Self Improvement, Mindfulness and Mental Health Tips - The Coached Soul Podcast

Dr. Steve Hudgins, LPC-S, NCC

Self-Improvement, Mindfulness, and Mental Health Tips – The Coached Soul Podcast is your go-to resource for personal growth and emotional well-being. Hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Evelyn, a transformational therapeutic coach, this podcast dives deep into self-improvement, mindfulness, and mental health. From managing anxiety and depression to improving relationships and embracing a mindful lifestyle, Dr. Steve and Kenya explore life-changing topics that empower you to grow. Through open conversations, expert insights, and inspiring guest interviews, they provide practical strategies to enhance mental wellness and personal development. This podcast isn’t just about listening—it’s about transforming. If you seek guidance on mental health, self-improvement, and mindfulness, tune in to discover the tools and support you need to thrive. A New Episode is released every week!

  1. 5d ago

    The University of Hard Knocks: How Life, Family, and Faith Teach Us to Grow

    What if some of life's hardest experiences are actually part of the curriculum? In this episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins and Kenya Evelyn explore the idea of the "University of Hard Knocks", the lifelong classroom where our experiences, relationships, disappointments, and challenges become opportunities for growth. Through candid reflections on family dynamics, faith, personal identity, and difficult experiences within communities, Steve and Kenya examine how the people and situations that challenge us can also teach us valuable lessons about boundaries, courage, authenticity, and self-awareness. They discuss what it means to speak up when something doesn't feel right, recognize unhealthy patterns, and remain true to yourself even when doing so creates disappointment or discomfort. The conversation also explores how difficult experiences within family or faith communities can affect our sense of identity without having to define our relationship with faith or our larger purpose. In this episode, you'll discover: Why life's hardest experiences can become powerful teachers How family dynamics can reveal patterns we need to understand and change The importance of speaking up and setting healthy boundaries How disappointment can lead to greater self-awareness Why authenticity requires courage How difficult experiences within faith communities can be processed without losing your sense of purpose Why we can be both the student and the teacher in our own lives Whether you're navigating family challenges, questioning old beliefs, recovering from disappointment, or simply trying to make sense of life's difficult lessons, this conversation offers a thoughtful reminder that hardship doesn't have to define your story. Sometimes the lessons we never asked for become the ones that change us the most. About Coached Soul™:  Coached Soul™ is an empowering podcast hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Dr. Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life. For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/

    The University of Hard Knocks: How Life, Family, and Faith Teach Us to Grow
  2. Aug 14

    Breaking Family Patterns: Healing, Blended Families, and New Beginnings with Yvette Leal

    In this heartfelt episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins sits down with educator, student leadership advisor, and coauthor Yvette Leal to explore family relationships, blended families, heartbreak, healing, and the courage to break generational patterns. Drawing from her own experiences as a single mother, her journey through higher education, and the challenges of building a blended family, Yvette shares how difficult seasons can become opportunities for growth, self-reflection, and deeper connection. Together, Dr. Steve and Yvette explore how childhood experiences and family patterns can influence the way we approach relationships as adults, why empathy is essential when bringing families together, and how intentional communication can help create greater unity in diverse households.   In this episode, you'll discover: How past family experiences can shape adult relationships The challenges and opportunities that come with blended families Why breaking generational patterns starts with self-awareness How empathy can create stronger connections between family members Lessons Yvette learned through heartbreak, loss, motherhood, and new beginnings Why healing yourself can help change the story for future generations How families can build trust, connection, and a stronger sense of belonging Key Moments: 06:23 Dating frustrations and advice from a friend 07:47 Misunderstanding conversation about Hill Country 11:39 Shifting Focus to Friendship 14:00 Discussing relationship challenges 19:13 Being inspired by a live stream 21:02 Learning through visualization 24:08 Discussing the new book "The Family Mask" 29:23 Animal bonding and education impact Whether you're part of a blended family, navigating a major life transition, or working to break patterns from your own childhood, this conversation offers honest stories, practical insight, and hope for creating healthier relationships. Your past may shape your story, but it doesn't have to determine what comes next.   About the guest :  Yvette Leal, MS Coauthor, Educator, and Student Leadership Advisor Yvette Leal is an educator, student leadership advisor, and coauthor of The Journey Companion Workbook. She holds a bachelor's degree in Psychology and a master's degree in Sociology, bringing a unique perspective on human development, family dynamics, and resilience. Drawing on her experience working with parents, children, and students, Yvette is passionate about helping people build confidence, navigate life's challenges, and develop meaningful connections. Through her work in education and leadership, she empowers young people to discover their voice, serve others, and create positive change in their communities.   About Coached Soul™:  Coached Soul™ is an empowering podcast hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Dr. Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life. For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/

    Breaking Family Patterns: Healing, Blended Families, and New Beginnings with Yvette Leal
  3. Aug 7

    How Childhood Divorce Shapes Adult Relationships: Healing Family Trauma with Yvette Leal

    How much of your adult life is shaped by the family you grew up in? In this episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins welcomes Yvette Leal, an experienced high school educator from Texas, for an honest conversation about growing up in a blended, or "mosaic," family and the lasting impact of childhood divorce, attachment, and generational trauma. Drawing from her own life experiences, Yvette reflects on navigating family separation, changing parental roles, and the emotional challenges that came with growing up between different households and cultural backgrounds. Together, she and Dr. Steve explore how childhood experiences often shape our relationships, identity, and emotional wellbeing well into adulthood. Key Learnings:  How childhood divorce can influence adult relationships The emotional realities of growing up in a blended family What transgenerational trauma looks like across families The role of attachment and early experiences in shaping identity Why therapy and self-awareness are powerful tools for healing How resilience can emerge even from difficult family experiences Key Moments:    04:47 Challenges of teaching high school kids 09:35 Parents disciplining with spanks 11:38 Dealing with family and relationships 13:55 Admiring an older sister 17:18 Family history and heritage tensions 21:34 Mom's unusual weight gain 26:37 Discussing transgenerational trauma effects Whether you grew up in a blended family, experienced divorce as a child, or are working to break unhealthy family patterns, this episode offers compassionate insights and practical encouragement for your healing journey. Tune in and discover how understanding your past can help you build healthier relationships and a stronger future. About the guest :  Yvette Leal, MS Coauthor, Educator, and Student Leadership Advisor Yvette Leal is an educator, student leadership advisor, and coauthor of The Journey Companion Workbook. She holds a bachelor's degree in Psychology and a master's degree in Sociology, bringing a unique perspective on human development, family dynamics, and resilience. Drawing on her experience working with parents, children, and students, Yvette is passionate about helping people build confidence, navigate life's challenges, and develop meaningful connections. Through her work in education and leadership, she empowers young people to discover their voice, serve others, and create positive change in their communities. About Coached Soul™:  Coached Soul™ is an empowering podcast hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Dr. Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life.   For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/

    How Childhood Divorce Shapes Adult Relationships: Healing Family Trauma with Yvette Leal
  4. Jul 31

    How to Find Calm in Chaos: The Five Questions That Build Resilience and Purpose

    What if finding peace didn't require having all the answers just asking the right questions? In this episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins welcomes award-winning coach, author, and TEDx speaker Anne Barry Jolles, creator of the Grace Trail, a simple yet powerful framework designed to help people move from overwhelm to clarity through five transformative questions.   Rather than trying to fix every problem, Anne explains how slowing down, becoming curious, and listening to your inner wisdom can create lasting emotional resilience and personal growth. Together, they explore how gratitude, releasing what no longer serves you, accepting the present moment, challenging old beliefs, and embracing new possibilities can help anyone navigate life's uncertainty with greater peace and purpose. Anne also shares the inspiring story behind the Grace Trail, real-life examples of its impact, and how the framework is helping veterans, communities, and individuals facing stress, anxiety, and major life transitions.   Key Moments:  The five questions behind the Grace Trail framework How to calm an overwhelmed mind and reduce stress Why curiosity is more powerful than self-criticism Practical ways to build resilience through gratitude and acceptance How to let go of limiting beliefs and embrace new possibilities Why emotional wellness begins with listening instead of fixing   Key Learning:  05:49 Exploring Grace Trail questions 09:57 Focusing on what you can control 11:09 Discussing acceptance and acknowledgment 16:48 Prioritizing your next steps 18:49 Imagining possibilities with a magic wand 21:20 Meeting animals in nature 24:36 Owning and reacting to our story 29:18 Installing Grace Trail at Brockton VA   Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, navigating change, or searching for greater clarity and purpose, this conversation offers practical tools you can begin using immediately to cultivate more peace, resilience, and joy. Tune in and discover how five simple questions can help you move from chaos to calm one step at a time.   About the guest :  Anne Barry Jolles found herself overwhelmed by the noise and busyness of daily life, just like so many others. Amidst the chaos, she was fortunate to hear five powerful words - five simple questions - that she wrote down and began to use. This moment sparked the creation of Grace Trail, a process that guides people to quiet their minds and discover their own answers. Anne’s story is one of transforming personal moments into a gift for others, helping people navigate fear, uncertainty, and anxiety. Through her Grace Trail, Anne empowers individuals to step back, listen to themselves, and confidently choose their next steps in a noisy world. How to connect Anne Barry Jolles :  Website : www.GraceTrail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gracetrailofficial/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Grace_Trail_Official Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gracetrailofficial Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annejolles/   About Coached Soul™:  Coached Soul™ is an empowering podcast hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Dr. Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life.   For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/

    How to Find Calm in Chaos: The Five Questions That Build Resilience and Purpose
  5. Jul 24

    How to Stop Comparing Yourself : Finding Courage, Authenticity, and Inner Peace

    What if the greatest freedom isn't found by changing your circumstances - but by changing the way you see yourself? In this episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins and Kenya Evelyn explore how comparison, past experiences, and limiting beliefs can quietly keep us disconnected from who we were created to be. Together, they share practical tools for grounding yourself in the present, embracing self-compassion, and finding the courage to live authentically. From breathwork and embodiment practices to shifting your inner dialogue, this conversation offers simple yet powerful strategies to help you break free from old patterns and reconnect with your true self. Dr. Steve and Kenya remind us that healing doesn't begin by becoming someone else - it begins by fully accepting who we are today. In this episode, you'll discover: Why comparison steals joy and keeps us feeling stuck How grounding practices can calm the mind and body The connection between past trauma and present-day thinking Simple ways to cultivate self-compassion and emotional resilience How courage grows through presence, not perfection Why authenticity is one of the greatest forms of personal freedom Key Moments:  05:31 The impact of social comparison 08:47 Understanding suffering and faith 10:36 Embracing diverse perspectives 14:52 Finding personal power through movement 17:58 College spring break cave adventure 22:37 Embracing Playfulness and Possibility 26:47 Words of encouragement and love Whether you're navigating self-doubt, healing from past experiences, or simply looking for practical ways to become more present, this episode offers encouragement and actionable insights to help you move forward with confidence and peace. Tune in and discover that true freedom begins the moment you stop comparing yourself and start embracing who you were meant to be. About Coached Soul™:  Coached Soul™ is an empowering podcast hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Dr. Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life.   For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/

    How to Stop Comparing Yourself : Finding Courage, Authenticity, and Inner Peace
  6. Jul 17

    Finding True Freedom: Breaking Free from the Battles Within | Dr. Steve Hudgins and Kenya Evelyn

    What does it truly mean to be free? In this inspiring episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins and Kenya Evelyn explore a different kind of independence the freedom that comes from healing emotional wounds, letting go of limiting beliefs, and reclaiming your authentic self. As we reflect on the meaning of freedom, they invite listeners to look beyond external celebrations and consider the internal battles that often keep us feeling stuck. From childhood experiences and family patterns to self-criticism and fear, they discuss how our past can quietly shape our present and how intentional healing can help us move forward with greater peace and purpose. In this episode, you'll discover: What emotional freedom really means How old wounds and family patterns influence your daily life Why awareness is the first step toward lasting change Practical ways to break unhealthy emotional cycles The power of self-compassion, forgiveness, and intentional living How to celebrate life with greater joy, presence, and authenticity Key Moments:  03:54 Importance of Celebrating Holidays 06:26 Reflections on Freedom and Intentional Living 12:09 Finding inner freedom through truth 13:09 Self-reflection and personal responsibility 18:15 Inner child and parental patterns 21:13 Discussing childhood bullying and past trauma 23:32 Borrowing Courage and Self-Reflection Whether you're working through past hurts, seeking deeper self-awareness, or simply longing to experience more peace and freedom, this conversation offers practical encouragement and timeless wisdom for your healing journey. Tune in and discover that true freedom isn't just something we celebrate - it's something we choose every day. About Coached Soul™:  Coached Soul™ is an empowering podcast hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Dr. Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life.   For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/

    Finding True Freedom: Breaking Free from the Battles Within | Dr. Steve Hudgins and Kenya Evelyn
  7. Jul 10

    How to Recover from Burnout: Keith Cole’s Journey Through Trauma and Faith

    Burnout doesn't happen overnight - and neither does healing. In this powerful episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins welcomes Marine Corps Vietnam veteran, author, and speaker Keith Cole for an honest conversation about recovering from burnout, overcoming trauma, and finding hope through faith. After experiencing the realities of combat in Vietnam, Keith carried the emotional weight of grief, loss, and unresolved trauma for years. Like many high achievers, he pushed forward until the hidden wounds eventually led to burnout. In this candid discussion, Keith shares how his journey through emotional exhaustion, anger, unhealthy coping mechanisms, and personal loss ultimately became a journey toward healing and purpose. Together, Dr. Steve Hudgins and Keith explore the deep connection between trauma and burnout, why true recovery requires more than simply managing stress, and how faith, surrender, and community can play a vital role in restoring emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. In this episode, you'll learn: Why unresolved trauma often leads to burnout The difference between coping and true healing How grief and emotional pain can silently affect everyday life Practical lessons for overcoming burnout and finding resilience The role of faith, hope, and purpose in long-term recovery Whether you're feeling emotionally exhausted, navigating personal loss, supporting a loved one, or simply searching for a healthier path forward, this conversation offers encouragement, practical wisdom, and hope that healing is always possible. Tune in and discover why recovering from burnout isn't about becoming stronger - it's about becoming whole. Key Moments:  03:55 Wartime injury experience 08:50 Questioning survival and faith 12:59 Hospital stay and I and I duty 16:45 Leaving the Marine Corps 18:54 Late-night office drinking session 20:57 Reflecting on personal experiences About the guest :  Keith Cole is a United States Marine Corps Vietnam combat veteran, retired CPA, author, and speaker dedicated to helping others overcome burnout, trauma, and life's toughest challenges. After serving in Vietnam and building a successful professional career, Keith experienced severe burnout that led him on a journey of healing, self-discovery, and spiritual renewal. Drawing from his lived experiences, Keith shares practical insights on resilience, faith, and the importance of moving beyond self-reliance to find lasting recovery. His book, Burnout: God's Recovery Plan, combines personal stories with actionable principles to help individuals navigate stress, emotional exhaustion, and life's unexpected hardships. Today, Keith speaks to business leaders, caregivers, veterans, and organizations, inspiring others to embrace hope, healing, and purpose through authentic storytelling and faith-driven wisdom. How to connect Keith : https://www.RecoveryByFaith.com About Coached Soul™:  Coached Soul™ is an empowering podcast hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Dr. Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life. For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/

    How to Recover from Burnout: Keith Cole’s Journey Through Trauma and Faith
  8. Jul 3

    From Grief to Purpose: Vietnam Veteran Keith Cole on Healing, Service, and Resilience

    What does it take to heal after experiencing profound loss and the realities of war? In this meaningful Fourth of July episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins, licensed professional counselor and Army veteran, welcomes Keith Cole - a United States Marine Corps combat veteran, retired CPA, and author - for an honest conversation about grief, military service, resilience, and finding purpose after trauma. Keith shares how the loss of his father redirected his life, leading him to enlist in the Marines during the Vietnam War. He reflects on the emotional challenges of combat, the lifelong impact of military service, and the healing that became possible through storytelling, reflection, and helping others. In this episode, you'll discover: How grief can shape life's biggest decisions Keith's journey from Marine Corps combat to personal healing Why talking about difficult experiences is essential for recovery The power of brotherhood, service, and community Lessons on resilience, purpose, and emotional growth after trauma What freedom truly means beyond the battlefield Whether you're a veteran, have loved ones who served, or simply want to understand the resilience of the human spirit, this conversation offers timeless lessons about healing, courage, and hope. Key Moments:  05:49 Joining the Navy as a chaplain 08:42 Ambushed during jungle patrol 12:25 Helicopter landing under potential fire 15:15 Teen's realization and prayer moment 18:04 Family reactions during Vietnam War 21:36 Returning from Vietnam About the guest :  Keith Cole is a United States Marine Corps Vietnam combat veteran, retired CPA, author, and speaker dedicated to helping others overcome burnout, trauma, and life's toughest challenges. After serving in Vietnam and building a successful professional career, Keith experienced severe burnout that led him on a journey of healing, self-discovery, and spiritual renewal. Drawing from his lived experiences, Keith shares practical insights on resilience, faith, and the importance of moving beyond self-reliance to find lasting recovery. His book, Burnout: God's Recovery Plan, combines personal stories with actionable principles to help individuals navigate stress, emotional exhaustion, and life's unexpected hardships. Today, Keith speaks to business leaders, caregivers, veterans, and organizations, inspiring others to embrace hope, healing, and purpose through authentic storytelling and faith-driven wisdom. How to connect Keith : https://www.RecoveryByFaith.com About Coached Soul™:  Coached Soul™ is an empowering podcast hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Dr. Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through interviews with guests who have overcome significant challenges. Coached Soul is not just a podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life.   For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/

    From Grief to Purpose: Vietnam Veteran Keith Cole on Healing, Service, and Resilience

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Self-Improvement, Mindfulness, and Mental Health Tips – The Coached Soul Podcast is your go-to resource for personal growth and emotional well-being. Hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Evelyn, a transformational therapeutic coach, this podcast dives deep into self-improvement, mindfulness, and mental health. From managing anxiety and depression to improving relationships and embracing a mindful lifestyle, Dr. Steve and Kenya explore life-changing topics that empower you to grow. Through open conversations, expert insights, and inspiring guest interviews, they provide practical strategies to enhance mental wellness and personal development. This podcast isn’t just about listening—it’s about transforming. If you seek guidance on mental health, self-improvement, and mindfulness, tune in to discover the tools and support you need to thrive. A New Episode is released every week!