The Redeemed Man

Paul Amos

The Redeemed Man Podcast features real conversations for real men—honest dialogue that dives into the challenges, doubts, and victories shaping our lives. Hosted by Nate Dewberry, along with Redeemed founder Paul Amos, the podcast brings in voices from all walks of life to explore topics like anxiety, addiction, relationships, leadership, and spiritual growth. As part of The Redeemed’s mission to build a Christ-centered community through authentic connection, meaningful conversations, and shared experiences, each episode offers biblical wisdom and practical encouragement to help men walk with purpose in today’s world.

  1. 4d ago

    Finding the Strength to Persevere

    This week, The Redeemed founder Paul Amos and director Nate Dewberry offer thoughts on the topic of perseverance: How do we do it? Why do we do it? And how do our struggles make us stronger, better people? When Jesus tells the crowd, “My yoke is easy, and my burden is light,” many of us misinterpret that to mean that everything becomes easier when we start following Jesus. While that’s not the case, God does provide the strength to persevere through our challenges, and someone who shoulders our burdens when life becomes too much to bear. We hope this week’s episode shows you a new perspective on the struggles you’ve encountered in your life, and thoughtful guidance for managing those yet to come. Segments/chapters 0:00 Intro 1:43 God can be counted on to reward perseverance with victory 4:49 The longer we have to persevere, the more it means in the end 9:14 Dealing with discomfort and hardship as disciples 13:25 It’s not about things being “easy”—it’s about letting God take control 16:34 How community helps us persevere 19:25 Interlude/small group promo 19:49 Putting our challenges and crises in perspective 24:34 Balancing accountability with encouragement 29:44 Closing thoughts on the gospel of John Find community, deepen your faith, join the brotherhood for free today at theredeemed.com/join. Visit The Redeemed's website for downloadable discussion question sets,  show notes, inspirational articles, more resources, or to share your testimony. Join our Exclusive Newsletter: Signup today and be the first to get notified on upcoming podcasts and new resources! The Redeemed is an organization giving men from all backgrounds a supportive, judgment-free environment, grounded in Christian love without demanding participation in any faith tradition, where they can open up about their challenges, worries, and failures—and celebrate their triumphs over those struggles. Starting Point: https://theredeemed.com/spJoin the Community: https://theredeemed.com/jointrHave a redemption story? Share your redemption story here.Interested in being a guest on our podcast?   Email Nate@theredeemed.comFollow The Redeemed on Social Media:  PodcastYouTubeFacebook...

  2. Sep 24

    Porn, Shame, and the Path to Freedom

    Jordan Castille was a skinny kid who was good at gymnastics and a member of his high school’s cheerleading squad—something it wasn’t easy to be in Texas in the late ’90s. The bullying he experienced, combined with some flawed family relationships, drove him to fill the void with pornography. It was only in college that Jordan came to terms with the damage his addiction was causing and sought help from the Lord. Now happily married with three children, Jordan is a certified Christian counselor who draws on his own experience to coach other men out of a whole host of unhealthy sexual behaviors – including pornography. This week, Redeemed director Nate Dewberry sits down with Jordan to unpack porn addiction – from the brokenness that spawns it to the communities that can help men get “sober”. They discuss dealing with the anger and betrayal a partner might feel when a porn fixation is revealed, as well as how to make peace with the parts of ourselves that once inspired shame. Segments/chapters 0:00 Intro/Jordan’s story 2:43 The roots of Jordan’s brokenness 6:35 When we try but fail to overcome sin and brokenness 15:15 The family issues that can push men toward negative sexual behavior 21:02 What does it mean to be “sober” from porn addiction? 26:07 Dealing with a spouse’s feelings of shock or betrayal 34:06 Making peace with the things we were bullied for 40:06 Closing thoughts for men who are growing hopeless Find community, deepen your faith, join the brotherhood for free today at theredeemed.com/join. Visit The Redeemed's website for downloadable discussion question sets,  show notes, inspirational articles, more resources, or to share your testimony. Join our Exclusive Newsletter: Signup today and be the first to get notified on upcoming podcasts and new resources! The Redeemed is an organization giving men from all backgrounds a supportive, judgment-free environment, grounded in Christian love without demanding participation in any faith tradition, where they can open up about their challenges, worries, and failures—and celebrate their triumphs over those struggles. Starting Point: https://theredeemed.com/spJoin the Community: https://theredeemed.com/jointrHave a redemption story? Share your redemption story here.Interested in being a guest on our podcast?   Email Nate@theredeemed.comFollow The Redeemed on Social Media:  PodcastYouTubeFacebook...

  3. Sep 17

    Do You Know Who Your True Friends Are?

    Kevin Harris led a successful sales career for many years before giving up the business world for a life in ministry. Today he’s with Search Ministries in Atlanta, offering mentorship and spiritual guidance to men, particularly younger men still searching for their true identity in Christ amidst a world full of distractions and false idols. This week Kevin and Redeemed founder Paul Amos have a candid, casual conversation about building community, separating true friendships from superficial ones, and learning how to be vulnerable with other men. Their own longtime friendship is evident as they discuss relationship issues across generational divides with humor and empathy.  Segments/chapters 0:00 Intro 2:17 Being in community, as a member and a leader 7:59 Getting through to a generation that’s been conditioned to posture and perform 15:00 What young men today are “running from” 20:33 Building deeper friendships by replacing ego with empathy 25:52 What we can teach our sons about healthy friendships  33:39 What does it mean to have true strength? 36:46 Closing thoughts on finding community Find community, deepen your faith, join the brotherhood for free today at theredeemed.com/join. Visit The Redeemed's website for downloadable discussion question sets,  show notes, inspirational articles, more resources, or to share your testimony. Join our Exclusive Newsletter: Signup today and be the first to get notified on upcoming podcasts and new resources! The Redeemed is an organization giving men from all backgrounds a supportive, judgment-free environment, grounded in Christian love without demanding participation in any faith tradition, where they can open up about their challenges, worries, and failures—and celebrate their triumphs over those struggles. Starting Point: https://theredeemed.com/spJoin the Community: https://theredeemed.com/jointrHave a redemption story? Share your redemption story here.Interested in being a guest on our podcast?   Email Nate@theredeemed.comFollow The Redeemed on Social Media:  PodcastYouTubeFacebook...

  4. Sep 10

    Having Hard Conversations with God—and Each Other, with Nigel Darius

    His 30th birthday was just around the corner, and Nigel Darius was at a crossroads. He felt like he’d worked hard and done the right things in his twenties, but he didn’t have anything to show for it. He asked God for a new path and a new opportunity, but when God asked him, “Do you believe I can give them to you?” he realized the answer was “No.” Or perhaps more accurately, “Not yet.” From the turmoil of that challenging year, Nigel built a new, stronger relationship with God, and learned lessons about faith, independence, creativity, and community that he shares with Nate Dewberry in this week’s episode of The Redeemed Man. Nigel offers insight into how men can express themselves honestly and broach challenging conversations without driving other people away; he also warns of the dangers of “hyperindependence,” stressing that no matter how independent we want to feel, we’ll always need the wisdom, support, and companionship of others. It’s an episode full of thought-provoking questions you’ll want to share with the important people in your life. Segments/chapters 0:00 Intro/Nigel’s year of spiritual struggle 6:49 Why we have to be willing to question our faith 11:48 No matter how independent we want to feel, we still need others 19:05 Embracing “the discomfort of vulnerability” 24:22 What Nigel is grateful for—and what he’s still waiting for 30:01 The challenges men face in embracing their creative sides 35:39 Expressing ourselves in a way that uplifts our neighbors 42:40 The need to understand the context—and the audience Find community, deepen your faith, join the brotherhood for free today at theredeemed.com/join. Visit The Redeemed's website for downloadable discussion question sets,  show notes, inspirational articles, more resources, or to share your testimony. Join our Exclusive Newsletter: Signup today and be the first to get notified on upcoming podcasts and new resources! The Redeemed is an organization giving men from all backgrounds a supportive, judgment-free environment, grounded in Christian love without demanding participation in any faith tradition, where they can open up about their challenges, worries, and failures—and celebrate their triumphs over those struggles. Starting Point: https://theredeemed.com/spJoin the Community: https://theredeemed.com/jointrHave a redemption story? Share your redemption story here.Interested in being a guest on our podcast?   Email Nate@theredeemed.comFollow The Redeemed on Social Media:  PodcastYouTubeFacebook...

  5. Sep 3

    The Freedom That Comes with Obeying God

    Let’s face it, obedience isn’t a fun topic for most of us. Between an American ethos that prizes individualism and innovation, a culture that pushes indulgence, and a natural human desire to be free from control, we don’t like to feel compelled to follow anyone else’s rules. So how do we break down that resistance and embrace obedience to God? And how can we build in ourselves a desire to heed God’s word, rather than just doing so out of grudging obligation? In this week’s episode, Redeemed founder Paul Amos and director Nate Dewberry examine obedience from a variety of angles, including cultural attitudes toward obedience, “have to” versus “want to,” and the immense benefits of following God’s instructions, even when it’s a challenge. They also discuss the leadership qualities that make people motivated to obey, and how obeying God’s commandments on how to treat one another leads to a greater sense of community—and an infinitely more fulfilling existence. Segments/chapters 0:00 Pre-show chit-chat 5:36 Intro/How culture shapes our views on obedience 11:48 Obeying out of desire vs. performing out of obligation 17:01 Obedience as a path to a stronger relationship with God 22:20 How caring about other people helps us be obedient for the right reasons 28:40 The leadership traits that inspire sincere and willing obedience 31:52 What helps us break down our resistance to obeying God Find community, deepen your faith, join the brotherhood for free today at theredeemed.com/join. Visit The Redeemed's website for downloadable discussion question sets,  show notes, inspirational articles, more resources, or to share your testimony. Join our Exclusive Newsletter: Signup today and be the first to get notified on upcoming podcasts and new resources! The Redeemed is an organization giving men from all backgrounds a supportive, judgment-free environment, grounded in Christian love without demanding participation in any faith tradition, where they can open up about their challenges, worries, and failures—and celebrate their triumphs over those struggles. Starting Point: https://theredeemed.com/spJoin the Community: https://theredeemed.com/jointrHave a redemption story? Share your redemption story here.Interested in being a guest on our podcast?   Email Nate@theredeemed.comFollow The Redeemed on Social Media:  PodcastYouTubeFacebook...

  6. Aug 27

    Forgiveness Is Messy…but It’s Worth It, with Micah Davis

    Micah Davis has more experience with forgiveness than he probably ever wanted to have. The hurtful words spoken over him as a child that stuck with him throughout adolescence, the betrayals by both his father and his godfather, the family secrets that only came to light years later—all of them forced Micah to confront emotional pain at a relatively early age and weigh the cost of reconciliation. Now a pastor and writer based in Indianapolis, Micah has determined that forgiveness, for all its complexity and messiness, is worth it—and he’s expounded on that topic in several books, as well as this week’s episode of The Redeemed Man. Micah and Nate Dewberry unpack the calculus of forgiveness and how admitting our pain is a necessary step in the process; they also discuss the lessons Scripture offers in healing from hurtful words, the challenges of leadership, and how fatherhood can upend the things we think we know about ourselves. Nearly every man, regardless of their age or background, will find something they can relate to in Micah’s life experience—and find wisdom in his insights. Segments/chapters 0:00 Intro/The negative words that stuck with Micah for many years 4:27 Hearing the Holy Spirit after a season of depression and disillusionment 9:41 How we can heal the wounds that hurtful words inflict 17:20 Micah looks back on the past 10 years since returning to the church 23:16 How Micah’s perspective has changed since becoming a dad 28:26 Thoughts on forgiveness, and why Micah wrote a book about it 36:10 We can’t forgive until we’re willing to honestly express our pain 43:11 Balancing leadership responsibilities with the need for human connection Find community, deepen your faith, join the brotherhood for free today at theredeemed.com/join. Visit The Redeemed's website for downloadable discussion question sets,  show notes, inspirational articles, more resources, or to share your testimony. Join our Exclusive Newsletter: Signup today and be the first to get notified on upcoming podcasts and new resources! The Redeemed is an organization giving men from all backgrounds a supportive, judgment-free environment, grounded in Christian love without demanding participation in any faith tradition, where they can open up about their challenges, worries, and failures—and celebrate their triumphs over those struggles. Starting Point: https://theredeemed.com/spJoin the Community: https://theredeemed.com/jointrHave a redemption story? Share your redemption story here.Interested in being a guest on our podcast?   Email Nate@theredeemed.comFollow The Redeemed on Social Media:  PodcastYouTubeFacebook...

  7. Aug 20

    Jason Romano: From ESPN to a Leap of Faith

    For 17 years Jason Romano had what many American men would consider a dream job: working at ESPN producing shows ranging from College Gameday to Monday Night Football broadcasts. So why did he leave it behind to make less money at a startup podcast? For Jason, it was simple: he realized he was drawing too much of his identity from work and not enough from Christ.  Now the host and producer of the “Sports Spectrum” podcast, Jason talks with Nate Dewberry this week about that life change, as well as what started him on a path to discipleship that, nearly two decades later, is ongoing. He offers important advice for men struggling to discuss their faith with family members, as well as people in danger of letting their spiritual path be dictated by strangers online. And yes, there’s some sports talk as well—including inspiring examples of discipleship from this year’s World Cup and Jason’s story of how he built a Christ-centered friendship with one of his childhood baseball idols. Segments/chapters 0:00 Jason’s dream job at ESPN 5:38 Why he decided to take a new path 11:35 The family member who helped turn Jason to Christ 19:29 The challenges, and the urgency, of sharing our faith 24:52 Spiritual transformation needs to be an ongoing process 30:58 Don’t let yourself be discipled by strangers online 34:51 Good examples of discipleship from the soccer world 42:06 Jason’s favorite athlete and most vivid sporting memories 48:54 Sports Spectrum and Jason’s published books Find community, deepen your faith, join the brotherhood for free today at theredeemed.com/join. Visit The Redeemed's website for downloadable discussion question sets,  show notes, inspirational articles, more resources, or to share your testimony. Join our Exclusive Newsletter: Signup today and be the first to get notified on upcoming podcasts and new resources! The Redeemed is an organization giving men from all backgrounds a supportive, judgment-free environment, grounded in Christian love without demanding participation in any faith tradition, where they can open up about their challenges, worries, and failures—and celebrate their triumphs over those struggles. Starting Point: https://theredeemed.com/spJoin the Community: https://theredeemed.com/jointrHave a redemption story? Share your redemption story here.Interested in being a guest on our podcast?   Email Nate@theredeemed.comFollow The Redeemed on Social Media:  PodcastYouTubeFacebook...

  8. Aug 6

    Who’s Informing You—and Forming You? with Terry Parkman

    Where is the church headed, and who will lead it? As a pastor himself, founder of Next Generation Leader, and author of the thoroughly researched book Future Church, Terry Parkman has thought a lot about those questions. In searching for the answers, he’s discovered that what Gen Z wants from life, culture, and faith differs in some surprising ways from what previous generations wanted—and what many churches currently provide. In this week’s episode of The Redeemed Man, Terry talks with Nate Dewberry about the future of the church and how church leaders can adapt to the changing needs of newer generations. They also cover a wide range of topics that will resonate with today’s men, from overcoming self-doubt to re-centering ourselves so that the ways we seek freedom and individuality don’t end up becoming a prison. Segments/chapters 0:00 Intro/What is missiology? 4:06 “What informs us forms us” 9:53 Terry’s thoughts on what’s ahead for the church and how to adapt 15:31 Generational changes in what people expect from the church and from culture 22:35 When the things that are supposed to make us better end up shackling us 27:39 Self-doubt and the spiritual disciplines for overcoming it 35:44 Toward a more meaningful prayer life 41:25 Closing thoughts: hopes and fears Find community, deepen your faith, join the brotherhood for free today at theredeemed.com/join. Visit The Redeemed's website for downloadable discussion question sets,  show notes, inspirational articles, more resources, or to share your testimony. Join our Exclusive Newsletter: Signup today and be the first to get notified on upcoming podcasts and new resources! The Redeemed is an organization giving men from all backgrounds a supportive, judgment-free environment, grounded in Christian love without demanding participation in any faith tradition, where they can open up about their challenges, worries, and failures—and celebrate their triumphs over those struggles. Starting Point: https://theredeemed.com/spJoin the Community: https://theredeemed.com/jointrHave a redemption story? Share your redemption story here.Interested in being a guest on our podcast?   Email Nate@theredeemed.comFollow The Redeemed on Social Media:  PodcastYouTubeFacebook...

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The Redeemed Man Podcast features real conversations for real men—honest dialogue that dives into the challenges, doubts, and victories shaping our lives. Hosted by Nate Dewberry, along with Redeemed founder Paul Amos, the podcast brings in voices from all walks of life to explore topics like anxiety, addiction, relationships, leadership, and spiritual growth. As part of The Redeemed’s mission to build a Christ-centered community through authentic connection, meaningful conversations, and shared experiences, each episode offers biblical wisdom and practical encouragement to help men walk with purpose in today’s world.

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