Unaccompanied Adult w/ Joe Diaz

Unaccompanied Adult w/ Joe Diaz

Weekly Podcast about a variety of topics

  1. Pick Me Girls & Performative Men

    6D AGO

    Pick Me Girls & Performative Men

    S4E7 -In this episode, Joe dives into the subtle games of modern social interactions, revealing how both women and men are playing roles driven by the fear of being alone or rejected. He breaks down the concepts of "pick me girls" and the "performative male," highlighting how these behaviors stem from a desire to be chosen rather than genuinely respected. Chapters: 0:00 - Introduction: The game of being chosen vs. being respected02:11 - Defining pick me girls and performative males03:40 - The gender-neutral aspect of the desire to be selected08:00 - The superficial traits of pick me girls vs. performative males09:49 - How women seek validation by putting down other women11:06 - The performative display of masculinity in men13:04 - Why these behaviors are driven by fear of abandonment14:42 - How social media rewards superficiality over authenticity19:00 - The importance of standards and genuine confidence20:41 - Personal attraction to oppositional, authentic partners23:00 - The pitfalls of faking confidence and performative acts26:24 - How internet culture fosters hypocrisy and contrived personas30:00 - The reality: most people are chosen for convenience, not for authenticity33:15 - Moving past superficiality: authenticity over performative persona36:06 - When the act stops working, the truth gets exposed37:48 - The bitterness behind superficial behaviors38:07 - Building true connection through confidence and self-awareness39:00 - The most attractive trait: being comfortable with not being chosen40:00 - Final advice: embrace your true self, stop performing for validation

    38 min

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