What if sex was more than performance… more than release… more than “getting it right”? In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having, I’m joined by Gayatri Beegan - an erotic mystic, initiatrix, and Sacred Sexuality Guide - for a deep, honest, and expansive conversation about sexual energy, desire, power, and pleasure - especially through the lens of men’s sexuality and how it impacts our relationships as women. We explore why so many people feel disconnected from sex even when they’re “doing it right,” how porn, performance pressure, and goal-oriented sex shut down pleasure, and what becomes possible when we shift from release to expression, from shame to full-spectrum sexuality. This episode is for you if you’ve ever wondered: Why sex doesn’t always turn you on—even when you want it to Why men often feel shut down, pressured, or disconnected in sex How sexual energy can be a source of confidence, vitality, and power What it actually means to feel safe, present, and alive in intimacy How curiosity (not performance) creates better sex We talk about: The vulnerability underneath men’s sexual experiences Why porn can act like “junk food” for desire—and what nourishment looks like instead How sexual energy gets stuck (and how to move it through the body) The difference between orgasm, release, and expansion Why communication, presence, and sensation are the foundations of great sex How women can hold space for men without abandoning themselves Why sexuality and spirituality have always been deeply connected This is a conversation about better sex, yes—but also about sexual confidence, desire, intimacy, and reclaiming your power. If you’re ready to stop feeling broken, stop performing, and start experiencing sex as something that actually feeds you… this one’s for you. ✨ Listen with curiosity. ✨ Let your definition of sex expand. ✨ And remember—you’re not doing it wrong. Meet Our Guest: Gayatri is a Sacred Sexuality Guide, Transformational Leader, and Curator of Emergent Eros — an annual festival of intimacy and sexuality. Since 2012, she has guided thousands of people through journeys of erotic awakening, embodied intimacy, and communal transformation. Her work with men centres on Erotic Empowerment - awakening sexual energy as a source of vitality, confidence, and truth. She is also known for creating spaces that are both deeply sacred and deeply human, where playfulness, reverence, and transformation can coexist. At the heart of her work is a devotion to guiding people back to their essence — so they may stand in their power, open to love, and move through life awake, aligned, and free. You can explore her work at: https://www.gayatribeegan.com/ The next cohort of INITIATION - 3-month online journey for men ready to come into right relationship with their sexual energy as a source of pleasure, presence, and grounded power - starts Wednesday 18th February 2026. Discover more and enrol here - https://www.gayatribeegan.com/initiation-spring26 Go Deeper: www.krishall.ca Apply now for Wild Women Rising: https://www.krishall.ca/application-wwr Sex Coaching & Couples Tantric Awakening: https://calendly.com/krishall2/clarity-call Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE) https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal Try Sex Magic: https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic Get 10% your favourite crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, & butt plugs (code KRIS10) https://waands.com/?ref=illhavewhatsheshaving Submit your questions: https://www.krishall.ca/podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/kris.hall.coaching
