The Coach Daniel Ratner Podcast

By Coach Daniel Ratner
  • 5.0 (4)
  • RELATIONSHIPS
  • UPDATED WEEKLY

Coach Ratner is not a matchmaker, but a MateMaker. With 7 books under his belt, Coach Ratner is an accomplished author and sought-after speaker on topics such as relationships, self-esteem and spirituality. His unique insights and captivating speaking style have helped countless individuals achieve their goals and transform their lives.

  1. 2D AGO

    Are You an Emotional Vampire?

    Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening! Ever left a conversation feeling lighter—or strangely exhausted? We dig into what makes someone an emotional vampire, why it’s hard to see it in the mirror, and how simple shifts in awareness can turn draining patterns into healthy connection. We start by calling out a human bias: judging others by their actions while excusing ourselves with intentions. From there, we walk through real-life stories—awkward dates, nonstop talkers, and that friend who always needs you at the worst moment—to show how social awareness, facial cues, and true listening become your best tools in the room. We also break down the “keepers” framework to help you choose the people who add energy, not steal it. Strip out ego and envy, and look for four traits: kind, peaceful, respectful, empathetic. Kindness softens edges. Peace reduces drama. Respect prevents contempt. Empathy fuels intimacy. We talk about narcissists and empaths, love-bombing that turns relationships into manipulationships, and practical boundaries that protect your sanity. You’ll hear why responsibility is irresistibly attractive—like quietly picking up soup bowls at dinner or getting up at 3 a.m. for the baby—and why presence beats perfect profiles every time. If you struggle with second dates, feel unheard in friendships, or rely on constant validation, this conversation offers a mirror and a map. Try the 24-hour rule before hard talks, trade rebuttals for real listening, and run a friend audit to ask whether the price of admission is worth the emotional cost. By reading “the back of your shirt,” you’ll spot blind spots, build better habits, and choose people who make your life brighter. If this resonated, share it with someone who needs it, subscribe for more practical relationship tools, and leave a quick review to tell us your biggest takeaway.

    49 min

  2. FEB 10

    Self Love or Self Hate: Building Self-Esteem

    Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening! We explore how low self-esteem is not a fixed trait but the absence of light, and how shifting our gaze from comparing ourselves to others to inner purpose restores confidence. Stories, Torah insights, and practical tools show how to protect joy, lift others, and pray with clarity. • framing self-esteem as light versus darkness • culture-driven comparison and beauty standards • symptoms: avoidance, risky behavior, poor relationships • how social media flexing lowers others’ self-esteem • choosing inner circles over public performative sharing • building fences around happiness and curating inputs • forgiveness as release from inherited pain • rejection therapy and small kindnesses to grow confidence • defining core values through gratitude and responsibility • exercise as mood medicine and mindset reset • prayer formula: recognize, praise, ask, thank Please leave a review on Amazon for Sunscreen Love by Coach Ratner. Type “Coach Ratner Sunscreen Love” on Amazon, scroll to the bottom, and click “Leave Review”

    51 min

  3. FEB 3

    Your Goals Aren’t Lazy, Your Process Is

    Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening! We explore why most people stall on big goals and how to lower friction so action becomes simple. We connect imperfect starts to faith, resilience, and healthier relationships, and we commit to short, consistent episodes that turn inspiration into action. • breaking big goals into smaller steps • choosing momentum over perfection • faith and self-belief during trials • dating and marriage without the myth of perfect • gratitude over chronic criticism If you like this podcast, please like or save. Send me a note at coachratner@gmail.com if you want me to keep doing them or if you have any ideas. Thanks so much!

    9 min

  4. JAN 29

    Raising Resilient Kids

    Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening! We map a practical path for raising confident, kind, independent kids while protecting the bond that matters most. From toddler tantrums to teen choices, we show how options, fences, and consistent love build resilience without nagging or power struggles. • defining success as children who choose well and want a relationship • roles shifting from director to supervisor to consultant • using choices to defuse tantrums and increase agency • modeling habits like mindful eating and consistent rules • negotiating with “is it possible” instead of ultimatums • building fences through environment and community • the parenting paradox of independence and connection • making each child feel like your favorite with tailored support • replacing nagging with small, specific requests • loving action over empty words to keep influence “After class, join the WhatsApp group for upcoming books and events”

    47 min

  5. JAN 22

    Three Secrets To Real Success

    Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening! What if the success you’re chasing isn’t the success you actually want? We open this class with a candid look at belonging—finding a spiritual home later in life—and a playful detour into halachic puzzles like the international date line. Then we dig into the heart of the matter: three secrets that reshape how you set goals, make choices, and carry responsibility without burning out. First, we argue for defining success before it blindsides you. Using a “God positioning system,” we map purpose the way you’d map a trip: specify the destination, expect wrong turns, and keep recalculating. Abraham’s tests become a model for living your values, not just talking about them. We also dismantle survivorship bias; copying winners ignores timing and luck. The fix is preparation. When opportunity arrives, it meets a ready person. Next, we tackle the truth that every path is hard. Staying safe can be its own risk. You’ll hear a real story about leaving a guaranteed job to build a business, and why desire, determination, and discipline turn uncertainty into progress. Relationships get the same honest treatment: love is a verb. Parenting means showing up. Marriage lasts when attention, respect, and understanding stay active. Hobbies, self‑esteem, and faith round out the inner scaffolding that keeps you steady. Finally, we reframe “obligations” as opportunities. Focus on the pleasure behind the pain—service, growth, meaning—and effort feels lighter. From health battles to business setbacks, we keep returning to the same promise: failure is feedback, not a verdict. Winners never quit, and quitters never win. Define what success means to you, choose the hard that leads there, and see every responsibility as a chance to become who you’re meant to be. If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a nudge, and leave a quick review with your biggest takeaway—what hard will you choose this week?

    52 min

  6. 12/16/2025

    Ask This Before You Say “Yes”: Will I Make Her Happy & Do I Respect Him

    Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening! Before you propose or say yes, ask the question that quietly predicts whether your home will feel safe, warm, and steady years from now. We unpack a counterintuitive truth: the third must-ask question changes depending on whether you’re a man or a woman—and that shift explains why some relationships grow calmer with time while others grind down under small daily frictions. I walk through the men’s filter first: am I willing to make her happy for the rest of her life? Not as a mood, but as a practice that holds through weight gain, career setbacks, emotional valleys, and the chaos of raising kids. Then we turn to the women’s filter: do I respect him? We explore why many men experience respect as oxygen, often ranking it above overt displays of affection. You’ll hear simple, repeatable habits—like pausing a phone call to greet your partner—that send powerful signals of value without costing more than a few seconds. Together, we map real-life scenarios that test love and respect: mismatched ambitions, hobbies you don’t admire, lifestyle differences, and the pressure to remake a partner into a fantasy. You’ll learn the difference between knowledge and wisdom, why small rituals beat grand gestures, and how core needs—attention, affection, appreciation, awareness for her; food, sex, respect for him—create momentum toward trust. If you hesitate on these questions, that hesitation is data. Use it to choose more wisely, or to build better foundations before you commit. If this conversation gave you a clearer lens on love, share it with someone who’s dating, subscribe for more Coach Talks, and leave a quick review to tell us which question hit home for you.

    6 min

  7. 12/10/2025

    Want a Soulmate or a Bedmate? Don't Waste Your Best Years, Or You'll End Up In Tears

    Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening! Too many relationships drift for years without a decision, stealing time and muddying expectations. We pull the curtain back on why “we’ll see” is the most expensive phrase in dating and replace it with a simple, brave framework that keeps your future intact. If you want marriage, you need more than chemistry—you need clarity, standards, and a shared pace. We start by drawing a clean line between two goals: dating for fun versus dating for marriage. When you’re honest about the goal, your bar changes. You stop confusing a good time with a good partner. We introduce the D‑E‑W method—dating, engagement, wedding—as a practical way to avoid drift. Set a reasonable window to assess character, agree on a timeline, and let alignment—not inertia—decide the next step. No ultimatums, just mutual clarity about what you’re building together. We also unpack the comfort trap: how routine and physical intimacy can mask misalignment and lead to seven‑year situationships or marriages formed out of convenience. You’ll hear the markers of true marriage material—integrity under stress, shared values about money and kids, conflict repair, generosity—and how to test them in real life. The stats on divorce and unhappy marriages are sobering, but they aren’t destiny. Purposeful dating flips the odds by filtering quickly and investing deeply where it counts. If you’re tired of mixed signals and lost years, this conversation gives you the words and the plan to move forward with strength. Press play, share it with a friend who needs clarity, and tell us: What timeline and standards are you committing to now? Subscribe, leave a review, and help more people date with purpose.

    4 min

  8. 12/08/2025

    When Hot Fades & the Heart Stays, Everyday's a Sunny Day

    Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!

    7 min
See All (191)

Trailers

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
4 Ratings

About

Coach Ratner is not a matchmaker, but a MateMaker. With 7 books under his belt, Coach Ratner is an accomplished author and sought-after speaker on topics such as relationships, self-esteem and spirituality. His unique insights and captivating speaking style have helped countless individuals achieve their goals and transform their lives.

Information

  • Creator
    By Coach Daniel Ratner
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    191
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Coach Daniel Ratner Podcast
  • Show Website
    The Coach Daniel Ratner Podcast