The Inner Wealth Podcast

Mike Kitko
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Mike Kitko is the Founder and Creative Director of Inner Wealth Global, a personal and professional development company that helps business owners create aligned wealth, success, freedom, and deep fulfillment—without sacrificing themselves in the process. As an author, speaker, podcaster, and coach Mike guides visionaries and impact-driven entrepreneurs to align their inner world with the life and business they are truly meant to live and create. His work helps you master your mind, energy, and emotions while building intense personal power so that wealth and opportunity flow effortlessly. Through coaching, training, and transformational content, Inner Wealth Global helps business owners break free from unnecessary struggle, trust their path, and create a life deeply aligned with their soul.

  1. 6D AGO

    Ep239. Part Eight – When Things Get Too Good: The Hidden Mechanics of Self-Sabotage (with Angie.)

    Send me a some feedback! In Part eight of the Unbreakable series, Mike and Angie unpack one of the most confronting and irritating human patterns: self-sabotage. This episode explores how the nervous system, wired for familiarity over safety, unconsciously pulls us back to what it knows — even when life improves. From relationships to wealth to personal growth, they break down how “upper limits” show up and why we repeatedly sabotage joy, stability, and success when things get “too good.” Through personal stories, financial examples, addiction patterns, and relationship breakdowns, they reveal how self-sabotage isn’t intentional — it’s unconscious. And once you see it, you can’t unsee it. This episode challenges you to stop blaming circumstances and start examining where your own nervous system may be quietly resetting your life back to its familiar baseline. Key Takeaways Your nervous system prioritizes familiarity over safety. It keeps you alive by keeping you in what it knows — even if that environment is unhealthy.Self-sabotage is not conscious. It’s an unconscious nervous system response when life exceeds your current capacity for joy, love, or wealth.You can be wired to have success but not wired to hold it. Without expanding your internal capacity, growth will trigger contraction.Upper limits affect every area of life. Financial growth can trip relationship issues. Relationship peace can trigger health problems. Everything is interconnected.Your “financial thermostat” determines your set point. If you exceed it, you’ll unconsciously find a way to reset back to your familiar baseline — until you expand your capacity.Notable Quotes “The nervous system has one job and one job only and that’s to keep you alive.”“It keeps you alive by keeping you in familiar circumstances.”“When things get too good, we f**k it up.”“When there’s no reason for our joy and our happiness and fulfillment and the love in our heart to go away and it does, that’s self-sabotage.”“If you’re used to a low quality of life, your nervous system wants you to have it. And if you’re used to a high quality of life, your nervous system wants you to have it because it knows how to operate there.”Call To Action If this conversation resonates, it’s pointing to the deeper work—learning how to regulate internally instead of expecting life, success, or relationships to regulate you. 📘 Inner World, Outer World Read Mike's latest book.  Available now on Amazon Now. Click here!👥 Message Mike or Angie Directly mike@innerwealthglobal.com angie@innerwealthglobal.com Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends My Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mikekitko Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mike_kitko Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mikekitko Subscribe to my YouTube: / @mikekitko

    39 min

  2. FEB 19

    Ep238. Part Seven – The Love Language Lie: How Misusing Them Creates More Pain Than Connection (with Angie.)

    Send me a some feedback! In this episode of the Unbreakable series, Mike and Angie explore how couples often misuse the Five Love Languages—turning them into expectations instead of tools for understanding. They reframe love languages as something to observe, not demand, placing responsibility for emotional experience back on the individual. Through their own relationship journey, they show how people-pleasing, control, and unspoken expectations create resentment, and how their dynamic changed when they stopped requiring each other to meet emotional needs and began recognizing the love already present. The conversation returns to personal power, self-regulation, and interpretation as the foundation of a resilient relationship. KEY TAKEAWAYS Love Languages Were Meant to Create Awareness, Not Obligation When they are used as rulebooks instead of insights, they become tools for scorekeeping rather than connection.Misusing Love Languages Turns Needs Into Demands Expecting your partner to constantly perform your preferred language creates pressure, resentment, and emotional distance.A Dysregulated Nervous System Cannot Receive Love in Any Language If safety is absent internally, no expression of love will feel like enough — regardless of how well it matches your “type.”Connection Is Built Through Presence, Not Performance Real intimacy comes from two regulated people showing up authentically, not from mechanically delivering acts to satisfy a framework.Love Languages Work Best When They Are Freely Given, Not Forced They deepen relationships when they arise naturally from care, but cause pain when used as metrics to measure whether someone loves you “correctly.”NOTABLE QUOTES “No one can give you a feeling. No one can give you an emotion.” “Your thoughts create your emotions.” “We choose what we feel.” “If you only fall in love with the first version of somebody, then you're going to be really disappointed when they become the 15th version.” “Step from the asker to the observer, and you'll be surprised how much people show you love.” CALL TO ACTION If this conversation resonates, it’s pointing to the deeper work—learning how to regulate internally instead of expecting life or relationships to regulate you. Experience: Unbreakable Boot Camp (March 6–7) just outside St. Louis — where we move beyond theory and train the nervous system through live guided work so you can remain steady regardless of what life brings. Get more details here! 👥 Message Mik

    38 min

  3. FEB 12

    Ep237. Part Six – Neutral Corners: Where Conflict Dissolves and Problems Finally Get Solved (with Angie).

    Send me a some feedback! In this episode, Mike and Angie explore what it really means to “go to your neutral corners” during conflict. Rather than trying to resolve emotional tension in the heat of the moment, they explain why true resolution begins with individual self-regulation. Conflict isn’t solved in the center of the ring — it’s resolved in the corners, where each person takes responsibility for their own nervous system. They unpack how projection, financial fear, old wounds, and emotional triggers play out inside relationships — and why nothing outside of you can fix what’s stored inside your body. This conversation draws a powerful line between unconscious survival-based reactions and conscious self-mastery, revealing how emotional regulation — not control — creates an unbreakable bond. Key Takeaways 1. Conflict Is Resolved in the Corners, Not the Center of the Ring Emotional regulation happens individually before resolution can happen together. 2. Your Partner Cannot Clean Up What Lives in Your Nervous System Triggers reveal stored emotional energy — they are not created by the other person. 3. Financial Fear, Scarcity, and Emotional Volatility Are Nervous System Patterns External changes do not resolve internal dysregulation. 4. You Attract Partners Who Expose What Needs Healing Soul-level relationships trigger growth — not comfort. 5. As One Person Evolves, the Relationship Must Evolve Too If consciousness levels diverge, the gap either closes through growth or widens toward separation. Notable Quotes “Everybody thinks that conflict is going to be resolved in the center of the ring. But in reality, conflict is resolved in the corners.”“There is not a damn thing that I can do in that moment to release your anxiety, the anger, the fear, whatever’s in there.”“The knife didn’t create the juice. The juice was already there. The knife just revealed the juice.”“The only job of the nervous system is to keep you alive.”“It’s not always about comfort. It’s about growth and growing together.”Call to Action 📘 Inner World, Outer World Read Mike's latest book.  Available now on Amazon Now. Click here! 🔥 Unbreakable Boot Camp — March 6th & 7th Join us live for two days of deep nervous system training and self-mastery work. This is where regulation becomes embodied and personal sovereignty becomes real. Click here for details. 👥 Message Mike or Angie Directly mike@innerwealthglobal.com angie@innerwealthglobal.com Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends My Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mikekitko Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mike_kitko Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mikekitko Subscribe to my YouTube: / @mikekitko

    43 min

  4. FEB 5

    Ep236. Part Five – Preferences Puncture Peace. Choosing and Prioritizing Peace Above All (With Angie).

    Send me a some feedback! In this episode, Mike and Angie continue their ten-part Unbreakable series by moving deeper into the heart of their transformation — the shift from a survival-based relationship to a conscious one. After laying the groundwork of childhood conditioning and nervous system wiring in earlier episodes, this conversation exposes how unspoken expectations, preferences, and control mechanisms quietly fueled years of volatility and conflict. They explore how peace became the guiding value that reshaped their relationship, parenting, and daily life. By distinguishing between preferences and standards, Mike and Angie reveal how letting go of control allowed their nervous systems to regulate, trust to rebuild, and stability to emerge. This episode makes it clear: relationships don’t change when circumstances change — they change when the nervous system does. Key Takeaways 1. Preferences quietly puncture peace When preferences matter more than harmony, conflict becomes inevitable. 2. The nervous system prioritizes familiarity over safety People repeat painful dynamics because survival patterns feel known, not because they want suffering. 3. Standards create safety, preferences create conditions Standards are non-negotiable foundations; preferences are flexible and optional. 4. Triggers reveal unresolved internal pressure Emotional reactions don’t come from the moment — they come from stored survival energy. 5. Conscious relationships are built on self-regulation Peace emerges when each person takes responsibility for their own nervous system. Notable Quotes • “When my preferences mattered more than my wife and my peace, it really did rule the house.”  • “Anytime we held a preference and we wanted our preference more than peace, then it ruptured everything.”  • “Preferences puncture peace.”  • “It’s not a preference that we have fidelity in our marriage. It’s a standard.”  • “I’d rather have peace than my preferences.”  Call to Action 📘 Inner World, Outer World — Available Now on Amazon A guide to understanding how the inner world shapes the outer life. Order yours here! 👥 Message Mike or Angie Directly mike@innerwealthglobal.com angie@innerwealthglobal.com Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends My Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mikekitko Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mike_kitko Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mikekitko Subscribe to my YouTube: / @mikekitko

    48 min

  5. JAN 29

    Ep235. Part Four – Why Conscious Relationships Don’t Require Working on the Relationship (with Angie).

    Send me a some feedback! In this episode, Angie and Mike dive into a powerful reframe: the right relationship doesn’t require force, sacrifice, or constant effort—it requires self-responsibility. They unpack how personal accountability, emotional regulation, and conscious standards transformed their marriage from toxic and survival-based into a grounded, sovereign partnership. This episode is raw, playful, and deeply reflective, revealing how conscious relationships grow when each person commits to their own inner work. Key Takeaways 1. Relationships Don’t Require Work—They Require Self-Responsibility When each person owns their triggers and emotions, the relationship stabilizes and deepens naturally. 2. Standards vs. Conditions Shape Relationship Health Conditions come from preferences, while standards define the non-negotiables that create safety and trust. 3. Triggers Are Gateways to Growth Triggers reveal what’s already inside your nervous system and invite personal evolution. 4. Conscious Love Is Open-Handed, Not Controlling True love allows partners to evolve freely without manipulation, guilt, or fear-based attachment. 5. Growth Must Be Mutual to Sustain Connection When both partners evolve together, the relationship expands; when only one grows, conflict or separation becomes inevitable. Notable Quotes “Relationships don’t require work. They require self-responsibility.”“You complete yourself. Together, you form a powerful alliance.”“Conditions come from preferences. Standards define what you never fall below.”“Triggers don’t create emotion—they reveal what’s already inside you.”“Real love is open-handed. I want for you what you want for you, even if that doesn’t include me.”Call to Action If this episode resonates, this is the work explored in Inner World, Outer World. The book dives into how your inner nervous system shapes your relationships, wealth, and reality—and how shifting your inner world transforms everything outside of you. Get your copy of Inner World, Outer World here, and begin the work that turns relationships from survival-based to conscious, grounded, and sovereign. 👥 Message Mike or Angie Directly mike@innerwealthglobal.com angie@innerwealthglobal.com Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends My Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mikekitko Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mike_kitko Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mikekitko Subscribe to my YouTube: / @mikekitko

    51 min

  6. JAN 22

    Ep234. Part Three – Nervous System Regulation and Relationship Sovereignty (with Angie).

    Send me a some feedback! In Part Three of our ongoing series, Mike and Angie dive into one of the most foundational — and misunderstood — forces shaping relationships: the nervous system. This episode explores why so many relationships become survival-based, how unconscious emotional “APPs” get installed in the body, and what it actually takes to move into a conscious, sovereign partnership. This conversation is not about fixing your partner or avoiding triggers — it’s about learning how to regulate your own internal world so connection no longer feels like a threat. Key Takeaways The nervous system is always trying to keep you alive, not happy. Much of relationship conflict comes from the body’s instinct to seek familiarity and avoid past pain, not from what’s actually happening in the present moment.Most emotional reactions are markers of the past, not indicators of truth. Triggers reveal stored emotional energy from earlier experiences that are still running in the background.Unconscious relationships outsource emotional regulation to the partner. When someone doesn’t know how to work with their own nervous system, they try to get the other person to change so they can feel safe.Conscious relationships require nervous system regulation, not control. Learning how to process emotions internally removes the need to manipulate, demand, or fix the other person.Triggers are invitations for growth, not signs of failure. When met with awareness and tools, emotional reactions become gateways to deeper freedom and sovereignty.Noteable Quotes “When there’s two people like us that were unregulated in our nervous system, then we’re just fighting for survival.” “All emotion is our markers of the past. They have nothing to do with the present moment.” “You’re trying to rearrange the external world so that your nervous system can be okay.” “Nobody can take that feeling away.” “If your mind and your emotions go up and down with your bank account, you are money’s bitch.” Call to Action If this episode resonates, get a copy of Mike’s latest book, Inner World, Outer World, featuring a powerful foreword by Angie, to deepen your understanding of how to step into a more conscious way of BEing. Grab yours by clicking here! 👥 Message Mike or Angie Directly mike@innerwealthglobal.com angie@innerwealthglobal.com Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends My Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mikekitko Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mike_kitko Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mikekitko Subscribe to my YouTube: / @mikekitko

    49 min

  7. JAN 15

    Ep233. Part Two — Survival vs Conscious Relationships: The Rebuild After Collapse (with Angie).

    Send me a some feedback! In this episode, Mike and Angie continue their ten-part series by moving deeper into the heart of their transformation — the shift from a survival-based relationship to a conscious one. After laying the foundation of their childhoods and early conditioning in Part One, this conversation explores how unconscious patterns, nervous system wiring, and unresolved inner conflicts shaped sixteen years of toxicity, volatility, and emotional harm. They walk through the moment everything collapsed, the decision to rebuild rather than repeat, and the painful truths required to move from fear, control, and projection into responsibility, ownership, and growth. This episode draws a clear line between relationships driven by survival and those rooted in consciousness — and why nothing truly changes until each person takes full responsibility for what’s happening inside their own body and nervous system. Key Takeaways There Is Never Only One Toxic Person in a Toxic Relationship Survival-based dynamics are mutual, even when the pain expresses differently for each partner.The Nervous System Prioritizes Familiarity Over Safety People repeat unhealthy relationships not because they want pain — but because their nervous system knows how to survive there.Unspoken Expectations Create Hidden Resentments When internal conflicts are outsourced to a partner, the relationship becomes a battleground instead of a bond.Triggers Reveal What Needs Healing External events don’t create emotional reactions — they expose what’s already stored beneath the surface.Conscious Relationships Are Built on Ownership, Not Control Growth happens when each person cleans up their own triggers instead of demanding the other person change.Notable Quotes “There’s never only one toxic person in a toxic relationship.”“The nervous system has one job and one job only — to keep you alive.”“Nothing on the outside of you can solve internal conflicts inside.”“When you expect the external world to solve internal conflicts, this is when you’re in survival mode.”“A conscious relationship is built on an unbreakable commitment to work on everything together without guilt, shame, anger, threats, and blame.”Call to Action 📘 Inner World, Outer World — Available Now on Amazon  A guide to understanding how the inner world shapes the outer life. Order yours here! 👥 Message Mike or Angie Directly mike@innerwealthglobal.com angie@innerwealthglobal.com Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends My Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mikekitko Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mike_kitko Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mikekitko Subscribe to my YouTube: / @mikekitko

    59 min

  8. JAN 8

    Ep232. Part One — Before the Rebuild: the Life and Relationship That Had to Break (with Angie).

    Send me a some feedback! In this episode, Mike and Angie slow everything down and begin telling the story that lives underneath their work, their marriage, and their mission. Before the breakthroughs, before the rebuilding, before Inner Wealth, there was conditioning, trauma, and survival. This conversation sets the foundation for a ten-part series by going back to childhood, early relationship dynamics, and the patterns that quietly shaped sixteen years of volatility. This isn’t about resolution yet. It’s about truth, context, and understanding what had to break before anything could be rebuilt. Key Takeaways 1. The Relationship Was Built on Unconscious Survival Both Mike and Angie entered the relationship carrying unexamined trauma that shaped how they loved, fought, and stayed. 2. Childhood Conditioning Never Stays in the Past What isn’t healed early gets reenacted later, especially inside intimate partnerships. 3. Toxic Patterns Can Look Like Love Control, volatility, fixing, and emotional intensity often masquerade as connection when safety is missing. 4. The Collapse Was Inevitable — and Necessary The unraveling wasn’t failure. It was the interruption that made healing possible. 5. Awareness Is the First Real Shift Nothing changed until responsibility replaced blame and curiosity replaced defense. Notable Quotes “We officially begin today, but that we introduced last week, talking about our life together, our collapse, our rebirth, the cleanup, the mess.”“That toxicity kept building over the course of sixteen years.”“We just carry that forward. It’s all conditioning and programming.”“It felt like my entire life was being ripped away from me. I just wanted to die.”“It’s not Mike against Angie anymore. It’s Mike and Angie against the problem.”Call to Action 🔥 This Is Only the Beginning. This episode lays the groundwork for a ten-part journey through collapse, repair, and conscious rebuilding. 📘 Inner World, Outer World — Available Now on Amazon  A guide to understanding how the inner world shapes the outer life. Order yours here! 👥 Message Mike or Angie Directly mike@innerwealthglobal.com angie@innerwealthglobal.com Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends My Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mikekitko Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mike_kitko Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mikekitko Subscribe to my YouTube: / @mikekitko Mike Kitko is an executive self-mastery coach, speaker and author. He found external success through powerful titles, incomes, and material possessions. He ultimately fell into depression, toxic abuse of alcohol, and the near collapse of his family before he began a journey of internal happiness and success.

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Mike Kitko is the Founder and Creative Director of Inner Wealth Global, a personal and professional development company that helps business owners create aligned wealth, success, freedom, and deep fulfillment—without sacrificing themselves in the process. As an author, speaker, podcaster, and coach Mike guides visionaries and impact-driven entrepreneurs to align their inner world with the life and business they are truly meant to live and create. His work helps you master your mind, energy, and emotions while building intense personal power so that wealth and opportunity flow effortlessly. Through coaching, training, and transformational content, Inner Wealth Global helps business owners break free from unnecessary struggle, trust their path, and create a life deeply aligned with their soul.

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  • Creator
    Mike Kitko
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    240
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 The Inner Wealth Podcast
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