Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve

Therese Connolly

Welcome to Single Parenting Reset Show — The go-to podcast for single parents (single moms and single dads) of tweens and teens to reduce screen time, improve communication, and build stronger family connections. Hosted by Tess Connolly, LCSW, a parent and family coach who understands the unique challenges of solo parenting. Each episode offers practical behavioral strategies, confidence-building tools, and real-life support for single parents. You'll get help managing screen time, improving co-parenting dynamics, and building lasting connections with your teens and tweens — one episode at a time. If you're ready to raise emotionally healthy, confident kids while reclaiming your calm as a single parent, you're in the right place.

  1. 3d ago

    282. Teen Consequences That Actually Work: What to Do When Nothing Gets Through

    Does it feel like nothing gets through to your teen anymore? You take away the phone. You give a consequence. You lecture. You warn. You try to be firm. And your teen still says, “I don’t care.” In this episode of The Single Parenting Reset Show, Tess Connolly, LCSW, talks about what to do when consequences stop working with your tween or teen. Instead of becoming harsher or creating bigger punishments, Tess shares a calmer and more effective way to think about consequences. You’ll learn: Why bigger punishments often do not work with teens Why consequences should teach, not just punish The three-part framework for consequences that actually help How to make consequences related, reasonable, and repair-based What to do when your teen says, “I don’t care” How to rebuild trust after curfew, screen time, homework, or communication problems How to hold boundaries without becoming harsher or more disconnected If this episode helped you, follow or subscribe to The Single Parenting Reset Show and share it with another parent raising a tween or teen. If you want support creating clearer expectations, calmer consequences, and less conflict in your home, join the family through the link in the show notes or book a Parent Reset Strategy Session. ⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Download the Tech Reset Agreement ⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses) 📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com 🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset Strategy Session”: Parent Reset Strategy Session The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection. #singleparents #parentingtweensandteens #ScreenTime #behaviorproblems #Communication

    282. Teen Consequences That Actually Work: What to Do When Nothing Gets Through
  2. 5d ago

    281. Defiant Teenager? What to Do in the First 10 Minutes of a Power Struggle

    Your teenager refuses to put down the phone. They argue about homework, curfew, chores, getting out the door, or nearly every request you make. You repeat yourself. They get louder. You get louder. Before long, the original issue has disappeared, and you are fighting about their attitude, your parenting, and who is going to win. The first 10 minutes of that power struggle matter. Not because you have to win, but because this is where the argument either escalates or begins to settle. In this episode of the Single Parenting Reset Show, parent and family coach Tess Connolly explains how to respond when your teenager becomes defiant, argumentative, or unwilling to cooperate. You will learn why trying to overpower your teenager usually creates a bigger battle and why your most effective parenting tool is your ability to remain steadier than the conflict. Tess walks you through a practical first-10-minutes plan you can use during arguments about: Screen timeHomeworkCurfewsChoresSchool attendanceGetting out the doorFamily expectationsDisrespectful languageRefusal to cooperate By the end of this episode, you will know how to: Avoid matching your teenager’s intensity Lower your voice instead of raising it Use fewer words when your teen is already upset Stop chasing every eye roll, sigh, or irritated tone Hold one clear boundary without adding angry punishments Pause an argument without abandoning the issue Return later for problem-solving and repair Apologize for your behavior without giving up the boundary Recognize when defiance may require additional professional support You will also hear exact scripts, including: “I can see that you’re angry. The boundary is still the same.” “You don’t have to agree with the decision, but I’m not going to keep arguing about it.” “I’m not going to argue with you right now. I’m going to give us both a few minutes, and then we’ll come back to the issue.” “I did not handle that well earlier. I’m sorry for how I spoke to you. The boundary still matters, but I want to handle it differently.” You do not have to remain trapped in daily power struggles with your tween or teen. If you are constantly arguing, repeating yourself, changing consequences, or questioning whether you are being too strict or too permissive, book a Parent Reset Strategy Session with Tess. During the session, you will look at what is happening in your family, identify what is keeping the conflict going, and begin developing a calmer and more effective parenting plan. ⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Download the Tech Reset Agreement ⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses) 📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com 🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset Strategy Session”: Parent Reset Strategy Session The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection. #singleparents #parentingtweensandteens #ScreenTime #behaviorproblems #Communication

    281. Defiant Teenager? What to Do in the First 10 Minutes of a Power Struggle
  3. Jul 16

    280. What to Do When Your Teen Breaks Screen Time Rules

    You created the rule. You explained the reason. Your teen may have even agreed to it. But now they are still scrolling after bedtime, refusing to stop gaming, bypassing parental controls, or sneaking the phone back into their bedroom. Many parents respond by repeating themselves, raising their voice, or creating a major punishment in the middle of the conflict. Unfortunately, that can turn one broken phone rule into a much larger power struggle. In this episode of the Single Parenting Reset Podcast, Tess Connolly explains how to respond with calm, predictable follow-through instead of an angry punishment. You will learn: The difference between punishment and logical follow-throughWhy consequences should be decided before the rule is brokenWhat to say when your teenager refuses to get off their phoneHow to respond when your teen argues that the rule is unfairWhat to do when your teenager bypasses screen time controlsWhy repeated rule-breaking may mean your plan needs more structureHow to repair after yelling without removing the boundaryHow to reset the next day and give your teen another opportunityHow to manage different technology rules across two homes Tess also shares practical scripts, including: “The rule was clear. This is not a punishment. This is the follow-through we already agreed on.” “You can be upset. I’m not going to argue about this tonight.” “Tomorrow we’ll reset. Tonight, the phone is done.” The goal is not to control your teen’s technology forever. The goal is to help your teen build the ability to manage screens, protect their sleep, tolerate stopping, and make responsible decisions as they become more independent. ⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Download the Tech Reset Agreement ⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses) 📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com 🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset Strategy Session”: Parent Reset Strategy Session The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection. #singleparents #parentingtweensandteens #ScreenTime #behaviorproblems #Communication

    280. What to Do When Your Teen Breaks Screen Time Rules
  4. Jul 14

    279. What to Say When Your Teen Ignores You: 5 Scripts That Work Better Than Repeating Yourself

    You ask your teenager to put down the phone, start their homework, walk the dog, or get ready to leave. They do not respond. You ask again. And again. Before long, you are yelling, your teen is defensive, and a basic request has become a full argument. When teenagers appear to ignore their parents, the answer is not usually a longer explanation or a louder voice. Your teen may not have shifted their attention toward you. They may be struggling to transition away from what they are doing. They may disagree with the request—or they may have learned that they do not need to respond until you have asked several times. In this episode, Tess explains how parents can interrupt this pattern without becoming passive or controlling. You will learn: Why your teen may not respond the first timeHow repeated reminders accidentally become part of the problemHow to get your teenager’s attention before giving a directionFive practical scripts for common parent-teen conflictsHow to validate feelings without changing the boundaryWhat calm follow-through looks likeWhen withdrawal or unresponsiveness may indicate a larger concern The five scripts“Pause for a second. I need your attention.”“I’m not going to keep repeating this. I’ll come back in five minutes.”“You don’t have to like this, but I do need you to follow through.”“I’m going to stay calm, and we’re still going to handle this.”“We can talk about the feeling, but the expectation still stands.” Follow or subscribe to the Single Parenting Reset Podcast for practical parenting support for the tween and teen years. Join the family through the link below for parenting tools, updates, and upcoming resources. For individualized support with communication problems, screen battles, family conflict, or challenging teen behavior, schedule a Parent Reset Strategy Session. ⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Download the Tech Reset Agreement ⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses) 📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com 🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset Strategy Session”: Parent Reset Strategy Session The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection. #singleparents #parentingtweensandteens #ScreenTime #behaviorproblems #Communication

    279. What to Say When Your Teen Ignores You: 5 Scripts That Work Better Than Repeating Yourself
  5. Jul 9

    278. How to Limit Screen Time for Teenagers Without Constant Fights

    Is screen time the battle that keeps showing up in your home? Maybe your teen is on their phone late at night. Maybe gaming turns into an argument every time you ask them to stop. Maybe social media, YouTube, texting, or endless scrolling have started to affect sleep, mood, homework, motivation, or connection. And if you are a single parent, this can feel even more exhausting because you may be the only one holding the line. In this episode of the Single Parenting Reset Show, Tess Connolly, LCSW, talks about how to limit screen time for teenagers in a way that is firm, realistic, and relationship-centered. This episode is not about shaming teens or pretending technology is going away. Teenagers are growing up in a world where phones, schoolwork, friendships, entertainment, gaming, and identity are all tangled together. The real question is: How do we help teens build healthier limits with screens without creating constant conflict at home? In this episode, you’ll learn: Why screen time with teens is different than screen time with tweensWhy sleep should be the first screen time boundary parents protectHow to separate school screens from entertainment screensWhy screens often become a coping tool for teensHow to talk to your teen about screen time outside the heat of the momentHow to create a teen screen time agreement that is clear, calm, and realisticWhat to do if your teen says, “Everyone else is allowed”How single parents can hold screen time boundaries even when the other home has different rules The goal is not to control your teen forever. The goal is to help your teen slowly build internal regulation, responsibility, and healthier habits with technology. If your family needs a clearer starting point, grab Tess’s Tech Reset Agreement through the link in the show notes. ⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Download the Tech Reset Agreement ⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses) 📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com 🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset Strategy Session”: Parent Reset Strategy Session The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection. #singleparents #parentingtweensandteens #ScreenTime #behaviorproblems #Communication

    278. How to Limit Screen Time for Teenagers Without Constant Fights
  6. Jul 7

    277. How to Limit Screen Time for Tweens Without Daily Battles

    Is screen time already becoming a daily battle in your home? If your 10-, 11-, or 12-year-old argues every time screens end, asks constantly for more time, sneaks devices, or says “everyone else gets to,” you are not alone. The tween years are a key window for building healthy screen habits before the teen years bring more complicated challenges like smartphones, social media, group chats, gaming, and late-night scrolling. In this episode of the Single Parenting Reset Show, Tess Connolly, LCSW, talks about how to limit screen time for tweens without turning every day into a power struggle. This is not about making screens the enemy. It is about helping your tween learn balance, responsibility, emotional regulation, and healthy device habits while you remain the steady parent, guide, and coach. Tweens are old enough to want more independence, but they are still young enough to need clear structure, support, repetition, and limits. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why screen time feels so hard during the tween yearsWhy vague rules like “not too much screen time” often create more argumentsHow to create screen time limits that support sleep, school, movement, and family connectionWhy devices should not be in bedrooms overnightHow to talk to your tween about screens without shaming or lecturingHow to create a simple family screen time plan togetherWhat to do if your tween gets angry when screen time endsWhy parental controls can help, but cannot replace parenting If you want help getting started, grab my Tech Reset Agreement through the link in the show notes. It will help you create clearer expectations around devices, screen time, bedtime, and family agreements so you are not trying to make rules in the heat of the moment. And if screen time has become a bigger battle in your family, or you need more support setting up a plan that actually works for your tween and your home, you can also schedule a free Parent Reset Strategy Call through the link in the show notes. ⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Download the Tech Reset Agreement ⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses) 📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com 🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset Strategy Session”: Parent Reset Strategy Session The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection. #singleparents #parentingtweensandteens #ScreenTime #behaviorproblems #Communication

    277. How to Limit Screen Time for Tweens Without Daily Battles
  7. Jul 2

    276. ADHD Behavior Problems in Kids: Gut Health, Screen Time & Meltdowns

    If your child has ADHD or ADHD-like symptoms, you may feel like you are constantly managing meltdowns, screen battles, irritability, impulsivity, emotional explosions, or big reactions that seem to come out of nowhere. But what if your child’s behavior is not only a discipline issue? What if their behavior is also communication? In this episode of the Single Parenting Reset Show, Tess Connolly, LCSW, talks with ADHD and nutrition expert Dana Kay about how gut health, inflammation, nutrition, sleep, screen time, and nervous system overload may affect ADHD behavior problems in kids. Many parents are taught to look at ADHD behavior through the lens of discipline, motivation, or compliance. But in this conversation, we look underneath the behavior. Dana explains that a child’s nervous system may already be overloaded before the trigger happens. The iPad, homework, bedtime request, or morning routine may simply be the final stressor that causes the explosion. We talk about why ADHD behavior can be connected to: Gut healthInflammationPoor sleepBlood sugar crashesNutritionSensory overloadScreen timeNervous system dysregulation This does not mean boundaries do not matter. They do. But it does mean parents can begin asking a more helpful question: What might my child’s behavior be trying to tell me? In this episode, you will learn: Why behavior is communication, especially for kids with ADHD or ADHD-like symptomsHow gut health, nutrition, sleep, and inflammation may influence mood, focus, and emotional regulationWhy screen time can be so activating for children with ADHDHow to create screen-free pockets without needing a dramatic screen banWhy protein at breakfast and balanced snacks may support steadier moodsHow movement, sleep, and connection can help regulate the nervous systemWhere overwhelmed parents can start when they cannot change everything at once This episode is especially helpful if you are parenting a tween or teen who struggles with ADHD symptoms, emotional reactivity, screen transitions, poor frustration tolerance, or constant conflict at home. Listen to this episode if you want a more compassionate and practical way to understand ADHD behavior problems in kids. After listening, choose one small place to start: Add protein at breakfastCreate a screen-free morning pocketRemove devices from bedrooms overnightOffer movement before screens after schoolUse a timer and clear screen transition planProtect sleepAsk, “What might this behavior be communicating?” ⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Download the Tech Reset Agreement ⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses) 📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com 🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset Strategy Session”: Parent Reset Strategy Session The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection. #singleparents #parentingtweensandteens #ScreenTime #behaviorproblems #Communication

    276. ADHD Behavior Problems in Kids: Gut Health, Screen Time & Meltdowns
  8. Jun 30

    275. Single mom burnout: how to stay grounded when your teen pushes every button

    Single mom burnout is real, especially when you are raising tweens and teens through behavior problems, screen time battles, emotional ups and downs, curfews, money stress, and hard conversations that you may not feel ready to have. When you are parenting alone, every decision can feel heavier. Every boundary can feel like a battle. And when your teen pushes back, it can be easy to wonder, “Am I doing this wrong?” In this episode of the Single Parenting Reset Show, Tess Connolly, LCSW, is joined by life coach and fellow solo parent Carrie Spranzi for an honest conversation about single parenting, resilience, burnout, communication, and raising teens through difficult seasons. Carrie shares her experience becoming a single mom at a young age, navigating financial stress, parenting through major life challenges, and learning how to stay connected with her son through honesty, trust, and open communication. Together, Tess and Carrie talk about what it means to parent tweens and teens with both boundaries and humanity. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why single mom burnout often shows up during the tween and teen yearsHow to stay grounded when your teen is pushing backWhy trust-based boundaries can work better than constant controlHow to talk honestly with your teen about money, curfews, sex, safety, and real-life limitsWhy showing your humanity as a parent can actually strengthen your relationshipHow to build communication that lasts beyond the teen years One of the biggest takeaways from this conversation is that your teen does not need you to be perfect. They need you to be honest, steady, respectful, and willing to keep showing up. If you are feeling burned out, overwhelmed, or unsure how to set boundaries with your tween or teen without constant conflict, this episode will help you reset. Listen to the full episode, then take one small step this week: Choose one boundary that needs more clarity.Have one honest conversation instead of avoiding it.Let your teen know what you need while still communicating trust.Remind yourself that connection and leadership can exist at the same time. ⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Download the Tech Reset Agreement ⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses) 📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com 🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset Strategy Session”: Parent Reset Strategy Session The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection. #singleparents #parentingtweensandteens #ScreenTime #behaviorproblems #Communication

    275. Single mom burnout: how to stay grounded when your teen pushes every button
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Welcome to Single Parenting Reset Show — The go-to podcast for single parents (single moms and single dads) of tweens and teens to reduce screen time, improve communication, and build stronger family connections. Hosted by Tess Connolly, LCSW, a parent and family coach who understands the unique challenges of solo parenting. Each episode offers practical behavioral strategies, confidence-building tools, and real-life support for single parents. You'll get help managing screen time, improving co-parenting dynamics, and building lasting connections with your teens and tweens — one episode at a time. If you're ready to raise emotionally healthy, confident kids while reclaiming your calm as a single parent, you're in the right place.

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