Find The Joy With Jenn LDS Divorce Podcast

Jenn Zingmark
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Hi there, I'm Jenn, I am an experienced, certified professional Latter-day Saint life and divorce coach who mentors men and women in challenging times to find joy through faith-filled coaching. I can help you find the joy in your journey!

  1. 3d ago

    235. Moving From Overwhelm to Your Next Chapter with Kathleen Judge

    Divorce can leave you wondering if your family will ever feel whole again. Many parents worry about the impact on their children, struggle with feelings of failure, and question whether healthy relationships are still possible after everything they've been through. In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, I sit down with marriage and relationship coach Heather Johnson to talk about what it really takes to build strong families, navigate forgiveness, and create healthy relationships after divorce. Heather brings years of experience teaching family and relationship principles, along with insights from her work helping couples and families strengthen communication, deepen connection, and find joy in their relationships. Together, we discuss: • Whether a family can still thrive after divorce • How to help children heal and feel secure • The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation • Healthy boundaries with an ex-spouse • Common challenges in blended families • How faith can support healing instead of adding guilt and shame • What strong families do differently Whether you're newly separated, navigating co-parenting, rebuilding after divorce, or creating a blended family, this conversation offers practical wisdom, hope, and encouragement for the road ahead. If you're looking for support in your own divorce journey, I'd love to help. Learn more about my Faith Filled Divorce program and other resources at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Join the conversation: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn Listen to more episodes: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/podcast Remember, your family story isn't over. Healing is possible, hope is real, and you can find joy in the journey. •Learn more from this week’s guest, Kathleen Judge, HERE: https://www.edwardjones.com/us-en/financial-advisor/kathleen-judge • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  2. Jul 20

    234. You're Not Behind: The Truth About Healing After Divorce

    You're Not Behind: The Truth About Healing After Divorce Do you ever feel like everyone else has moved on...except you? Maybe it's been a year. Maybe it's been several years. Yet every now and then, the grief still catches you by surprise, leaving you wondering, "Why am I not farther along?" If you've ever felt like you're healing too slowly, this episode is for you. In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, we're exposing one of the biggest lies people believe after divorce: that healing should happen on someone else's timeline. You'll learn why Year Two is often harder than Year One, what true acceptance actually looks like, and why healing isn't measured by time, but by transformation. You'll discover: ❤️ Why feeling "behind" is one of the biggest misconceptions after divorce ❤️ Why healing often feels harder after the crisis has passed ❤️ What true acceptance really means (and what it doesn't) ❤️ The "sixth stage" of healing that can completely change your future ❤️ How to know if you're actually healing ❤️ A powerful message of hope rooted in Jesus Christ and God's perfect timing No matter where you are in your healing journey, remember this: You are not behind. God is still working. Your story isn't over. ✨ Ready for more personalized support? Schedule your FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session, a private, faith-filled conversation where we'll talk about where you are, where you want to be, and one practical step to help you move forward with greater peace and confidence. 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session Looking for ongoing coaching and community? Learn more about Faith Filled Divorce, my private coaching program for Christian and LDS men and women navigating separation and divorce. 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details Remember...God isn't measuring your healing by the calendar. He's transforming your heart one faithful step at a time. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  3. Jul 13

    233. The 5 Stages of Divorce Grief: Where Are You in Your Healing Journey?

    The 5 Stages of Divorce Grief: Where Are You in Your Healing Journey? Have you ever found yourself wondering, "Why am I still hurting?" Maybe your divorce happened months ago...or even years ago...yet certain moments still catch you off guard. If you've ever questioned whether you're healing "fast enough," this episode is for you. In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, we're talking about the five stages of divorce grief and what they really look like after separation and divorce. More importantly, you'll learn why healing isn't linear, why revisiting old emotions doesn't mean you're moving backward, and how to recognize where you are on your own healing journey. You'll discover: ❤️ Why divorce creates far more than one loss ❤️ The five stages of divorce grief and how they show up in real life ❤️ Why anger, sadness, and even denial are normal parts of healing ❤️ How to know if you're growing instead of staying stuck ❤️ A Christ-centered perspective on finding hope through grief No matter where you are in your journey, I want you to know this: You're not broken. You're healing. If this episode encourages you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs a little extra hope today. ✨ Ready for more personalized support? Schedule your FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session, a private, faith-filled conversation designed to help you gain clarity, find hope, and take your next step forward with confidence. 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session Interested in ongoing coaching and community? Learn more about Faith Filled Divorce, my private coaching program for Christian and LDS men and women navigating separation and divorce. 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details Remember, your divorce is part of your story...but it does not define your story. Connect with Jenn: 🌐 https://findthejoywithjenn.com 💛 Looking for additional support? Visit FindTheJoyWithJenn.com to learn more about coaching, resources, and the Find the Joy App. Until next time, keep seeking joy. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  4. Jul 6

    232. Healing Begins When Self-Judgment Ends After Divorce

    Have you forgiven everyone... except yourself? After divorce, many faithful Christian and LDS men and women find themselves trapped in a cycle of self-judgment. You replay conversations. You second-guess your decisions. You wonder if you failed your family, your marriage, or even God. It feels like accountability, but what if it's actually keeping you from the healing Christ wants for you? In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, Jenn explores the difference between healthy repentance and unhealthy self-condemnation. You'll discover why shame is never God's plan for your life, how self-judgment quietly steals your peace, and what it really means to accept the Savior's grace. If you've ever thought, I should have known better, I ruined everything, or I'll never get it right, this episode is for you. You'll learn: Why self-judgment keeps you stuck after divorce The difference between accountability and condemnation How to recognize whether your thoughts are coming from God or from shame A simple prayer and practical exercise to help you release guilt How Romans 8:1 can transform the way you see yourself No matter what you've been through, your divorce is not your identity. Your mistakes are not your identity. You are a beloved son or daughter of God, and because of Jesus Christ, healing, peace, and joy are still possible. Scripture Highlight: "There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus." Romans 8:1 If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need this message today. Connect with Jenn: 🌐 https://findthejoywithjenn.com 💛 Looking for additional support? Visit FindTheJoyWithJenn.com to learn more about coaching, resources, and the Find the Joy App. Until next time, keep seeking joy. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  5. Jun 29

    231. The Truth About Healthy Families After Divorce with Heather Johnson

    Divorce can leave you wondering if your family will ever feel whole again. Many parents worry about the impact on their children, struggle with feelings of failure, and question whether healthy relationships are still possible after everything they've been through. In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, I sit down with marriage and relationship coach Heather Johnson to talk about what it really takes to build strong families, navigate forgiveness, and create healthy relationships after divorce. Heather brings years of experience teaching family and relationship principles, along with insights from her work helping couples and families strengthen communication, deepen connection, and find joy in their relationships. Together, we discuss: • Whether a family can still thrive after divorce • How to help children heal and feel secure • The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation • Healthy boundaries with an ex-spouse • Common challenges in blended families • How faith can support healing instead of adding guilt and shame • What strong families do differently Whether you're newly separated, navigating co-parenting, rebuilding after divorce, or creating a blended family, this conversation offers practical wisdom, hope, and encouragement for the road ahead. If you're looking for support in your own divorce journey, I'd love to help. Learn more about my Faith Filled Divorce program and other resources at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Join the conversation: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn Listen to more episodes: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/podcast Remember, your family story isn't over. Healing is possible, hope is real, and you can find joy in the journey. •Learn more from this week’s guest, Heather Johnson, HERE: blog.familyvolley@gmail.com • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  6. Jun 22

    230. The Lie Divorce Tells You About Your Future

    Have you ever felt like divorce stole your chance at happiness? Maybe you've wondered if you'll ever trust again, find love again, recover financially, or experience the joy you once dreamed of. Maybe you've watched other people move forward and quietly asked yourself, Why does it seem like everyone else gets the life I wanted? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, we're talking about one of the greatest lies divorce whispers: that there's not enough left for you. Not enough love. Not enough hope. Not enough opportunities. Not enough blessings. Jenn explores how a scarcity mindset can take root after divorce and keep us stuck in fear, comparison, resentment, and hopelessness. Through faith-filled insights, practical tools, and a memorable "pizza shop versus pizza factory" analogy, you'll learn how to recognize scarcity in your own life and begin embracing the abundance God still has in store for you. Divorce may have changed your story, but it did not shut down God's pizza factory. If you're ready to stop fighting over crumbs and start believing that healing, peace, purpose, and joy still belong to you, this episode is for you. ✨ In this episode, you'll discover: • How divorce fuels a scarcity mindset • The subtle lies that keep you stuck after divorce • Why comparison steals your joy • How scarcity affects dating, parenting, and faith • What the scriptures teach about God's abundance • Practical steps to move from fear to faith and hope If this episode encourages you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs the reminder that their best days are not behind them. 💛 Looking for additional support? Visit FindTheJoyWithJenn.com to learn more about coaching, resources, and the Find the Joy App. Until next time, keep seeking joy. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  7. Jun 15

    229. What Your Divorce Triggers Are Trying to Teach You

    Have you ever found yourself reacting in a way that surprised you and wondered, Why did I do that? Maybe you snapped at your ex during a co-parenting exchange. Maybe you became defensive with your kids. Maybe criticism hit harder than it should have, or seeing your ex move on reopened wounds you thought had already healed. What if the problem isn't your reaction? What if the real issue is the wound underneath it? In this week's episode, Jenn explores the powerful concept of healing the trigger, not just the reaction. Divorce has a way of exposing deeper hurts such as rejection, abandonment, shame, fear, insecurity, and the belief that we're somehow "not enough." When those wounds get touched, we react. But instead of responding with shame, what if those moments are actually invitations from God to heal? Jenn shares a personal experience that transformed the way she views repentance, agency, and emotional healing. Together, we'll explore why true repentance isn't just behavior modification. It's heart transformation. It's partnering with God to heal the deeper wounds that keep showing up in our relationships and reactions. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why your triggers are not proof that you're broken • How divorce exposes wounds that may have existed long before the divorce • The difference between changing behavior and healing the heart • Why repentance is one of God's greatest gifts • How curiosity creates healing while shame keeps us stuck • Practical questions to ask when you feel emotionally triggered • How to invite God into the healing process Psalm 51:10 reminds us, "Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me." A clean heart isn't a perfect heart. It's a healed heart. If you've ever wondered why you keep reacting the same way, this episode may help you uncover the deeper healing God is inviting you into. You are not ruined by your divorce. You are being refined through it. For additional support and resources, visit: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Until next time, keep seeking joy. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

  8. Jun 8

    228. My Church Leader Didn't Believe Me About the Betrayal

    Have you ever felt like your Church leader didn't believe you about the betrayal, abuse, addiction, or struggles happening inside your marriage? Maybe you finally found the courage to ask for help, only to feel dismissed, misunderstood, or unsupported in your decision to pursue divorce. If so, this episode is for you. In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Jenn discusses one of the most painful experiences many faithful Latter-day Saints face during divorce: when Church leaders don't fully understand what they're going through. This episode is not about criticizing bishops, stake presidents, or the Church. In fact, Jenn shares why she believes Church leaders are doing the very best they can as unpaid volunteers who often have limited information and no formal training in marriage counseling, abuse recovery, addiction, or divorce. Instead, this episode explores how to strengthen your faith when others don't understand your journey, why personal revelation matters, how to trust God when you feel alone, and how to move forward with faith instead of fear. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why Church leaders sometimes see situations differently than you do • How to separate faith in God from disappointment in people • Why personal revelation is critical during divorce • How to trust your relationship with God when others disagree with your decisions • How to avoid resentment and strengthen your spiritual confidence • Why faith and fear often exist together If you've ever wondered, "What do I do when my bishop doesn't support my decision?" or "How do I trust God when I feel completely misunderstood?" this episode will offer hope, perspective, and encouragement. Remember, your eternal destiny is not determined by the opinions of others. It is guided by a loving Heavenly Father who knows your heart, your circumstances, and your journey. For additional support, coaching, and resources, visit: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Until next time, keep seeking joy. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

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Hi there, I'm Jenn, I am an experienced, certified professional Latter-day Saint life and divorce coach who mentors men and women in challenging times to find joy through faith-filled coaching. I can help you find the joy in your journey!

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