Roses Are Dead

Terry Roseland & Jones
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Roses Are Dead is where hand-me-down myths die. We challenge the entry-level performance of manhood—holding doors, flashing wallets, staring at exits—and demand more: vision, discipline, emotional strength, and purpose. In this space men confront the myths they inherited, hold one another accountable, and rise as whole leaders. Masculinity isn’t a role to play; it’s a standard to live.

  1. Jun 14

    First Degree Racism?

    We start with a real story about being a kid who feels unsafe at school and how fear can push you into carrying something that changes your life. We break down two cases where “self-defense” gets complicated fast, then zoom out to talk survival mode, the legal system, and what accountability looks like when the game is not fair.  • a childhood moment that explains why kids make risky choices  • what self-defense means in court versus in culture  • the Karmelo Anthony case and how “premeditation” gets argued  • why carrying a weapon changes how the law reads your decisions  • the Cyrus case and why shooting someone in the back breaks the logic of threat  • how prosecutors, plea deals, and missing lesser charges shape outcomes  • survival mode, environment, and the pressure of the hood  • tailoring your reality through circles, routines, and opportunity  • why growth can be lonely and why that can be healthy  • learning your family history to strengthen identity and purpose  • practical advice for boy moms about getting a driver’s license early  • raising standards in business through real customer service  If y'all on YouTube right now, y'all not the Patreon, I want y'all to guess which former Roses our dead guest scam me for $11,000.  Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

    1h 11m

  2. Jun 7

    It’s about the principle!

    We challenge the way we claim “principles” while cutting people off for small personal slights and giving a pass to bigger moral red flags. We sort out what our core values actually are, how accountability should work in friendships, and where loyalty quietly turns into enabling.  • principles versus preferences in friendships  • money disputes and “it’s the principle” logic  • political and social beliefs as real dealbreakers  • core values as actions not slogans  • discipline integrity and loyalty in relationships  • accountability versus judgment and why we confuse them  • loyalty that tells the truth privately  • enabling that blocks consequences and protects patterns  • friendship seasons and what growth changes  • parenting standards including consent and fairness  • faith doubt and making room for hard questions  • celebrity culture fandom and consuming public self-destruction  Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

    1h 24m

  3. May 30

    Who Stole Black Boy Joy?

    We challenge the idea that men “have fun” when they’re really just being entertained, then unpack how fear of judgment trains us to stay guarded until alcohol makes us stop caring. We talk through what real joy looks like for grown men and how staying true to our personalities changes our friendships, dating lives, and confidence.  •fun vs entertainment and why the difference matters  •how rigid masculinity blocks joy, play, and emotional freedom  •why some men need alcohol to loosen up and what that costs  •the fear of being judged as “sassy” or “lame” in public and in dating  •defining fun on your own terms and choosing environments that fit  •how the right company can make anywhere feel fun  •staying authentic instead of living someone else’s dream  All you got to do is download the app, request one of our reps, they’re gonna show up to your location on demand, take your content and you’re gonna get it delivered back the same day. Make sure y’all come out June 27th. Kick it with us. We going to Patreon right now, man. Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

    40 min

  4. May 26

    Talk Yourself Through It

    We kick around the ugly truth about self-talk: the voice in your head can either coach you through hard moments or talk you into the easy way out. We figure out how to build real confidence by keeping our word, filtering outside noise, and changing how we speak to ourselves when nobody is watching.  • the inner voice as accountability when no one is around  • using the StairMaster as a self-trust test  • why harsh self-talk can help in the gym but hurt in real life  • shifting from “do not be weak” to “keep your word”  • training the brain through repetition, sustainable systems, and practical affirmations  • how environment, rejection, and validation shape self-esteem  • capitalism, marketing, and influence engineering insecurity  • rebuilding identity over time and choosing future-focused habits  • parenting lessons on listening, accountability, and making kids feel heard  June 27th, we having the cookout, and you’re invited. Pull up. If you’re chasing something in life, chase that shit. Decide plan sacrifice. Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

    1 hr

  5. May 17

    Power Dynamics Pt 2

    We start with a story that leaves one of us feeling powerless in our own home, then use it to question how consent and leverage can show up in everyday co-parenting. We keep pulling the thread into gender power dynamics, double standards, and what real accountability looks like when nobody wants to admit harm.  • a co-parenting ultimatum that turns safety into leverage  • feeling violated without physical force and why it still counts  • why society downplays harm when boys and men are the target  • physical strength versus authority, influence, and professional hierarchy  • therapist client ethics and how trust can be weaponised  • workplace flirtation, social pressure, and fear of consequences  • club and party examples that reveal consent blind spots  • why “women do it too” can become a deflection tactic  • setting standards as men and staying consistent under pressure  • building self trust through small wins, discipline, and time horizons  June 27th, you know, cookout, field day.  Let’s go to Patreon, f**k it.  Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

    1h 8m

  6. May 5

    Same Gender War, New Couple

    We talk about how the online gender war turns real pain into points, then trace it back to changing money dynamics and outdated ideas about what men and women “should” do. We also get into school discipline, classroom structure, and the day-to-day grind of raising kids who test boundaries and bend the rules.  • a real-life dating story showing why money does not guarantee tolerance  • how celebrity breakups become personal online and feed the gender war  • why women earning and leaving changes what men must bring  • how kids learn gender roles early through media and routines  • rejection in modern dating and why entitlement turns into resentment  • a rapid-fire game on dating habits and relationship hypocrisy  • why school behaviour is often a structure problem not a kid problem  • classroom management basics: consistency, consequences, avoiding power struggles  • parenting through fights, lying, disrespect, and repeat offences  If y'all want some more, y'all need to get go to the Patreon though. Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

    1h 6m

  7. Apr 25

    The Spectrum Of Male Entitlement

    We trace a spectrum of male entitlement, from “small” everyday violations to coercion and rape, and talk about why focusing only on extreme monsters hides the harm most women face. Along the way, we look at consent as a culture issue, not a courtroom standard, and ask what it really means for men to make women feel safe.  • the idea of a spectrum of male entitlement and why it matters  • how “polite” approaches turn into pressure and anger  • why “are you single?” often ignores women’s agency  • women managing men’s emotions as a safety strategy  • persistence, DM access, and refusing to take a hint  • teaching kids rejection and consent early and often  • fight, flight, freeze responses in sexual situations  • rape culture as American culture through media scripts  • male privilege and the work of unlearning entitlement  • clothing discourse, the male gaze, and victim blaming  Download, capture. When it drops, right now, just join the wait list. It’s in my bio of capture.app. That’s capture with a K. Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

    1h 11m

  8. Apr 19

    Summer is Coming

    Summer makes people act like the clock is running out and that’s when bad decisions get loud. We sit down and talk through what “summer is coming” really means if you’re trying to level up for real: your mindset, your money, your body, and how you move when everybody is outside. We also go straight at a question that hits culture and community at the same time. Are day parties replacing cookouts, and if they are, what are we trading away in the process? From there we get practical. Chicago summers are short, weekends are limited, and that pressure can turn into overspending fast. We break down summer budgeting, why everybody needs a plan, and the little traps that run your tab up like overpriced cocktails, aesthetic restaurants, and swiping your card all night. We talk event strategy, mixing ticketed nights with free moves, and how to enjoy the city without letting Instagram convince you to live above your means. Then we take it into dating and relationships. What happens when your partner is pushing you to go out, but your financial goals are real? How do you balance being outside with being responsible, and when is it time to admit you’re not aligned and walk away? We also use the DeShay Frost clip to talk about entitlement, gifts with hidden expectations, reading signals, and the best rule we can give any man for the summer: leave with your dignity intact. If you got value from this one, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs a summer reset, and leave a review with your biggest money rule for going out. What’s your non-negotiable this summer? Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

    1h 4m
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Roses Are Dead is where hand-me-down myths die. We challenge the entry-level performance of manhood—holding doors, flashing wallets, staring at exits—and demand more: vision, discipline, emotional strength, and purpose. In this space men confront the myths they inherited, hold one another accountable, and rise as whole leaders. Masculinity isn’t a role to play; it’s a standard to live.

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  • Creator
    Terry Roseland & Jones
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    363
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Roses Are Dead
  • Show Website
    Roses Are Dead

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