The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast

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The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!

  1. 6H AGO · BONUS

    Tuesday Talks: AI Catfishing, Fake Abs & Real-Life Letdowns

    Send a text Tuesday Talks: AI Catfishing, Fake Abs & Real-Life Letdowns | Episode 100 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they hear from a frustrated fan who’s fed up with what they’re calling the catfishing epidemic — and it’s only getting worse with AI. From flawless skin, perfect outfits, and six-packs online to a very different reality in person, they’re wondering: how do you handle it? Do you call people out? Ask for verification pics or videos? Or just move on? Dan and Lacy dive into the growing disconnect between online profiles and real-life expectations, sharing their thoughts on vetting, setting boundaries, and protecting your time and energy. They talk about practical ways to verify who you’re talking to without killing the vibe, and how to navigate those awkward moments when reality doesn’t match the hype. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with real-world advice on spotting red flags, avoiding disappointment, and keeping your experiences fun, sexy, and drama-free. Don’t miss this honest conversation on catfishing, AI, and the new reality of online connections. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sling it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter eve Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    24 min
  2. 5D AGO

    Bliss Cruise Part 2: Glow Night, Jungle Orgies & a Very Sick Dan

    Send a text Bliss Cruise Part 2: Glow Night, Jungle Orgies & a Very Sick Dan | Episode 235 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 2 of their Bliss Cruise adventure, picking up right where last week’s story left off. After finishing a wild beach party, the crew heads back to the ship where Lacy and Daphne attend a male review while Dan and Mike hit the casino. The night ends quietly for Dan and Lacy after watching some friends get busy at Dance & Play before deciding to call it a night. The next day finally brings sunshine and warm weather, leading to a much-needed pool day before Glow Night. After the pool party, Daphne literally risks it all to sneak away and hook up with Dan before the night’s festivities. Dan begins feeling a little off physically but still pushes through the night, which eventually ends with a late-night jungle solarium playroom adventure. By the next morning Dan is feeling terrible but manages to power through the Swing Nation meet-and-greet before spending the rest of the day in bed. That leaves Lacy flying solo to the fetish dinner, where friends gather for a night of bold outfits, playful spankings, and kinky entertainment before she heads to the top deck to officiate the wedding of Electric Pleasures DJ Sophie Vor. From wild parties to sickness and everything in between, it’s a raw and hilarious look at the highs and lows of one unforgettable cruise adventure. BOOK BLISS CRUISE  - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn Star Use Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFF Shameless Care: ED Medication Use Code TSN at checkout for $15 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sing it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    1h 30m
  3. MAR 10 · BONUS

    Tuesday Talks: The BYOB Guide to Swinger Parties

    Send a text Tuesday Talks: The BYOB Guide to Swinger Parties | Episode 99 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they hear from a listener who is preparing to attend a BYOB lifestyle event and has a lot of practical questions. What kind of drinks should you bring? Do you need a bag to carry them? Are you expected to haul your drinks around all night? And while we’re at it… can you stash your toys in the same bag? Dan and Lacy break down how BYOB events are extremely common in the lifestyle and explain the different ways these parties are structured. Some events provide mixers while guests bring their own liquor, while others require you to bring everything you’ll want for the night. They also talk about practical tips like finding ice, managing your drinks throughout the evening, and the best ways to keep things simple without feeling like you’re carrying a full bar around with you. Whether you’re heading to your first house party or a BYOB hotel takeover, this episode is packed with helpful tips and real-world advice to help you show up prepared and ready to enjoy the night.  Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sling it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter eve Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    17 min
  4. MAR 5

    Bliss Cruise Recap Part 1: Rocking the Boat

    Send a text Bliss Cruise Recap Part 1: Rocking the Boat  | Episode 234 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 1 of their latest adventure aboard the legendary Bliss Cruise. The trip kicks off in Ft. Lauderdale with a high-energy pre-party hosted by Topless Travel before everyone sets sail for a week at sea with thousands of lifestyle couples. Day 1’s theme? Pirates. But before the real fun could begin, Mother Nature had other plans. Unseasonably rough seas, cold weather, and a rocking ship had plenty of cruisers battling seasickness as the voyage got off to a chaotic start. Despite the rocky conditions, Dan and Lacy still managed to make their way to the playroom and keep the party going. Along the way, they share the behind-the-scenes moments from the first night onboard — including how the cold weather, rough seas, and even a surprisingly heated disagreement about hair care nearly derailed the trip before it really got started. Whether you’ve been on a lifestyle cruise before or are curious what the first day at sea is really like, this episode is packed with funny moments, honest reflections, and a behind-the-scenes look at how this wild adventure began. Don’t miss Part 1 of the Bliss Cruise recap. BOOK BLISS CRUISE  - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn Star Use Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFF Shameless Care: ED Medication Use Code TSN at checkout for $15 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sing it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    1h 7m
  5. MAR 3 · BONUS

    Tuesday Talks: Hand Signals, Code Words & Playtime Communication

    Send a text Tuesday Talks: Hand Signals, Code Words & Playtime Communication | Episode 98 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks — answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they respond to a message from a listener who shares that she and her husband use hand signals during play to communicate. One signal means “I’m having fun,” and another means “It’s time to wrap this up and go.” She wants to know: Do Dan and Lacy use something similar? And is this a common practice in the lifestyle? Dan and Lacy dive into the idea of secret signals, code words, and subtle check-ins between partners. They discuss why some couples love having a private communication system and how it can create a sense of security. But they also get honest about how these systems can sometimes backfire, leading to confusion, mixed messages, or even hurt feelings if not clearly defined and agreed upon beforehand. They share their perspective on what actually works, what to think about before implementing secret communication, and why clarity and conversations matter more than clever signals. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sling it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter eve Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    19 min
  6. FEB 26

    Sensitive Situations: Allergies & Intimacy with Dr. Stoehr

    Send a text Sensitive Situations: Allergies & Intimacy with Dr. Stoehr  | Episode 233 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Dr. Stoehr, a gynecologist specializing in pelvic and sexual pain and sexual dysfunction. With a strong interest in the intersection of medicine and alternative sexual lifestyle communities, she brings both professional expertise and an open-minded perspective to the conversation. Together, they dive into common — and not so common — allergies people can experience during sex. From well-known sensitivities to condoms and lubricants to lesser-discussed reactions like semen allergies, they break down what these reactions can look like, how to recognize them, and what steps people can take if they suspect something isn’t right. They also touch on vaginal dryness — why it happens more often than people think, and simple ways to address it. Dr. Stoehr offers practical guidance on when something is normal, when to make adjustments, and when it might be worth having a conversation with a medical professional. Whether you’re active in the lifestyle or just want better information about sexual health, this episode is packed with expert insight, myth-busting clarity, and empowering education to help you feel more confident and comfortable in your experiences. Don’t miss this honest and informative discussion that bridges sexual health and non-monogamy. - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn Star Use Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFF Shameless Care: ED Medication Use Code TSN at checkout for $15 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sing it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    1h 4m
  7. FEB 24 · BONUS

    Tuesday Talks: Why Is There Always Food at Sex Parties?

    Send a text Tuesday Talks: Why Is There Always Food at Sex Parties? | Episode 97 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they get a call from a listener who leans more toward the BDSM community but also attends lifestyle and kink events. One thing has them puzzled? The food. From elaborate spreads at house parties to midnight pizza at hotel takeovers and dungeon events, they’re wondering… why is there always food at sex parties? And do Dan and Lacy actually partake? Dan and Lacy skip the fluff and get straight to it. They break down the practical side — long nights, high energy output, and the simple reality that people get hungry. They also tackle the real concerns around germs, cross-contamination, and whether a snack table anywhere near a play space is ever a good idea. They share their honest opinions on when food makes sense, when it feels questionable. Whether you’re into swapping, kink, or somewhere in between, this episode is a fun, candid conversation about food, fuel, hygiene, and how to navigate it all without killing the vibe. Don’t miss this lighthearted but honest take on one of the most unexpectedly debated topics in the lifestyle. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sling it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter eve Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    16 min
  8. FEB 19

    Hollywood Hotwife: Behind the Scenes at WIFEY Studios

    Send a text Hollywood Hotwife: Behind the Scenes at WIFEY Studios | Episode 232 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you inside one of their most unforgettable experiences yet. The duo travels to Los Angeles, California to the studio of WIFEY, a luxurious adult content platform where real hot wife couples step onto a Hollywood-style set to live out their fantasies in a high-end, professionally produced environment.  They recap the entire trip and pull back the curtain on what it was really like filming a professional adult scene at WIFEY Studios — from the high-end production quality and thoughtful direction to the atmosphere and intentionality behind every detail. They share how the experience felt emotionally and mentally, with Lacy opening up about stepping into a fantasy on camera and navigating the vulnerability that comes with it. Together, they reflect on the excitement, nerves, empowerment, and deep connection they experienced throughout the process. Whether you’re curious about the professional adult industry, the hot wife dynamic, or what really happens behind the scenes of a polished lifestyle production, this episode delivers an honest, behind-the-curtain look at blending fantasy, trust, and high-level production into one unforgettable experience. - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn Star Use Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFF Shameless Care: ED Medication Use Code TSN at checkout for $15 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sing it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    1h 15m
4.8
out of 5
1,313 Ratings

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The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!

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