Cord of Three Podcast

Spencer and Lisa Breedlove

Coaching the Heart. Protecting the Soul. We IGNITE and EMPOWER courageous growth through meaningful conversation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. Feb 2

    EP 126 | How to Deal with Harbored Anger in the Heart

    Hey friends, we just dropped Episode 126—the very first of 2026—and Lisa and I are so excited to share it with you. We dove into something that hits close to home for so many marriages: how harbored anger can quietly clog up the beautiful flow of love and intimacy we’re meant to enjoy. We picture marriage (and our hearts) as safe harbors—places of peace and refuge—but when we store up resentment, it’s like debris blocking the water, choking off warmth and connection. I shared a funny-but-real story from this week: while I was out of town, our HVAC filter got completely clogged and the system couldn’t push out the heat we needed. That’s exactly what unaddressed anger does in a relationship. We tied it to Psalm 103 and God’s incredible mercy that heals and restores. The heart of the episode? Forgiveness unclogs everything. It frees us to harbor love instead of bitterness and lets trust and closeness flow again. Lisa broke it down so practically: forgive first (take the step), forgive fast (don’t let it sit), forgive fully (let it go completely), and forgive freely (extend grace with no strings). We also gave quick updates on our 40 Day Prayer Challenge, our words for the year—FOCUS (Family, Others, Community, Understanding, Self) and OUTDO from 2 Corinthians 8:7—and yeah, we’re still adjusting from sandy St. Maarten back to snowy reality! If this resonates, grab the episode, share it with someone who needs it, and come connect with us on Facebook (Cord Of Three Coaching), Instagram (@cordofthreecoaching), or cordofthreecoaching.com. As always, remember: two are better than one, and a cord of three strands is not easily broken. Grateful for you all—here’s to healthier hearts and stronger marriages in 2026. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  2. 08/18/2025

    #122 | 9 Best Practices to Build Intimacy in Marriage

    This week, Spencer and Lisa center the conversation on simple, repeatable habits that deepen connection, strengthen trust, and build teamwork in marriage: talk, listen, and love with intention. Here are the 9 best practices they share: •Give full attention: remove distractions, make eye contact, and be present when a spouse is speaking. •Praise each other often: notice strengths and speak sincere encouragement regularly. •Use assertiveness and “I” statements: share needs and feelings clearly without blame (e.g., “I feel…”). •Avoid criticism: it erodes trust; raise concerns without put-downs. •Balance critique with positivity: pair any necessary feedback with a positive to keep it constructive. •Listen to understand, not to judge: pursue empathy before defense or correction. •Practice active listening: summarize what was heard before responding to build clarity and trust. •Avoid blame; collaborate on solutions: face problems as a team and co-create next steps. •Use structured conflict resolution: when stuck, get help—marriage coaching provides tools and guardrails. Stay connected with us and continue the conversation!  You can find us on: •Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching •Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching •Web: cordofthreecoaching.com Please share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime…  …Always Remember, that TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  3. 07/31/2025

    EP 120 | Balance vs. Harmony in Life and Work

    Cord of Three Podcast — Episode 120 Summary In Episode 120, Spencer and Lisa explore the powerful theme of Harmony vs Balance in Life and Work, drawing inspiration from the Lead Every Day Podcast with Randy Gravitt and Mark Miller. They share that a fulfilling life isn’t about choosing between balance and harmony—you actually need both. (LISA referenced The Balance Blueprint Episode) Balance is described as a pie chart, representing the intentional and wise management of your time and energy across critical life areas: work, family, health, personal growth, spirituality, and rest. The Breedloves explain that the aim isn’t equal distribution but ensuring no essential area is consistently neglected. Living with balance enables you to “make the most of your time,” referencing Ephesians 5:16 and 1 Chronicles 29:28. Harmony is likened to a symphony—a state where your actions, values, priorities, and relationships flow together. Lisa unpacks the analogy, highlighting that if balance is about where your energy goes, harmony is about how those areas interact and support one another, creating life’s music. To create harmony, Spencer and Lisa recommend: - Clarifying your values and vision - Practicing self-care and presence - Setting healthy boundaries - Expressing gratitude daily - Investing in energizing relationships - Living authentically Upcoming Events - ROUNDUP: Aug 16, 2025 at Crossroads Baptist Church (Social Circle) - AMPLIFY Workshop: Sept 18 & Oct 7, 2025 — Interactive, one-day public speaking/communication experience. For more information and to register: AMPLIFY WORKSHOP - REFUEL Couples Conference: Oct 18, 2025, Honeysuckle Drive/Amy Bowdoin at Whispering Pines at Beck Farms (Graham, AL) -- TICKETS -- FACEBOOK EVENT Connect with Spencer, Lisa, and the Cord of Three Coaching community on Facebook, Instagram (@cordofthreecoaching) or at www.cordofthreecoaching.com. Always Remember: “TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE, AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN.”* Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  4. 07/07/2025

    #119 | Death & Devotion | Lisa throws Spencer under the bus | Spencer's Pet Deer

    Episode 119 of the Cord of Three podcast, “Death and Devotion,” hosted by Spencer and Lisa Breedlove, draws deeply from John Eldredge’s book Resilient and the “30 Days to Resilient” program available through the PAUSE app. The episode unpacks Jesus’ admonition, “Remember Lot’s Wife” from Luke 17, using it as a lens to examine the divided allegiances and unconverted places in our hearts that hinder true resilience and wholehearted devotion to God. Spencer and Lisa explore Eldredge’s central themes: in turbulent times, many try to fit a bit of God around the edges of their busy lives, but the invitation is to reverse this—start with God at the center and let everything else flow outward. They challenge listeners to reflect on where their hearts are divided, what is competing for their allegiance, and what God may be asking them to lay down. Drawing from Eldredge’s model, the episode emphasizes that resilience is cultivated by moving from a fragmented spirituality to a life where union with God IS the epicenter. Listeners are encouraged to use the practical tools found in the PAUSE app’s 30-day journey, which offers daily prayers and guided practices designed to help restore weary souls, heal from trauma, and build spiritual and emotional resilience through small, consistent steps. The Breedlove's guide you to embrace wholehearted devotion to God in their life to be the source of true strength and hope in this life and the next. LINKS:Our Home Church | Night of Worship | Wed. July 9 at 6:30PM Gratis Church 3200 Perry Smith Rd Monroe, GA 30656 Brock Toole -- Satisfied Food Co John Eldredge John Eldredge | Resilient PAUSE APP Speaking Events:ROUND UP: August 16, 2025 Crossroads Baptist Church (Social Circle) AMPLIFY Communication Workshop September and October -- dates coming soon REFUEL Marriage Conference: October 18, 2025 @ Whispering Pines at Beck Farms Hosted by: Amy Bowdoin & Honeysuckle Drive 2.0 (Follow on Facebook) Connect with Cord of Three CoachingFacebook Instagram www.cordofthreecoaching.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Coaching the Heart. Protecting the Soul. We IGNITE and EMPOWER courageous growth through meaningful conversation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.