A Way Forward

Aimee Perrett

Are you stuck somewhere? We all get stuck at times - in a situation, a relationship, work, our head, our heart, ourselves. Sometimes we find it hard to take that very first step out of the stuck-ness into hope, to eventually reconnect with the natural ebb and flow of life. In this podcast, I tell real stories of finding a way forward from that stuck place and dissect what it took for that person to take that first step. With help from various fields of science and my own experience, I share and explain in simple terms, thoughts, strategies and ideas about taking a step forward. My vision is to give the world the belief there is always a way forward and how this can be done.

Episodes

  1. 03/17/2023

    Episode 6 - "We are all chasing the same feeling"

    "We are all chasing the same feeling" My friend Pania said this while a bunch of us had met for coffee part-way through a group bike ride.  Pania, Cheryl and Steve had all just completed the Coast to Coast multisport race, which runs from the West Coast of New Zealand's South Island, to the East Coast.  The 243km is covered by kayak,  mountain running and cycling , in either a one-day format "the Longest Day" or a two-day format. The event has become almost a rite of passage for multisport athetes around the world.  Pania, Cheryl and Steve were buzzing from the event and also from having all been on the podium, I had not long raced Ironman New Zealand, Alison had just run her 3rd 100km ultra and others were due to race in then next few months.   The conversation turned to why we all trained for hours and weeks and months, while putting ourselves through learning brand-new scary skills in our late 50s (kayaking for both Pania and Cheryl).  Week after week, we  bike 100s of kilometres, run for hours, swim and kayak, go the gym, do yoga .. while working, looking after kids, parents, friends, pets, and for some including voluntary work in the community.  Why do we do this?  "Well, we're all chasing the same feeling" - said Pania. We were all speechless, reflecting on Pania's insight.  We got back on our bikes pondering the feeling we were chasing.  I had to get to the bottom of Pania's statement - so I asked her to come onto the podcast and give us the  full story. One thing's for sure  - the finish line is only a very small part of the answer. Enjoy Pania, her amazing story, insights and the way she has with words :-) I am sooo stoked to be an Ambassador for Nuzest - a 100% Kiwi business that makes high-quality plant protein powders, the BEST plant protein bars ever, as well as nutrition support powders for adults and children. Plus they are - hands down (and I have tried most of them) - the BEST TASTING PLANT PROTEIN products. I'm a vanilla fan but my husband tells me the chocolate on is yummy too! Check them out at www.nuzest,co.nz and use the code APC15 for 15% off your purchase!

    1h 5m
  2. 08/14/2021

    Episode 2 - When we want to talk about a relationship issue but it’s just too hard

    Do you find yourself stuck in a rut because you can't tell someone what you want without making the situation worse?  Or because  you just don't say anything at all and try to suck it up ... but this only leads to resentment, sadness or you feeling like you are isolating yourself within the relationship? In this episode, we explore a way to move forward from this very common stuck place by looking at first connecting, then asking for what you need.  The connecting is achieved by using a form of communication called NVC or non-violent communication, which is rooted in empathy and explores the context of the problem we have in order to give the listener the full picture. I really hope you get something out of this episode, even if it is just you knowing there is always a way forward.   Remember if you'd like to share any thoughts you might have on this episode, or if you just want to connect, head to www.aimeeperrettcoaching.com or email me at hello@aimeeperrettcoaching.com. Have a great week! 3 I am sooo stoked to be an Ambassador for Nuzest - a 100% Kiwi business that makes high-quality plant protein powders, the BEST plant protein bars ever, as well as nutrition support powders for adults and children. Plus they are - hands down (and I have tried most of them) - the BEST TASTING PLANT PROTEIN products. I'm a vanilla fan but my husband tells me the chocolate on is yummy too! Check them out at www.nuzest,co.nz and use the code APC15 for 15% off your purchase!

    13 min

About

Are you stuck somewhere? We all get stuck at times - in a situation, a relationship, work, our head, our heart, ourselves. Sometimes we find it hard to take that very first step out of the stuck-ness into hope, to eventually reconnect with the natural ebb and flow of life. In this podcast, I tell real stories of finding a way forward from that stuck place and dissect what it took for that person to take that first step. With help from various fields of science and my own experience, I share and explain in simple terms, thoughts, strategies and ideas about taking a step forward. My vision is to give the world the belief there is always a way forward and how this can be done.