I Thought I Was Over This

Dr. Kimber

The journey to self-awareness and healing is not for the faint of heart. Just when some new insight leaves you convinced you’ve got everything figured out - Bam! Life hits you over the head and you feel like you’re back at square one. Tragedy, loss, and traumas big and small are all part of our collective human experience that can send us spiraling. However, you don’t need to be alone. Join host Dr. Kimber Del Valle, clinical psychologist and trauma healer, as she dives into the science of “humaning,” shares stories of resilience and overcoming, and offers practical advice for how to find help and hope when mental health and relief seem out of reach. Expect a bit of the unexpected, too. Most of all, tune in to find connection, insight and make friends with the times in life when you feel like you’ve just made it off the proverbial Titantic and are in the ocean asking, now what? I don’t know what the hell to do. Season one is all things sleep (colored raven) and grounding with pause episodes (with white raven) which are mind training practice sessions for how to shift into relaxation. To learn more visit https://www.drkimber.net.

  1. Pause: Notice, Name, Change: Building Capacity for Uncertainty and Overwhelm [Pause 69]

    OCT 22

    Pause: Notice, Name, Change: Building Capacity for Uncertainty and Overwhelm [Pause 69]

    Welcome to another episode of I Thought I Was Over This with Dr. Kimber. In this episode, Dr. Kimber invites you to pause and build your capacity to face whatever life is offering you right now. Whether you're moving through overwhelm, racing through your days, or simply curious about befriending your nervous system, this pause is for you. She guides you through gentle, embodied practices to help you arrive fully in the present moment—from softening the tension held in your forehead, jaw, and hands, to feeling your feet on the ground and wiggling your toes. Dr. Kimber shares the power of the extended exhale, a simple breathwork practice that signals safety to your body, and introduces the soothing VOO breath from Dr. Peter Levine's Somatic Experiencing Theory. You'll discover why naming what's happening in your body and mind is the gateway to transformation, and how even small shifts—like deepening your breath at a busy event or journaling to release what's weighing on you—can recalibrate your entire stress response. Dr. Kimber also shares personal stories about navigating stress at world championships and learning to read her body's signals with compassion and curiosity. The episode closes with Wendell Berry's poignant reminder: "It may be that when we no longer know what to do, we have come to our real work." Tune in for a tender, practical episode that meets you exactly where you are and invites you to meet yourself with the same grace. Check out past episodes and more information here: https://www.drkimber.net/podcast-info Please remember that this podcast is not a replacement for treatment by a healthcare or mental health professional. This content is created for education and entertainment purposes only. Join 'A Moment of Pause' Newsletter: https://drkimber.activehosted.com/f/5 Music licensed from http://www.purple-planet.com Connect with Dr. Kimber: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_kimber/ About My Work: https://www.drkimber.net Fierce Gentle Community: https://www.drkimber.net/fierce-gentle Book: Still: Making A Whole When Parts Go Missing

    30 min
  2. Pause: Grounding to Find Calm And a Reset [Pause 68]

    OCT 1

    Pause: Grounding to Find Calm And a Reset [Pause 68]

    This episode invites you to take a much-needed break from the hustle and stress of everyday life. As a licensed clinical psychologist and somatic experiencing practitioner, Dr. Kimber gently guides you through simple yet powerful grounding techniques—like relaxing your jaw, softening your gaze, and paying attention to the small details around you—to help release the tension your body unconsciously carries. Through thoughtful insights and calming breathing exercises, Dr. Kimber shows you how just a few mindful tweaks can reset your nervous systems and reconnect you to the present moment. Whether you’re at home, running errands, or feeling overwhelmed after a challenging day, this episode offers accessible tools for finding ease, cultivating self-awareness, and bringing a sense of calm back into your life.  Settle in, get comfortable, and join Dr. Kimber for a restorative pause you didn’t know you needed. Check out past episodes and more information here: https://www.drkimber.net/podcast-info Please remember that this podcast is not a replacement for treatment by a healthcare or mental health professional. This content is created for education and entertainment purposes only. Join 'A Moment of Pause' Newsletter: https://drkimber.activehosted.com/f/5 Music licensed from http://www.purple-planet.com Connect with Dr. Kimber: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_kimber/ About My Work: https://www.drkimber.net Fierce Gentle Community: https://www.drkimber.net/fierce-gentle Book: Still: Making A Whole When Parts Go Missing

    33 min
  3. SEP 10

    Pause: Ground Yourself: Dr. Kimber’s Guide to Somatic Awe Walking [Pause 67]

    Welcome to another calming episode of I Thought I Was Over This with Dr. Kimber Del Valle. In today's "Pause" segment, you're invited to gift yourself a few mindful moments through a somatic practice known as "awe walking". Dr. Kimber, a clinical psychologist and somatic experiencing practitioner, guides listeners on how to regulate their nervous system and reconnect with a sense of ease, even in the midst of life's challenges.  Drawing from her childhood adventures in nature and decades of professional experience, she offers gentle prompts to help you get grounded, shift your focus, and rediscover wonder in your everyday surroundings.  Let's get your shoes on and go outside to enjoy this guided practice. Consider it your invitation to notice the details, soften into your day, whatever is happening, and return to presence.  So grab your headphones, step outside, and let Dr. Kimber walk you through the practice of finding awe, calm, and compassion—one step at a time. Check out past episodes and more information here: https://www.drkimber.net/podcast-info Please remember that this podcast is not a replacement for treatment by a healthcare or mental health professional. This content is created for education and entertainment purposes only. Join 'A Moment of Pause' Newsletter: https://drkimber.activehosted.com/f/5 Music licensed from http://www.purple-planet.com Connect with Dr. Kimber: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_kimber/ About My Work: https://www.drkimber.net Fierce Gentle Community: https://www.drkimber.net/fierce-gentle Book: Still: Making A Whole When Parts Go Missing

    20 min
  4. AUG 20

    Pause: Simple Grounding Exercises for Your Nervous System [Pause 66]

    Welcome to another episode of I Thought I Was Over This with Dr. Kimber.  In this episode, Dr. Kimber invites you to hit pause on your hectic routine and discover practical ways to reset your nervous system—whether you need a boost of motivation to get going or a moment of calm to ease anxiety and overwhelm.  She guides you through gentle grounding techniques, mindful breathing exercises like box breath, and even a butterfly hug to help bring your mind and body back to center.  Plus, Dr. Kimber shares why connecting with nature and tuning in to your body’s needs, even for just a few minutes, can make a world of difference. Tune in for a short, actionable episode designed to help you meet yourself where you are, find compassion, and move forward with greater clarity and ease. Check out past episodes and more information here: https://www.drkimber.net/podcast-info Please remember that this podcast is not a replacement for treatment by a healthcare or mental health professional. This content is created for education and entertainment purposes only. Join 'A Moment of Pause' Newsletter: https://drkimber.activehosted.com/f/5 Music licensed from http://www.purple-planet.com Connect with Dr. Kimber: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_kimber/ About My Work: https://www.drkimber.net Fierce Gentle Community: https://www.drkimber.net/fierce-gentle Book: Still: Making A Whole When Parts Go Missing

    16 min
  5. Pause: Resetting Your Nervous System in Moments of Overwhelm and Sorrow [Pause 65]

    AUG 6

    Pause: Resetting Your Nervous System in Moments of Overwhelm and Sorrow [Pause 65]

    This episode was recorded before the July 4th tragedy in Texas and other flooding around the US. May anyone who is grieving have the experience - you aren't alone. Welcome to another episode of I Thought I Was Over This with Dr. Kimber. In this intimate Pause episode, Dr. Kimber invites listeners into a space of gentle reflection and nervous system reset. Drawing on her own experience of grief—recording on the anniversary of her son's passing—she offers guidance for anyone carrying difficult emotions like sorrow, overwhelm, or disappointment. Through mindful breathing exercises, sensory awareness, and the wisdom of poets and mystics, Dr. Kimber explores the power of pausing and the healing found in simply being present. She shares practical tools, from centering prayer to journaling, for navigating pain and making space for what is. Whether you’re in need of comfort, or a moment to just catch your breath, this episode provides compassionate companionship and a reminder: you have the capacity to hold whatever life brings. Settle in and allow yourself this pause—you matter, and you’re not alone. Check out past episodes and more information here: https://www.drkimber.net/podcast-info Please remember that this podcast is not a replacement for treatment by a healthcare or mental health professional. This content is created for education and entertainment purposes only. Join 'A Moment of Pause' Newsletter: https://drkimber.activehosted.com/f/5 Music licensed from http://www.purple-planet.com Connect with Dr. Kimber: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_kimber/ About My Work: https://www.drkimber.net Fierce Gentle Community: https://www.drkimber.net/fierce-gentle Book: Still: Making A Whole When Parts Go Missing

    26 min
  6. Pause: The Power of Pause: Techniques for Reducing Stress and Anxiety [Pause 64]

    JUL 23

    Pause: The Power of Pause: Techniques for Reducing Stress and Anxiety [Pause 64]

    Welcome to a calming episode of “I Thought I Was Over This,” where Dr. Kimber, a licensed clinical psychologist and somatic experiencing practitioner, guides us through a gentle journey of grounding and regulation.  In this episode, Dr. Kimber invites listeners to settle in, become aware of their environment, and practice mindful breathing and self-soothing techniques designed to reset the nervous system.  She shares insights from psychological research—including the principles of dual awareness and polyvagal theory—helping us recognize how our bodies respond to stress and how we can gently return to a state of ease.  We’re treated to a reflective reading of the poem “The Work of Happiness” by May Sarton, weaving together themes of presence, growth, and inner peace.  Whether you’re looking to slow down, re-center, or simply cultivate more happiness in your day, this episode offers a thoughtful space for self-care and renewal. Check out past episodes and more information here: https://www.drkimber.net/podcast-info Please remember that this podcast is not a replacement for treatment by a healthcare or mental health professional. This content is created for education and entertainment purposes only. Join 'A Moment of Pause' Newsletter: https://drkimber.activehosted.com/f/5 Music licensed from http://www.purple-planet.com Connect with Dr. Kimber: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_kimber/ About My Work: https://www.drkimber.net Fierce Gentle Community: https://www.drkimber.net/fierce-gentle Book: Still: Making A Whole When Parts Go Missing

    22 min
  7. Pause: Grounding Techniques for Restoring Calm [Pause 63]

    JUL 9

    Pause: Grounding Techniques for Restoring Calm [Pause 63]

    Welcome back to I Thought I Was Over This with Dr. Kimber Del Valle. In today’s “Pause 63” episode, Dr. Kimber shares grounding practices and gentle reflections that have supported her and her communities through overwhelming times, including her new Fierce Gentle group and intimate grief circles. This episode is your invitation to slow down, reconnect with your body, and practice simple regulation techniques designed to soothe anxiety and calm an overactive mind. Dr. Kimber leads you through mindful breathwork, softening exercises, and sensory grounding, layered with poetry readings to foster presence and insight. Whether you’re feeling frantic or numb, overwhelmed or exhausted, this is your safe space to rest, reset, and rediscover your inner quiet. Settle in, let your breath deepen, and allow Dr. Kimber to gently guide you back to yourself—one grounded moment at a time. Check out past episodes and more information here: https://www.drkimber.net/podcast-info Please remember that this podcast is not a replacement for treatment by a healthcare or mental health professional. This content is created for education and entertainment purposes only. Join 'A Moment of Pause' Newsletter: https://drkimber.activehosted.com/f/5 Music licensed from http://www.purple-planet.com Connect with Dr. Kimber: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_kimber/ About My Work: https://www.drkimber.net Fierce Gentle Community: https://www.drkimber.net/fierce-gentle Book: Still: Making A Whole When Parts Go Missing

    24 min
  8. Pause: From Anxiety to Grounding - Tools and and Journal Prompts for Self Awareness [Pause 62]

    10/10/2024

    Pause: From Anxiety to Grounding - Tools and and Journal Prompts for Self Awareness [Pause 62]

    In this episode, Dr. Kimber Del Valle invites you to embrace the power of pause, guiding you through a series of thoughtful journal prompts and breathing exercises designed to ground you and awaken clarity. Whether you're navigating loss, embracing change, or simply seeking deeper self-understanding, these practices offer a nurturing space to connect with your inner world. Highlights from this episode include: Grounding TechniquesLearn how to calm your nervous system and become present through simple yet effective methods.Guided Journal PromptsUncover what's stirring in your heart with exercises like "What I really want to say" and "What matters".Inspirational PoetryJournal Prompts with thought-provoking poems by Maggie Smith and Ada Limon.Building AwarenessDiscover the importance of naming what you're aware of in your life and inviting intentionality into your daily routine.Check out past episodes and more information here: https://www.drkimber.net/podcast-info Please remember that this podcast is not a replacement for treatment by a healthcare or mental health professional. This content is created for education and entertainment purposes only. Join 'A Moment of Pause' Newsletter: https://drkimber.activehosted.com/f/5 Music licensed from http://www.purple-planet.com Connect with Dr. Kimber: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_kimber/ About My Work: https://www.drkimber.net Fierce Gentle Community: https://www.drkimber.net/fierce-gentle Book: Still: Making A Whole When Parts Go Missing

    29 min

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
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About

The journey to self-awareness and healing is not for the faint of heart. Just when some new insight leaves you convinced you’ve got everything figured out - Bam! Life hits you over the head and you feel like you’re back at square one. Tragedy, loss, and traumas big and small are all part of our collective human experience that can send us spiraling. However, you don’t need to be alone. Join host Dr. Kimber Del Valle, clinical psychologist and trauma healer, as she dives into the science of “humaning,” shares stories of resilience and overcoming, and offers practical advice for how to find help and hope when mental health and relief seem out of reach. Expect a bit of the unexpected, too. Most of all, tune in to find connection, insight and make friends with the times in life when you feel like you’ve just made it off the proverbial Titantic and are in the ocean asking, now what? I don’t know what the hell to do. Season one is all things sleep (colored raven) and grounding with pause episodes (with white raven) which are mind training practice sessions for how to shift into relaxation. To learn more visit https://www.drkimber.net.