The Burgess Method Podcast

Jessica Burgess

The Burgess Method is a personal development coaching forum that focuses on life improvement. Jessica Burgess is a certified transformational life coach, who specializes in personal development and shifting behavioral patterns. Coach Jess has attended and completed the transformative processes of Unleash the Power Within and Date With Destiny Seminars by the world’s leading personal development coach Anthony Robbins. TBM Coaching specializes in tools and exercises that are based on multiple top performance coaching practices and serves to empower you to shift your life into its full potential.

  1. Jun 12

    Self-Sabotage is not just Laziness, It's a Loop

    Join the next Brain Lab Workshop Where I'll break downs some of these brain hacking tools in a simple framework: https://theburgessmethod.com/store/le...Do you keep calling yourself lazy, inconsistent, unmotivated, or undisciplined, even though deep down you know you are capable of more?In this episode of The Burgess Method Podcast, we unpack why self-sabotage is not laziness, it is a loop. A loop made up of identity, emotional patterns, subconscious protection, nervous system responses, and repeated behaviours that keep pulling you back into the same cycle.If you keep starting and stopping, overthinking, procrastinating, avoiding action, people-pleasing, freezing, or talking yourself out of what you really want, this episode will help you understand what is actually happening beneath the surface.We explore how self-sabotage often begins when your conscious goals clash with your subconscious identity. One part of you wants growth, success, confidence, love, visibility, money, discipline, or change, while another part of you is trying to keep you safe inside what feels familiar.In this episode, you will learn:Why self-sabotage is not a character flawHow identity keeps old patterns aliveWhy your brain may choose familiar discomfort over unfamiliar successHow emotional loops create repeated behaviourWhat a pattern interrupt is and how to use itHow to shift from shame into self-leadershipA simple practical tool to interrupt the self-sabotage loopThis episode is inspired by principles from NLP, identity work, emotional regulation, pattern interrupts, and self-leadership. It is for anyone who has ever wondered:“Why do I keep getting in my own way?”“Why do I know what to do, but still don’t do it?”“Why do I keep repeating the same patterns?”“Why do I keep sabotaging the things I say I want?”The truth is this:You are not broken.You are not lazy.You are patterned.And patterns can change.If this episode speaks to you, subscribe to The Burgess Method Podcast for more conversations on NLP, mindset, emotional regulation, self-sabotage, identity, confidence, anxiety, personal growth, and becoming the leader of your own mind.Work with The Burgess Method:https://theburgessmethod.com/Follow The Burgess Method:Instagram:   / the_burgess_collective  Facebook:   / theburgessmethod  Podcast / Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4l90DtW...Watch next:Episode 1: Why You Keep Getting Stuck, Even When You Know Better   • Episode 1: Why you keep feeling stuck, eve...  self sabotage, self-sabotage loop, why am I lazy, procrastination, how to stop procrastinating, NLP techniques, pattern interrupt, identity shift, emotional regulation, nervous system regulation, mindset podcast, personal development podcast, women’s personal growth, self leadership, how to change your mindset, stop self sabotage, subconscious mind, limiting beliefs, confidence, anxiety and overthinking, The Burgess Method Podcast#SelfSabotage #MindsetShift #TheBurgessMethod #NLP #PatternInterrupt #EmotionalRegulation #PersonalGrowth #SelfLeadership #StopProcrastinating #IdentityShift

    28 min
  2. S2 Ep1 Why you keep feeling stuck, even when you know better

    Jun 1

    S2 Ep1 Why you keep feeling stuck, even when you know better

    You know what you should do.You know the habits that would help.You know the patterns you want to stop repeating.So why do you still procrastinate, self-sabotage, overthink, people-please, avoid hard conversations, or fall back into old emotional loops?In this first episode of The Burgess Method Podcast, we unpack why “knowing better” is not the same as being able to do better — and why most people stay stuck not because they are lazy, broken, or unmotivated, but because their nervous system, unconscious patterns, identity, language, and emotional programming are still running the old script.This episode is for you if you’ve ever thought:“I know what to do, but I just can’t seem to do it.”“I keep repeating the same patterns.”“I feel stuck in my own head.”“I’m tired of self-sabotaging.”“I want to change, but something keeps pulling me back.”Inside this episode, we explore:Why insight alone does not create transformationHow self-sabotage becomes an unconscious loopWhy your brain repeats familiar patterns, even when they hurt youThe role of nervous system regulation in personal changeHow NLP, self-awareness, and emotional rewiring can help you break the cycleThe first step to becoming the person who no longer gets pulled back into the old patternAt The Burgess Method, we help women break free from self-sabotaging loops, regulate their emotions, rebuild confidence, and create real internal change using NLP, coaching, mindset tools, and practical nervous system work.This is not about fixing yourself.It is about understanding the pattern, interrupting the loop, and choosing a new response.Watch this if you are ready to:Stop living on autopilot.Stop giving your power away.Stop waiting until you feel “ready.”Start becoming the version of you who follows through.Subscribe for more videos on:NLPSelf-sabotageEmotional regulationNervous system healingPersonal developmentMindset transformationConfidenceAnxiety and stress toolsIdentity workBreaking old patternsNew episodes of The Burgess Method Podcast are designed to help you think differently, shift your state, and create practical breakthroughs in your life.Connect with The Burgess MethodWebsite: https://theburgessmethod.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_burgess_collective/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theburgessmethod/#TheBurgessMethod #SelfSabotage #NLP #PersonalDevelopment #EmotionalRegulation #MindsetShift #NervousSystemRegulation #BreakTheLoop #WomenInPersonalDevelopment #AnxietyTools #ConfidenceBuilding #HealingJourney #MindsetCoach #LifeCoaching #SouthAfricaCoach

    8 min

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The Burgess Method is a personal development coaching forum that focuses on life improvement. Jessica Burgess is a certified transformational life coach, who specializes in personal development and shifting behavioral patterns. Coach Jess has attended and completed the transformative processes of Unleash the Power Within and Date With Destiny Seminars by the world’s leading personal development coach Anthony Robbins. TBM Coaching specializes in tools and exercises that are based on multiple top performance coaching practices and serves to empower you to shift your life into its full potential.