Wives Who War Podcast

Wives Who War

Wives Who War Podcast equips wives to WAR—PRAY—for their husbands, not against them. Rooted in Ephesians 6:12, we remind wives that the real battle is spiritual—not flesh and blood. This podcast activates the authority of the Wife Who Wars: a woman who understands her identity, stands watch in prayer, and fights from alignment—not emotion. More than a podcast, this is a call to intercession, spiritual maturity, and Kingdom authority—where wives are refined, sharpened, and fortified to build marriages that honor God. This is where prayer becomes strategy. Strategy begins in prayer.

  1. 1d ago

    MATURITY: Show Your Work

    We came back to the Table to finish our conversation about TRANSITION—but what God showed us was why MATURITY had to come next. September taught us how to move with God through transition: to relinquish control, walk through grief, allow Him to reveal what is underneath, endure reconstruction, and surrender to transformation. But October brings another question: What did the transition produce in you? Because spiritual maturity isn't simply about knowing more. There should be evidence. There should be fruit. At the Table, we talked about the difference between surface cleaning and getting the core out. Some things cannot simply be covered, managed, or temporarily cleaned up. If the root remains, it can return. And sometimes maturity requires allowing God to perform the deeper work—the kind that reaches what we have learned to live with, work around, or hide. We also discovered that “there's a settlement in the relinquish.” When we truly release our claim to control and surrender it to God, something begins to settle within us. And then came the challenge: SHOW YOUR WORK. Just like math class, knowing the answer isn't enough. Where is the scratch paper? Where is the process? Where is the application? Can I forgive when forgiveness is required?Can I obey when obedience costs me something?Can I wait well while I'm going through?Can I respond differently when the same trigger shows up again? Because maturity isn't perfection. Sometimes the clearest evidence of maturity is simply this: The situation may be the same—but my response is different. The Table said it plainly: “Put that practice in.” And later, “Let us be doers of the word and not just hearers only!” So, October begins with a challenge to move beyond information into application. September was the transition. October is asking us to show the fruit. October Theme: MATURITYHeart Share: Show Your WorkA Seat at the Queen's Table | Wives Who War

    MATURITY: Show Your Work
  2. 5d ago

    TRANSITION: Show Your Work

    We came to the Table intending to wrap up September. We didn’t. 😂 Instead, as Denise and Latisha “Tee” Bowen began walking back through a month of Transition, the Table became a place of reflection, testimony, and application. We revisited what God has been teaching us: movement does not always mean progression. Sometimes obedience means moving. Sometimes it means being still. Transition is a place. Transformation must happen within it. And even the painful parts cannot simply be skipped—we have to walk through them while remaining faithful. As the conversation moved through grief, surrender, control, and releasing what we may never receive closure for, one word emerged: Relinquish. To voluntarily—or reluctantly—give up control, possession, or our claim to something and place it back into the hands of God. The Table captured that moment plainly: “Relinquish. Release it God.” Then, just as we prepared to park the conversation until Friday, Tre’ gave us the language that brought the entire morning together: SHOW YOUR WORK. Like math class, having the answer isn't enough. You have to show how you got there. We can hear the Word.Take the notes.Know the Scriptures.Receive the revelation. But at some point, there has to be application. Transition requires us to work through what God has been teaching us—not skip the process just because we already know the answer. As the Table said, “we gotta marinate on the previous lessons” and then comes “Application!” And perhaps that is why we couldn't rush the wrap-up. Because before we move from TRANSITION into MATURITY, God is asking us: Did you do the work? There are no shortcuts to maturity. So we're parking right here. We'll come back to the Table and finish the journey—but in the meantime: Show. Your. Work. September Theme: TRANSITION — Move With GodScripture Anchors: Psalm 46:10; Romans 8:28Table Truth: God doesn't waste pain. You're going to have to go through it while staying faithful.

    TRANSITION: Show Your Work
  3. Sep 25

    TRANSITION: I Choose to Be Transformed

    Transition may change where you are. But transformation changes who you are. In this Heart Share, Gwendolyn Holloway takes us deeper into the process of transformation and challenges us to recognize that asking God to change us also requires something from us: Our surrender.Our willingness.Our choice. Transformation requires us to get out of the way, relinquish our will, and allow God to do the work that cannot happen if we continue resisting Him. Because there is a beginning. There is an ending. But there is also the middle. And the middle is where the process happens. Through Romans 12:2, the prodigal son, the stages of metamorphosis, and the refining process, Gwendolyn reminds us that we cannot finish the race without completing the course. Transformation exposes what must die, what must be renewed, and what must be surrendered so that we can become who God intended us to be. The prodigal son eventually “came to himself,” and the Table saw a powerful progression: Repentance.Transformation.Restoration. The old gives way to the new. Free will yields to God's will. And what happens in the middle begins to produce evidence on the outside. But transformation is not always comfortable. There may be shedding. There may be sacrifice. There may be fiery trials and refining. There may be stages where you don't yet look like what you're becoming. Still, God has an expected end. So, the question becomes: Will I resist the process—or will I surrender to it? This Table's declaration is simple: I choose to surrender.I choose to go through.I choose to become.I choose to be transformed. Because sometimes the greatest transition is the one that moves us from our will to God's will. Scripture Anchors: Romans 12:2; Acts 7:51; Luke 15:11–32; 2 Corinthians 5:17; Colossians 3:10; 1 Peter 4:12 September Theme: Transition — Move With God Heart Share: Gwendolyn Holloway

    TRANSITION: I Choose to Be Transformed
  4. Sep 18

    TRANSITION: Triumph Through the Transition

    Transition can be uncomfortable. The terrain can change.What once felt familiar can suddenly feel uncertain.And sometimes, what God is doing doesn’t look anything like what we expected. But in this Heart Share, Veleta Whitfield reminds us of something we cannot afford to forget: God can be trusted in the transition. Through 2 Corinthians 4:16–18, Psalm 121:5–8, and Isaiah 43:18–19, Veleta calls us to take our eyes off what is temporary and visible and anchor ourselves in the promises of a God who already knows the end from the beginning. And with a simple pair of transitional lenses, she gave the Table a picture we could carry with us: as the environment changes, the lenses adjust to provide the protection needed for that environment. In the same way, we are never navigating transition alone. God is present.God is protecting.God is providing.And God knows exactly what this season requires. Then the Table opened—and the revelation kept moving. What will be the fragrance coming from us while we transition? Can we trust God when transition feels lonely? Can we recognize that the shedding, pressing, agitation, and reconstruction may actually be evidence that God is producing something new? The women began to see transition as a place of renewal, preparation, unlocking, shedding, strengthening, and producing oil—even describing it as being “Open during RE-construction.” Because we may go into transition one way... but when we yield to what God is doing, we will not come out the same. So hold on. Declare His promises. Trust His protection. Praise Him while you’re going through. And remember: There is another side to the transition. We are not merely trying to survive it. We are learning how to triumph through it. 👑 Scripture Anchors: 2 Corinthians 4:16–18; Psalm 121:5–8; Isaiah 43:18–19; Isaiah 46:10; 2 Corinthians 2:14September Theme: Transition — Move With GodHeart Share: Veleta Whitfield

    TRANSITION: Triumph Through the Transition
  5. Sep 11

    TRANSITION: Don’t Just Move — Be Transformed

    Heart Share By: Takeia WattsTransition can move you into a new season. But transformation changes you for the new season. In this Heart Share, Takeia Watts takes us deeper into September’s theme of Transition by revealing a critical distinction: You can transition without being transformed. You can enter a new season with old mindsets. A new opportunity with old insecurities. A new season of marriage with old reactions. A new place while still carrying the same familiar patterns. Through the life of Peter, Romans 12:2, the chrysalis, and the pressing of the olive, Takeia reminds us that God is not only interested in changing where we are. He wants to change who we are. And sometimes failure reveals the very place where transformation is still needed. Sometimes pressure exposes what was already there. Sometimes familiarity looks attractive simply because transition is uncomfortable. But familiar does not always mean fruitful. So the prayer becomes: “Lord, don’t just change my season. Change me in the season.” This Table also challenges us to surrender what cannot travel with us, resist being governed by our feelings, and allow God to purify, mature, and prepare us for what is next. Because there is a version of us that cannot go where God is taking us. And there is a transformed version of us He is calling forward. Don’t just move.Be transformed. Scripture Anchors: John 1:42; Luke 22:31–32; John 21:15–19; Romans 12:2; 2 Corinthians 12:9; 2 Samuel 22:34

    TRANSITION: Don’t Just Move — Be Transformed
  6. Sep 7

    TRANSITION: DON’T MISS HERE - Be Faithful In The Place Between

    Transition is not simply the space between where you were and where you are going. Transition is a place. On this Labor Day edition of A Seat at the Queen’s Table, Latisha “Tee” Bowen challenges us not to become so focused on there that we miss what God is doing here. We often want to jump from A to B. But Tee reminds us that there is a place after A and before B—a place of doors, opportunities, fine-tuning, consecration, and what she calls “prosperous growth.” And God’s instruction in that place is simple: Be faithful here. Through Colossians 3:2, Proverbs 16:9, and Isaiah 30:21, we are reminded to set our affection on things above, allow the Lord to direct our steps, and listen closely for His turn-by-turn instruction: “This is the way, walk ye in it.” Then the Table opened—and the revelation kept building. We talked about marination. The cocoon. Pressure that builds spiritual muscle. Crushing that produces oil. Clearing the table. Decluttering the heart. Releasing what cannot travel into the next season. And refusing to rush out of a place before God has completed what He intended to do there. Because some things must be worked out here before we can carry what God has prepared there. So don’t despise the in-between. Don’t hurry the process. Don’t keep looking over your shoulder. And whatever you do— DON’T MISS HERE. Be faithful in the place between. Scripture Anchors: Colossians 3:2; Proverbs 16:9; Isaiah 30:21

    TRANSITION: DON’T MISS HERE - Be Faithful In The Place Between

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Wives Who War Podcast equips wives to WAR—PRAY—for their husbands, not against them. Rooted in Ephesians 6:12, we remind wives that the real battle is spiritual—not flesh and blood. This podcast activates the authority of the Wife Who Wars: a woman who understands her identity, stands watch in prayer, and fights from alignment—not emotion. More than a podcast, this is a call to intercession, spiritual maturity, and Kingdom authority—where wives are refined, sharpened, and fortified to build marriages that honor God. This is where prayer becomes strategy. Strategy begins in prayer.