Hey Fave!

Hey Fave

Hey Fave! is a weekly podcast where two best friends talk about everything and nothing at the same time! We are pretty much welcoming you into our regular, day-to-day, random conversations. Feel free to join the conversations and even continue them with your own friends! Catch us weekly on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, and Google podcasts!

  1. Aug 11

    Let's Talk Cutoffs, Closure & Forgiveness

    Let's Talk Cutoffs, Closure & Forgiveness Can you forgive someone and still decide you don’t want them in your life? This week on Hey Fave!, we’re continuing a conversation from last week’s episode on grief after hearing Pastor Dharius Daniels discuss the idea of “prematurely grieving”—when you begin emotionally processing the end of something before it actually ends. Could that explain why it sometimes looks like someone moved on incredibly fast? Then, we’re getting into cutoffs, closure, forgiveness, and boundaries. Is a conversation before cutting someone off a courtesy—or something you owe them? Does everyone deserve an explanation? And are some people really looking for closure…or just another opportunity to argue their case? We also unpack the statement: “I forgave you. I just don’t want you near me anymore.” Can forgiveness exist without reconciliation? Does forgiving someone mean you have to trust them again? And most importantly, does forgiveness require access? We’re talking about learning to forgive while still maintaining boundaries, protecting your peace, and accepting that sometimes forgiveness doesn’t restore a relationship—it simply releases you from it. 🎧 Join us for another honest conversation and let us know: Can you truly forgive someone and still permanently remove them from your life? Business Spotlight: A Photographic Touch LLC | Corey Chambers Full-service media company based in Charlotte, North Carolina. From portraits to drones, they cover it all! A Photographic Touch offers professional photography, videography, photobooths, drone coverage, and live streaming for weddings, corporate events, family portraits, headshots, private celebrations, and more. Their goal is to do more than simply document your event. They use creativity and style to capture your story from every angle and create timeless, authentic memories you can relive for years to come. Connect FB: A Photographic Touch LLC IG: a_photographic_touch https://www.aphotographictouch.com/

  2. Aug 4

    Let's Talk The Grief We Don't Talk About

    When you hear the word grief, what comes to mind? For many of us, grief is associated with death—but what if it's so much more than that? In this episode of Hey Fave!, we're having an honest conversation about the different forms of grief that often go unnoticed. We discuss grieving relationships with people who are still alive, processing life's disappointments, and mourning the version of yourself you thought you'd become. Inspired by a thought from comedian Tacarra Williams, we explore whether millennials were sold an outdated blueprint for success. What happens when you do everything "right"—go to school, work hard, follow the rules—and life still doesn't look the way you imagined? Has social media made it even harder to let go of the life you thought you'd have? We also talk about whether grief has a timeline, if there's a "right" way to grieve, and how it's possible to hold both grief and joy at the same time. Most importantly, we end with hope—reflecting on how some of life's greatest blessings can come from seasons we never would've chosen. 🎧 Join us for a heartfelt conversation about healing, expectations, and finding beauty beyond Plan A. _____________________________________________ Chapters 0:00 Intro 36:04 Random Question: 8:17 What comes to mind when you hear the word "grief"? 9:49 Have you ever realized that you were grieving something long after it happened? 21:02 Do you think there's a right way to grieve? 23:02 Have you ever judged someone else's grieving process? 24:50 Can you grieve and still experience joy? 29:16 Can you mourn someone who is still here? 30:23 Faith Over Logic Commercial 31:20 Commercial Ends 34:02 Millenial women are quietly grieving the life they thought they'd have (post) 46:38 What rules did you follow that didn't produce the result you wanted? 1:00:09 Is adjusting your expectations giving up or growing? 1:01:23 Do you ever grieve a version of yourself that you used to be? 1:12:04 Business Spotlight 1:16:01 End ____________________________________________________ Business Spotlight: Blues Mortuary Inc. Serving the Benson, North Carolina and surrounding area's. "Guiding You with Compassion, Honoring With Dignity" Embodying a Beacon of Light to the Communities We Serve, Changing the World One Family at a Time — Committed to Serving Our Community with Compassion, Excellence, and unwavering dedication. Services: Traditional services, Cremation services, Personalization, and Veterans Services Now offers compassionate pet cremation services to help families honor the cherished companions who have brought so much love and joy into their lives. Website: https://www.bluesmortuary.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Bluesmortuaryinc IG: bluesmortuaryinc

  3. Jul 29

    Let’s Talk Rules We Don’t Question

    After hearing the recent story involving Nolan Wells, we found ourselves thinking about one phrase so many of us heard growing up: "We come together. We leave together." Was it about safety? Control? Or simply looking out for one another? That conversation led us to something bigger—the unspoken rules many Black families grew up with. The ones nobody ever wrote down, but somehow everyone seemed to know. In this episode, we're talking about the lessons that shaped us, from keeping your hands visible during a traffic stop and "acting like you got some sense," to asking before inviting people over, not sitting on the bed with outside clothes, and making sure you finish your food before drinking your juice. Of course, we couldn't forget the funny ones either: when your mom starts calling your full government name, everybody's auntie can discipline you, and your parents' friends' kids automatically become your cousins. Some of these rules still guide us today, while others leave us wondering if they still make sense. 🎧 Join us as we laugh, reflect, and ask: Which unspoken Black family rules are you still living by? Business Spotlight: Miracle Hands Cleaning LLC (FB) Family owned business that provides cleaning services in Chatham and surrounding areas. Let our Hands work a Miracle. Offering different Services: residential cleaning, office cleaning, carpet cleaning, new home cleaning , apartment cleaning, and moving out cleaning. They also offer vent cleaning, trash removal, pressure washing. Schedule your FREE estimate today! Call or text (984) 265-9425 Email: miraclehandscleaningllc@gmail.com Website: https://miraclehandscleaningllc.simplybook.me/v2/

  4. Jul 14

    Let's Talk Intentions & Effort

    Let's Talk Intentions & Effort How much effort is too much when you're trying to get to know someone? This week on Hey Fave!, we're reacting to two viral videos that had the internet divided—and asking whether these men were being sincere, persistent...or completely missing the signs. First, we discuss the viral voice-note that left people wondering: Was he really wrong, or was he simply expressing himself? We break down what he did well, where he may have crossed the line, and whether the timing of the conversation changed everything. Then we tackle another viral message that raises an important question: When do you take the hint? We explore the fine line between romantic persistence and being creepy, why ignoring someone's silence can become a problem, and whether telling someone to ignore their gut feeling is ever a good idea. Finally, we debate one last question: What's worse—being brutally honest or trying way too hard to explain yourself? Join us as we unpack dating, communication, rejection, and the signals we often ignore. As always, we want to know what you think! 🎧 Watch now on YouTube or listen wherever you get your podcasts. Don't forget to join the conversation in the comments! 💜 Videos in the episode: Voice Note Guy - https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTSnCqkDY/ Video Message - https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTSnCEhQg/ Business Spotlight: S&D Cakes by the Pound - Teshia Holt Cakes, Treats, and Desserts including: cookies, mini bundt cakes, pound cakes (lemon and vanilla), cobbler pound cakes (strawberry, blueberry, peach), Puddings (banana and red velvet), cupcakes (red velvet, german chocolate, carrot cake, banana pudding). Established 2022 Book for your next event! Facebook: Teshia Holt

  5. Jul 7

    Let’s Talk One Gotta Go: Black Culture Edition

    Let’s Talk One Gotta Go: Black Culture Edition It's time to make some impossible choices! 😅 In this episode of Hey Fave!, we're putting some of the most iconic parts of Black culture head-to-head—and trust us, somebody is going to disagree. From classic sneakers and hairstyles to cookout drinks, childhood games, HBCU traditions, line dances, legendary athletes, historic Black figures, and can't-miss cultural events, we're asking one simple question: One Gotta Go! Could you really give up Jordans? Is Spades untouchable? Which HBCU tradition deserves to stay forever? And when it comes to Black history, who made the greatest impact? Get ready for laughs, nostalgia, and plenty of friendly debate as we defend our picks and react to each other's choices. Then let us know in the comments—which answers had you agreeing...and which ones had you ready to end the episode early? 😂 Grab a friend, join the conversation, and play along with us. Because this one is guaranteed to spark some opinions! Business Spotlight: Valerie A. Mills - faith rooted functional wellness book, Born in the Smoke. Written for the woman who has spent so much time carrying the weight of everyone and everything else, Born in the Smoke explores healing, wellness, and personal growth through six chapters written from lived experience. It's designed to help women begin their own journey toward healing, clarity, and wholeness. If you're looking for resources focused on healing, wellness, and listening to what your body is trying to tell you, be sure to check out Born in the Smoke and her free guide.

Ratings & Reviews

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About

Hey Fave! is a weekly podcast where two best friends talk about everything and nothing at the same time! We are pretty much welcoming you into our regular, day-to-day, random conversations. Feel free to join the conversations and even continue them with your own friends! Catch us weekly on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, and Google podcasts!