The Art & Skill of Coaching: Get any client any result using trauma-informed coaching strategies

Jess DeMarchis
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If you're a coach, therapist, or individual interested in personal growth who wants to create real client transformation, not just surface-level change, this podcast is for you. Hosted by Jessica DeMarchis, a licensed trauma therapist turned life coach with over a decade of clinical and coaching experience and more than a million dollars in coaching revenue, this show goes beyond basic mindset tips and into the actual skills and tangible tools that drive client growth. Inside each episode, you'll learn advanced, trauma-informed coaching tools, psychology-backed techniques, and practical strategies to help you understand how people think, why they stay stuck, and how to create lasting behavioral and emotional change. This is not about giving advice, asking better questions, being motivational, or chasing more clients, it's about becoming the kind of coach who gets any client any result. Jess is the creator of The Art and Skill of Coaching certification, a trauma informed coach training program, and host of a top 2% globally ranked podcast. She is known for her direct, evidence-based approach to coaching and client transformation. This podcast is for coaches who want to feel confident in their sessions, therapists who want to integrate coaching tools into their work, and high-achieving individuals who are ready to deepen their self-awareness and gain real tools to expand their capacity. Expect solo trainings, real client examples, and actionable coaching frameworks you can apply immediately to improve your skills, elevate your impact, and grow your business through better client results.

  1. 6d ago

    Burned Out or in the Wrong Career? How to Tell the Difference Before You Make a Big Move

    You're exhausted, increasingly frustrated with work, and starting to wonder whether you need to quit completely. But are you actually in the wrong career or are you burned out from the way you're currently doing it? In this episode of The Art & Skill of Coaching, Jess breaks down the difference between burnout, a bad work environment, unsustainable work patterns, and genuine career misalignment. You'll learn a simple four-part framework, Demands, Design, Defaults, and Direction, to identify what's actually creating your burnout before making a major career move.  Jess also explains the psychology of burnout, why working hard isn't always the real problem, and how workload, leadership, control, values, boundaries, perfectionism, and people-pleasing can completely change your experience of the same career. If you're questioning your job, career, or professional future, this episode will help you figure out what needs to change before you decide what comes next. To work with Jess one-on-one, book a consultation at www.chatwithjess.com. Stay in Touch: www.jessicademarchis.com IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

  2. Sep 22

    I Hate My Job- Should I Quit? 5 Signs You've Outgrown Your Career

    You have the degree, the salary, the title, and the career you worked incredibly hard to build…so why are you secretly fantasizing about quitting? In this episode of The Art & Skill of Coaching, Jess breaks down five signs you may have outgrown your career and how to tell the difference between temporary frustration, burnout, and genuine career misalignment. You'll learn why getting a raise, taking a vacation, changing companies, or trying to "just be grateful" often doesn't solve the real problem, plus the questions to ask yourself before making a major career move. Jess also shares examples of women who discovered very different solutions: leaving a career completely, changing roles within the same profession, and restructuring a business so success no longer required constant sacrifice. If you hate your job, feel burned out, or keep wondering whether it's time for a career change, this episode will help you figure out what's actually wrong before deciding what needs to change. Ready to figure out your next professional move without sacrificing your health, relationships, or personal life to get there? Book a consultation with Jess at www.chatwithjess.com. Stay in Touch: www.jessicademarchis.com IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    I Hate My Job- Should I Quit? 5 Signs You've Outgrown Your Career

  3. Sep 15

    Beyond Diet and Exercise: What Successful Women Need to Know About Health

    If you're a successful woman who already knows you should eat well, move your body, sleep more, and manage stress, why can taking care of yourself still feel so hard? In this episode, I'm joined by a lab scientist turned health, nutrition, and fitness coach to talk about what high-achieving women actually need to understand about their health beyond another workout plan or list of foods to eat. We explore how chronic stress, perfectionism, all-or-nothing thinking, control, overachievement, and the habit of pushing through can affect the way women approach nutrition, fitness, recovery, and their bodies.  We also talk about what the science really says versus the health advice you can safely tune out, why more discipline is not always the answer, and what sustainable health looks like when you're also building a career, leading a company, raising a family, or carrying a lot of responsibility. If you want to feel strong, energized, healthy, and capable without turning your health into another full-time job, this conversation is for you. Want support creating your next level of success without sacrificing your personal life? Jess's 1:1 coaching books are open. Book a consultation through this link: www.chatwithjess.com Stay in Touch: www.jessicademarchis.com IG @jess_demarchis_coaching   Guest's contact information: IG @eveguzmanofficial https://www.themacrouniversity.com/   Release date: Tuesday September 15, 2026

  4. Sep 8

    You Have the Career, Money & Life, So Why Aren't You Happy?

    You got the degree, built the career, got the title, made the money, and checked nearly every box you once believed would make you feel happy. So why doesn't it feel the way you thought it would? In this episode of The Art & Skill of Coaching, Jess explores why so many high-achieving women in their 30s and 40s are reaching professional milestones while simultaneously feeling burned out, overwhelmed, unfulfilled, and strangely empty inside the lives they worked so hard to create. And she explains why achievement alone doesn't create lasting happiness. You'll also learn why your ability to tolerate stress is different from your capacity to sustainably hold it, how chronic pressure can turn an ambitious life into one driven by urgency and survival, and why productivity hacks aren't enough when the deeper problem is that you haven't defined what success actually means to you. If you're a successful, smart, capable woman who has achieved a lot but is questioning whether the way you're doing life is actually sustainable, this episode will help you create a definition of success that feels as good internally as it looks externally and a framework to keep it.   Free Resource: Download Jess's 50 Trauma-Informed Coaching Questions to start identifying the deeper patterns, beliefs, and behaviors influencing the way you work. https://jessicademarchis.myflodesk.com/50questions  Want support creating your next level of success without sacrificing your personal life? Jess's 1:1 coaching books are open. Book a consultation through this link: www.chatwithjess.com Stay in Touch: www.jessicademarchis.com IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    You Have the Career, Money & Life, So Why Aren't You Happy?

  5. Sep 1

    The Unexpected Gift and Cost of Childhood Trauma: When Trauma Looks Like Success & How It Creates High Achievers

    What if childhood trauma didn't make you fall apart but instead made you highly capable, responsible, resilient, ambitious, and successful? Trauma doesn't always look like dysfunction. For some high-achieving women, it looks like becoming the strong one, the responsible one, the woman everyone depends on, or the entrepreneur who always figures it out. In this episode of The Art & Skill of Coaching, Jess DeMarchis shares her personal experience with childhood trauma, C-PTSD, healing, and high achievement, and explores the unexpected strengths and hidden costs that can come from becoming exceptionally good at surviving. You'll learn how childhood trauma can contribute to patterns like perfectionism, hyper-independence, people-pleasing, over-functioning, overworking, hypervigilance, and an unusually high tolerance for stress. These adaptations may help you build a successful career, business, and life, but eventually the same strategies that helped you survive can make it difficult to rest, receive support, trust yourself, feel safe, or actually enjoy what you've created. Jess also explains the concept of the trauma drive: when achievement and ambition become partially fueled by survival, and why reaching the next milestone often doesn't create the peace, security, or sense of enoughness you expected it to. The goal isn't to become less resilient, capable, or ambitious. It's to keep the strengths that helped you succeed while letting go of the fear, pressure, hypervigilance, and survival patterns attached to them. If you've built an impressive life but still struggle to relax, stop proving yourself, feel safe in your success, or believe you've finally done enough, this episode will help you understand why. Free Resource: Download Jess's 50 Trauma-Informed Coaching Questions to start identifying the deeper patterns, beliefs, and behaviors influencing the way you work. https://jessicademarchis.myflodesk.com/50questions  Want support creating your next level of success without sacrificing your personal life? Jess's 1:1 coaching books are open. Book a consultation through this link: www.chatwithjess.com Stay in Touch: www.jessicademarchis.com IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

  6. Aug 25

    I made $39k last month and only worked 12 days: How to Be Successful Without Sacrificing Your Health, Relationships, or Personal Life

    Can you be highly successful without being exhausted all the time? Yes, and you don't have to choose between growing your career and having a life you actually enjoy. In this episode, Jess DeMarchis shares how she made $39,000 in one month while working just 12 days, and more importantly, what had to change in the way she approached success and work to make that possible.  As a trauma therapist, coach, and expert in behavior change, Jess explains why so many ambitious, high-achieving women become trapped in overworking, perfectionism, hyper-independence, people-pleasing, and the belief that success requires sacrifice. If you've ever felt successful on paper but exhausted behind the scenes, struggled to slow down without feeling guilty, or wondered why your career seems to require sacrificing your health, relationships, boundaries, or peace, this episode will help you understand what's really driving those patterns. Jess breaks down four shifts that have helped her grow her income and impact while creating more time for her personal life. If you're a high-achieving woman, entrepreneur, leader, or ambitious professional who wants to grow without burnout, this episode will give you a new way to think about success. In this episode, you'll learn: How to be successful without sacrificing your personal life Why high-achieving women struggle with overworking and burnout The connection between trauma, achievement, and productivity How trauma adaptations can drive perfectionism, hyper-independence, and overfunctioning Why rest can feel uncomfortable or unsafe for ambitious women How to create sustainable success without sacrificing your health or relationships Four strategies for growing your income and impact with less time How to prioritize your life while still building an ambitious career Why being busy doesn't necessarily mean you're being productive How to protect your cognitive energy and make better business decisions Why self-care, sleep, health, therapy, and personal relationships are business assets How to stop using productivity as a measure of your worth Free Resource: Download Jess's 50 Trauma-Informed Coaching Questions to start identifying the deeper patterns, beliefs, and behaviors influencing the way you work. https://jessicademarchis.myflodesk.com/50questions  Want support creating your next level of success without sacrificing your personal life? Jess's 1:1 coaching books are open. Book a consultation through this link: www.chatwithjess.com   Stay in Touch: www.jessicademarchis.com IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

  7. Aug 18

    Why you overthink and doubt every decision you make (And how to finally trust yourself)

    You know what to do. You've done the research. You've talked to everyone you trust. And somehow you're still sitting there wondering, "But what if I make the wrong decision?" If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. Today I'm breaking down why so many high-achieving women struggle to trust themselves, how overthinking quietly sabotages their leadership and success, and why collecting more information isn't actually making you more confident. I'll teach you a research-backed decision-making framework that helps you make better decisions faster, explain why self-trust, not certainty, is the real competitive advantage, and show you how one small shift can dramatically change your confidence, leadership, and results. In this episode you'll learn: Why overthinking is actually a self-trust problem The hidden cost of delaying decisions A science-backed framework for making better decisions How to stop outsourcing your confidence to everyone else The simplest way to start rebuilding self-trust today If you're tired of second-guessing yourself and you're ready to create sustainable success without sacrificing your health, relationships, or yourself, this episode is for you.   1-1 Coaching Consult: www.chatwithjess.com   FREE Guide- 50 Trauma Informed Coaching Questions: https://jessicademarchis.myflodesk.com/50questions    Stay in Touch: www.jessicademarchis.com IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

  8. Aug 11

    Nervous System Healing and Subconscious Change: What Real Integration Looks Like

    Most people believe trauma is healed through insight. That if you understand your patterns, identify your triggers, and process your story cognitively, change will naturally follow. But in reality, many people discover something confusing: They understand their trauma… but their body still reacts as if it's happening now. In this episode, we explore the gap between psychological insight, subconscious rewiring, and nervous system regulation and why true healing requires more than cognitive understanding. You'll learn why trauma is stored not just in thoughts, but in physiological and nervous system patterns, and why strategies like NLP, mindset coaching, and awareness work can fall short when the body is still organized around survival. We also explore what it actually looks like when change becomes embodied, not just intellectual, and how practitioners can ethically integrate trauma-informed coaching, subconscious work, and nervous system awareness without overstepping scope or oversimplifying complex trauma responses. This episode covers: Why trauma is not resolved through insight alone The difference between cognitive awareness and nervous system regulation How subconscious patterns are reinforced in the body Why clients "get it" but still feel stuck The intersection of NLP, trauma work, and coaching What ethical trauma-informed practice actually requires Why behavior change fails when the nervous system is still in survival What real integration and embodied change looks like If you are a coach, therapist, or practitioner working with trauma survivors, or someone who has done extensive self-development but still feels stuck in reactive patterns, this episode will help you understand what traditional frameworks often miss. (Episode 232) How to Break Bad Patterns: The 4-Step AVRR Method for Lasting Behavioral Change: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-art-skill-of-coaching-get-any-client-any/id1612960277?i=1000777665533   1-1 Trauma-Informed Coaching: www.chatwithjess.com   FREE Guide- 50 Trauma Informed Coaching Questions: https://jessicademarchis.myflodesk.com/50questions    Stay in Touch: www.jessicademarchis.com IG @jess_demarchis_coaching   Marsha Vanwynsberghe: https://www.marshavanw.com/ IG @ marshavanw

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If you're a coach, therapist, or individual interested in personal growth who wants to create real client transformation, not just surface-level change, this podcast is for you. Hosted by Jessica DeMarchis, a licensed trauma therapist turned life coach with over a decade of clinical and coaching experience and more than a million dollars in coaching revenue, this show goes beyond basic mindset tips and into the actual skills and tangible tools that drive client growth. Inside each episode, you'll learn advanced, trauma-informed coaching tools, psychology-backed techniques, and practical strategies to help you understand how people think, why they stay stuck, and how to create lasting behavioral and emotional change. This is not about giving advice, asking better questions, being motivational, or chasing more clients, it's about becoming the kind of coach who gets any client any result. Jess is the creator of The Art and Skill of Coaching certification, a trauma informed coach training program, and host of a top 2% globally ranked podcast. She is known for her direct, evidence-based approach to coaching and client transformation. This podcast is for coaches who want to feel confident in their sessions, therapists who want to integrate coaching tools into their work, and high-achieving individuals who are ready to deepen their self-awareness and gain real tools to expand their capacity. Expect solo trainings, real client examples, and actionable coaching frameworks you can apply immediately to improve your skills, elevate your impact, and grow your business through better client results.

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