The Truth About Addiction

Dr. Samantha Harte

Dr. Samantha Harte is a speaker, best selling author, coach and sober mom of two. She is here to tell the truth about her life, which requires telling the truth about her addiction: how it presents, how it manifests, and how it shows up again and again in her recovery. This podcast is one giant deep dive into the truth about ALL TYPES OF addiction (and living sober) to dispel the myths, expose the truths, and create a community experience of worthiness, understanding and compassion.If you are a mompreneur and are looking for a community of like-minded women who are breaking all cycles of dysfunction and thriving in business, family, body image and spiritual well-being, join the waitlist below! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1rXCADAwdxnvpLNYR143KgrGPD0DLT7ExZgLwCR9hiqk/edit

  1. 21H AGO

    Honor The Call: Building Healing Beyond The Body with Dr. Sam

    Send a text A key opens more than a door when the mission behind it is bigger than a workout. We share how StrongHarte Fitness returns—not as another studio—but as a sanctuary built to fuse movement science, nervous system regulation, and identity-level healing under one roof. The journey winds from escaping a broken insurance model to building a cash-based practice, surviving a pandemic pivot, and carrying the weight and wisdom of grief after losing a sister to overdose. That pain sharpened our purpose: people don’t just need sessions; they need continuity, community, and tools that change their days. We talk candidly about starting in a rented apartment, becoming a “glorified landlord,” and realizing the brand wasn’t a room—it was the rigor, compassion, and results people felt. Then comes the twist: a client’s offhand comment leads to a 2,500-square-foot space in Thousand Oaks, zoned for everything we do. Instead of saying yes on adrenaline, we sat with it. What emerged is a clear plan: year one focused on twenty high-touch clients integrating physical therapy, strength, breath, and somatic skills; monthly soulful circles where we listen and teach; quarterly Harte Conscious Creators events; and workshops like yoga for longevity customized to injury history. Along the way, we outline a smarter model—no more renting out rooms that dilute the brand. We dig into why discharging at 60 percent better keeps people stuck, how regulation skills unlock better recovery, and why reframing your story is as important as hip stability or shoulder mechanics. The goal is simple and audacious: people leave different than they arrive, with precise drills, micro-practices for stress, and a narrative that invites agency. If you’ve been craving real change, not just reps, this is your map and your invitation. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs a hopeful reset, and leave a review to help more people find their way to stronger hearts and steadier lives. To book your FREE discovery call with Dr. Sam, click the link below: https://calendly.com/drharte/free-discovery-call-w-dr-harte Support the show #thetruthaboutaddiction #sobriety #the12steps #recovery #therapy #mentalhealth #podcasts #emotionalsobriety #soberliving #sobermindset #spirituality #spiritualgrowth #aa #soberlife #mindfulness #wellness #wellnessjourney #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #sobermovement #recoveroutloud #sobercurious #sobermoms #soberwomen #author #soberauthor #purpose #passion #perspective

    25 min
  2. 6D AGO

    Friendship, Boundaries, And The Art Of Not Self-Abandoning with Ricki Rebel

    Send a text Ever wonder why some friendships survive fire while others burn out fast? We dig into the real mechanics of durable connection: why respect—not chemistry—keeps relationships from collapsing after conflict, and how to stop confusing intensity with intimacy. As artists and builders, we talk candidly about drawing clean lines between business, friendship, and sex, and why fewer, stronger ties can be a sign of healing rather than isolation. We also share a living experiment: launching a Star Academy to train teens for the spotlight with both craft and mindset. From mental rehearsal to lyric anchoring, we unpack practical tools for stage fright, comparison, and anxiety—the same habits that keep adults present under pressure. Along the way, we contrast empty success with “Keanu energy,” the grounded generosity that sustains excellence without sacrificing your soul. Real friends tell you the hard thing, not just the flattering thing, and that feedback lands when we stop tying our worth to perfection. Control, codependency, and enmeshment get honest airtime. We explore how childhood wounds drive us to merge too fast, give too much, and then panic when people don’t fill the void. The pivot is self-trust: stacking “spiritual reference points,” those moments you don’t self-abandon and life turns out better than fear promised. Acceptance helps too; when you stop asking a cat to be a dog, boundaries get cleaner and gratitude grows. We close by returning to dance—the shared ritual that restores identity and joy beneath all the roles. If you’re ready to choose people who lift your soul, build boundaries that protect your art, and practice courage under pressure, hit play now. If this resonated, subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more listeners can find the show. To book your FREE discovery call with Dr. Harte, click the link below: https://calendly.com/drharte/free-discovery-call-w-dr-harte Support the show #thetruthaboutaddiction #sobriety #the12steps #recovery #therapy #mentalhealth #podcasts #emotionalsobriety #soberliving #sobermindset #spirituality #spiritualgrowth #aa #soberlife #mindfulness #wellness #wellnessjourney #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #sobermovement #recoveroutloud #sobercurious #sobermoms #soberwomen #author #soberauthor #purpose #passion #perspective

    51 min
  3. FEB 11

    How Vulnerability Created My Career, My Marriage, And My Mission with Dr. Sam

    Send a text What if the thing you’re most afraid to admit is the key to your freedom? We trace a raw, unguarded journey from chasing fame to facing addiction, from an overdose to a doctoral degree, from a collapsing marriage to a rebuilt life anchored in self-trust. The turning point isn’t a single breakthrough; it’s a practice—reframing the 12 steps through a trauma-informed lens, learning to forgive yourself, and building a regulated nervous system that can hold truth without running. I talk about the Brooklyn beginnings, the go-go dancer detour, and the seductive certainty of school that hid a spiraling habit. Sobriety didn’t magically fix the mess. What changed everything was asking different questions: If I’m powerless over people, the past, and outcomes, what do I actually control? How do I speak to myself when the shame is loud? The answer led to small acts that grew my capacity—decorating a tiny apartment, opening a micro-studio, and crafting a continuum of care that treated both pain and “soul sickness” like codependency, people-pleasing, and hyperproductivity. Loss sharpened the mission. After my sister’s death, I vowed to match grief with equal joy, and that vow pulled me back into dance, into a surprise choreography gig that took me on tour in Japan at 40 with two kids, and into a book that blends story with method. Along the way, I discovered a love for the stage and launched Heart Conscious Creators, an immersive event built on the idea that vulnerability becomes a superpower only when held by self-trust. If shame scrambles the signal, safety restores the sound—and the sound of intuition is clear, calm, and deeply practical. Press play to hear how forgiveness can be a system, not a slogan, why nervous system safety is the ultimate growth strategy, and how to take the smallest brave step that leads to the next. If this resonates, share it with a friend, subscribe for more, and leave a review to help others find the show. Support the show #thetruthaboutaddiction #sobriety #the12steps #recovery #therapy #mentalhealth #podcasts #emotionalsobriety #soberliving #sobermindset #spirituality #spiritualgrowth #aa #soberlife #mindfulness #wellness #wellnessjourney #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #sobermovement #recoveroutloud #sobercurious #sobermoms #soberwomen #author #soberauthor #purpose #passion #perspective

    45 min
  4. FEB 9

    From Adoption And Adversity To Patient-Centered Care with Dr. Stefano Sinicropi

    Send a text What if the moment you’re trying to avoid is the doorway you need? We sit down with Dr. Stefano, a board-certified spine surgeon and healthcare innovator, who opens up about adoption, racism, and the alter ego he used to survive. He traces how secrecy around identity grew into shame, then shows how sitting with pain—rather than outrunning it—became the turning point for a career and a life built on integrity. Across this conversation, we connect personal transformation to practical healing. Stefano shares a harrowing story from his teens, the split-second love that stopped a catastrophic choice, and the slow, steady work of separating events from identity. We explore how “casting votes” for a new self lines up with behavioral science: small, values-based actions rewire loops, reduce shame, and create lasting change. That same approach shapes his practice today. He talks about treating people across the spectrum—patients with Black Panther ties and patients with swastika tattoos—and why authentic presence, respect, and safety can dissolve fear faster than lectures ever will. If you care about addiction recovery, trauma-informed care, and integrative medicine, you’ll find a roadmap here. We discuss why technical skill without deep listening misses the mark, how energy and empathy shift a patient’s nervous system, and what it means to become the CEO of your own health. This is not a highlight reel; it’s a field guide to coherence: say your real name, tell the truth, make the next aligned choice, repeat. Stay to the end for a tease of part two, where we dig into medical training, system incentives, and how to rebuild care so people actually heal. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. Your story might be the spark someone else is waiting for. For more about Dr. Stefano, click below! https://midwestspine.net/providers/stefano-sinicropi/ https://www.instagram.com/doctor.stefano.md To book a FREE discovery call with Dr. Harte, click below! https://calendly.com/drharte/free-discovery-call-w-dr-harte Support the show #thetruthaboutaddiction #sobriety #the12steps #recovery #therapy #mentalhealth #podcasts #emotionalsobriety #soberliving #sobermindset #spirituality #spiritualgrowth #aa #soberlife #mindfulness #wellness #wellnessjourney #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #sobermovement #recoveroutloud #sobercurious #sobermoms #soberwomen #author #soberauthor #purpose #passion #perspective

    1h 1m
  5. JAN 28

    From Police Sergeant To Soulful Coach: What Love Demands In Hard Moments with Michael Graham

    Send a text What if addiction isn’t about the substance, but the pain it numbs—and the patterns we learned to survive? We sit down with Michael Graham—retired police sergeant, former SWAT sniper, actor, and transformational coach—to explore how identity, faith, and disciplined love can transform the hardest moments. From early career missteps and a costly lie to a full-throttle return to integrity, Michael shows how separating who you are from what you did opens the door to repair, recovery, and real leadership. The conversation stretches from behavior science to spiritual practice. We unpack how patterns like control, perfectionism, and martyrdom keep us stuck; why awareness without judgment is the first step; and how to design identity through daily “votes” that align actions with values. Michael shares the routines that kept him capable under pressure—body, mind, and spirit reps—and how the same repetition strengthens compassion as a practical skill. If the word “God” makes you recoil, you’ll still find an accessible path: one word for the day, one action that proves it true, repeated until it sticks. Then comes the moment that ties it all together: a hostage standoff on the Santa Monica Pier, a sniper’s green light, and a surrender measured in pounds of finger pressure. Michael holds two truths in his scope—a man responsible for violence and a human made in the image of God, the son of a mother on scene. He doesn’t take the shot. It’s a masterclass in strength guided by love, the kind of choice that protects others without losing your soul. Walk away with a simple practice that changes everything: ask, “What would love have me do?” Use it in a meeting, at home, or in your own self-talk. If this conversation moved you, subscribe, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a review to help more listeners find the show. To book a FREE discovery call with Dr. Harte, click the link below: https://calendly.com/drharte/free-discovery-call-w-dr-harte To contact Michael Graham, click the link below! https://mindsetmattersconsulting.com/contact/ Support the show #thetruthaboutaddiction #sobriety #the12steps #recovery #therapy #mentalhealth #podcasts #emotionalsobriety #soberliving #sobermindset #spirituality #spiritualgrowth #aa #soberlife #mindfulness #wellness #wellnessjourney #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #sobermovement #recoveroutloud #sobercurious #sobermoms #soberwomen #author #soberauthor #purpose #passion #perspective

    1h 37m
  6. JAN 21

    Friendship Red Flags: Training The Nervous System to Choose Calm Over Chaos with Dr. Sam

    Send a text Ever notice how chaos can feel weirdly like home? I open up about seventeen years of sobriety and the unexpected truth beneath it: I wasn’t just addicted to substances—I was addicted to safety. That craving started in childhood, where asking a simple question risked love and silence bought me proximity. Those early lessons built a blueprint for codependency that followed me into adulthood, where intensity masqueraded as intimacy and breadcrumbs passed for connection. I break down how old survival strategies show up in modern friendships—overgiving, oversharing, ignoring red flags—and why our nervous systems cling to what’s familiar even when it hurts. Then we dig into two anchors that changed everything: focus on repair over rupture when both people meet you halfway, and honor the boundary that says what cannot be repaired must be mourned. Grief becomes an act of protection, not defeat, and a path back to a self we abandoned to stay safe. Across this conversation, I share how staying awake in hard seasons turns pain into a growth spurt, how re-parenting teaches the body a new baseline of calm, and why choosing yourself is the most reliable source of safety you’ll ever find. If you’ve ever chased validation, confused intensity for love, or kept negotiating with your worth, this one will feel like a mirror and a map. Subscribe, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review to help others find the show. And if you want support applying this work to your life, tap the link in the show notes to book a free discovery call. To book your FREE discovery call with Dr. Sam, click the link below: https://calendly.com/drharte/free-discovery-call-w-dr-harte Support the show #thetruthaboutaddiction #sobriety #the12steps #recovery #therapy #mentalhealth #podcasts #emotionalsobriety #soberliving #sobermindset #spirituality #spiritualgrowth #aa #soberlife #mindfulness #wellness #wellnessjourney #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #sobermovement #recoveroutloud #sobercurious #sobermoms #soberwomen #author #soberauthor #purpose #passion #perspective

    17 min
  7. JAN 8

    Building A Spiritual Vessel That Can Hold Your Success with Dr. Samantha Harte

    Send a text What if the problem isn’t your goals, but the vessel meant to hold them? We dive into the gap between outer success and inner steadiness, tracing a path from relentless hustling to embodied healing. A live event about Internal Family Systems and a chance encounter with David Guillaume became a turning point, reinforcing a hard-won truth: real change starts at the center—spirit, heart, and mindset—not at the edges of achievement. I share what years in clinical practice quietly revealed: many high-functioning, high-achieving people carry soul sickness beneath polished lives. As a physical therapist, I watched how trust, listening, and being seen softened pain before any exercise did. Then I connect those observations to personal milestones and fractures—addiction and recovery, perfectionism dressed up as productivity, a marriage that couldn’t survive old survival strategies, and the devastating loss of my sister, who seemed to have it all. These stories aren’t drama; they’re data. They show how external abundance without inner integration can become unbearable. Together, we unpack the difference between hustling and healing. They can look similar on the surface—busy routines, stacked goals—but they feel different in the body. Hustling chases worth; healing expresses it. You’ll hear simple, practical ways to strengthen your spiritual vessel: daily stillness to sense your baseline, breath that slows the nervous system, intentional movement that releases held tension, writing that gives voice to your parts, and honest repair that rebuilds trust. Keep your 2026 goals. But ask the deeper question each day: how will I strengthen my capacity to receive, hold, and enjoy what I seek? If this resonates, share the episode with someone who needs it, subscribe for more grounded conversations on recovery and growth, and leave a review to help us reach others who are ready to build from the center out. To book a FREE discovery call with Dr. Sam, click the link below: https://calendly.com/drharte/free-discovery-call-w-dr-harte Support the show #thetruthaboutaddiction #sobriety #the12steps #recovery #therapy #mentalhealth #podcasts #emotionalsobriety #soberliving #sobermindset #spirituality #spiritualgrowth #aa #soberlife #mindfulness #wellness #wellnessjourney #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #sobermovement #recoveroutloud #sobercurious #sobermoms #soberwomen #author #soberauthor #purpose #passion #perspective

    19 min
  8. JAN 6

    Momentum Over More: How To Trust What You Know with Dr. Sam

    Send a text What if the next level isn’t another course but the courage to use what you already know? I’m sharing a raw New Year reflection on choosing momentum over accumulation—how a year defined by adventure and guided by discernment exposed my money patterns in grief, and why implementation is my north star for 2026. This is a story about sobriety beyond substances, the spiritual whack-a-mole that follows healing, and the quiet strength it takes to sit with fear instead of outsourcing decisions to the loudest promise. I name the work I’m claiming: holistic, trauma-informed physical therapist, bestselling author, and keynote speaker. Those pillars shape my plan to keep serving, speak until speaking pays, and open a brick-and-mortar wellness sanctuary built for mind, body, and spirit—scaled with intention, not urgency. When scarcity urges me to buy the shortcut, I’m pausing, praying, and letting my intuition lead. Momentum here is not speed; it’s consistent action in one direction, compounded by trust. We walk through practical questions for discernment—why invest, what will I implement, what can I release—and how to build a personal flywheel: clear offers, dependable delivery, clean boundaries, and courageous follow-up. I share the griefs that derailed me—betrayal, motherhood’s intensity, miscarriage, losing my father and sister—and the faith that steadies me now. If you’ve been caught between healing and hustling, if you’ve ever tried to buy relief instead of feeling what hurts, this conversation is your invitation to breathe, choose the next honest step, and let momentum carry you. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review with your word for 2026—we’ll read our favorites on the show. To book a FREE discovery call, click the link below: https://calendly.com/drharte/free-discovery-call-w-dr-harte Support the show #thetruthaboutaddiction #sobriety #the12steps #recovery #therapy #mentalhealth #podcasts #emotionalsobriety #soberliving #sobermindset #spirituality #spiritualgrowth #aa #soberlife #mindfulness #wellness #wellnessjourney #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #sobermovement #recoveroutloud #sobercurious #sobermoms #soberwomen #author #soberauthor #purpose #passion #perspective

    21 min
5
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11 Ratings

About

Dr. Samantha Harte is a speaker, best selling author, coach and sober mom of two. She is here to tell the truth about her life, which requires telling the truth about her addiction: how it presents, how it manifests, and how it shows up again and again in her recovery. This podcast is one giant deep dive into the truth about ALL TYPES OF addiction (and living sober) to dispel the myths, expose the truths, and create a community experience of worthiness, understanding and compassion.If you are a mompreneur and are looking for a community of like-minded women who are breaking all cycles of dysfunction and thriving in business, family, body image and spiritual well-being, join the waitlist below! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1rXCADAwdxnvpLNYR143KgrGPD0DLT7ExZgLwCR9hiqk/edit