the own it podcast

Chantelle Nelson
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A podcast that dives into the art of personal growth, self-development, and showing up to your life in every season. Tune in for a dose of therapeutic wisdom and practical, actionable tips for everyday life!

  1. 5d ago

    89. You Don't Have to Lose Yourself in Motherhood

    I'm recording this episode pregnant with my fourth, sitting with this topic in a particularly personal way. I know what's coming. I've done it before. And I also know — from my own life and from hundreds of women I've worked with — that losing yourself in motherhood doesn't have to be the price of admission. You were not made to disappear into your calling. You were made to come alive in it. This week I'm getting honest about what losing yourself looks like, why it happens, and what it takes to stay rooted in who you are while you raise the people you love. In this episode: What losing yourself in motherhood actually looks like Why this happens (and why it's not your fault) Why your inner life is not optional in this season How to stay rooted in who you are while you raise the people you love HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. If you're interested in joining Thrive, the doors are OPEN so you can join by heading to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive. Use the code THRIVETODAY and get your first month completely free!

    43 min

  2. Jun 19

    88. What Hypervigilance Actually Is — And Why So Many Women Are Living in It

    Hypervigilance is a clinical term, but I want to make it human today. Because so many women are living in this state without knowing it has a name — and when you don't have a name for something, you can't address it. You just keep experiencing it and wondering what's wrong with you. This week we're naming it. We're talking about how it develops, what it looks like in everyday life, the spiritual dimension we don't talk about enough, and what real healing actually requires. In this episode: What hypervigilance actually looks like in everyday life Why this is not your personality The spiritual dimension we don't talk about enough A three-step framework for real healing HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. If you're interested in joining Thrive, the doors are OPEN so you can join by heading to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive. Use the code THRIVETODAY and get your first month completely free!

    32 min

  3. Jun 12

    87. The Real Reason You're Exhausted (It's Not What You Think)

    There's a difference between regular tiredness and nervous system exhaustion — and most of the women I work with have been treating the wrong one. You can sleep eight hours and wake up depleted. You can take the vacation and still feel hollow. Because the exhaustion is coming from somewhere deeper than your schedule. This week we're talking about what happens when your nervous system has been running on high alert for so long it has forgotten how to come out of it — and what your body actually needs in order to rest. In this episode: Regular tiredness vs. nervous system exhaustion Why sleep alone isn't restoring you Why women in particular are vulnerable to this What your nervous system actually needs to rest HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. If you're interested in joining Thrive, the doors are OPEN so you can join by heading to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive. Use the code THRIVETODAY and get your first month completely free!

    26 min

  4. Jun 9

    BONUS: My Birth Story

    In this episode, I wanted to share my birth story — because everyone lovessss a birth story, at least I sure do. I'm sharing her birth story, the season leading up to her arrival, my process around a surprise gender reveal on delivery day, and what I did differently this time to prepare mentally and emotionally for labor and delivery. In this episode: - The season leading up to her birth and what it taught me - How I mentally and emotionally prepared for labor and delivery - Her actual birth story — what unfolded and what I'm carrying with me HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more practical content on showing up to your life. Visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more on my offers and coaching. If you're interested in joining Thrive, the doors are OPEN — head to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive. Use code THRIVETODAY and get your first month completely free!

    35 min

  5. Jun 5

    86. Why Quick Fixes Fail: The Truth About Lasting Change

    Somewhere along the way, we all started believing there's a formula. The right book. The right course. The right affirmation. We do the thing, feel hopeful for a minute, and then life gets hard again and the old patterns come roaring back. And we feel like we failed. This week I'm naming the truth out loud: lasting change takes time. Not weeks. Years. Because your nervous system wasn't shaped in a day, and it can't be rewired in one either. We're talking about why quick fixes fail, what real change actually requires, and what it looks like to stop chasing the formula and start doing the slow, deep work. In this episode: Why insight alone never sticks The whole-ecosystem approach to lasting change Why we were never meant to heal alone What real change actually requires HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. If you're interested in joining Thrive, the doors are OPEN so you can join by heading to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive. Use the code THRIVETODAY and get your first month completely free!

    31 min

  6. May 29

    85. Why We Stay Stuck (Even When We Know the Truth)

    You know the truth. You know what needs to change. So why can't you change? If you've ever felt paralyzed even when you could clearly see the pattern you were stuck in — this episode is for you. I'm breaking down the real reasons smart, self-aware women stay stuck, and it has nothing to do with willpower, discipline, or how much you want it. In this episode you'll discover: Why knowing the truth isn't enough to create lasting change — and what actually is How your nervous system does a hidden "cost-benefit analysis" that keeps you in familiar patterns, even painful ones The concept of "secondary gains" — what you might actually be getting out of staying stuck without even realizing it Why shame is one of the most powerful forces keeping you in old cycles What it means to feel truly safe enough to change — and why this work can't happen alone What actually shifts things (hint: it's not more information or trying harder) HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. If you’re interested in joining Thrive, the doors are OPEN so you can join by heading to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive. Use the code THRIVETODAY and get your first month completely free!

    30 min

  7. May 22

    84. Creating and Nurturing a Healthy Ecosystem to Thrive

    Your life is an ecosystem — and when one part is out of balance, everything else feels it too. In this episode, I'm sharing one of the most powerful frameworks I use with the women I coach: the idea that your life functions like a living ecosystem. Your body, soul, spirit, and external world are all deeply interconnected — and real, lasting change can only happen when you address the whole system, not just one piece. In this episode you'll discover: What your personal ecosystem looks like — and the four key layers that make it up Why trying to fix just one area while ignoring the others keeps you stuck Why you literally cannot heal in an environment that doesn't support healing Practical steps to create safety, alignment, and connection across all areas of your life What it looks like to build a thriving ecosystem from the inside out HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. If you’re interested in joining Thrive, the doors are OPEN so you can join by heading to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive. Use the code THRIVETODAY and get your first month completely free!

    33 min

  8. May 19

    BONUS: The Room I Built for Women Like You

    In this special bonus episode of The Own It Podcast, I'm opening the door to something I haven't talked about openly on the show yet — Thrive Collective. There's no framework today. No five-step teaching. Just a real conversation about the thing this community was built to solve: the loneliness of doing the healing work alone. In this episode: Why the healing journey can feel so lonely — and why it doesn't have to be The origin story behind Thrive Collective What actually happens inside the community — live teaching, Bloom Rooms, real connection Who Thrive is for (and who it's not for) Why community isn't a bonus to healing — it's part of how we were designed Whether you join or not, this one is for you if you've been doing the work alone and quietly longing for a room of women on the same page. HOW TO CONNECT WITH ME: Find me on social media @chantelleenelson for more engaging and practical content on how to show up to your life! And don't forget to visit comealivelifecoaching.com for more information on my offers and coaching. The doors of Thrive are OPEN — head to www.comealivelifecoaching.com/thrive. Use the code THRIVETODAY and get your first month completely free!

    25 min
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A podcast that dives into the art of personal growth, self-development, and showing up to your life in every season. Tune in for a dose of therapeutic wisdom and practical, actionable tips for everyday life!

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  • Creator
    Chantelle Nelson
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Clean
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    the own it podcast

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