Create Your Fate

Life Coach Meg Ellis
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You can create your Best Life Ever and Meg Ellis will teach you the ways. And guess what? It’s easier than you think. Start with this: Stop thinking about what you don’t want. Start thinking about what you DO want. Yes, it’s really that simple. Meg Ellis is a Certified Conscious Life Coach who has helped thousands of people all over the world rewire their negative mindset into a positive one to create and live their absolute Best Life Ever. She is a writer, a motivational speaker, and she uses the Enneagram and the Law of Attraction to break down self-limiting beliefs to replace self-doubt, guilt, and fear with confidence, fulfillment, and peace. Create Your Fate is designed to show you where sneaky negative thoughts are manifesting in your life and how to direct your thoughts and energy in a positive direction instead so you can begin living your Best Life Ever. Your mind has so much power when you intentionally direct it towards what you want. Create Your Fate will show you how. Are you ready? It’s time to create your fate. To learn more about Meg, life coaching, the Enneagram, and the Law of Attraction, or to submit a topic or question, check out www.letscreateyourfate.com.

  1. 3d ago

    EP246: You’re Not Bad at It. You’re New at It.

    “The reframe didn’t magically make me capable. It made me willing to find out what I was capable of.” — Meg In this episode: Recognize when “I’m bad at this” has become an identity instead of a factUnderstand how comparison can make being a beginner feel like being a failureLearn why action often creates confidence—not the other way aroundReframe the way you talk about yourself so you’re more willing to try Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! How many things have you decided you’re bad at simply because you weren’t immediately good at them? We’re quick to label ourselves—bad with money, bad at working out, not creative, not flexible, terrible at public speaking—and then we unknowingly start making choices that reinforce those labels. In this episode, we’re looking at how the way you identify yourself can shape what you’re willing to try, why being a beginner can feel so uncomfortable as an adult, and how comparison can convince you that you’re failing when you’re actually just learning. You’ll learn a simple mindset shift for separating your current ability from your identity, why you don’t have to wait for confidence before taking action, and how giving yourself permission to try can reveal capabilities you may have already written off. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

  2. Jul 16

    EP245: PS: You're Already ON the Path

    "Stop asking, 'Am I on the right path?' Start asking, 'What is this path trying to teach me?'" -- Meg In this episode: Discover why feeling uncertain doesn't mean you're headed in the wrong direction.Learn how to stop comparing your timeline and start focusing on your direction.Reframe setbacks, detours, and disappointments as part of your journey—not proof you're off course.Walk away with one simple question that can bring more peace and clarity to every season of life. Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! Have you ever wondered if you're making the right decisions, if you're behind in life, or if you've somehow wandered off the path you were meant to be on? In this episode, I share a simple experience from a walk in Bali that completely changed the way I think about purpose, timing, and uncertainty. We'll explore why so many of us spend our lives waiting for a sign that we're "on the right path," when the truth might be that we've been walking it all along. If you've been navigating a career change, heartbreak, a fresh start, or simply questioning what's next, this conversation will help you trade certainty for trust—and see your journey through an entirely new lens. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

  3. Jul 6

    EP244: How to Stop Absorbing Everyone Else's Energy

    “You can care deeply about people without emotionally carrying them.” -- Meg In this episode: The difference between empathy and emotional responsibilityHow childhood conditioning creates emotional hypervigilanceWhy people pleasing leads to emotional exhaustionPractical tools to stop absorbing everyone else’s emotions and protect your peace Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! If you constantly feel emotionally drained after conversations, anxious when other people are upset, or responsible for keeping everyone around you emotionally okay, this episode is for you. Today we unpack why so many people absorb other people’s emotions and how hypervigilance, people pleasing, and emotional monitoring can quietly disconnect you from yourself. We also talk about one of the most powerful mindset shifts for emotional freedom: “I am OK even if you are not OK.” This episode will help you understand the difference between compassion and emotional responsibility, how boundaries protect your nervous system, and how to stay connected to yourself without carrying the emotional weight of everyone around you. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

  4. Jun 26

    EP243: Why You Keep Getting the Opposite of What You Asked For

    "What if the thing frustrating you right now is actually the opportunity you've been asking for?" -- Meg In this episode: Discover why asking for more often leads to discomfort instead of immediate resultsLearn how to recognize opportunities for growth when they show up disguised as setbacks, delays, and difficult decisionsUnderstand why the same patterns keep repeating in your life—and the one question that can help you finally break the cycleLearn how to stop settling for old versions of yourself and make choices that align with the life you're trying to create Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! This episode is Part 2 of last week's conversation about getting laid off from SoulCycle, but don't worry if you missed it—you can jump right in here. After sharing my story, I found myself asking a question that kept coming up: Did I accidentally manifest getting laid off? I had been asking for more freedom, more time, more impact, and more opportunities to create... so was this unexpected ending somehow connected to the things I'd been calling in? Then a friend asked me something that sent me down an entirely different rabbit hole: "Are we supposed to be careful what we ask for?" This was so interesting to me, I just had to share this with you! In this episode, we're exploring why life sometimes feels like it's giving us the exact opposite of what we want, why we may be tested before our manifestations take place, and why the thing frustrating you right now might actually be the opportunity you've been asking for all along. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

  5. Jun 11

    EP242: I Got Laid Off From SoulCycle (What I'm Learning About Big Feelings, Surrender, & Acceptance)

    "Life knows what to do better than we do. Our job is to simply let go and receive each moment with an open heart and then dance skillfully with it." -- Meg In this episode: Learn how to process disappointment without getting stuck in bitterness, blame, or resentmentDiscover how the Drama Triangle keeps us trapped as the victim, villain, or hero in our own storyUnderstand the difference between resisting what happened and surrendering to what isLearn how to find possibility, gratitude, and freedom when life doesn't go according to plan Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! Recently, I was laid off from SoulCycle after seven years with the company. While this episode shares that story, this conversation isn't really about losing a job. It's for anyone who has recently been blindsided by life—whether that's a layoff, breakup, friendship ending, unexpected change, or simply finding yourself in a chapter you never planned for. If you've been asking yourself, "What is happening right now?" this episode is for you. Together, we'll talk about what to do when life hands you something you didn't choose. I'll share the emotions that came up for me, the lessons I learned about acceptance and surrender, and why staying stuck in blame keeps us disconnected from our power. Most importantly, we'll explore how to stop feeding fear, resentment, and self-pity—and start creating space for possibility, growth, and whatever comes next. This is Part 1 of a special two-part series. Resources Mentioned: The Drama Triangle episode on Apple and SpotifyThe Power of Maybe episode on Apple and SpotifyYamas & Niyamas book (surrender)Letting Go book (acceptance) Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

  6. May 28

    EP241: The Science of Reinventing Yourself

    “Confidence is not what creates courage. Courage is what creates confidence.” -- Meg In this episode: Why your brain fights change even when you WANT itThe real reason confidence comes AFTER courageHow identity is built through tiny repeated actionsThe neuroscience behind reinventing yourself and becoming someone new Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! Reinvention isn’t about becoming a completely different person overnight. It’s about understanding how your brain, nervous system, and identity work together — and learning how to slowly build evidence for a new version of yourself. In this episode, I break down why change feels uncomfortable, why your brain clings to familiarity, and why discomfort does not automatically mean you’re failing. We also talk about the biggest misconception people have about confidence. Most people think confident people are naturally fearless, but the truth is confidence is built AFTER courageous action. If you’ve been waiting to feel ready before changing your life, this episode will completely shift the way you think about growth, fear, identity, and becoming the person you know you’re capable of being. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

  7. May 22

    EP240: Want to Change Your Life? Start Here. (Literally, the Smallest Thing You Can Do Right Now.)

    "Your brain is not always choosing what's best for you, and it's oftentimes just choosing what's most familiar." -- Meg In this episode: Why your brain is wired for autopilot and how unconscious patterns formThe simple neuroscience behind why change feels uncomfortableHow even healing and self-growth routines can become unconscious3 tiny ways to wake yourself up and become more present in your life Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! In this episode, we’re talking about the sneaky ways autopilot shows up in our lives — and why so many of us struggle to create change even when we desperately want to. I break down what “consciousness” actually means in simple terms, why the brain loves repetition, and how unconscious patterns quietly shape our emotions, habits, relationships, and identity. We also talk about why autopilot isn’t just scrolling on the couch or hating your life — you can even go on autopilot inside your healing and growth journey. I also share the surprising realization I had after moving to New York City and why changing my environment suddenly unlocked massive creativity and momentum in my book writing. This episode is your reminder that transformation doesn’t always begin with giant life changes — sometimes it begins with simply becoming aware. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

  8. May 12

    EP239: Rewire Your Brain: The Science Behind How Affirmations Actually Change Your Life

    "Your brain doesn’t care what’s true—it believes what you repeat." -- Meg In this episode: Why your brain prioritizes repetition over truth (and how that shapes your identity)The neuroscience behind affirmations and how they rewire your thinkingWhy affirmations feel fake at first—and how to make them feel authenticHow to use affirmations daily to build confidence and shift your internal voice Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! I’ve been consistently practicing affirmations every morning, and while I didn’t fully believe them at first, I started noticing something subtle but powerful—my internal dialogue began to change. The way I spoke to myself softened. The automatic negative thoughts weren’t as loud or as constant. And it made me realize that affirmations aren’t about forcing yourself to believe something overnight—they’re about giving your brain a new pattern to follow. In this episode, I break down both the science and the manifestation side of affirmations so you can understand why they actually work. We talk about how your brain forms beliefs through repetition, how your thoughts shape your perception and behavior, and why feeling resistance at the beginning is completely normal. I also share how to use affirmations in a way that feels aligned and realistic—so you’re not trying to convince yourself of something that feels out of reach, but instead gradually building a new, supportive inner voice. If you’ve ever felt like affirmations don’t work or that they’re not for you, this episode will shift that perspective and show you how to use them in a way that actually creates change. Connect with Meg: Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimer

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You can create your Best Life Ever and Meg Ellis will teach you the ways. And guess what? It’s easier than you think. Start with this: Stop thinking about what you don’t want. Start thinking about what you DO want. Yes, it’s really that simple. Meg Ellis is a Certified Conscious Life Coach who has helped thousands of people all over the world rewire their negative mindset into a positive one to create and live their absolute Best Life Ever. She is a writer, a motivational speaker, and she uses the Enneagram and the Law of Attraction to break down self-limiting beliefs to replace self-doubt, guilt, and fear with confidence, fulfillment, and peace. Create Your Fate is designed to show you where sneaky negative thoughts are manifesting in your life and how to direct your thoughts and energy in a positive direction instead so you can begin living your Best Life Ever. Your mind has so much power when you intentionally direct it towards what you want. Create Your Fate will show you how. Are you ready? It’s time to create your fate. To learn more about Meg, life coaching, the Enneagram, and the Law of Attraction, or to submit a topic or question, check out www.letscreateyourfate.com.

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  • Creator
    Life Coach Meg Ellis
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    246
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    Create Your Fate

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