The Human Maturity Podcast

Josef Shapiro

Human Maturity explores development, self-authority, and reality for people interested in orientation, coherence, and excellence. For those willing to question what they think they know. content.clearandopen.com

  1. Sep 15

    How Do You Benefit From Sameness? (HMP31)

    Members get this one early! Why do some people receive important feedback and change quickly, while others can hear the same feedback repeatedly for years without substantially reorganizing? Yes, I’m talking about reorganizational velocity again: the speed at which we allow new information, feedback, and reality to change the way we think and operate. The challenge is that receiving information is not the same as reorganizing around it. We can understand feedback intellectually, agree with it, discuss it, and even take action while preserving essentially the same underlying structure that created the problem in the first place. The episode explores why this happens, including our attachment to coherence, identity, certainty, comfort, and existing ways of making sense of the world. Sometimes what looks like resistance to feedback is actually an attempt to preserve psychological continuity—to assimilate new information without allowing it to fundamentally change us. Our mystery celebrity chart provides a striking counterexample. Over the course of his life, he repeatedly allowed experience and new evidence to overturn beliefs that were deeply connected to his identity, religion, community, and public reputation. His evolution illustrates an important distinction: having strong convictions does not require absolute allegiance to those convictions when reality contradicts them. The episode also examines this phenomenon through developmental astrology, comparing chart structures that tend toward preservation and continuity with those that may make destabilization, iteration, and reorganization easier. Ultimately, maturity requires more than being open to feedback. It requires becoming curious about what happens inside us when feedback threatens the structure we already have. To support the podcast by becoming a member, go to content.clearandopen.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit content.clearandopen.com/subscribe

    How Do You Benefit From Sameness? (HMP31)
  2. Sep 11

    Self-Awareness-Based Purpose with Suneet Bhaat (HMP30)

    I was delighted to have this conversation with Suneet Bhatt, who is an author, executive coach, and teaches purpose at Rutgers University. Suneet and I crossed paths, exchanged some emails and I decided to have him on the podcast. And while I don’t often have guests on this podcast, I’m really glad I did. This was a very organic, spontaneous, and lively conversation. I hit record one minute into our zoom just to see what would happen and if we could use it. One of the things I realized, and I shared this with Suneet after recording, is that while I used to focus more on purpose and was trained in some methodologies early in my career at EMyth, and I don’t focus much on it now. I think there are two reasons for that. The first is that when students come to me I assume they’re clear about what they want and are willing to do what it takes. My work is deep, intense, and requires serious commitment, so it tends to filter out those who are not clear about their purpose. But even before we spoke, Suneet’s work got me thinking about what may potentially be a second reason and a blind spot for me: because for almost all of my life, I have been so clear about my purpose (whatever it was at the moment) that I think I project that clarity onto others in ways that isn’t true. So I’m continuing to chew on the observation that he makes in the very beginning: that self-awareness is a critical and often missing foundation that substantive purpose must be built upon. So I’m really glad that Suneet wrote a book and is helping people get clear, because I completely agree it’s vitally important, even if as a teacher I like to help people who are clear at the moment about what they want. Suneet’s website: makingsenseofpurpose.com As promised, here’s the Tony Robbin video we talk about: This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit content.clearandopen.com/subscribe

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Human Maturity explores development, self-authority, and reality for people interested in orientation, coherence, and excellence. For those willing to question what they think they know. content.clearandopen.com