Find The Joy With Jenn LDS Divorce Podcast

Jenn Zingmark
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Hi there, I'm Jenn, I am an experienced, certified professional Latter-day Saint life and divorce coach who mentors men and women in challenging times to find joy through faith-filled coaching. I can help you find the joy in your journey!

  1. 12h ago

    244. 5 Lies Divorce Makes You Believe About Yourself

    5 Lies Divorce Makes You Believe About Yourself What if some of the most painful things you believe about your divorce aren't actually true? After reading thousands of comments and having countless conversations with people navigating divorce, I've noticed something interesting. Different people, different marriages, different circumstances, but so many of the same painful beliefs. "I'll never trust again." "My kids are ruined." "God abandoned me." "My marriage failed because I wasn't enough." "I'll always be alone." Sound familiar? In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, we're unpacking five common beliefs that can keep you stuck in shame, fear, and hopelessness after divorce. I'll coach you through each one and help you recognize the difference between what happened to you and what you've made it mean about yourself. We'll explore how to rebuild trust, release guilt about your children, reconnect with God when your prayers weren't answered the way you hoped, and stop allowing your divorce to define your worth or determine your future. Your divorce may have changed your life, but it doesn't get to decide who you are or what happens next. Whether you're navigating separation, healing after divorce, or rebuilding your life and faith, this conversation will help you begin questioning the beliefs keeping you from moving forward. You can grieve what you've lost, trust God with what you don't understand, and still find joy in the journey. Ready for more support on your healing journey? Download my FREE guide, 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before My LDS Divorce, to help you navigate divorce with greater clarity, confidence, and hope. https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/divorce-resources Learn more about The Joyful Covenant Woman: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/ More divorce resources: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/divorce-resources YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  2. Sep 21

    243. Can Trust Be Rebuilt After Betrayal with Geoff Steurer

    What happens when the person you trusted most breaks that trust? Can a marriage heal after betrayal? How do you know if you're seeing genuine change or just hearing more promises? In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, Jenn sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Geoff Steurer, who has more than 25 years of experience helping individuals and couples heal from betrayal, trauma, and disconnection. Together, they talk about what rebuilding trust actually requires, why forgiveness doesn't automatically mean trust or reconciliation, how to recognize genuine accountability and change, and what healthy boundaries can look like after betrayal. They also discuss how to rebuild trust in yourself, what to consider when you're unsure whether to stay or leave, and how faith can support healing while still making room for therapy, accountability, and personal responsibility. And for those whose marriages didn't survive betrayal, Geoff shares insight into healing without the answers, apology, or closure you hoped to receive, and learning to trust again moving forward. Whether you're fighting for your marriage, deciding what comes next, or rebuilding your life after divorce, this conversation will help you better understand what healing and healthy trust can look like. Want to learn more from Geoff? Learn more about Geoff, his work, and the resources he offers here: https://www.geoffsteurer.com/about-geoff-steurer Follow Jenn: Website: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@findthejoywithjenn • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  3. Sep 14

    242. What My Injury Taught Me About Healing After Divorce

    Can you be hurting more than you realize, even when you think you’re doing okay? After months of pushing through recurring plantar fasciitis, my plantar fascia suddenly ruptured on the pickleball court. One minute I was playing the match of my life, and the next I couldn’t walk. Now I’m in a boot, on a scooter, and being forced to slow down and let my body heal. And it got me thinking about divorce. So many of us learn how to function through pain. We work, parent, go to church, exercise, take care of everyone else, and keep moving forward. We tell ourselves we’re fine because we’re still functioning. But underlying pain doesn’t always disappear just because we’ve learned how to live with it. In this episode, I’m sharing what my injury is teaching me about recognizing the warning signs, getting the right help, and the important difference between managing pain and actually healing. We’ll also talk about how prolonged divorce stress can affect your physical and emotional health, why support matters, and how faith, professional help, and divorce coaching can help you take your next right step. You don’t have to wait until something in your life “pops” to decide it deserves your attention. FREE GUIDE: 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before My LDS Divorce If you’re navigating separation or divorce, download my free, faith-centered guide to help you feel more grounded, clear, and supported as you move forward. Get your free guide: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/5-things-i-wish-i-knew-before-guide Learn more about The Joyful Covenant Woman: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/ More divorce resources: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/divorce-resources YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  4. Sep 7

    241. Why Faithful Women Stay in Unhappy Marriages

    Why do so many faithful Christian and Latter-day Saint women feel trapped in unhappy marriages, even when they deeply believe in marriage, family, and honoring their covenants? Sometimes it’s finances. Sometimes it’s children, geography, fear of starting over, spiritual pressure, or worrying about what other people will think. And sometimes, without even realizing it, a woman can begin to believe, “I don’t have a choice.” In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, we’re talking about the difference between choosing to stay in your marriage and believing you have no choice but to stay. We’ll explore some of the hidden reasons women feel stuck, how controlling behaviors can slowly affect your sense of self, and why recognizing your agency doesn’t automatically mean leaving your marriage. You can love God, honor your covenants, believe deeply in marriage, and still be honest about what isn’t working. You can work on your marriage while also becoming stronger, wiser, more confident, and more connected to God. FREE GUIDE: 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before My LDS Divorce If you’re navigating separation or divorce, download my free, faith-centered guide to help you feel more grounded, clear, and supported as you move forward. Get your free guide: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/5-things-i-wish-i-knew-before-guide Learn more about The Joyful Covenant Woman: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/ More divorce resources: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/divorce-resources YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  5. Aug 31

    240. You Don’t Need More Divorce Advice. You Need This

    What are the questions about divorce you’re afraid to say out loud? Will I ever love again? Did God want my divorce? Should I have stayed longer? Could I have done more? Can my marriage still be saved? Will my children resent me? What if I’m actually happier divorced? And will I ever recognize myself again? In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, we’re talking honestly about some of the hardest questions Christian and Latter-day Saint men and women face before, during, and after divorce. There aren’t always simple answers. But there are healthier questions we can ask, lessons we can learn, and ways to move forward without abandoning our faith or spending years second-guessing the past. We’ll talk about reconciliation, regret, dating your ex, children and divorce, finding love again, rebuilding your identity, and most importantly, learning to trust God when your life looks nothing like you thought it would. Divorce may be part of your story, but it does not get to write the final chapter. God has not given up on you, and your best days do not have to be behind you. Listen now and share this episode with someone who may be asking these same questions. If you're looking for personalized guidance, I'd love to meet with you for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session. Together, we'll bring clarity to your situation and create a practical plan to help you move forward with confidence. Learn more here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session Follow Jenn: Website: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@findthejoywithjenn • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  6. Aug 24

    239. What If the Change You're Waiting For Begins With You with Bob Smith

    What if the change you’re waiting for doesn’t begin with your spouse, your relationship status, or your circumstances? What if it begins with you? In this episode, I’m joined by fellow coach Bob Smith, creator of Become the Captain, for a conversation about the power of working on yourself and becoming the person you want to be, regardless of what someone else chooses. Whether you’re struggling in your marriage, considering divorce, separated, divorced, or navigating a new chapter of life, there is still so much within your power to change. Bob and I share success stories from men and women we’ve worked with and talk about personal responsibility, people-pleasing, boundaries, emotional health, faith, communication, and what can happen in our relationships when we begin showing up differently. We also dive into some of the harder relationship issues, including sexless marriages and how couples can begin rebuilding trust, intimacy, connection, and passion. This fall, Bob will lead men through his 12-week Become the Captain program, while I’ll lead women through my 12-week program, The Joyful Covenant Woman, designed to help women reclaim joy, peace, and confidence in their lives and relationships. Learn more about The Joyful Covenant Woman: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/the-joyful-covenant-woman Learn more about Become the Captain: https://www.becomethecaptain.com/ You may not have the power to change another person, but you do have the power to decide who you want to become. And that change can impact everything. Follow Jenn: Website: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@findthejoywithjenn • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  7. Aug 17

    238. The Questions Everyone Is Afraid to Ask About Divorce

    What are the questions about divorce you’re afraid to say out loud? Will I ever love again? Did God want my divorce? Should I have stayed longer? Could I have done more? Can my marriage still be saved? Will my children resent me? What if I’m actually happier divorced? And will I ever recognize myself again? In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, we’re talking honestly about some of the hardest questions Christian and Latter-day Saint men and women face before, during, and after divorce. There aren’t always simple answers. But there are healthier questions we can ask, lessons we can learn, and ways to move forward without abandoning our faith or spending years second-guessing the past. We’ll talk about reconciliation, regret, dating your ex, children and divorce, finding love again, rebuilding your identity, and most importantly, learning to trust God when your life looks nothing like you thought it would. Divorce may be part of your story, but it does not get to write the final chapter. God has not given up on you, and your best days do not have to be behind you. Listen now and share this episode with someone who may be asking these same questions. If you're looking for personalized guidance, I'd love to meet with you for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session. Together, we'll bring clarity to your situation and create a practical plan to help you move forward with confidence. Learn more here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session Follow Jenn: Website: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@findthejoywithjenn • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  8. Aug 10

    237. Divorce Brain: Why You Feel Stuck and How God Can Help You Heal

    Have you ever wondered why you can't think clearly after divorce? Why simple decisions suddenly feel overwhelming. Why you're constantly exhausted. Why you replay conversations in your mind, obsess over what happened, or find yourself checking your ex's social media even though you know it only makes things worse. If you've ever thought, "What is wrong with me?" this episode is for you. The truth is, there may be a lot less wrong with you than you think. In this episode, we'll talk about what divorce actually does to your brain in simple, practical terms. No complicated neuroscience. No therapy jargon. Just an understanding of why you're experiencing these common reactions and, more importantly, how faith in Jesus Christ can help you move through them. You'll learn: • Why making decisions feels so difficult after divorce • Why you're mentally and emotionally exhausted • Why you replay conversations over and over • Why you become obsessed with finding answers • Why it's so hard to stop checking your ex's social media • Why you may feel emotionally numb • How understanding your brain can help you stop judging yourself • Why your brain influences your healing but doesn't define your future God understands both your heart and your mind. While your brain may naturally respond to loss by trying to protect you, the Lord is helping you heal, grow, and become stronger through this experience. No matter where you are in your healing journey, remember this: you are not broken, you are not crazy, and with God's help, you can overcome this. I'd love to hear from you! Which part of today's episode resonated with you the most? Leave a review or connect with me on social media. If you're looking for personalized guidance, I'd love to meet with you for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session. Together, we'll bring clarity to your situation and create a practical plan to help you move forward with confidence. Learn more here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session Follow Jenn: Website: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@findthejoywithjenn • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

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Hi there, I'm Jenn, I am an experienced, certified professional Latter-day Saint life and divorce coach who mentors men and women in challenging times to find joy through faith-filled coaching. I can help you find the joy in your journey!

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