Right Your Own Story

James Taylor
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I am a Professional Hypnotherapist, Hypnotherapy Supervisor, Counsellor, Life Coach, YouTuber and Author in the UK. This podcast channel is to help you with some tips, tricks and skills for improving your life, making positive changes, and becoming a better version of you, so you can begin to 'Right Your Own Story'. I hope you enjoy the episodes. Best wishes, James Right Your Own Story Ltd

  1. Sep 14

    What If You've Been Underestimating Yourself?

    What if you've been underestimating yourself?  Sometimes a lack of confidence isn't really about what we're capable of — it's about the beliefs we've developed about ourselves. In this episode, James Taylor shares a true story from his early days in the police that changed his career and reveals a powerful way to think about self-belief, confidence and the doors we open — and close — in our lives. When I was a young probationer, I had no intention of becoming a detective. Then, during a CID attachment, a frustrating prisoner interview and one simple lesson from an experienced detective changed the way I looked at the situation — and ultimately changed the direction of my career. The lesson involved a corridor. A corridor with doors. And that simple image has stayed with me ever since. Because perhaps we all carry a corridor like that inside ourselves. Behind some doors are possibilities, opportunities and versions of ourselves we haven't yet discovered. But behind others are old beliefs: “You can't.” “You're not good enough.” “It's too late.” “That's not for people like you.” Sometimes the doors we need to open are the ones we've been afraid to approach. And sometimes the doors we need to close are the ones carrying old beliefs that no longer serve us. The question is: How do you know what's behind a door you've never opened? In this episode, I explore: Why we can underestimate our own abilitiesHow past experiences can influence self-beliefThe difference between feeling incapable and actually being incapableWhy confidence doesn't always have to come before actionHow experience can create evidence that changes what we believe about ourselvesThe importance of questioning the beliefs we've carried for yearsWhy some doors need to be opened — while others need to be closedWhat the words “You Can't” might represent in our own livesHow curiosity can sometimes be more useful than trying to force ourselves to feel confidentWhy you don't need to see the whole path before taking the next step You don't have to open every door. But perhaps there's one you've already decided is locked. Maybe it's time to investigate. 💬 Would you like to talk about what's holding you back? If you're struggling with low confidence, self-doubt, low self-esteem, anxiety, feeling stuck or uncertainty about your direction in life, you don't have to work everything out on your own. I offer a free 30-minute consultation where we can talk about what's happening for you, what you'd like to change, and whether working together could help. Click HERE to book your free 30-minute consultation. About Right Your Own Story Right Your Own Story provides online counselling, hypnotherapy and life coaching in the UK, helping people understand themselves better, overcome obstacles and make meaningful changes in their lives. #Confidence #SelfBelief #SelfEsteem #SelfConfidence #OvercomingSelfDoubt #PersonalGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #OnlineCounselling #OnlineTherapy #Hypnotherapy #LifeCoaching #RightYourOwnStory

  2. May 19

    The Dangerous Words We Say To Ourselves

    The Dangerous Words We Say To Ourselves. Do you ever catch yourself saying things like: “I ALWAYS get things wrong.”“I NEVER succeed.”“Nobody likes me.”“Everything always goes badly for me.” In this episode of Right Your Own Story, we explore the hidden psychological damage caused by negative self-talk and absolute thinking patterns such as “always,” “never,” “everyone,” and “nobody.” These types of thoughts can quietly shape: confidence,anxiety,self-esteem,relationships,emotional wellbeing,and even the way we view ourselves and the world around us.I explain why the brain falls into these patterns, how repeated negative thoughts can become emotionally convincing over time, and how harsh inner dialogue can slowly affect mental health, mindset, motivation, and personal growth. This episode also explores: how negative thinking patterns develop,why people become trapped in self-critical thinking,how childhood experiences and criticism can shape internal dialogue,and practical ways to challenge destructive thoughts and create healthier emotional balance.If you struggle with: anxiety,overthinking,low self-esteem,confidence issues,people pleasing,self-doubt,emotional burnout,or harsh inner criticism…this episode may really resonate with you. You’ll also learn practical mindset techniques to help challenge “always” and “never” thinking, improve emotional awareness, and develop a kinder and more balanced relationship with yourself. If this episode helps you, please consider sharing it with somebody else who may need to hear it too. 🎙️ Right Your Own Story is hosted by therapist, counsellor, hypnotherapist, life coach, youtuber, best-selling author and former detective James Taylor, helping people better understand themselves, improve their mindset, and create positive lasting change. 📅 FREE 30-MINUTE CONSULTATIONIf your negative self-talk is affecting your confidence, mental health, relationships, or emotional wellbeing, I offer a free 30-minute consultation to see how therapy may be able to help. 👉 Click HERE to book your free 30-minute consultation. #mentalhealth #selftalk #mindset #therapy #counselling #anxiety #confidence #selfesteem #overthinking #psychology #personalgrowth #mindsetshift #emotionalwellbeing #therapist #podcast #rightyourownstory #mentalhealthpodcast #negativebeliefs #selfdoubt #innercritic

  3. Apr 25

    I Moved to Cumbria and Everything Changed | A Therapist’s Life Reset in the Lake District

    I Moved to Cumbria, and Everything Changed | A Therapist’s Life Reset in the Lake District After a long break since November 2025, I’m finally back behind the mic — and a lot has changed. In August, I made a big life move from Kent to Cumbria, settling in the heart of the Lake District — a place I’ve dreamed of living in since I was a child. In this episode, I share what that transition has really been like. Not just the practical side of moving somewhere new where you don’t know anyone… but the deeper lessons it’s taught me as a therapist, a coach, and as a person navigating change. From walking new paths using the HiiKER walking app, to unexpectedly powerful moments like cleaning years of dirt from my driveway with a pressure washer — this episode is full of simple, real-life metaphors for growth, clarity, and starting again. It’s also a reminder that some dreams take time.In my case, 44 years. As a boy, I promised myself I’d one day live in the Lake District — and now, at 54, that promise has become reality. This episode explores the idea of gestation periods, patience, and trusting that not everything has to happen quickly to be meaningful. If you’re going through change, feeling stuck, or waiting for the “right time” to move forward, this conversation will resonate with you. Because sometimes, growth isn’t about having the full map —it’s about taking the next step and allowing the path to reveal itself. 🌱 In this episode, we explore: Moving to Cumbria and adapting to a completely new environmentLife in the Lake District — slower pace, nature, and perspectiveHow a therapist navigates uncertainty and changeThe power of small steps (and why you don’t need the whole plan)Letting go of what’s built up over time (the “pressure washer” metaphor)Why some goals take years — and why that’s okay🎯 Ready to Take Your Next Step? If this episode resonates with you, and you’re thinking about making a change in your own life, whether that’s gaining clarity, building confidence, or moving forward from something that’s been holding you back. 👉 I offer a free 30-minute consultation where we can explore exactly where you are and what your next step could look like. You’ll find the booking link HERE.   No pressure. Just a conversation. 🌄 Closing Thought Sometimes the biggest changes in life don’t come from having everything figured out…They come from taking one step in a new direction — and trusting the rest will follow.

  4. 11/29/2025

    Change Your Frequency And Watch Your Life Transform

    Change Your Frequency And Watch Your Life Transform Host: James Taylor – Counsellor, Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, and Creator of Right Your Own Story What if you could change your life as easily as turning a dial? In today’s episode, Change Your Frequency And Watch Your Life Transform, we explore the powerful idea that your inner emotional state acts like a personal broadcast frequency—one that influences how you think, feel, behave, and ultimately, how your life unfolds. So many people feel stuck on a “default setting”: overwhelmed, exhausted, anxious, or simply running old emotional programming. But your mind is not a fixed station. You can consciously tune into a different signal—one aligned with clarity, confidence, happiness, and purpose. This episode breaks down the metaphors, the psychology, and the grounded science behind changing your inner frequency so you can transform your outer world. In this episode, you’ll discover: What your “default frequency” really is—and how it quietly shapes your dayWhy negative emotional loops feel so magnetic, and how they become self-perpetuatingThe truth about the Law of Attraction, Law of Vibration, and the science behind mindset changeHow your Reticular Activating System (RAS) filters your reality and proves your beliefs back to youWhy positive psychology and neuroplasticity—not pseudoscience—are the real tools for transformationThe dangers of toxic positivity, magical thinking, and self-blameThree powerful, practical steps to consciously shift your emotional stateHow gratitude can act like a universal tuning forkHow future-self scripting rewires your identity and creates internal alignmentWhy awareness is the true starting point for personal changeWhether you’ve heard of The Secret, the Law of Attraction, manifestation, or the Law of Frequency, this episode brings a grounded, therapeutic perspective that cuts through the noise. There’s no magical thinking here—just practical psychology, evidence-based mindset tools, and emotional mastery techniques that actually work. This episode is for you if you’re ready to:• Break old patterns• Raise your emotional baseline• Tune into a more empowering mental state• Stop living life on autopilot• Become the conscious creator of your internal world• Move from fear and scarcity into clarity, presence, gratitude, and possibility As a counsellor, hypnotherapist, life coach, and former Metropolitan Police detective, James blends therapeutic insight with straight-talking clarity, helping you understand why you think the way you think—and how to powerfully shift it. If you’re ready to rewrite your own story and intentionally broadcast a new signal to your life, this episode will give you the tools, language, and mindset to begin. ✨ Want more support?Book a free discovery call here and start transforming your life from the inside out.Connect with James on YouTube, Instagram, and at Right Your Own Story. #RightYourOwnStory #ChangeYourFrequency #MindsetTransformation

  5. 10/13/2025

    Dad Wisdom That Changed My Life

    When I was growing up, my dad always seemed to have the right tool for the job. Whether he was wallpapering, carving something out of wood, or building a concrete fireplace, I’d stand there watching — amazed — wondering how he just knew what to do. One day, I asked him how he did it. His answer was simple: “You just do it.” At the time, I didn’t get it. I thought he was dodging the question.But years later, I realised those four words held a lifetime of dad wisdom — the kind that quietly shapes who we become. In this episode, I share the story of how my father’s simple words became one of the greatest pieces of life wisdom I’ve ever received — a reminder that sometimes, you don’t need another plan, another book, or another reason to wait. You just need to start. Whether you’re facing change, indecision, or self-doubt, this episode is for you. It’s part motivational speech, part reflection, and a gentle nudge to move forward — whatever your “it” might be. 👉 If you’re ready to take that next step in your own life, and could use some support along the way, book a consultation with me at Right Your Own Story. Together, we’ll explore what’s been holding you back and help you move confidently toward what’s next. Because sometimes, the simplest words of wisdom — like the ones passed down from a father to a son — can change your life forever.

  6. 08/11/2025

    The Confidence Code

    Confidence changes everything — but most people are walking around with hidden "needles" of self-doubt, fear, and old wounds holding them back. In this episode of Right Your Own Story, I’m revealing The Confidence Code LIVE — my brand-new 6-week small-group coaching programme designed to give you the tools, strategies, and mindset shifts to finally unlock unshakable self-belief. We start 1st September 2025, with strictly limited spaces of 10–12 people per group, and for this first-ever round, you’ll get the full programme and a signed workbook for just £249 — a saving of over £600 compared to 1-to-1 coaching. Inside this episode: Why confidence really is the foundation for everything you want in life. What you’ll experience in The Confidence Code LIVE. How to secure your place before spaces sell out. 🎯 Secure your place now → CLICK HERE.📅 Start date: 1st September 2025💰 Special first-round price: £249 (never repeated) #rightyourownstory #confidencecode

  7. 06/16/2025

    Five Mind Tricks to Instantly Boost Your Confidence

    In this empowering episode of the Right Your Own Story podcast, I share Five Mind Tricks to Instantly Boost Your Confidence—practical, psychology-backed techniques to help you build greater confidence starting today. Whether you're struggling with self-esteem, want to show up more confidently at work or in relationships, or you’re on a journey of personal development and mindset growth, these five mind tricks will give you fast, accessible tools to shift your thinking and change how you feel. 🔑 In this episode, you'll discover: How to break the negative thought-emotion-behaviour cycle with The Confidence Loop A simple mindset shift using Future You to guide your actions Why changing your body language changes your confidence instantly How to borrow belief when yours feels low The power of using better self-talk and language to shape your identity These tools are rooted in therapeutic principles, coaching techniques, and real-life experience—delivered with warmth, honesty, and clarity. 🧠 If you’ve been wondering how to be more confident, how to take control of your life, or how to stop old thinking patterns from holding you back, this is the episode for you. 🎯 Want to go deeper?I’m working on something powerful to help you unlock your confidence even more — it’s coming soon. Comment the word “INTERESTED” on the YouTube version of this episode , and I’ll let you know when it’s ready! 🔗 Watch the video on YouTube:Five Mind Tricks to Instantly Boost Your Confidence 🌐 Looking for a therapist?If you’re ready to work with me 1:1 for therapy or confidence coaching, head to this LINK to book your free 30-minute consultation. 🎧 Right Your Own Story is a space for self-leadership, mindset mastery, and rewriting the beliefs that hold you back. Subscribe, share, and remember — no matter what’s happened before…You can still right your own story. Best wishes, James #rightyourownstory #confidence #confidencetips

  8. 05/10/2025

    Hiroo Onoda – The Japanese Soldier Who REFUSED to Surrender

    Hiroo Onoda – The Japanese Soldier Who REFUSED to Surrender is one of the most extraordinary tales ever. In this episode from Right Your Own Story, we dive deep into Hiroo Onoda's story. His unwavering mindset, his 30-year personal war, and what it teaches us today about belief, purpose, and identity. This incredible WW2 account is not only powerful. It's one of the most bizarre and inspiring pieces of Weird History you'll ever hear.From the dense jungles of Lubang Island, Philippines, Onoda stayed hidden for three decades, believing World War II was still ongoing. This story shows how deeply a person's mindset can shape their entire reality, even against all logic, change, or evidence. You'll explore the psychology behind it, what kept him going, and why this tale has earned him comparisons to The Last Samurai.As we journey through this Hiroo Onoda story, we'll reflect on how our own belief systems can either trap or empower us, and how you can apply these insights to your own life. Whether you're feeling lost, stuck, or just curious about WW2 legends, Japanese history, or personal transformation, this episode will resonate deeply. 📌 If you're struggling with finding a way out of your jungle and need support, I offer 1:1 therapy sessions. Click this ⁠link⁠ to arrange your free 30-minute consultation.  Subscribe to Right Your Own Story for more insights on personal growth, mental well-being, and self-empowerment. 🔗 Here are some other links that may be of interest too: 📚 The Squirrel That Lost Its Nut - A Therapy Book For Children.  You can purchase it on Amazon here: 👉 UK Amazon Link - ⁠https://amzn.to/3Ok9cy4⁠ 👉 US Amazon Link - ⁠https://a.co/d/8Uij7fQ⁠ I talk about it in this video - ⁠https://youtu.be/Xv9oWdZ-P0s⁠ 📚 The 10 Monkeys - A Therapy Book For Children. I talk about it in this video - ⁠https://youtu.be/ChSNIbNh4KI⁠ 🔗 UK Amazon Link - ⁠https://amzn.to/3Tt1zIN⁠ 🔗 US Amazon Link - ⁠https://a.co/d/cVPux64⁠ 📚 Want to journal your way to success? If so, I have something that you will love.  Brand new, I have created 'The 1-Minute, 365-Day Appreciation Journal', but it is a journal with a difference.  👉 Here is a ⁠⁠video link⁠⁠ to check it out - ⁠https://youtu.be/FRW4HreyQYc⁠ To purchase the journal, click on the relevant link below:  👉 Here is the ⁠⁠UK Amazon link⁠⁠ ⁠- ⁠https://amzn.to/3QWVljr⁠ 👉 Here is the ⁠⁠US Amazon link⁠⁠ - ⁠https://a.co/d/bK6TUIA⁠ To follow me on social media, click on the following links:  🔗 ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ - ⁠https://www.facebook.com/RightYourOwnStory⁠ 🔗 ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rightyourownstory/⁠ 🔗 ⁠⁠My Website⁠⁠ - ⁠https://rightyourownstory.co.uk/⁠ Catch up on my podcasts on your favourite platforms: 👉 Spotify ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/0eS0k7TLPzE0dNCDwkQl2A⁠ 👉 Google ⁠podcasthttps://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy82YzUwMjU3OC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw?sa=X&ved=0CAMQ4aUDahcKEwiQnvSg49j5AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQAQ&hl=en-GB⁠ 👉 iTunes podcast ⁠linkhttps://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/right-your-own-story/id1586701217⁠ 👉 Subscribe for more insights on personal development, success strategies, and practical tips for building the life you want. #rightyourownstory #hirooonada #beliefsystems

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I am a Professional Hypnotherapist, Hypnotherapy Supervisor, Counsellor, Life Coach, YouTuber and Author in the UK. This podcast channel is to help you with some tips, tricks and skills for improving your life, making positive changes, and becoming a better version of you, so you can begin to 'Right Your Own Story'. I hope you enjoy the episodes. Best wishes, James Right Your Own Story Ltd

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  • Creator
    James Taylor
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    142
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © James Taylor
  • Show Website
    Right Your Own Story