In this episode 80 of We’re Not Experts Podcast, Tez Reax and Mac Philly current controversies, social norms, and personal boundaries. The hosts share thoughts on a teacher known as “Teacher Bay,” examine societal expectations for professional dress codes (especially in schools), touch on parenting issues, boundaries in relationships, being one’s authentic self, and the shifting culture around male/female interactions. There’s a recurring theme of “live and let live,” as Tez insists on letting others make their own choices without judgment. Major Points of Discussion ✨ Let People Live & Be Judged Less The show begins with a word of wisdom: people should be allowed to live as they see fit, without others passing judgment—especially in controversies like Teacher Bay. The hosts argue that one’s personal or professional appearance doesn’t always undermine their job or character. 👩🏫 Teacher Bay Controversy: Uniform, Professionalism, and Personal Expression Discussion around what’s “acceptable” attire in school settings, particularly when clothing is “skin tight.” They debate whether certain ways of presenting oneself conflict with professional norms, especially when young children are involved. There’s tension between enforcing standards vs allowing self-expression. 📚 Learning & Role of Teachers Tez shares a powerful memory of his 4th-grade teacher, Miss Lavine, as one of the best learning experiences. The point: positive teacher influence often comes from connection and engagement, not from policing attire. They suggest “new culture” might be needed in education—one that balances authenticity with professional decorum. 👨👧 Parenting, Fatherhood & Influence They discuss David Goggins’ public persona and how parental involvement/absence can affect public perception. The topic of parental alienation comes up; the complexity of being a good parent under public scrutiny is examined. 🔑 Boundaries and Optics in Relationships Covers scenarios like ghosting, dating norms, and what people expect from each other. Also, moral/social optics: what does one’s behavior look like to others, and how far should one go to avoid misinterpretation (e.g. communicating one-on-one with someone else’s spouse). 🎤 Toxic Masculinity, Authenticity & Hip-Hop Culture They critique parts of the culture around self-snitching, performing for the audience, letting online crowd pressure or expectations lead people to act inauthentically. The hosts reflect on how authenticity used to mean something different, particularly in hip-hop, and how that is changing ✨If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to like, comment, and subscribe so you don’t miss future episodes. Also, share your thoughts: What do you think about professional dress norms in schools? Where do you draw the line between personal freedom and societal expectations? How important do you think optics are in relationships and public life? Let’s get a conversation going in the comments or wherever you listen to podcasts!
