The Super Daddy Club

Lendo Mutambala & Ryan Ball

Welcome to The Super Daddy Club podcast, a premier family program tailored for parents eager to expand their knowledge and enhance their parenting repertoire. Our podcast explores diverse parenting dynamics, with a keen interest in the evolving role of fathers in raising children. Our mission is to empower men to transition and excel in their responsibilities as Fathers. Join us on this enlightening journey as we engage with seasoned professionals who offer invaluable insights into understanding ourselves in the context of nurturing healthy and resilient children. Embrace the opportunity to be an active participant in this transformative learning experience. Together, let's embark on a path of growth and fulfillment in the realm of parenthood.

  1. Why You're Not Developing Like You Think: Kegan's Model Revealed with David Arrell

    12/26/2025

    Why You're Not Developing Like You Think: Kegan's Model Revealed with David Arrell

    Let us know what you think of the episode by pressing this link - Thank you for your comments In the first of a 3 part series , David Arrell discusses the significance of adult developmental theory, exploring how individuals can navigate their personal growth and relationships. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's identity and the various stages of development that shape our experiences. The conversation delves into the dimensions of betterment - health, depth, and growth - and how they interconnect in our lives. David also addresses the impact of culture on our development and the necessity of facing challenges to foster personal growth.  The episode concludes with a call for listeners to engage with their own developmental journeys and the importance of seeking wisdom in a complex world.  Highlighted Course Attuned: Claim the Life You Mean to Live : https://integrallife.com/attunement/ Led by Zen priest Keith Martin-Smith and author and leadership coach David Arrell, this course offers a practical operating system for your life. It blends clear, rational tools with deeper work on the nervous system, unconscious habits, and the patterns shaping your behavior beneath the surface. Listener exclusive: Use code Super20 for 15% off. Course begins January 13, 2026. Enrollment is limited. Support the show Breth 15% discount SDC Connects Instagram YouTube TikTok LinkedIn Discord Email

    1h 7m
  2. Struggling to Find a Way: Why Tough Love is Destroying At Risk Youth with Preston Adams

    12/12/2025

    Struggling to Find a Way: Why Tough Love is Destroying At Risk Youth with Preston Adams

    Let us know what you think of the episode by pressing this link - Thank you for your comments  Preston Adams, a lifelong Aurora, Colorado native with nearly two decades of experience in youth violence prevention, has worked across classrooms, gyms, detention settings, and community based programs supporting gang and system involved young people. Now leading the Youth Violence Prevention program for the City and County of Denver, Preston brings a rare perspective shaped by both frontline work and navigating the limits of the justice system itself.  In this episode of the Super Daddy Club, Preston and Lendo examine the realities facing young people caught in cycles of incarceration, immigration stress, trauma, and structural neglect. They break down why “tough love” and scare-based approaches like Scared Straight consistently fail, and how dehumanization within the juvenile justice system often deepens harm rather than preventing it. The conversation moves beyond trauma-informed language toward healing-centered care, emphasizing the importance of time, developmental understanding, and sustained community support.  Together, they explore how real accountability paired with compassion, relationship-based mentorship, indigenous healing practices, and community-rooted solutions offer a more effective path forward. One that addresses the root causes of harm, preserves dignity, and creates the conditions for lasting change.  Support the show Breth 15% discount SDC Connects Instagram YouTube TikTok LinkedIn Discord Email

    1h 21m
  3. The Great Autism Debate: RFK jr. Vs The Science Leader - Dr. Robert Melillo Weighs In

    11/15/2025

    The Great Autism Debate: RFK jr. Vs The Science Leader - Dr. Robert Melillo Weighs In

    Let us know what you think of the episode by pressing this link - Thank you for your comments In the first part of this episode we open with a powerful conversation unpacking U.S. Human Health Secretary (HHS), Robert F. Kennedy Jr’s (RFK Jr), recent statements about autism which have sparked heated debate in the medical and parenting communities. From a recent YouTube video titled “Autism Science Leader Reacts to RFK Jr.'s Misinformation”, we break down the core scientific disagreements and examine what both sides are really saying. You can find the link below as well as a summary of their arguments. But most importantly we asked Dr Robert Melillo to weigh in and expand on the arguments being made. We spent about 40 minutes dissecting a 6 minute video so stay tuned. Dr. Robert Melillo then discusses the complexities of autism, emphasizing the interplay between genetics and environmental factors. He critiques the notion that autism is solely a genetic disorder, arguing instead for a multifaceted understanding that includes epigenetics and developmental milestones. The discussion also touches on the rising prevalence of autism and the implications of environmental toxins, such as glyphosate, on brain health. In this conversation, Dr. Robert Melillo discusses the complexities of autism, emphasizing the distinction between genetic and epigenetic factors, the impact of environmental influences, and the importance of preconception health. He addresses the rising rates of autism, the multifaceted nature of the disorder, and the potential for treatment and change. The discussion also touches on the concept of functional disconnection syndrome and the need for better understanding and research in the field. 🎥 Watch Part 1 with Dr. Melillo: https://www.youtube.com/live/PX1Te3Gm0Pw 📘 Learn more about Dr. Melillo: https://www.drrobertmelillo.com 🌐 More episodes and resources: https://www.superdaddyclub.ca 👥 Co-hosting Disconnected Kids, Reconnected Families: https://drrob.yourhometv.com/ 🔗 SDC Exclusive: https://www.drrobertmelillo.com/superdaddy/ Support the show Breth 15% discount SDC Connects Instagram YouTube TikTok LinkedIn Discord Email

    55 min
  4. What's behind the rise in Autism and ADHD with Dr. Robert Melillo

    10/15/2025

    What's behind the rise in Autism and ADHD with Dr. Robert Melillo

    Let us know what you think of the episode by pressing this link - Thank you for your comments In this episode of the Super Daddy Club podcast, we sit down with Dr. Robert Melillo, a world-renowned expert in brain health and developmental disorders. As a clinician, professor, brain researcher, and bestselling author of Disconnected Kids, Dr. Melillo has dedicated his life to understanding and treating conditions such as ADHD, autism, OCD, tics, and anxiety. Dr. Melillo introduces us to the science behind Functional Disconnection Syndrome (FDS) and the concept of brain imbalance. We explore early childhood brain development, the rise in neurodevelopmental disorders, and how environmental and immune system factors shape neurological outcomes. He also shares insights into diagnostic red flags, the role of primitive reflexes, and the limitations of traditional treatment. We dive deep into his signature multimodal treatment approach known as The Melillo Method, which has helped thousands of children and adults globally. Topics Covered: - The evolution of autism and ADHD discourse - Causes behind the rising rates of neurological disorders - How brain hemispheres develop and become unbalanced - Functional Brain Disconnection Syndrome explained - Early signs of autism and ADHD - Risks of early medication for children - Why traditional diagnoses may overlook root causes - The Melillo Method and its clinical applications - Who benefits from multimodal brain therapies - Dr. Melillo's vision for the future of brain health treatment This episode is essential for parents, educators, clinicians, and anyone seeking a deeper understanding of how the brain works-and how it can heal. Support the show Breth 15% discount SDC Connects Instagram YouTube TikTok LinkedIn Discord Email

    56 min
  5. Navigating Family Law with Dr. Sonya Willis & Rose Al-Kahili: Challenges, Rights, and Responsibilities in Court​

    09/12/2025

    Navigating Family Law with Dr. Sonya Willis & Rose Al-Kahili: Challenges, Rights, and Responsibilities in Court​

    Let us know what you think of the episode by pressing this link - Thank you for your comments In this important episode, we dive deep into the complexities of family law with legal experts Dr. Sonya Willis and Rose Al-Kahili from Australia. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating the family court system, particularly fathers, as we explore the challenges and misconceptions within the legal process. From Rights to Responsibilities: We challenge the common belief that parents have "rights" to a child, explaining that the law is focused on the parent's responsibilities to ensure the child's best interests.The Adversarial System: We discuss the problematic, combative nature of the family court system and how it can hinder peaceful resolutions, even with the option of mediation.The Challenge of Self-Representation: The experts shed light on the difficulties faced by the over 25% of litigants who represent themselves, and the urgent need for increased legal aid funding.The Origins of "No-Fault" Divorce: We look back at Australia's historic 1975 reform that made divorce less contentious and its lasting impact on co-parenting.This is a powerful episode that combines a personal perspective with professional legal analysis, offering critical insights into a system that affects so many families. Support the show Breth 15% discount SDC Connects Instagram YouTube TikTok LinkedIn Discord Email

    1h 22m

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Welcome to The Super Daddy Club podcast, a premier family program tailored for parents eager to expand their knowledge and enhance their parenting repertoire. Our podcast explores diverse parenting dynamics, with a keen interest in the evolving role of fathers in raising children. Our mission is to empower men to transition and excel in their responsibilities as Fathers. Join us on this enlightening journey as we engage with seasoned professionals who offer invaluable insights into understanding ourselves in the context of nurturing healthy and resilient children. Embrace the opportunity to be an active participant in this transformative learning experience. Together, let's embark on a path of growth and fulfillment in the realm of parenthood.