Strong Tower Mental Health Podcast

Heidi Mortenson, MA, LMFT

Strong Tower Mental Health is an authentic and encouraging podcast hosted by Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Heidi Mortenson. Get ready for heaven to be unlocked in your soul with real life stories, skills, and amazing guests who will inspire you. Topics on this podcast include vulnerability, authenticity, how to have difficult conversations, keeping healthy boundaries with others, marriage, depression, anxiety, addiction, co-dependency and more. You will learn how to pull the gold from yourself and others, and walk in freedom no matter the circumstances surrounding you. Learn more at https://heidimortensonlmft.com/

  1. 246. 10 Rules for a Healthy Relationship

    2d ago

    246. 10 Rules for a Healthy Relationship

    What if the biggest problem in your relationship isn't your spouse—but the story you're telling yourself? In this practical and faith-filled episode, Heidi shares 10 powerful rules that can transform your relationships. Drawing from personal stories, biblical wisdom, and psychological insight, you'll learn how to stop unhealthy patterns, communicate more effectively, and create deeper connection with the people you love. Whether you're married, dating, or simply wanting healthier relationships, this episode will help you grow in emotional maturity, personal responsibility, and grace. In this episode, you'll learn: • How to stop taking responsibility for someone else's happiness • Why doing your own healing work strengthens every relationship • The secret to resolving conflict without damaging connection • How to identify triggers, wounds, and false stories before they create resentment • Practical ways to build friendship, trust, and emotional safety "Each one should test their own actions... for each one should carry their own load." — Galatians 6:4-5 Healthy relationships aren't built by perfect people. They're built by imperfect people who take responsibility for themselves, extend grace to one another, and keep growing together. Schedule a FREE 15-minute clarity call: https://calendly.com/heidimortenson/15min Release what isn't yours free guide: https://subscribepage.io/IAqSlkIf ·        Join my mailing list: https://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/t5u2y5 ·        If you are in crisis, help is available by call or text 1-800-273-8255 24/7. You can also visit https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. You are loved!

    32 min
  2. 2d ago ·  Bonus

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  3. 245. Healing Beyond Symptoms With Holly Misener

    Jun 22

    245. Healing Beyond Symptoms With Holly Misener

    What happens when your faith is tested for years through trauma, medical crises, unanswered questions, and the suffering of your children? In this deeply moving episode of the Strong Tower Mental Health Podcast, Heidi sits down with Holly Meisner — president of the Minnesota Christian Chamber and co-owner of His Healing House — to talk about the intersection of faith, suffering, healing, and whole-person health. Holly vulnerably shares how her relationship with Jesus began at age five, how her faith was radically refined through a decade of navigating her children's severe health challenges, and what it looked like to keep trusting God when outcomes were uncertain. Together, Heidi and Holly explore trauma, surrender, nervous system healing, functional medicine, spiritual healing, and the importance of addressing root causes rather than simply managing symptoms. Holly also shares powerful testimonies from her holistic clinic, where faith, trauma-informed care, and physical healing come together in transformative ways. This conversation is honest, hope-filled, grounded, and deeply encouraging for anyone walking through suffering, burnout, chronic stress, or a season where faith feels stretched thin. "If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to deliver us from it… But even if He does not, we will not serve other gods." — Bible What You'll Learn in This Episode How prolonged trauma and caregiving can deeply impact faith, identity, and the nervous system The difference between symptom management and root-cause healing Why surrender and trust often deepen most in seasons of suffering How trauma-informed care, functional medicine, and spiritual healing can work together Practical insight into holistic healing approaches for anxiety, chronic stress, inflammation, and emotional wounds Holly's website: www.hishealinghouse.org Find more about Heidi: www.heidimortensonlmft.com Schedule a FREE 15-minute clarity call with Heidi: https://calendly.com/heidimortenson/15min Join my mailing list: https://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/t5u2y5 If you are in crisis, help is available by call or text 1-800-273-8255 24/7. You can also visit https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. You are loved!

    36 min
  4. 244. 6 Ways to Manage Anxiety and Walk in God's Peace

    Jun 15

    244. 6 Ways to Manage Anxiety and Walk in God's Peace

    Do you ever feel like anxiety is quietly running your life? Maybe it shows up as overthinking, people-pleasing, perfectionism, control, fear of the future, or carrying burdens that were never yours to carry. In this episode, Heidi explores anxiety through both a biblical and mental health lens, sharing practical tools to help you move from striving and worry into greater peace, trust, and freedom. You'll discover how anxiety often disguises itself as responsibility and productivity, why many of us struggle to let go of control, and how God invites us into a different way of living. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why anxiety often feels helpful—even when it's limiting your freedom • How to identify the hidden beliefs and patterns driving anxiety • Practical steps to surrender worries and experience God's peace • Why embracing your humanity is an important part of healing and growth • 6 biblical and practical ways to manage anxiety and walk in greater freedom "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." — Philippians 4:6-7 (ESV) Schedule a FREE 15-minute clarity call: https://calendly.com/heidimortenson/15min Release what isn't yours free guide: https://subscribepage.io/IAqSlkIf ·        Join my mailing list: https://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/t5u2y5 ·        If you are in crisis, help is available by call or text 1-800-273-8255 24/7. You can also visit https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. You are loved!

    30 min
  5. 243. Reading the Bible with New Eyes With Dr. Anita Marchesani

    Jun 8

    243. Reading the Bible with New Eyes With Dr. Anita Marchesani

    In this powerful follow-up conversation, Heidi welcomes back Dr. Anita Marchesani to explore how understanding the Bible through its original historical, cultural, and Orthodox context can transform the way we see God, suffering, salvation, and spiritual growth. If you've ever wondered whether you're reading Scripture through a modern Western lens, this episode will challenge and deepen your faith in meaningful ways. In this episode, you'll discover: ✨ How cultural context can unlock deeper meaning in Scripture ✨ The difference between a Western and Orthodox understanding of salvation and suffering ✨ Why biblical concepts like justice, wrath, and sanctification may not mean what you think they do ✨ Practical ways to grow in spiritual maturity and become more Christ-like in everyday life "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." — Romans 12:2 (ESV) Whether you're wrestling with difficult passages, hungry for a deeper faith, or simply curious about the Orthodox perspective, this conversation will help you read the Bible with fresh eyes and a renewed heart. 🎙️ Listen in and discover how understanding the story behind Scripture can transform the way you follow Christ. Anita's Substack: https://substack.com/@thedranitagroup Dr. Anita's book Be Still: https://www.amazon.com/Still-Uncovering-Achieving-Happiness-Wholeness/dp/0578226758 Find more about Heidi: www.heidimortensonlmft.com Schedule a FREE 15-minute clarity call: https://calendly.com/heidimortenson/15min Release what isn't yours free guide: https://subscribepage.io/IAqSlkIf Join my mailing list: https://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/t5u2y5 If you are in crisis, help is available by call or text 1-800-273-8255 24/7. You can also visit https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. You are loved!

    56 min
  6. 242. What is Sin Consciousness?

    Jun 1

    242. What is Sin Consciousness?

    What if the thing you've been calling "humility" is actually keeping you trapped in shame? In this episode, Heidi explores the concept of sin consciousness and how many Christians unknowingly live more aware of failure, guilt, and condemnation than intimacy with God. Drawing from Galatians, Ephesians, Hebrews, and 2 Corinthians, Heidi unpacks the difference between behavior-focused Christianity and identity-first transformation through the Holy Spirit. This conversation bridges biblical truth, mental health, neuroscience, and emotional healing — helping listeners understand why shame, striving, and fear often keep believers spiritually stuck even after receiving the gospel. Maybe transformation doesn't come through obsessing over sin… but through becoming more aware of union with Christ. In this episode, you'll learn: • What "sin consciousness" actually is and how it affects believers emotionally and spiritually • The difference between conviction from the Holy Spirit and ongoing condemnation • Why identity, intimacy, and secure attachment create lasting transformation • Practical ways to walk in freedom, sonship/daughtership, and Spirit-led living "And we all… beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed…" — 2 Corinthians 3:18 Schedule a FREE 15-minute clarity call: https://calendly.com/heidimortenson/15min Release what isn't yours free guide: https://subscribepage.io/IAqSlkIf ·        Join my mailing list: https://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/t5u2y5 ·        If you are in crisis, help is available by call or text 1-800-273-8255 24/7. You can also visit https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. You are loved!

    28 min
  7. 241. Hungry for More: Moving Beyond Shallow Christianity With Aminta Geisler

    May 25

    241. Hungry for More: Moving Beyond Shallow Christianity With Aminta Geisler

    What happens when faith goes from something you "know about" to Someone you truly encounter? In this episode, Heidi sits down with speaker, author, and ministry leader Aminta Geisler to talk about her powerful journey from surface-level Christianity to deep transformation through suffering, surrender, and the presence of God. After walking away from her faith for several years and hitting rock bottom, Aminta experienced a life-changing encounter that completely shifted the trajectory of her life. Together, they explore how deeper study of Scripture can radically transform your understanding of God's love, why suffering often becomes the doorway to intimacy with God, and how the Holy Spirit gently shapes us into people of patience, kindness, and peace. Aminta also shares about her devotional More and More: 100 Days of Pursuing God and the incredible impact of Breakfast Club ministries bringing free meals, community, and Bible studies to high school students. This conversation is rich with encouragement for anyone longing to move beyond shallow faith into genuine relationship with God. What You'll Learn in This Episode How suffering and brokenness can become catalysts for spiritual transformation Why many Christians stay at a surface-level understanding of Scripture — and how to go deeper A powerful new perspective on Psalm 23 and God as our Shepherd Practical ways to cultivate spiritual hunger and make room for the Holy Spirit How God grows gentleness, patience, and emotional maturity in us over time "Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in Him." — Psalm 34:8 Aminta's book More and More: https://www.amazon.com/More-100-Days-Pursuing-God/dp/B0GRNVRGKL/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1KZ21CC3D210B&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.l3SVYKPVuJfaEgS0Qf13gQ.Xt6zDO2wo_TgYBHezsQzg2Cs8yE7glK_co86s6Uqsps&dib_tag=se&keywords=aminta+geisle+more+and+more+book&qid=1779474857&sprefix=aminta+geisle+more+and+more+book%2Caps%2C143&sr=8-1 Aminta's website: https://amintageisler.com/ Find more about Heidi: www.heidimortensonlmft.com Schedule a FREE 15-minute clarity call: https://calendly.com/heidimortenson/15min If you are in crisis, help is available by call or text 1-800-273-8255 24/7. You can also visit https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. You are loved!

    45 min
  8. 240. Breaking Free from Self-Hate (Without Losing Your Faith)

    May 18

    240. Breaking Free from Self-Hate (Without Losing Your Faith)

    What if the voice you've been calling "humility" is actually self-hate? In this powerful episode of the Strong Tower Mental Health Podcast, Heidi explores one of the most hidden struggles—especially in Christian spaces: self-hate, self-blame, and internalized shame. Many people love God, serve faithfully, and show up for others… yet live with a constant internal voice of criticism, inadequacy, and rejection. But what if that voice isn't truth—or humility—but shame? Drawing from Scripture, neuroscience, and clinical insight, Heidi unpacks how self-hate forms, why it's so hard to break, and how to walk in freedom without drifting into self-centeredness or cultural distortions of identity. This episode also explores the tension between biblical humility and healthy identity, addressing both self-rejection and self-worship—and how God's truth provides a grounded, life-giving path forward. "The Lord make His face shine upon you…" — Numbers 6:24–26 Listeners will gain: • How to recognize hidden self-hate and self-blame patterns • The difference between guilt and shame (and why it matters) • What neuroscience reveals about shame and identity • Biblical truth about your identity and worth • How to walk in freedom without losing your foundation in Christ If you've ever struggled with feeling like you're "not enough," this episode will help you move from self-rejection to alignment with truth—and into deeper freedom with God.   Schedule a FREE 15-minute clarity call: https://calendly.com/heidimortenson/15min Release what isn't yours free guide: https://subscribepage.io/IAqSlkIf ·        Join my mailing list: https://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/t5u2y5 ·        If you are in crisis, help is available by call or text 1-800-273-8255 24/7. You can also visit https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. You are loved!

    27 min
4.9
out of 5
74 Ratings

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Strong Tower Mental Health is an authentic and encouraging podcast hosted by Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Heidi Mortenson. Get ready for heaven to be unlocked in your soul with real life stories, skills, and amazing guests who will inspire you. Topics on this podcast include vulnerability, authenticity, how to have difficult conversations, keeping healthy boundaries with others, marriage, depression, anxiety, addiction, co-dependency and more. You will learn how to pull the gold from yourself and others, and walk in freedom no matter the circumstances surrounding you. Learn more at https://heidimortensonlmft.com/

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