The Freedom Project

Tom Foxley, Mental Fitness Coach for Business Owners
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Do you crave freedom & want to hit peak mental fitness? The Freedom Project is here fore those of you who live for adventure and freedom. Your host, Tom Foxley, is a mental fitness coach, former Royal Marines Commando, a freedom seeker, skier, mountaineer, and climber who lives for adventure. Tom has been coaching elite performers for more than a decade. In The Freedom Project, Tom aims to uncover what it takes to hit peak mental fitness for freedom seekers. Once per week, Tom will also get highly tactical and teach you strategies you can deploy into your own life. If you want to learn peak mental fitness, and love creating freedom, this is the podcast for you. www.instagram.com/tomfoxley

  1. Aug 4

    5 quotes to live your life by (if you care about rapid growth)

    Today I share 5 quotes that will radically improve the quality of your life if you implement them (plus 2 bonus quotes that came into my head whilst recording)

  2. Jul 31

    An AI Confession

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  3. Jul 21

    You'll Call It Fate

    For twenty years I picked the hardest thing in the room and made sure people could see me do it. I called it ambition. It was an eight year old who didn't feel like he mattered, running every decision I made, and I never once heard it. There's a line usually put on Jung. Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will determine your life, and you'll call it fate. This one is about the thing driving you that you can't see. Where it comes from, why self-awareness doesn't catch it, and what it quietly does to a business once it's built one. Then the part that made me want to record it. Every amplifier a business owner has ever held reflects his inner world back at him. Headcount used to. Now AI does, faster, with no sanity check left in the loop. If your thinking is unclear, AI won't fix it. It multiplies it. Inside: the three ways something ends up in your blind spot, how a financial planner worked out he was creating chaos just so he could solve it, and the one thing I'd train before handing your thinking to a machine. Take the assessment I run with every client at tomfoxley.me.

  4. Jul 13

    Junk Volume: Why 16 Hour Days Produce 8 Hours of Work

    A client of mine works sixteen hour days. Up at four, in the office by seven, laptop still open at eleven at night. I asked him to rate the quality of that work out of a hundred. He said fifty. Maybe sixty. So we did the arithmetic together. Fifty percent of sixteen hours is eight hours. He's producing one working day and paying for two. Every endurance athlete already understands this pattern. You run every session at the same middling pace, too slow to build the aerobic base and too fast to build speed, and after eight weeks you're tired and no quicker. Coaches call it junk volume. Business owners do junk volume at the desk, and fatigue makes it feel like something happened. In this episode I break down why sixteen hours at full quality was never available to you, what the research on deliberate practice says about the real ceiling, and what changed for Dean McMahon when he stopped working more and started working on far less of the right stuff. Two sets and reps at the end. Find your three hours, and write your not-to-do list. If you recognised your own week in this, book a Mental Performance Blueprint Call at tomfoxley.me. Thirty minutes, no pitch, and if it isn't a fit I'll be the first to say so.

  5. Jul 8

    The Business Owner Who Couldn't Stop Doing Everyone Else's Job

    A client showed up early to do a job that wasn't his anymore. Nobody asked him to. He couldn't stop himself. In this episode I break down what was running underneath that habit: busyness as identity, the quiet competitiveness that creeps in between a leader and their own team, and the four-word framework I now use for saying a hard thing without softening it into nothing. If you've ever done someone else's job before they had the chance, stayed visibly busy so nobody would question whether you were working, or softened feedback because you needed to stay the good guy in the room, this one's for you. In this episode: Why busyness becomes an identity, not just a schedule The quiet competitiveness that shows up between a leader and their own team A four-word framework for saying a hard thing without softening it into nothing Book a Mental Performance Blueprint Call at tomfoxley.me.

  6. May 11

    The GP's Mouthwash — Why Business Owners Keep Treating the Wrong Problem

    For about a month, Tom Foxley's tongue felt like it was housing a  small mammal.   He knew from the start he should go to the dentist. But she's  expensive and her waiting room has a specific combination of clinical  smell and Radio 2 that he finds miserable. So he went to his GP  instead — easier, more accessible, felt like doing something.   The GP prescribed medication and a mouthwash. His tongue didn't  improve. His teeth started staining. He'd created a new problem by  treating the original one incorrectly.   When he finally booked the dentist, she physically recoiled at what  he'd been prescribed. Thirty minutes later: teeth back to white,  actual solution in hand. Salt water with a pinch of bicarb. Free.  Thirty seconds. Perfect for the problem.   All of it avoidable if he'd just gone to the right person at the start.   In this episode, Tom maps that experience onto the pattern he sees  most consistently in business owners — something that's been off for  a year or longer, that they know is there, but instead of addressing  directly they reach for the accessible option. Podcasts, books,  breathwork, meditation apps. All decent things in the right context.  But for the specific problem of having outgrown the operating system  running the business, they treat the surface. They don't touch the  thing underneath.   Topics covered: - The tongue story — and why it maps perfectly onto how intelligent    business owners avoid their real problem - What it actually means to outgrow your operating system - Why the drive, focus and ability to push through become less    reliable over time — and what that signals - Why reading about this problem won't move anything — and what does - What a proper diagnostic conversation looks like — and what it isn't

  7. May 8

    2am, a Wet Giraffe and What It Clarified About Resilience

    2am on a Tuesday. Daughter sick. Bathroom dark. Boxers. Wet stuffed  giraffe. 18-month-old supervising from the doorway with the expression  of a senior consultant reviewing a deliverable. In the middle of it, Tom had a very clear view of his month. Product  launch. Upcoming heart surgery. Ultra marathon training. The business.  Being present at home. None of it relevant. This was the job. In this episode he talks about the version of himself that would have  handled that night very differently — not in the bathroom, but in  the days that followed. The familiar pattern of pushing through on  nothing, white-knuckling the day after, patience thinning, quality  of thinking dropping, recovery taking longer than it should. That's resilience. Absorb the hit and keep going. And it sounds like  toughness — until you notice that absorbing hits repeatedly without  anything actually adapting just means accumulating damage you haven't  fully accounted for yet. Tom learned resilience in the military. In that context, it's exactly  right. But running a business while training, while being a husband  and a father and refusing to let any of those things become just words  — that's not the military. And grizzing it out every time something  goes sideways doesn't build anything. It just costs you slowly until  one day the engine is less reliable than it was. This episode is about what he's been building instead. Topics covered: - Why resilience is armour — and why armour has a weight limit - The difference between absorbing pressure and being built by it - What it looks like when decisions get cleaner under load rather    than murkier - Why the hard week ends and you're not carrying the residue into    the next one - Why understanding this concept changes nothing — and what does - The question worth sitting with about what happens to your    performance after pressure lands

  8. May 6

    Emotions Are Data — What the Most Successful Operator Tom Knows Does Differently

    Last weekend Tom Foxley had dinner with the most successful man he  knows. Not just commercially — though the numbers are serious. What made him  different was the combination: the external success and a genuine  internal ease. Good health. A marriage that works. In his 60s and  moving through life in a way that's rare enough that you notice it  immediately when you're in the room. After dinner he gave a speech about his wife and the people around  him. Mid-speech, in front of twenty people, he let a few tears fall.  Didn't push through them. Didn't apologise. Just let them be there. The next morning, walking in the Yorkshire Dales, Tom brought it up.  Started to say he thought more business owners should be able to do  that, because — The man stopped him. "Because they'd make better decisions, wouldn't they?" This episode is built around that line. Because the path to building  something real tends to reward suppression — push it down, stay  logical, don't let it get personal. And for a while, that works. But  somewhere it becomes the ceiling. Not the strategy, not the market,  not the team. The fact that the operator has been overriding their  own signal for so long they've lost the ability to read it. Emotions aren't the thing getting in the way of good decisions.  They're part of the data set. Topics covered: - The dinner, the speech and what it means to have nothing to prove - Why suppression doesn't produce better decisions — it produces    incomplete ones - What anger, fear, shame and frustration are carrying that logic    alone cannot generate - Why the hire that doesn't sit right usually isn't right — and what    happens when you stop overriding it - What shifts when operators learn to read rather than suppress - The first rep to start building this as a skill this week

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Do you crave freedom & want to hit peak mental fitness? The Freedom Project is here fore those of you who live for adventure and freedom. Your host, Tom Foxley, is a mental fitness coach, former Royal Marines Commando, a freedom seeker, skier, mountaineer, and climber who lives for adventure. Tom has been coaching elite performers for more than a decade. In The Freedom Project, Tom aims to uncover what it takes to hit peak mental fitness for freedom seekers. Once per week, Tom will also get highly tactical and teach you strategies you can deploy into your own life. If you want to learn peak mental fitness, and love creating freedom, this is the podcast for you. www.instagram.com/tomfoxley

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  • Creator
    Tom Foxley, Mental Fitness Coach for Business Owners
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    368
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    The Freedom Project

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