faster decisions and more loyalty by regulating people’s nervous systems first, then asking for their input — not the other way around. If someone pushes back with “are you my therapist?” it usually means the technique was done well but too aggressively — back off, then reintroduce it more subtly a few minutes later. Treating people as nervous systems first doesn’t replace logic and data — it’s an additional tool, not a substitute for analytical thinking. Timestamps 00:00 — Why technical leaders are trained to solve problems, not manage emotions 01:40 — Doug’s path from 22-year trial lawyer to peacemaker 07:06 — Sarah’s story: an 18-year prison letter, and the breakthrough behind it 10:43 — The two-word technique — “You feel ___” — and the neuroscience behind it 12:34 — The three objections every leader raises before trying it 24:31 — What most leaders get wrong about human nature 26:44 — Nervous system leadership: the three questions every brain asks 32:36 — Mic Flip – What’s one question Doug has for James 35:00 — The Coach in Your Corner – Choose tools that are fit for purpose About the Guest Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA spent 22 years as a trial lawyer before leaving the practice to earn a master’s degree in peacemaking and conflict studies. In 2009 he co-founded Prison of Peace with Laurel Coffren, spending a decade training people serving life sentences in California and Connecticut prisons to mediate conflict and stop violence using affect labeling. He is the author of De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less, and his next book, Empathy Leadership, releases in September from Simon & Schuster and is available for pre-order now. Connect with Doug at dougnoll.com or dougnoll.substack.com, where he publishes in-depth articles on emotional regulation and conflict resolution. About the Host Dr. James Bryant is an executive coach, leadership strategist, and host of the Engineer Your Success podcast. His mission is to help professionals win at work and at home by developing the leadership skills and presence that technical training alone does not provide. Subscribe to the Win By Design Newsletter for weekly leadership insights: www.winbydesign.co

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Expert interviews and leadership insights for engineering leaders and technical professionals who want to thrive at work and at home. Hosted by Dr. James Bryant, PhD, PE, this podcast equips you with practical strategies to strengthen leadership, communication, and emotional intelligence so you can lead with clarity and confidence. Each week features conversations with engineering leaders and industry experts—plus occasional solo insights—to help you build stronger teams, make better decisions, and design a career and life that work on your terms. Topics include: leadership development for engineers and technical professionals | effective communication and influence | work-life integration and avoiding burnout | delegation, decision-making, and team building | leading with emotional intelligence under pressure | mentorship, coaching, and professional growth. New episodes every Tuesday.

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    Dr. James Bryant
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    2021 - 2026
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