Perch "The Thoughtful Pause Podcast"

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Welcome to the Perch Podcast Channel: The Thoughtful Pause Podcast Perch stands for Pause, Evaluate, Responses to Circumvent Harm, a philosophy inspiring meaningful conversations. Hosted by Tricia Porter and Toby Malbec, seasoned business professionals and life partners, this podcast blends decades of expertise with a mission to foster understanding. Guided by the belief that where you sit determines what you see, and what you see determines what you do, they explore how experiences shape perspectives and how expanding our worldview fosters empathy. From different races, worlds, and viewpoints, Tricia and Toby tackle complex topics with curiosity and a commitment to positive change. Unafraid of controversy, they challenge listeners to embrace a higher perspective and see differences as opportunities for connection. Whether seeking personal growth or a fresh lens on life, Perch is more than a podcast—it’s a mission. Join us to pause, reflect, and rise to higher ground.

  1. The Hijacking of Woke: How ‘Woke’ Shaped and Divided a Movement

    01/22/2025

    The Hijacking of Woke: How ‘Woke’ Shaped and Divided a Movement

    Send us a text When did woke become such a controversial word? This episode unravels its powerful journey—from a symbol of awareness and social justice to a term used to spark division. Once rooted in the fight for fairness and equality, woke now carries layers of meaning that fuel debates across culture, politics, and workplaces. We explore how this transformation happened and what it says about today's society. Focusing on real stories and history, we connect the past to the present, asking tough questions about freedom of speech, accountability, and the true purpose of awareness. Are we using words like woke to create understanding, or are they tearing us apart? This episode dives into the heart of listening, learning, and engaging in meaningful conversations. If you’re ready to see the bigger picture and rethink the power of language, this is the podcast for you. Remember, your Perch isn’t just a place to sit; it’s a place to seek a higher perspective.

    1h 4m
  2. Embracing Change as 2025 Flows In~Naming Your River

    01/08/2025 · BONUS

    Embracing Change as 2025 Flows In~Naming Your River

    Send us a text At the year's close, I wrote The River of Transformation as a powerful reminder that change doesn’t have to wait. Rather than relying on fleeting New Year’s resolutions, transformation begins with one simple yet profound action: the power of your words. In just three minutes, this episode will challenge you to step into your own flow of change by acknowledging where you've been and using your voice to shape where you’re going. By naming the obstacles that hold you back and speaking life into your journey, you can break through self-doubt, overcome limiting beliefs, and ignite the transformation you've been longing for. This isn’t just about setting goals; it’s about choosing to take control of your path and embracing the power within you—today. #PersonalTransformation, #LifeAlteringTransformation, #OvercomingSelfDoubt, #SelfEmpowerment, #PowerOfWords, Remember, your Perch isn’t just a place to sit; it’s a place to seek a higher perspective.

    3 min
  3. Why Are Food Prices So High? Unpacking the Hidden Costs and Solutions

    12/26/2024

    Why Are Food Prices So High? Unpacking the Hidden Costs and Solutions

    Send us a text Why are food prices so high right now, and what’s causing it? From supply chain issues and rising fuel costs to the choices we make at the grocery store, this episode breaks down the hidden reasons behind skyrocketing food prices. We’ll explore how the food journey—from farms to warehouses to your table—is more complicated and costly than it seems. Learn why seasonal produce, imported goods, and food waste play a more significant price role than you might think. Discover how private labels can save you money and how restaurants face unique challenges with pricing and waste. Most importantly, we’ll discuss how your eating habits can make a difference. By the end, you’ll see how understanding the food system can help us make more intelligent choices. Please tune in to connect the dots between what you eat, how it gets to you, and what it costs! Remember, your Perch isn’t just a place to sit; it’s a place to seek a higher perspective.

    53 min
  4. Religion ~ When a Belief Becomes an Absolute

    12/12/2024

    Religion ~ When a Belief Becomes an Absolute

    Send us a text Religion shapes our identities, communities, and worldviews, but what happens when it becomes a rigid boundary instead of a bridge to understanding? If religion is considered a taboo subject, how can we ever develop a deeper connection with people who think and believe differently than we do? With over 4,000 religions worldwide, we explore whether the structure and community of faith draw us in or if there’s something more profound we’re all seeking. What happens when faith’s boundaries stop meaningful dialogue? Can love, a value shared by so many religions, transcend these divides? Through personal stories and reflection, we ask the tough questions about faith, belonging, and whether religion can adapt to our diverse, ever-changing world. Why do some beliefs foster connection while others create division? How can openness and understanding reshape our faith and our lives? Let’s tackle these questions and open the door to honest conversations about what matters most. Remember, your Perch isn’t just a place to sit; it’s a place to seek a higher perspective.

    34 min
  5. Workplace Loyalty: Should You Commit to a Job That Can Never Truly Commit to You?

    11/27/2024

    Workplace Loyalty: Should You Commit to a Job That Can Never Truly Commit to You?

    Send us a text Workplace Loyalty: Is It Still Relevant in Today’s Shifting Culture? In a world where workplace loyalty often feels one-sided, can we still find meaning in being committed to employers who may not always return the favor? As modern work culture evolves, we’re faced with uncomfortable truths about what it means to dedicate ourselves to our jobs truly and whether doing so is even worth it. Social media platforms like LinkedIn and Facebook have blurred the lines between professional identity and personal expression, adding complexity to our sense of belonging at work. This episode challenges you to think deeply: Is loyalty a relic of the past, or can it adapt to a world where boundaries between work and life are increasingly fluid? Together, we explore the cost of allegiance, the power of setting boundaries, and how redefining commitment might allow us to reclaim our time, energy, and purpose. Remember, your Perch isn’t just a place to sit; it’s a place to seek a higher perspective.

    38 min
  6. When Settling in Love Becomes a Saddle! The High Cost of Loyalty

    11/13/2024

    When Settling in Love Becomes a Saddle! The High Cost of Loyalty

    Send us a text In this episode of Counting the Cost of Loyalty, we uncover the high emotional cost of settling in love and the true meaning of loyalty in relationships that no longer uplift us. Hosts Tree and Toby explore why so many remain loyal out of fear of loneliness, societal pressures, and financial dependence—forces that often turn love into an “unbreakable saddle” rather than a source of true happiness and growth. "Settling in love is like trading your dreams for comfort—when what you truly deserve is a love that ignites, not one that merely sustains." Tree and Toby dive into how personal insecurities, learned patterns, and societal expectations shape our capacity for self-worth and authentic connections. Drawing from Dr. John Gottman’s relationship insights, they discuss how true loyalty should elevate rather than diminish us. With heartfelt wisdom and humor, Tree and Toby invite listeners to reflect: Is my loyalty lifting me up, or holding me down? This episode speaks to anyone ready to question what a healthy, fulfilling relationship truly means. Remember, your Perch isn’t just a place to sit; it’s a place to seek a higher perspective.

    53 min
  7. Political Party Loyalty ~ When the Party Is Over, Why Are You Still Sticking Around?

    10/30/2024

    Political Party Loyalty ~ When the Party Is Over, Why Are You Still Sticking Around?

    Send us a text In the first episode of our four-part series, Counting the Cost of Loyalty, we ask some challenging questions: Is your loyalty to a political party truly an expression of your beliefs, or are you following a tradition that may no longer serve you? How often do we align with party lines instead of our values? As America’s political landscape becomes more crowded, diverse, and polarized, it's time to pause and reflect—are we staying loyal for the right reasons or simply out of habit? We explore how the lure of personalities and the pull of party doctrines can overshadow our convictions. Are we losing sight of what matters most by aligning too closely with labels that may no longer represent us? And how much influence should a political affiliation have over our personal growth and moral compass? Throughout this episode, we dive into how political tribalism often fuels division and stifles dialogue. Do politicians benefit from keeping us divided? When words like “woke” become weapons to shut down the conversation, who profits and loses? By sharing stories and insights, we highlight how rigid allegiances can limit our potential and even silence us. We also look at how our values shape our political loyalties. In a world where election cycles breed division and hyperbole, is it possible to focus on issues that transcend financial self-interest, like justice and healthcare? Can we move beyond labels to find common ground and reclaim the true power of our voice? As you listen, consider this: When was the last time you questioned the cost of your loyalty? Are you ready to break free from the cycle and redefine what it means to be loyal—not to parties, but to the principles that shape who you are and strive to be? Join us as we ask the hard questions, dig deep into the essence of political loyalty, and encourage a perspective beyond partisanship to pursue what truly matters. Remember, your Perch isn’t just a place to sit; it’s a place to seek a higher perspective.

    51 min

  8. 10/16/2024

    Traveling France as an interracial couple: Paris and Strasbourg

    Send us a text In this episode, we share our unforgettable journey as an interracial couple traveling through France, from the lively streets of Paris to the peaceful charm of Strasbourg. As an African American woman from the west side of Chicago and my partner Toby, who grew up in New York’s Hudson Valley and lived in France during his early years, we experienced the country through unique and personal lenses. Traveling as an interracial couple, we were struck by how comfortable we felt in rural France—an experience that differs from how we sometimes feel in rural parts of the U.S. We also dive into the increasing rates of interracial marriages in America, especially among Latino and Asian communities, and reflect on what these changes mean for society today. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about race, travel, and the cultural insights we gained along the way. #travelinfrance,#paristravel,#cultrual journey,#strasbourgtravel,#travelpodcast https://www.youperch.com/ Remember, your Perch isn’t just a place to sit; it’s a place to seek a higher perspective.

    57 min
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Welcome to the Perch Podcast Channel: The Thoughtful Pause Podcast Perch stands for Pause, Evaluate, Responses to Circumvent Harm, a philosophy inspiring meaningful conversations. Hosted by Tricia Porter and Toby Malbec, seasoned business professionals and life partners, this podcast blends decades of expertise with a mission to foster understanding. Guided by the belief that where you sit determines what you see, and what you see determines what you do, they explore how experiences shape perspectives and how expanding our worldview fosters empathy. From different races, worlds, and viewpoints, Tricia and Toby tackle complex topics with curiosity and a commitment to positive change. Unafraid of controversy, they challenge listeners to embrace a higher perspective and see differences as opportunities for connection. Whether seeking personal growth or a fresh lens on life, Perch is more than a podcast—it’s a mission. Join us to pause, reflect, and rise to higher ground.

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