IVF abroad: TTC and infertility for those considering conceiving abroad

Emma Haslam

Trying to conceive (TTC) and navigating fertility testing and treatment like IVF can be a long complicated conception rollercoaster - especially when navigating infertility challenges like high BMI, Low AMH, PCOS, Endometriosis, secondary infertility,  Unexplained infertility, recurrent miscarrage, baby loss, or being part of the LGBTQI+ community. Struggling with infertility and access to fertility treatment in your home country? Feeling frustrated by the lack of options, long waiting lists, NHS/state funded constraints, BMI restrictions, not getting answers, multiple failed IVF cycles, the high cost of private fertility treatment and at best average customer service?  My friend, you're not alone.   But what if there is another way?  Welcome to IVF abroad, the podcast designed to support, inform, and empower you on your journey to parenthood - wherever that path may lead.  I'm Emma Haslam, Founder of Your IVF abroad - the UK’s only independent reproductive agency. I am a  fellow fertility warrior and now Mama of one thanks to fertility treatment abroad. With my experience of helping hundreds of people worldwide since 2019 I will help you to understand and explore fertility options abroad in mainland Europe, like IVF, IUI, egg freezing, egg donation, sperm donation and double donation - making fertility treatment abroad safe, ethical, more affordable, accessible and a stress-reduced experience. Each week, I'll share expert insights, guest interviews, personal stories, and practical tips on topics like: Pros and cons of conceiving abroad IVF and other fertility treatments - what you need to knowNavigating donor conception with confidence How to save money on fertility treatments (and beyond!) Real-life experiences from others who've successfully conceived abroadExpert tips and guidance from professionals in the industryHonest conversations about the realities of infertilityTips, guidance, and real talk about all things related to infertility and trying to conceiveConsidering having fertility treatment like IVF,  donation, or advanced testing abroad in mainland Europe?  Or are you curious about how things work abroad and want to learn more? Either way, if you're looking for options on your fertility journey that are faster, more affordable, accessible and on your terms and timescales, then you are in the right place.  Here you will get honest advice from someone who TRULY gets it and learn how to get over the obstacles you are currently facing such as overwhelming high costs, the pressure of the ticking clock and being stuck in limbo. You want options, answers and you know that you deserve better. Subscribe now so you don’t miss an episode and I'll show everything I know about making your dream of parenthood a reality -  without the barriers and on your terms, timescales and without regrets! Love Emma x Emma Haslam is a fertility warrior, speaker, writer, campaigner, and resident fertility treatment abroad expert who has been featured in books, fertility apps, the press, radio, and podcasts. Her mission? To make fertility treatment more affordable, accessible, transparent, and supported for everyone. For more free resources, expert guidance and ways to work with Emma be sure to check out the show notes!

  1. 2D AGO

    Why More Americans Are Choosing IVF in Europe (And Saving Thousands of Dollars)

    Thinking about IVF in the US but frustrated by high costs and long waits? In this episode, I break down why I'm helping more Americans that are choosing to travel to Europe for fertility treatment - and how it can save you tens of thousands of dollars, for own egg IVF and more if you're having egg donation. We talk about: The real cost differences between IVF and egg donation in the US vs EuropeOther reasons why people are choosing to travel abroad for fertility treatmentHow to access world-class clinics abroad safelyOptions to reduce time spent travellingPlanning, testing, and timelines and how this works in practiceHow to choose the right country and clinicWhether you’re looking for your first IVF cycle, donor treatment, or trying to avoid long waits and excessive costs, this episode gives you clarity and actionable next steps. 💛 Take the next step: Watch my free training to learn more about the highlights and watchouts too https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclassBook a free call if you want to know what it looks like to work with me to grow your family with guidance and support every step of the way. https://calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally? yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

    19 min
  2. FEB 3

    Unexplained Infertility and Acupuncture: What It Can (and Can’t) Do

    Unexplained Infertility and Acupuncture: What It Can (and Can’t) Do Being told your infertility is 'unexplained' can feel frustrating, confusing, and hopeless. When tests come back “normal' but pregnancy still isn’t happening, many people are left wondering what else - if anything, they can do. In this episode, I’m joined by Rachel Sheriff, fertility acupuncturist and founder of The Fertility Suite, to explore the role acupuncture can play in supporting people with unexplained infertility. This is a grounded, honest conversation about what fertility acupuncture can offer -and just as importantly, what it can’t. We talk about acupuncture as a tool alongside the right medical care and how it can help people feel supported during an often overwhelming journey. In this episode, we cover: What unexplained infertility really means and how it impacts people emotionallyWhat fertility acupuncture actually involves (and how it differs from general acupuncture) How acupuncture can support the nervous system and why this is importantHow fertility acupuncture can support if you have been told that you have unexplained infertility What acupuncture is and isn't useful for when trying to conceiveWhen acupuncture might be helpful alongside IVF or other fertility treatmentThe importance of ethics and transparency in complimentary therapies and fertility careWhether you’re trying to conceive naturally, preparing for IVF, or navigating unexplained infertility or failed cycles, this episode offers reassurance, clarity, and a balanced perspective on other options. 👤 About Rachel Sheriff Rachel Sherriff is the Founder of The Fertility Suite, following her own journey with fertility struggles that led to her wanting to understand more about what could be done to support her own fertility and IVF cycle.  The Fertility Suite is a group of 6 fertility acupuncture clinics around the UK, Rachel and her team are passionate about helping couples to either get pregnant naturally or if IVF is needed helping them to prepare for the best possible outcome. They also work online globally with couples to offer advice and guidance. Rachel has featured widely in various media publications, is passionate about fertility education and hosts The Fertility Suite podcast which aims to share knowledge from fertility experts.  🔗 Connect with Rachel Sheriff instagram.com/thefertility_suite The Fertility Suite also offer free resources to support your fertility:  Fertility Supplements Guide Free Progesterone Webinar  Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally? yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

    51 min
  3. JAN 27

    Overwhelmed by Which Fertility Clinic or Country to Choose? Here’s How to Decide with Confidence

    Overwhelmed by Which Fertility Clinic or Country to Choose? Here’s How to Decide with Confidence Feeling overwhelmed by fertility clinics abroad? Not sure which country or clinic is right for you? You’re not alone. In this solo episode, I break down why so many people feel stuck when deciding where to have fertility treatment and how to start narrowing down your options without overwhelm. You’ll learn: ✨ Why too many options can actually make it harder to move forward ✨ The hidden reason most people get stuck - it’s rarely just the amount of choice, it's knowing how to assess their fit and suitability ✨ How these three steps will help to move you forwards and reduce overwhelm. ✨ How getting the right guidance and information can save you time, money, and stress If you are considering fertility testing/treatment abroad, this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and actionable steps to start moving forward. 💛 Take the next step with confidence: Sign up for my free training via the link below to get a step-by-step roadmap for choosing the right country and clinic for fertility treatment abroadhttps://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass Or, if you want to find out what it’s like to work with me directly, how I can help you to choose the best fit clinics and countries for your needs, you can book a free, no-obligation 15-minute call to discuss your situation and next steps.https://calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally? yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

    12 min
  4. JAN 20

    Before You Trust Advice About Fertility Treatment Abroad you need to know this

    Before You Trust Advice About Fertility Treatment Abroad you need to know this Episode Description: Thinking about going abroad for fertility treatment? Before you make any decisions, there’s one question you need to ask - and it could completely change the way you approach your options, the experience you have and the results you get. In this episode, I break down: Why so much advice about fertility treatment abroad isn’t as neutral as it seemsHow to spot when recommendations are influenced by commission, partnerships, or hidden incentives and even by well meaning friends or a stranger on the internetThe common myths that can lead people to choose the wrong country or clinicHow to protect your time, money, and emotional energy when exploring options overseasPractical steps and questions you can ask to make confident, informed decisions for your familyGoing abroad for fertility treatment can be an incredible option for lots of people - but only when you have clear, unbiased information to make informed decisions every step of the way. This episode will give you the tools to see through the noise and avoid mistakes that cost time, money, and hope. Highlights & Watchouts Covered in This Episode: How some influencer and agency recommendations can be biasedWhy confident advice doesn’t always mean correct adviceThe hidden costs of choosing the wrong clinic or country abroadThe simple “Who Benefits?” filter to apply before acting on adviceHow myths about fertility treatment abroad misleading and used as marketingHow to work out what is education content vs marketing Free Training: If you want the full, no-nonsense truth about going abroad for fertility testing and treatment including the highlights and more importantly the watch outs, I’ve put together a free training just for you to tell you everything you need to know to make informed decisions that are right for you and to help to grow your family with confidence. Get your free copy here - https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass Or book a 30 minute Pick My Brain call to get your questions answered honestly and without bias here - https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/pick-my-brain Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally? yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

    24 min
  5. JAN 13

    Things to let go of in the New Year (or at any time). Trying to Conceive/Fertility edition

    Things You Should Let Go of in the New Year (or Anytime) People are losing time on their fertility journey in ways that can sometimes be controlled (even though it may not feel like it) and by doing things because they are overwhelmed, stuck or because it feels 'safe', 'easier' but actually aren’t actually serving them. In this episode, I break down the habits, beliefs, and 'sensible' choices that quietly waste your time, money, and energy and sometimes even your chances. From waiting loops and indecision, to relying on Google/AI/'free' platforms or friends to match you to clinics, to thinking fertility treatment abroad is a second-class options - it’s time to learn more and let go of what isn’t helping you move forward in the right direction for you. If you’re ready to stop tolerating what’s keeping you stuck and take control of your fertility journey where you can. listen in. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why waiting and indecision can quietly cost you months (or years)Why 'easy' decisions - like choosing a local clinic aren’t always the best decisionsThe risks of relying on Google, AI, free platforms, or friends to match you to clinicsWhy accepting 'unexplained infertility' as a diagnosis or NHS options can hold you backHow thinking of going abroad as 'second-class' can cost you opportunitiesWhy winging it abroad is risky and how to do it rightKey Takeaway: Most people don’t lose time because they do nothing — they lose time because they keep doing things that feel sensible, or they are not able to do anything because they are so overwhelmed and unclear about what next step to take and it can feel safer not doing anything - but this actually isn't serving them.Work With Me: If this episode resonates and you’re ready to move forward with clarity, guidance and support. I offer various services including work one-to-one for people who don’t want another year going in circles. I have very limited availability remaining in January for 121, and all the details are below. Links & Resources: Work with me: https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/work-with-meFree resources: https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/free-resourcesInstagram: www.instagram.com/YourivfabroadWant to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally? yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

    29 min
  6. 12/23/2025

    Gentle Reflection and Reset

    If this year has felt heavy, repetitive, or emotionally draining, it’s easy to wonder: What if next year looks exactly the same? In this episode, I’m helping you pause, reflect, and consider how next year could look different - without pressure, guilt, or unrealistic resolutions. Emma explores why patterns repeat, how fear and overwhelm can keep you stuck, and the quiet power of choosing one thing differently so you can step into the year ahead with clarity and confidence. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to recognise patterns that may have kept you stuck this yearWhy repetition doesn’t mean failure or fault - it often signals a lack of clarity or supportHow to choose one to do one thing differently to create meaningful changeGentle ways to reflect on what this year has taught you and what you want to carry forward and what you want to leave behindYour next step: 🌟 Looking for guidance and support to make changes in 2026? Book a call with me to talk through your situation and see if working together is the right next step (from £397): https://calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min?month=2025-12 🎧 Want more clarity on how going abroad for fertility treatment works first? Watch my free training to understand the process, costs, timelines, and how to choose the right clinic abroad with confidence: https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass Your IVF abroad is closed until 6th January and the podcast will resume from 13th January. Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally? yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

    15 min
  7. 12/16/2025

    What to Do If You Expected to Be Pregnant by Christmas… and You’re Not

    What to Do If You Expected to Be Pregnant by Christmas… and You’re Not Christmas can feel totally joyful for some, but for those trying to conceive, navigating IVF, or planning fertility treatment, it can also be a season of grief, stress, and emotional triggers. If you imagined being pregnant by now, December can bring reminders of hopes unfulfilled, questions from friends and family members, and a constant comparison to other people’s pregnancies or announcements. In this episode, Emma Haslam shares validation, guidance, and practical strategies to help you navigate the festive season with more confidence, peace, and emotional protection. 💬 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why Christmas can feel so emotionally heavy when you’re TTC or undergoing fertility treatmentHow to navigate things that trigger you, including the questionsHow to cope with seeing pregnancies or announcements around youPractical ways to protect your energy during gatheringsHow to plan ahead and how to create space for yourselfWhen it makes sense to seek extra support in your network to provide back up and when to absent yourself✨ Loved this episode? Please follow the podcast, leave a review and also share this episode with someone who might need it this festive season. Your support helps others feel seen, heard, and less alone during what can be an emotionally complex time. Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally? yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

    22 min
  8. 12/09/2025

    Awkward fertility questions and how to answer them

    The Awkward Fertility Questions You are not prepared for(And How to Answer Them) There is never a good time for these questions, but I feel during any celebratory time like Christmas it can feel more overwhelming when you're TTC or navigating IVF. And while everyone else is talking about food, gifts and plans… you’re bracing for the questions - the ones that cut deeper than people realise and you deserve to protect your peace. In this episode, Emma shares real, practical scripts you can use when family, friends or colleagues make comments about fertility, IVF, age, your body that are not helpful! You’ll learn how to set boundaries that suit you, how to protect your emotional energy, and move through Christmas and other occasions like Thanksgiving, without feeling triggered, exposed or blindsided. This is your toolkit for staying grounded, protecting your peace, and getting through the holidays or any family/friend gatherings - on your terms. In This Episode You’ll Learn: Why seemingly innocent Christmas questions can feel so painful How to respond to:  • “When are you having kids?”  • “Why don’t you just relax?”  • “Have you thought about adoption?”  • “Should you be drinking alcohol if you’re trying?”  • “Aren’t you getting too old for all this?” Even if the intention is good and including what to say when the intention is not good! Polite, firm and shut-it-down scripts for every situation, plus a one liner that is easy to remember and a great distraction for most situations How to protect your emotional energy during the festive season Ways to navigate triggering conversations without over-explaining Other things to consider to make these situations more about thriving than surviving and on your terms Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers: calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min FREE Online fertility pharmacy introduction - Need an introduction to a specialist pharmacist for a no obligation quote for all your fertility medication at competitive rates and delivered globally? yourivfabroad.co.uk/online-fertility-pharmacy-service Your IVF abroad planner/journal - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

    25 min

About

Trying to conceive (TTC) and navigating fertility testing and treatment like IVF can be a long complicated conception rollercoaster - especially when navigating infertility challenges like high BMI, Low AMH, PCOS, Endometriosis, secondary infertility,  Unexplained infertility, recurrent miscarrage, baby loss, or being part of the LGBTQI+ community. Struggling with infertility and access to fertility treatment in your home country? Feeling frustrated by the lack of options, long waiting lists, NHS/state funded constraints, BMI restrictions, not getting answers, multiple failed IVF cycles, the high cost of private fertility treatment and at best average customer service?  My friend, you're not alone.   But what if there is another way?  Welcome to IVF abroad, the podcast designed to support, inform, and empower you on your journey to parenthood - wherever that path may lead.  I'm Emma Haslam, Founder of Your IVF abroad - the UK’s only independent reproductive agency. I am a  fellow fertility warrior and now Mama of one thanks to fertility treatment abroad. With my experience of helping hundreds of people worldwide since 2019 I will help you to understand and explore fertility options abroad in mainland Europe, like IVF, IUI, egg freezing, egg donation, sperm donation and double donation - making fertility treatment abroad safe, ethical, more affordable, accessible and a stress-reduced experience. Each week, I'll share expert insights, guest interviews, personal stories, and practical tips on topics like: Pros and cons of conceiving abroad IVF and other fertility treatments - what you need to knowNavigating donor conception with confidence How to save money on fertility treatments (and beyond!) Real-life experiences from others who've successfully conceived abroadExpert tips and guidance from professionals in the industryHonest conversations about the realities of infertilityTips, guidance, and real talk about all things related to infertility and trying to conceiveConsidering having fertility treatment like IVF,  donation, or advanced testing abroad in mainland Europe?  Or are you curious about how things work abroad and want to learn more? Either way, if you're looking for options on your fertility journey that are faster, more affordable, accessible and on your terms and timescales, then you are in the right place.  Here you will get honest advice from someone who TRULY gets it and learn how to get over the obstacles you are currently facing such as overwhelming high costs, the pressure of the ticking clock and being stuck in limbo. You want options, answers and you know that you deserve better. Subscribe now so you don’t miss an episode and I'll show everything I know about making your dream of parenthood a reality -  without the barriers and on your terms, timescales and without regrets! Love Emma x Emma Haslam is a fertility warrior, speaker, writer, campaigner, and resident fertility treatment abroad expert who has been featured in books, fertility apps, the press, radio, and podcasts. Her mission? To make fertility treatment more affordable, accessible, transparent, and supported for everyone. For more free resources, expert guidance and ways to work with Emma be sure to check out the show notes!